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I’ve messed up with the holiday I’ve booked

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SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:24

I had a week of annual leave to use before April. I did some research and booked a week to be split between Oslo and Copenhagen at the end of February/beginning of March. Everything I had found said that temperatures at this time were around -5° to 2°C. I figured I could cope with that.

I’ve now found a lot of discussion online that says that last year it was regularly -30° in Oslo in February. It’s a bit luck of the draw but apparently it can stay below freezing until the end of March.

What do I do? I’ve paid for everything and it’s non refundable but if it’s that cold I’ll literally just be sat in a hotel room all day. Do I go and hope for the best or just cancel and use my leave another way?

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nosleepforme · 15/10/2025 13:06

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 12:23

I’m hopeful for the northern lights but also know it’s unlikely.

I think the extreme temps I’ve seen online have just really freaked me out. My plan was long rain coat but shorter down puffer but now I don’t know

A rain coat? You,k be cold, it’s February, not june

samarrange · 15/10/2025 12:51

Wikipedia shows the mean daily high (mid-day temperature) as +1.1°C in February and +5.3°C in March. It's right by the sea so it can't get super-cold. I was there in late April a couple of years ago and it hit 20°C. Basically it will be like a colder-than-usual winter's day in England.

Oslo - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oslo

Bladderpool · 15/10/2025 12:47

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 09:39

I couldn’t afford an all inclusive etc. by not much choice I meant the timing. I did research and based on that I booked it but then it turns out that research was wrong!

You don’t have to go all inclusive, I go to the canaries twice a year, room only. There’s loads of lovely places to eat which are very well priced. A bottle of wine from the supermarket is about 3 euros!

nothingtoseehereatall · 15/10/2025 12:42

The extreme temps you've seen online is apparently one inaccurate post on reddit? Surely you balance that against the actual usual daily temperature (which lots of people have posted). Of course it's POSSIBLE that it will be a freak cold snap, but equally it could be a freak warm snap...

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 12:23

LeadBubbles · 15/10/2025 12:16

It's more about layering up though, so good thermal vest and t-shirt etc under a "normal" coats will be much more efficient than a big ridiculous coat. Also, you want to be able to peal off the layers once you get to a warm pub. Also that time of year, you might be lucky and see northern lights? Food and drinks are suuuuper expensive in that part of the world, jutlst FYI.

I’m hopeful for the northern lights but also know it’s unlikely.

I think the extreme temps I’ve seen online have just really freaked me out. My plan was long rain coat but shorter down puffer but now I don’t know

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LeadBubbles · 15/10/2025 12:16

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:38

im looking around for a coat but obviously don’t want something I can’t use again in the UK!

It's more about layering up though, so good thermal vest and t-shirt etc under a "normal" coats will be much more efficient than a big ridiculous coat. Also, you want to be able to peal off the layers once you get to a warm pub. Also that time of year, you might be lucky and see northern lights? Food and drinks are suuuuper expensive in that part of the world, jutlst FYI.

Christmascakeforbreakfast · 15/10/2025 12:15

TheBlueHotel · 15/10/2025 07:37

Can it really be that cold?? I went to Iceland in January and it wasn't that cold - it was fucking cold though at -11 but it was lovely and totally manageable with thermal layers outdoors and lots of lovely heating inside.

Iceland is warmed by the jet stream. It’s warmer than other points on that latitude.

LeadBubbles · 15/10/2025 12:13

Been to Oslo in Feb, and it was amazing. Freezing cold but absolutely beautiful! Get really good coats, shoes, etc. and you'll be fine. There's no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing and all that. Have fun!

Itsasecretnow · 15/10/2025 12:09

Miniaturemom · 15/10/2025 11:52

I used to spend a lot of time in Sweden and found that once it’s below freezing it’s just cold and it doesn’t actually feel that different if it’s minus 5 or 15. I actually think it’s much nicer than that horrible damp sideways rain type winter you get here.

@SoEasyToFallInLovei ageee with this too, plus the other pp who said about her husband in Oslo. If it’s still and it’s not raining it really does make a difference. And if there’s still snow on the ground (likely), or it might snow a bit, if you do wear jeans and they get wet they’re so slow to dry and will chill you right through, hence why really not ideal.

