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I’ve messed up with the holiday I’ve booked

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SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:24

I had a week of annual leave to use before April. I did some research and booked a week to be split between Oslo and Copenhagen at the end of February/beginning of March. Everything I had found said that temperatures at this time were around -5° to 2°C. I figured I could cope with that.

I’ve now found a lot of discussion online that says that last year it was regularly -30° in Oslo in February. It’s a bit luck of the draw but apparently it can stay below freezing until the end of March.

What do I do? I’ve paid for everything and it’s non refundable but if it’s that cold I’ll literally just be sat in a hotel room all day. Do I go and hope for the best or just cancel and use my leave another way?

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Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:58

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:56

I was going to go for thermals under jeans, which is what I’d do here if it was chilly. But I’m guessing that’s not going to be a good idea!

I think that will be absolutely fine!

Desert76 · 15/10/2025 07:57

Just make sure you have good thermal layers and warm socks and plan some indoor activities.

Museums are likely to have lockers or similar where you can leave all your outdoor gear while you look round. They might make you wear shoes protectors indoors if it’s snowy outside.

If you are planning walking outdoors for long before or after it gets dark, make sure to get thick mittens to go over your normal gloves, and aluminium insoles, that won’t cost much but will make a difference.

If you have a limited budget, prioritise your boots, make sure you get insulated waterproof ones. If your feet are toasty warm and dry, it makes a big difference to the rest of your body ime.

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:56

Jellycatspyjamas · 15/10/2025 07:51

Walking shoes will be fine but layer up on socks, one thin thermal and a heavier pair over the top. You can also get fleece lined walking trousers which are really warm over some thermal leggings. Two pair of gloves too - just layer up.

I was going to go for thermals under jeans, which is what I’d do here if it was chilly. But I’m guessing that’s not going to be a good idea!

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VikingNorthUtsire · 15/10/2025 07:55

I went to Oslo a few years ago in February and it was nowhere near that cold. I guess it's like any other weather risk - you go somewhere, it might pour with rain all week or be unusually hot. Try to plan your wardrobe, and have a list of indoor attractions up your sleeve (Oslo has fantastic museums, not been to Copenhagen).

Have a great holiday. I love the nordic counties!

RoseAlone · 15/10/2025 07:55

Why would be stuck in a hotel room if it's cold? That makes zero sense. Get warm clothes on and enjoy your holiday 🤨

Irenesortof · 15/10/2025 07:52

Harrumphhhh · 15/10/2025 07:38

Get on vinted for thermals, ski-jacket and fur lined books. Buy decent hat and gloves. Enjoy it.

I love the idea of curling up with hot chocolate and fur lined books!

Snoken · 15/10/2025 07:51

I also don't think you need to worry about it being too dark. At that time of year they have around 10 hours a day of daylight, roughly the same as London.

Jellycatspyjamas · 15/10/2025 07:51

Walking shoes will be fine but layer up on socks, one thin thermal and a heavier pair over the top. You can also get fleece lined walking trousers which are really warm over some thermal leggings. Two pair of gloves too - just layer up.

Snoken · 15/10/2025 07:49

I live in Stockholm but am from the north of Sweden and I can cope fine with minus 20, but at minus 30 people don't really spend a lot of time outdoors. I used to live in the UK and because it's so humid there it feels a lot colder at much lower temperatures. I remember it being minus 10 in the UK and it felt colder than minus 20 in Sweden.

The coldest temperature measured in Oslo is minus 29 and that was in 1841, a more normal winter temperature is somewhere between minus 5 and minus 10. I don't think you need to worry.

Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:49

Uniqlo do thin down jackets and gilets you can wear under your coat. I have actually been to northern china in winter where it was very cold. -30 at night and -17 during the day was the coldest I think it got. I’d recommend a snood to keep your face warm if it’s windy but yes what you’re suggesting sounds fine. Layers is key! When you’re walking around you will feel fine.

FrauPaige · 15/10/2025 07:46

I used to camp at -23°C after riding out to the mountains on a motorbike in my wild youth with no heating equipment.

