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SapphireSeptember · 16/10/2025 13:13

Just tried to log into my NHS account to make an appointment for DS. Need photo ID and a recording of my face or a load of details about my GP. The last time I logged on I didn't need any of this nonsense. They've got my details! My photo ID is a passport from 2016, the last time I used it for ID I got funny looks because I've aged a bit since then, so it probably won't match anyway. If I phone up I'll get told to do it online.

Tried to log into O2 the other week and it took forever because I needed to re- register now they've taken over Virgin Media. Took about ten minutes to get through to top up my phone whereas before it took about two.

Everything needs multiple steps these days and it drives me up the wall. Yahoo! is still easy to sign into though!

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ooohreallly · 16/10/2025 16:11

Omg! Yes, that O2/Virgin thing was a fucking nightmare! It took me forever going round in circles with password and codes again and again, I think it took me nearly an hour to get it sorted.

EmeraldRoulette · 16/10/2025 14:11

I feel your pain

The thing that gets me about it is nobody ever tells you that anything's changed

by the time you get to needing to do something, it's usually important and you haven't got time for all the faff

I don't know what the deal is with my doctor surgery but you should be able to just phone. It was so much easier.

I really wish there was a way we could take action against all this technology, which is making life so much harder. Honestly, I could rant about this all day. We seem to have gone backwards with a lot of technology. Of course I understand the security aspects but - maybe a separate thread - there's a lot of things that used to work and now don't work properly.

The cyber security threat is never going away. So are we going to be subject to constantly changing systems?

A lot of it is reaching the point where it could be more efficiently done by humans, but nobody is prepared to employ anyone and eat in to their profit.

Technology is making life so much harder. You would've thought eventually it would be self limiting as people realise this - but no.

CloudSky · 16/10/2025 13:58

Yeah, I feel you. I get they need two step etc, which is fine so long as the process works.

It took me about 8 years to finally be able to log into my HSBC account to view my mortgage because of how utterly dismal their system is. Even now I don’t have a digital passkey thing, they ended up having to send me a PIN sentry. Utter, utter shit.

PastaFasool · 16/10/2025 13:55

It's super frustrating BUT there has been a massive increase in hacking and cyber attacks recently, and it's getting more and more sophisticated. No company wants to be the next M&S.

blobby10 · 16/10/2025 13:48

The O2/Virgin thing was ridiculously convoluted - it all frustrates the hell out of me too especially for bills. I get it at work too - having to go through two step verification just to print off an invoice.

Belladog1 · 16/10/2025 13:44

I had to do the O2 login this at the weekend as I needed to check my data allowances. I gave up after the 4th attempt and numerous codes. I actually went to my emails and found the last bill, clicked on that and it took me straight into my account.

Ablondiebutagoody · 16/10/2025 13:37

Lloyds bank is a nightmare too. I can barely make a transaction without it being flagged as potential fraud and requiring some long winded ID process. Including the face thing that took about 20 mins. I'm just trying to make a quick payment whilst at work ffs. I could do stuff in branch more quickly.

I've just opened a Monzo account hoping that will be easier. But probably not.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 16/10/2025 13:23

It’s to keep your data safe as hackers are getting smarter and more complex 🤷‍♀️

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