Itsasecretnow · 15/10/2025 12:06

Oh and don’t moisturise (face) within 30 minutes of going outside if it’s below freezing.

Itsasecretnow · 15/10/2025 12:05

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 08:05

I thought you had to wear thermals underneath something though to keep you warm? I have looked at some other trousers, and there’s some corduroy ones on M&S that look cosy but I’m not sure I’d wear them again!

Yes, thermals as a base layer, but jeans just wouldn’t cut it. I went somewhere else in Europe in the middle of winter once, for a week. Just took hand luggage (don’t know how I managed it, as I can’t even do that on a summer/uk holiday!), I wore my big coat over a few layers (in the airport, carried coat most of the time) to keep the packing down It was on average -10 that week, with wind chill, particularly on higher ground, down to -30. It was also very snowy. I can’t stand the cold, and there was one day when we were out all day, and would also be out all night, that I started to feel really miserable, but I’d taken an extra long sleeve, thin layer top to put under my other tops later in the day so I’d be warmer that night and that actually helped. You want a good warm hood, obviously scarves and gloves etc, and lots of thinner layer. Also yes to a thinner pair of socks underneath your thicker socks for the hiking boots. If you’re mainly walking from building to building you really won’t be as cold as if you were walking up a hill/mountain (we did that, it was windy and -30, don’t think I’ll make that mistake again 😄), and you’ll be glad of the layers so that you can take some off when you’re inside somewhere. A long down coat (M&S? I’ve had a couple of longer ones from there). Just to add I think the coat I took with me was a short jacket which had originally been bought for a skiing holiday and I mostly found that warm enough with the layers.

PlanBea · 15/10/2025 11:58

I've not RTFT but my DH went to Oslo in January a few years ago and it was -24, but because the air was so still and dry he was fine and didn't need the thermals he'd packed. However coming back to the UK he said it felt a lot colder because of the wind chill!

Archymum · 15/10/2025 11:57

You need to upgrade the quality of your jacket and then you'll be just fine. UK high street brands are not going to cut it in a Scandinavian winter. Didriksons, 66* North, Patagonia, Archteryx, the North Face, etc. I'd go into a good outdoor store, try on the warmest jackets they have, and then start looking on Vinted for a used version of the one you think you want. There are loads on there. If you always have a hat on before you walk outside, and pair that with a good pair of waterproof gloves or mittens, you'll be dandy.

notacooldad · 15/10/2025 11:54

No such thing a bad weather just poor clothing...
I never agree with this cliche. Theres no clothing suitable for tornados, hurricanes, floods extrene heatwaves etc.

Hopefully op is reassured it isnt going to be bad and she had imagined the worse and got wrong information

Miniaturemom · 15/10/2025 11:52

I used to spend a lot of time in Sweden and found that once it’s below freezing it’s just cold and it doesn’t actually feel that different if it’s minus 5 or 15. I actually think it’s much nicer than that horrible damp sideways rain type winter you get here.

cgwdwnmi · 15/10/2025 11:51

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 10:32

It’s from a Reddit page where they said it was -30°. It was definitely C not F

It's bollocks. It wasn't -30 in Oslo last winter.
https://www.extremeweatherwatch.com/cities/oslo/year-2025
Lowest temperature was -14.2 and that was in January.
People love exaggerating and talking shit.

I go to Norway every winter. You will be fine. Make sure you have decent thermal underwear, a warm jumper, a windproof coat of some description, hat and gloves.

Anyway, you'll be in the museums most of the time. The Norwegian Resistance Museum at the Akershus fortress is great. Fram and Kontiki museums are also brilliant. The Viking Ship Museum is closed until 2027.
Munch museum is a must see too.

pinkbackground · 15/10/2025 11:50

We went to Inari in Finland and it was minus 20. Get some good cold weather gear and layer up.

Dinoswearunderpants · 15/10/2025 11:49

No such thing a bad weather just poor clothing...

I've visited Oslo in March and loved it. Yes it's cold but rarely rained. It's a beautiful place to explore although it's very expensive so bring plenty of snacks and maybe even cuppa soups/pastas if you need to save money.

