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SapphireSeptember · 16/10/2025 13:13

Just tried to log into my NHS account to make an appointment for DS. Need photo ID and a recording of my face or a load of details about my GP. The last time I logged on I didn't need any of this nonsense. They've got my details! My photo ID is a passport from 2016, the last time I used it for ID I got funny looks because I've aged a bit since then, so it probably won't match anyway. If I phone up I'll get told to do it online.

Tried to log into O2 the other week and it took forever because I needed to re- register now they've taken over Virgin Media. Took about ten minutes to get through to top up my phone whereas before it took about two.

Everything needs multiple steps these days and it drives me up the wall. Yahoo! is still easy to sign into though!

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EmeraldRoulette · 23/10/2025 17:34

DiscoBeat · 23/10/2025 01:39

It's a nightmare. I can't get an appointment for my mum at the moment as she doesn't have internet or a smart phone and the surgery have refused point blank to let her make an appointment on the phone or even in person.

That is appalling. What are people supposed to do?

SerendipityJane · 23/10/2025 15:01

dynamiccactus · 22/10/2025 17:57

And why don't they also give you the web address so you can type it?

One of the websites I very occasionally use has decided that I can no longer use 2FA and have to use an authenticator app. I am NOT downloading any other apps. Fortunately because it's a work thing I can use the app I occasionally have to authenticate myself at work.

Yes, why do we need apps when a website will do? Are websites getting too expensive to maintain? 02 has recently done away with its Rewards website.

Authenticator apps work even if you are out of mobile reception (remember not everywhere is the UK).

Also SMS 2FA is fatally compromised.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 23/10/2025 13:09

DiscoBeat · 23/10/2025 12:45

I know, my own surgery has a link on their website to book but hers doesn't and their receptionists are like rottweilers!

Well those receptionists will soon be out of a job soon in that case!

DiscoBeat · 23/10/2025 12:45

Catsandcwtches · 23/10/2025 08:22

That is awful - there should be different ways of booking appointments, so people have the option of phoning up if they prefer it

I know, my own surgery has a link on their website to book but hers doesn't and their receptionists are like rottweilers!

Catsandcwtches · 23/10/2025 08:22

DiscoBeat · 23/10/2025 01:39

It's a nightmare. I can't get an appointment for my mum at the moment as she doesn't have internet or a smart phone and the surgery have refused point blank to let her make an appointment on the phone or even in person.

That is awful - there should be different ways of booking appointments, so people have the option of phoning up if they prefer it

DiscoBeat · 23/10/2025 01:39

It's a nightmare. I can't get an appointment for my mum at the moment as she doesn't have internet or a smart phone and the surgery have refused point blank to let her make an appointment on the phone or even in person.

Catsandcwtches · 23/10/2025 01:31

For the GP I would rather have an app/website to make an appointment than have to phone up (if it worked properly of course!)

Phoning means waiting in a queue. And means you have to do it between 9-5 too, which might not be when you have time free to call if you’re working. Or you might be juggling noisy small kids who don’t have any sympathy that you’re trying to hold a phone.

TempestTost · 23/10/2025 01:15

dynamiccactus · 22/10/2025 17:57

And why don't they also give you the web address so you can type it?

One of the websites I very occasionally use has decided that I can no longer use 2FA and have to use an authenticator app. I am NOT downloading any other apps. Fortunately because it's a work thing I can use the app I occasionally have to authenticate myself at work.

Yes, why do we need apps when a website will do? Are websites getting too expensive to maintain? 02 has recently done away with its Rewards website.

One of my team members used to build websites in his previous job - he mentioned the other day that websites were "passe" and for most businesses not that important anymore.

Which fits with what I had noticed myself - a lot fewer businesses with websites, and those that have them seem in many cases to have less on them. My kids (teenagers)don't seem particularly good at navigating them either because they don't do it much.

I don't know what it all means but it does seem to be a trend.

Mackerelfillets · 23/10/2025 01:09

If you have issues with the nhs app you obtain log in details from your GP surgery. I give these out all the time to our patients.

