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SapphireSeptember · 16/10/2025 13:13

Just tried to log into my NHS account to make an appointment for DS. Need photo ID and a recording of my face or a load of details about my GP. The last time I logged on I didn't need any of this nonsense. They've got my details! My photo ID is a passport from 2016, the last time I used it for ID I got funny looks because I've aged a bit since then, so it probably won't match anyway. If I phone up I'll get told to do it online.

Tried to log into O2 the other week and it took forever because I needed to re- register now they've taken over Virgin Media. Took about ten minutes to get through to top up my phone whereas before it took about two.

Everything needs multiple steps these days and it drives me up the wall. Yahoo! is still easy to sign into though!

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EmeraldRoulette · 18/10/2025 19:06

Meggie2008 · 18/10/2025 16:39

Sadly yes. Microsoft Authenticator 🙈

Oh lordy

wonder how you get round that

my neighbour got a parking ticket after selecting the wrong car park on the app

the next one on the drop down menu is the adjacent car park with the same road name

There really is a campaign in all this. Any ideas how to coordinate this? It should really be done by some sort of consumer watchdog.

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 17:15

I feel as though we are backing ourselves into a corner as human beings.
'Your password is weak' oh do fuck off computer! Makes me crazy!

Q2C4 · 18/10/2025 17:09

Sadworld23 · 18/10/2025 06:34

Is it because of HMRC checks? I haven't been asked but I rarely sell.

Yes @Sadworld23 @Daisymay8 it’s because eBay have to report sales to HMRC once a seller has hit certain thresholds. This is to enable HMRC to follow up to ensure the right amount of tax has been paid on those sales. It’s a new reporting requirement only - the amount of tax due is the same as before (but the new reporting requirement makes it easier for HMRC to crack down on those not properly declaring their income).

https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/account/regulatory/sales-reporting/uk-digital-sales-reporting?id=5454#:~:text=As%20a%20UK%20resident%2C%20when,will%20be%20provided%20to%20you.

UK digital sales reporting

From 1 January 2024, digital platforms and online marketplaces in the UK, such as eBay, are required to comply with the UK digital sales reporting legislation, implemented in the UK by The Platform Operators (Due Diligence and Reporting Requirements) R...

https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/account/regulatory/sales-reporting/uk-digital-sales-reporting?id=5454#:~:text=As%20a%20UK%20resident%2C%20when,will%20be%20provided%20to%20you.

AtomicBlondeRose · 18/10/2025 17:06

I did some cyber security training yesterday where one of the key points was if security measures are too onerous for staff then they’re useless, because people will find workarounds or stop using the thing altogether. Apparently this doesn’t apply to customers though…

It’s even bad on sites where security isn’t an issue. I just wanted to read an article linked to on Facebook - a mainstream article on a bona fide website. Well, it’s basically unreadable, with the pop ups, reloading, then I tried to open it in my browser, which just took ages, tried it on Reader view and it went blank…argh! And I’m good and confident with tech.

unsync · 18/10/2025 17:00

I have an app for all my logins. 2FA drives me nuts though, I live in a mobile deadspot so having a code texted to my phone means I have to leave the house until I find a signal. Often by the time I receive the code and get back to the WiFi, the code has expired.

Meggie2008 · 18/10/2025 16:39

EmeraldRoulette · 18/10/2025 13:24

Seriously, you've got an app doing that?

there's a consumer campaign in all this.

Sadly yes. Microsoft Authenticator 🙈

EmeraldRoulette · 18/10/2025 13:24

Meggie2008 · 18/10/2025 11:00

Authenticator wants me to use Authenticator to authorise my login. This is clearly impossible and I'm stuck in a never ending loop of frustration.

Seriously, you've got an app doing that?

there's a consumer campaign in all this.

Meggie2008 · 18/10/2025 11:00

Authenticator wants me to use Authenticator to authorise my login. This is clearly impossible and I'm stuck in a never ending loop of frustration.

SquirrelFan · 18/10/2025 10:45

@eurochick @CeeJay81 my phone was stolen yesterday! Once my new phone comes (that my husband had to buy) I'm going to have to go in to work and have them install the two 2-factor authenticator apps that mean I can use email and the PO systems....

Enrichetta · 18/10/2025 09:20

eurochick · 18/10/2025 08:33

Plus I logged into my EE account to try to report the phone stolen. You could only report by phoning them. I didn’t have a phone because it had been stolen (haven’t had a landline in years). Ffs.

My bank ‘helpfully’ flagged a larger than usual transfer of funds to another bank, referring me to their fraud line.

It took 20 - TWENTY!!! - minutes for them to answer. I then had to go through some lengthy security process before they would deal with my issue. Imagine I had been calling while some scammer had gained online access to my laptop….. which actually happened to a friend of mine. The scammer would have emptied one’s accounts by the time one managed to speak to a real person!

Enrichetta · 18/10/2025 09:14

sashh · 18/10/2025 08:37

Nat West. If you want to log on using a PC you have to open the app on your phone and take a pic.

I have arthritis I want to use my PC not my phone.

I so hate this - all banks now seem to urge one to use their app. To me, this feels far less secure than using my personal laptop inside my own home.

Plus my eyesight is not very good, so I struggle to read things on my phone. I’m far too scared of accidentally doing something wrong to consider using apps for banking or purchasing.

Enrichetta · 18/10/2025 09:10

Part of the problem is that they all have different ‘secondary’ verification procedures. They all ask for username (which can be your name, your email address, or some made up number with random letters), plus a password.

But then it gets complicated. Some ask for a date, or a place, or a memorable name, or your father’s first or mother’s maiden name, or you need a little gadget to put your bank card in to get some code - which is so small and faint I struggle to read it…

Unless one writes it all down, how is one supposed to remember… Which kind of defeats the purpose.