Being in a city with ambient outdoor temps of -30°C going from heated cafe to heated restaurant to heated museum to heated taxi requires nothing more than a decent coat, thin base layer, hat and gloves. You'll be toasty.

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:45

I’m definitely going to get thermals - I’m looking at the Uniqlo heattech range.

I was going to take my regatta walking shoes and pair them with thermal wool socks. They’re waterproof and sturdy, and really well broken in, but I’m guessing those won’t be enough?

I was also planning to layer (of course), and get a thin light down coat to go underneath my long M&S raincoat. Again is this just a stupid idea?

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Madformaltesers · 15/10/2025 07:44

I went to Copenhagen February 2025, it was no colder than the UK

Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:44

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:38

im looking around for a coat but obviously don’t want something I can’t use again in the UK!

As I said I can’t speak for Oslo but I didn’t buy anything special for going to Copenhagen. Just dressed warmly like you would do here it it was really cold. I just wore my Uniqlo puffer jacket and my usual boots with warm socks and a long sleeved top under my jumper. It was just very normal - I even bumped into a colleague I used to work with in Glasgow who was also just wearing a coat and scarf. It’ll be fine!

zaxxon · 15/10/2025 07:44

I've been in -24C cold in Canada, and yes it was bitter but people still got out & about. At that temperature, the air is very dry, so you don't get the damp chill of -3 or -4 which we all know so well. It's actually quite bracing - the air gets very clear and the stars go all bright.

But that level of cold was uncommon. You might get lucky. Check the weather forecast before you go, and if there's a cold snap, make sure you have thermal tights to wear under your trousers.

Boots are something you could look into renting while you're there? I doubt UK ones would be warm enough.

Mumsntfan1 · 15/10/2025 07:43

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:36

My goal is just really to be there - in Oslo I’d like to go to one of the saunas on the fjord, the museums and the food.

Sounds fine, the museams and food will be inside and the sauna should be warm enough! Just bring warm clothes.

Timetochillnow · 15/10/2025 07:42

Dress for the weather and sell on after your trip

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 15/10/2025 07:40

I got a didkiksons coat on vinted for about £40

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 15/10/2025 07:40

I went to Helsinki in January when it was close to those temperatures and had a brilliant time. I had a wooly (actual wool) hat, a decent insulated coat, merino thermals under my hiking trousers, and woolen layers. Also wool gloves and a merino buff so I wasn't breathing the cold air directly.

This year I was in oslo in early March and there was still a lot of snow. It made Ekeberg park a bit of a trek. We had Yak trax on our boots and hiking poles.

Much more fun than staying in the hotel though. The galleries and museums are brilliant. The one slightly scary thing was walking down from the opera house roof as it thawed and froze into black ice, so maybe don't do that. Do have a look to see what's on at the opera though- it's a gorgeous opera house.

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:38

Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:38

Also a coat. I would recommend a warm coat.

im looking around for a coat but obviously don’t want something I can’t use again in the UK!

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Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:38

Also a coat. I would recommend a warm coat.

Harrumphhhh · 15/10/2025 07:38

Get on vinted for thermals, ski-jacket and fur lined books. Buy decent hat and gloves. Enjoy it.

Fleur405 · 15/10/2025 07:38

Well I don’t know about Oslo but we went to Copenhagen one February because we were there for my DPs birthday. It was cold sure but nothing a hat/scarf/warm boots didn’t solve. Copenhagen was busy with tourists and also people going about their business from what I recall.

Why on earth would you need to sit in your hotel room the whole time?

TheBlueHotel · 15/10/2025 07:37

Can it really be that cold?? I went to Iceland in January and it wasn't that cold - it was fucking cold though at -11 but it was lovely and totally manageable with thermal layers outdoors and lots of lovely heating inside.

SoEasyToFallInLove · 15/10/2025 07:36

My goal is just really to be there - in Oslo I’d like to go to one of the saunas on the fjord, the museums and the food.

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