Enrichetta · 23/10/2025 01:03

JohnTheRevelator · 22/10/2025 17:29

Tell me about it. I've just spent the best part of half an hour trying to log in to my Subway app. I was sent an email with a 30% off offer and as I was going to be near one of their branches today, thought I'd make use of it. But oh no,the app wasn't having any of that nonsense. I'd forgotten my password so entered my email for them to send me a link to reset it. Email arrived,but nowhere on it to reset my password,just a 6 digit code number. Went back to the app,but nowhere to enter this code number. After 3 attempts,I gave up. It infuriates me when I get sent these money off offers but I can't use them because the poxy bastarding app won't cooperate. A similar thing happened with the Gregg's app a couple of weeks ago. I was sent an email for a free sweet treat for my birthday,it said go to the app. I went to the app. Nothing there!

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EmeraldRoulette · 22/10/2025 18:09

@Capillaryaction thank you for that info

I think the last time I tried to use patient access, it asked me to use an authenticator app.

I still don't know what goes on at my doctor surgery, but I am going to go and inquire. It's on my list of things to do. I should've done it ages ago really. I tend to just hope that if I need an appointment, I'll be able to phone up! But I should really get that sorted.

I've never used an app for anywhere that I might buy stuff from even if they are offering a discount. I don't really have to use sandwich shops or anything like that. I fully appreciate that if you are in that position, you want that app to work and you want to use all the app offers. So it's interesting to hear that those don't work either.

I used to mostly shop at Aldi. I really welcome anywhere that doesn't have this crap.

dynamiccactus · 22/10/2025 18:04

My 86 year old mum manages to use the NHS app. But 2FA confuses her utterly, and so when it occasionally logs her out and asks her to do it, she has to wait until I am there so I can help her. It's ridiculous. Even if you ask it to remember the device.

The issue now is that she needs a new phone so we will probably have to wrestle with the whole photo/uploading ID thing for that and her banking app. The other thing she doesn't like is bank transfers, she still prefers cheques. Some tradesmen bless them will take a cheque.

dynamiccactus · 22/10/2025 17:57

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:44

@BaskervilleOldFaceccompletely agree. I hate qr codes - especially in cafes. Awful.

And why don't they also give you the web address so you can type it?

One of the websites I very occasionally use has decided that I can no longer use 2FA and have to use an authenticator app. I am NOT downloading any other apps. Fortunately because it's a work thing I can use the app I occasionally have to authenticate myself at work.

Yes, why do we need apps when a website will do? Are websites getting too expensive to maintain? 02 has recently done away with its Rewards website.

TempestTost · 22/10/2025 17:49

Thesquaregiraffe · 20/10/2025 18:24

I’ve been watching this thread and waiting for a comment like this.

I’ve recently had a situation where my dad was hospitalised and my mum (who relies on my dad for just about everything) then couldn’t even ask a friend to get something from a supermarket because she hadn’t had a bank card for so long the bank just stopped issuing her new cards. So, she was completely stuck. I live 80 miles away and could hardly “nip” to the local co-op for her so the whole thing turned into a bit of a muddle.

They are fiercely independent (despite being in their mid/late 80’s) and refuse to do Power of Attorney because that will “admit defeat”. The whole situation is ridiculous but there is no changing their mind. My dad does hold his own with online banking but this situation proved my mum just wouldn’t be able to cope. but will they do anything about it!? NOPE! Grrrr!

And, I struggle with all the online stuff, passwords, how many pictures have motorbikes in, what is the name of your pet (I don’t have one!?) etc… it drives me insane! It took me 18 months to sort out my EA Games account because I couldn’t access an email address (and I’m not shy with technology).

So, just how older people manage is actually beyond me, but I also admire them for trying to tackle it too!

Might be worth having a quiet word with your dad to say that this incident shows that if something happens to him, your mum will be pretty vulnerable. He might rethink how they approach some things.

TempestTost · 22/10/2025 17:46

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 20/10/2025 18:01

  1. Security has to beef up to keep pace with hackers finding new ways to get data
  2. Too many people set dumb/easy to crack passwords/fail to set up 2FA

If you want to use apps and tech but don't want to get hacked, you have to accept jumping through numerous hoops to log in to things/prove your identity.

It's absolutely tedious and mind-numbing, but you can't put a price on security.

I think we could, and in fact that businesses do. And people do as well, and at a certain point, it will not pencil out.