The other difficulty relates to the fact that the system usually doesn’t tell you WHAT one is getting wrong. Simple things like having mistakenly locked caps, or that whatever you’re meant to input has to be case sensitive, or that the date is in 6 or 8 figure format.

crackofdoom · 18/10/2025 08:57

daisychain01 · 18/10/2025 06:59

Renewing your driving licence online, rather than at the Post Office, gets the medal for the worst user experience. Honestly, my advice is if you need to do your 10 year renewal of your driving licence head down to your friendly PO because doing it online will send you into a rage.

it required logging onto the gov website, going round in a loop, facial recognition would not work, trying to use the "give information" option (do they really expect people to have an accurate answer to how much do you still have to pay off your mortgage??), then trying to use the gov.uk OneLogon app on your phone, along with your iPad. All I could think of what how much bloody taxpayers money has been spent on this shit?? 30 mins of frustration and swearing later....abandon!

compare to going to the post office, hand over my old driving licence, have a photo taken by the PO counter staff, pay my money took a total of 6 minutes and the new licence arrived in the post 6 days later.

That's weird, I found it insanely easy! Was this recently? Maybe they've just updated the system. Maybe I was lucky because I have a relatively new passport with the e chip in.

I also find any of the .gov sites really user friendly nowadays (UC, HMRC), but this has only happened over the last couple of years. I remember when doing your tax return online was a nightmare.

sashh · 18/10/2025 08:37

Nat West. If you want to log on using a PC you have to open the app on your phone and take a pic.

I have arthritis I want to use my PC not my phone.

eurochick · 18/10/2025 08:33

Plus I logged into my EE account to try to report the phone stolen. You could only report by phoning them. I didn’t have a phone because it had been stolen (haven’t had a landline in years). Ffs.

eurochick · 18/10/2025 08:26

niadainud · 17/10/2025 20:02

Yes, it's becoming ridiculous. Ironically one of the easiest apps to get into is my bank account.

And as for trying to buy a new phone without a phone (because it's been stolen)... That is a farce of Feydeauesque proportions.

Completely agree. I had my phone stolen last year. I hadn’t realised until that point that, whilst I had set up a variety of two factor authentication methods for my various cards, they all involved my phone in some way (text, call, app). I had access to my online banking but no way to pay. I had to get my husband to buy a replacement phone for me.

CeeJay81 · 18/10/2025 08:11

I feel you. My work place has changed the hr system with all are our wage slips, training etc on. Need multiple apps just for that, including authenticator. It's a bloody faff to get into it.

Theunamedcat · 18/10/2025 07:58

It's the two factor authentication for stupid shit that annoys me like Pinterest I think (might not have been) i haven't logged in for awhile so update the app go to log in right username right password but no we have sent you a one time pass code 😑 then there are the websites insisting im signing in from a new device im not im REALLY not netflix that thinks I live in redditch when I actually dont this causes issues when they ring me because they have suddenly got my location correct yet when someone from the Philippines swiped my netflix they didnt notice 🙄 they called to check it was me because I reported theft of my account before yes yes very good but if you look at the area you will see im at home? Oooh sorry thought you lived in redditch its on our system as your most signed in address....."sigh" (I live over thirty miles away ive no clue why it happens)

Roystonv · 18/10/2025 07:45

The worry is that they continually change, make it more difficult to access YOUR accounts at the same time removing telephone numbers, email addresses, creating no reply email addresses. They may sell it as security but a lot of it is removing real people from the transaction at their end. Then there was chat (which was bad enough) now there are chat bots, no actual banks, no branch offices, no human beings, no care/understanding/support. We are no longer customers, just annoying people who get minimal service to keep the shareholders happy.

daisychain01 · 18/10/2025 06:59

Renewing your driving licence online, rather than at the Post Office, gets the medal for the worst user experience. Honestly, my advice is if you need to do your 10 year renewal of your driving licence head down to your friendly PO because doing it online will send you into a rage.

it required logging onto the gov website, going round in a loop, facial recognition would not work, trying to use the "give information" option (do they really expect people to have an accurate answer to how much do you still have to pay off your mortgage??), then trying to use the gov.uk OneLogon app on your phone, along with your iPad. All I could think of what how much bloody taxpayers money has been spent on this shit?? 30 mins of frustration and swearing later....abandon!

compare to going to the post office, hand over my old driving licence, have a photo taken by the PO counter staff, pay my money took a total of 6 minutes and the new licence arrived in the post 6 days later.

LlynTegid · 18/10/2025 06:43

I agree it is hard and frustrating.

Some of it is necessary given the skills of hackers and people who are not friends of the UK.

Catsandcwtches · 18/10/2025 06:39

That’s weird about the NHS one. My son has a lot of appointments and they never ask for photo id/face recognition when I login. It’s date of birth and a code that gets sent to my phone. They probably do it differently all around the country which is mad in itself.

Sadworld23 · 18/10/2025 06:34

Daisymay8 · 17/10/2025 18:14

EBay was asking for my NI no.
no way….

Is it because of HMRC checks? I haven't been asked but I rarely sell.

Sadworld23 · 18/10/2025 06:32

Roystonv · 16/10/2025 16:38

I am in my 60's and really feel all this security and the understanding it requires is getting unusable by some. Each company seem to think we are trained in their particular security process created by some expert. I understand the reason but we are slowly being frozen out of our own accounts etc.

And goodness only knows how average 80+ generation are coping. Digitally excluded is a big issue.

MistyGray · 17/10/2025 23:09

jessycake · 17/10/2025 19:13

It’s soon getting to the stage that it so secure only a scammer can access It for me .

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