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Daisydoodlepoo · 14/10/2025 16:24

Having moved house and unable to get signed up with an NHS dentist, I registered with a private practice just over 12 months ago as I was experiencing pain with back tooth which had had root canal treatment about 10 years ago. The cost of the treatment including extraction was £1800. Today I have been for a routine check up and x ray identified issues with 2 front teeth which apparently are likely to result in both failing 2/3 years down the line. The cause is linked to undue pressure on the teeth as a result of overbite. My dentist said we need a plan to address these issues including work to build up the back teeth to reduce the impact of the overbite, potential loss of teeth etc. I understand that the treatment cost would be around 10k which is significant in addition to the £1800 spent relatively recently. My first reaction was that I said I simply could not justify that amount of spend at present to which she asked me directly if I was in financial difficulty and I should be honest if that is the case. Also if I did not go down this route, what would be my plan when teeth failed as was likely. I just felt really uncomfortable with these questions as thankfully I am not in financial difficulty, but on the other hand, being suddenly presented with unplanned expenditure of 10k was a shock and asking anyone directly if they are struggling financially seems insensitive and unreasonable given the amount involved is not insignificant. Maybe I am being too sensitive? but the whole experience made me feel a bit emotional and incredibly frustrated like everyone else is with the state of NHS dentistry. 😟

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Daisydoodlepoo · 14/10/2025 17:46

CuteOrangeElephant · 14/10/2025 17:19

Hey OP,

I am having similar problems, failing teeth due to an underbite. What exactly are you getting for 10k?

That seems really steep. I am having a full course of orthodontic treatment, an implant and two crowns for that money (not in the UK, but similar prices). Additionally I am also having jaw surgery because without it I have been told any implants will fail.

Hello, I'm not sure yet what the treatment programme would entail, but 10k was given as an estimate and I have another appointment in 3 months to discuss in more detail what would be covered should I want to proceed. In the meantime I plan to get a second opinion. I hope your treatment goes well.

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gertrudemortimer · 14/10/2025 17:31

I always tell them I’m skint otherwise they’d flog you everything even if you’re just there for a hygiene visit or a check up, you’d walk out with Invisalign! Do not feel bad for saying you can’t afford it. I’ve just switched dentists after they tried to charge me £95 for an emergency appt (that wasn’t an emergency I just wanted an appt, any day/time) and then an extra £400 for tooth extraction. Dental plan 10% discount doesn’t cover it because it’s ’specialised treatment’. They have tried to sell me an implant for two years for the same tooth, 3k! NHS dentistry needs to be fixed. My son was on private for 8 years before he got on the nhs but so many children are on private or not at all and they will suffer so much financially and health wise in the future.

CuteOrangeElephant · 14/10/2025 17:19

Hey OP,

I am having similar problems, failing teeth due to an underbite. What exactly are you getting for 10k?

That seems really steep. I am having a full course of orthodontic treatment, an implant and two crowns for that money (not in the UK, but similar prices). Additionally I am also having jaw surgery because without it I have been told any implants will fail.

SumUp · 14/10/2025 17:14

A friend is just about to go to Portugal to get dental work done for about one third of the price she was quoted by her UK private dentist. I’m watching with interest. Has anyone else gone abroad for regular treatment (not veneers)?

gerispringer · 14/10/2025 17:13

Our dentist has a sort of pay in instalments option so maybe she was going to offer you something like that?

Daisydoodlepoo · 14/10/2025 17:10

childofthe607080s · 14/10/2025 16:32

Privatised health care of any kind is rubbish for most people

and you might not be in financial difficulty if it wasn’t for the dentist bill

Exactly ! 😂

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Daisydoodlepoo · 14/10/2025 17:06

Mossstitch · 14/10/2025 16:39

I'd want a second opinion, that sounds extortionate for the amount of work you had on one tooth so I wouldn't trust the quote of £10k. I've had quite a bit of dental problems lately and looked at private dental prices locally and an extraction was on average less than a couple of hundred pounds.

Thanks I will do, the reality is that any private enterprise is focused on profit but if it is a health related service, you tend to assume your interests come first which is naive I know. Today's appointment was not exactly 'hard sell', it wouldn't be fair to describe it in those terms, but I did leave feeling if I didn't go down the 10k planned route, then any emergency treatment might end up costing more. I will get another opinion though.

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Mossstitch · 14/10/2025 16:39

I'd want a second opinion, that sounds extortionate for the amount of work you had on one tooth so I wouldn't trust the quote of £10k. I've had quite a bit of dental problems lately and looked at private dental prices locally and an extraction was on average less than a couple of hundred pounds.

Daisydoodlepoo · 14/10/2025 16:38

Boomer55 · 14/10/2025 16:31

Yes, private treatment, although most is very good, is extremely painful with the bank account.😳

I know ....I just felt my dentist expected me to say that's fine as though 10k is not a significant spend if planned or otherwise ...

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Pepperedpickles · 14/10/2025 16:33

Well I suppose it’s like everything else. If you can afford £10k on your teeth that’s great but if you can’t, as most of us can’t, then you just have to wait and see what happens and if you’re lucky enough to have NHS dentistry they’d eventually remove the teeth and you’d have a bridge (cheap option).

childofthe607080s · 14/10/2025 16:32

Privatised health care of any kind is rubbish for most people

and you might not be in financial difficulty if it wasn’t for the dentist bill

Boomer55 · 14/10/2025 16:31

Yes, private treatment, although most is very good, is extremely painful with the bank account.😳

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