Capillaryaction · 22/10/2025 17:43

There is a simple way to opt out of face scanning in the NHS app.

It's on the first screen, there's some kind of icon/settings button that if you click has an option to 'disable face Id' or 'use password to log in', can't remember the exact phrase.
I used it when I first downloaded it and have never been asked for it again.

TempestTost · 22/10/2025 17:42

IfNot · 20/10/2025 09:57

I am in if there is a campaign! Been ranting about this for years. And I hate being treated like I am a silly irrelevant older person who doesn’t understand technology. I do, and that’s why I can see that we have totally jumped the shark with all this.
Ive complained to my doctors about the convoluted appointment process, and the practice manager told me that their patients find it convenient… sure, the ones that don’t give up before they manage to get an appointment! It’s a barrier to care for precisely the people who likely need it most- the old, the sick, people in pain.
And I don’t want bloody apps for everything in my phone. I’m thinking about ditching my smart phone completely and wonder how possible life even is without one?

I keep thinking that I would like to ditch mine as well.

There should be some kind of movement. Like a union of non-phone users. Demanding their rights.

I do wonder if conventional, in person, paper based services could now be a selling point.

JohnTheRevelator · 22/10/2025 17:29

Tell me about it. I've just spent the best part of half an hour trying to log in to my Subway app. I was sent an email with a 30% off offer and as I was going to be near one of their branches today, thought I'd make use of it. But oh no,the app wasn't having any of that nonsense. I'd forgotten my password so entered my email for them to send me a link to reset it. Email arrived,but nowhere on it to reset my password,just a 6 digit code number. Went back to the app,but nowhere to enter this code number. After 3 attempts,I gave up. It infuriates me when I get sent these money off offers but I can't use them because the poxy bastarding app won't cooperate. A similar thing happened with the Gregg's app a couple of weeks ago. I was sent an email for a free sweet treat for my birthday,it said go to the app. I went to the app. Nothing there!

carbonelthecat · 22/10/2025 17:22

Theunamedcat · 19/10/2025 12:47

TBH a lot of my passwords at one point were swearing mostly with numbers

This has made me laugh a lot as I have definitely used Fuckyou symbol number before as a password when I’m really pissed off with a sign up process.

SerendipityJane · 22/10/2025 16:56

EmeraldRoulette · 22/10/2025 16:24

That's literally what we are complaining about. What's the point of all this, other than to make money for tech companies?

There isn't.

Our GP uses a service delivered by "app" called Livi that can't be used on an iPad pro - which is a friends lifeline for accessibility.

After a few to-ing and fro-ing I had an email saying they were well aware of this limitation (i.e. shit design) however they couldn't afford to fix it (i.e the offshore team they used had upped their rates) and could my friend try and lie on her side when using it.

Needless to say I was unimpressed.

EmeraldRoulette · 22/10/2025 16:24

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 22/10/2025 14:49

Yes. So why have an app? For fun?

That's literally what we are complaining about. What's the point of all this, other than to make money for tech companies?

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 22/10/2025 14:49

EmeraldRoulette · 22/10/2025 14:08

@YorkshireGoldDrinker if you're not using the app, you'd phone first, surely?

Yes. So why have an app? For fun?

SerendipityJane · 22/10/2025 14:25

ToKittyornottoKitty · 16/10/2025 13:23

It’s to keep your data safe as hackers are getting smarter and more complex 🤷‍♀️

That's when fat fingered officials aren't mass mailing everyones details to all and sundry every five minutes. Or leaving them on trains.

My bugbear is the plethora of systems needed within the NHS (each one being a potential point of failure, so multiplying your chances of being exposed) plus the rather shit dodgy apps they use that don't respect accessibility setting and insist on revalidating 2FA every login.

EmeraldRoulette · 22/10/2025 14:08

@YorkshireGoldDrinker if you're not using the app, you'd phone first, surely?

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 22/10/2025 13:48

lightand · 22/10/2025 13:43

Are there ways not to use these things?

I don't think so, no. Because even if you refuse to use the NHS app for example, you'd then have to go to the healthcentre and book an appointment, the receptionist will then say you have to call them up anyway. It's a tough game, sadly.

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