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 11:49

99bottlesofkombucha · 15/10/2025 11:46

You’re just going to wear a lightweight down coat and a raincoat??

I’d wear thermals /merino, top, fleece/ woolen sweater, and super warm down layer, with gloves scarf and hat. I dont have a super warm down layer so eg Belgium in Feb I wear my lightweight down jacket under my larger longer down coat.

I was going to do thermals, a tshirt, jumper, down jacket and raincoat

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99bottlesofkombucha · 15/10/2025 11:46

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:45

I’m definitely going to get thermals - I’m looking at the Uniqlo heattech range.

I was going to take my regatta walking shoes and pair them with thermal wool socks. They’re waterproof and sturdy, and really well broken in, but I’m guessing those won’t be enough?

I was also planning to layer (of course), and get a thin light down coat to go underneath my long M&S raincoat. Again is this just a stupid idea?

You’re just going to wear a lightweight down coat and a raincoat??

I’d wear thermals /merino, top, fleece/ woolen sweater, and super warm down layer, with gloves scarf and hat. I dont have a super warm down layer so eg Belgium in Feb I wear my lightweight down jacket under my larger longer down coat.

YourChicShark · 15/10/2025 11:46

BauhausOfEliott · 15/10/2025 11:33

Theme parks aren't my thing either but Tivoli is quite different from the average theme park - it's much more compact and much more attractive to wander around than a 'modern' theme park. It's honestly a lovely place to visit, especially at night when it's all lit up.

It is I agree, but unfortunately it won't be open when the OP is visiting. It is closed from early January until Spring (next year it opens from 27th March).

https://www.tivoli.dk/en/opening-hours-and-seasons

Opening Hours and Seasons in Tivoli | Experience Easter, Summer, Halloween and Christmas

Tivoli Gardens welcomes you to 257 magical days filled with colourful Easter experiences, summer joy, Halloween thrills and chills, and the magic of Christmas. Experience rides and unique activities for all ages in one of Denmark’s most famous gardens.

https://www.tivoli.dk/en/opening-hours-and-seasons

martinirossi · 15/10/2025 11:44

I've been to Oslo in early March, it was cold but not unbearably so. Wrap up warm and you'll be fine. I would recommend a good pair of walking boots though. I took trainers and had a couple of slips on the ice in less well populated areas.

It's a gorgeous city, lots of nice cosy coffee shops to get out of the cold. And the Viking musuem was particularly interesting. You'll be fine. Enjoy.

Libra24 · 15/10/2025 11:44

I went to Oslo in February and it was beautiful. We did the Norwegian museum just outside Oslo where they have loads of architecture, it was amazing to see it and read how they managed to move it all to that location. The royal family are in the winter residence and you can see it from the bus and visit the summer palace with the soldiers etc. We went out on the ffjord which was frozen for a few days but last day we got out there. Stunning scenery and views. We went out to the ski jump and watched the skiers. Gustav Vigelands work is often on display and you can go to his brother Emmanuel's church he painted and see that. Lots of churches to explore and galleries. The area around the water was great. I think there was an ice bar too the year we went. Yes it was cold but it wasn't miserable. It was lovely. Nordic countries don't grind to a halt like the UK when it snows. The trams run, the buses run. People get the tram out to the skiing places after work, the city is a great place to be. We still sat outside with glasses of wine in the sun, bundled up, scarves on and heaters but it's a different culture. The whole point of travelling.

Lucytheloose · 15/10/2025 11:43

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:36

My goal is just really to be there - in Oslo I’d like to go to one of the saunas on the fjord, the museums and the food.

You can do all that, it's just a matter of having the right clothing and footwear. The locals don't hibernate all winter!

raininginlanzarote · 15/10/2025 11:41

Take little notice of ‘averages’ but pack accordingly. We went to Chicago in February. Packed for the arctic, wore t shirts and shorts one day, the next day it bloody snowed! Likewise Seattle, packed jumpers, wore t shirts. Cab driver said it was the warmest September for a decade. Finally went to Disney in Florida in Feb, hoped it would be warmish, first snow in 30 years. You simply can’t tell so pack everything.
I realised all the examples were the US. Perhaps it a them problem!