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‎🍿 Family movie night ideas? These trending Hulu films are too good to miss! 🎬
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‎Hey everyone! 👋
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‎Lately, picking a good family movie feels harder than ever — too many choices, not enough time 😅.
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‎Last weekend I fell down the Hulu rabbit hole (we’ve all been there!) and found a bunch of films that everyone’s talking about right now — from sweet family stories to comedies that even my teens actually laughed at 😂.
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‎If you’re hunting for something worth watching, I made a small page where I listed the top trending Hulu movies and what makes each one special.
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‎A few favourites from the list:
‎🎭 A heartfelt drama that’ll make you tear up
‎🤣 A comedy that had the whole family laughing
‎🌟 A fun adventure perfect for everyone
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‎I’d love to know:
‎👉 What’s your go-to movie for family night?
‎👉 Do you prefer something funny, emotional, or just easy to watch when you need to unwind?
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‎Let’s share our favourites — we all need new ideas for cozy nights in! 🍿💬
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‎🔥 Most popular movies on Hulu right now — what are you watching?
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‎Hey everyone! 👋
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‎Lately, I’ve been spending my evenings watching movies on Hulu, and wow — there are so many great ones trending this month!
‎Some of the most popular right now are:
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‎Prey (a must-watch if you love action and thrill)
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‎No One Will Save You (sci-fi & suspense vibes)
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‎The Menu (dark comedy + mystery)
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‎Barbarian (for horror fans)
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‎Palm Springs (funny and clever — I loved it!)
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‎It’s crazy how much the Hulu catalog keeps growing — from originals to classic favorites.
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‎ If you want to know more or learn how to watch Hulu movies easily, check out this site for more info — it explains everything clearly. https://sites.google.com/view/hulu1movies/home
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‎So, what’s your favorite Hulu movie or series right now? Let’s swap recommendations!
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And honestly, it’s your home. It’s hard to combine lives, it really is. I am more like you and my husband (similar story) is very relaxed - but does pull his weight? It’s tough. Good luck

Well his house still wins because it doesn't have him in it.

Im really asking what is the atmosphere like in your home

Yes this. I think it might be difficult for you to answer this. You sound preoccupied and defensive, with contradictory posts. It's hard to understand what's going on and to decide whether your DH is being unreasonable. He comes across as alternatively caring and frustrated / snappy.

You say you have diagnosed OCD, that you have a cleaner and that your house is very tidy. I bet your house is immaculate and clutter-free by most people's standards.

Is there ever a point when you can say to yourself: "I've done enough, everything looks good, I can now relax and think of other things" ? How often do you reach that point (without feeling distressed because there's a drawer that needs decluttering or whatever)?

@Alexander7, you need to start your own thread. You are repeatedly posting on someone else’s.

If you live together, I don't understand why the kitchen drawers are automatically your domain, or how he is saying "my house wouldn't be like this".

It's just as much his responsibility as yours to sort these things, he lives there!

And he sounds like a goady twat. I like to sort things when I have some down time, drawers and so on. It annoyed my ex (who also, conversely, complained about the state of the house). That's one of the reasons he is now an ex!

From your posts OP it sounds like though you live together your DH does not feel comfortable in the home. We won’t know but it’s possible you are difficult to live with - continually changing, clearing and being ‘on’ can be quite disturbing to be around. I would not like living like this - is it really needed what you’re doing and how often do you do this?
Homemade meals are a good thing but at what point are you getting up, clearing drawers, moving about and bringing this energy to the home? Some people want to live in their home and not have it managed?

Im really asking what is the atmosphere like in your home? It’s the same with cleaning, tidying up - also continual home improvements. It’s draining to be around.

Hi everyone,
I’m a mom of two — one is a newborn and the other is a bit older — and lately I’ve been feeling completely overwhelmed. My husband is 38, but he doesn’t really help with the kids or around the house. I’m trying my best to be a good mom, but honestly, I feel like I’m drowning between breastfeeding, cleaning, cooking, and caring for my older child. I barely have a moment for myself.

I’d really appreciate some advice:

What are some healthy and easy meals I can prepare for both my newborn and my older child (something age-appropriate for each)?

How can I better organize my time between housework, taking care of the kids, and self-care?

And how can I get my husband to be more involved without turning it into an argument?

Any tips or personal experiences would m
ean a lot ❤️

Thank you for your message. I actually didn’t mean to post this here, but I appreciate your support and understanding.

> He’s 38 and doesn’t help me at all, even though I’m taking care of both kids all day.

Thank you for your message. I actually didn’t mean to post this here, but I appreciate your support and understanding.

> He’s 38 and doesn’t help me at all, even though I’m taking care of both kids all day.

AIBU to think my husband should help more with dinner while I’m breastfeeding?
Hi everyone,

I’ve just had our second baby two months ago, and things have been… chaotic, to say the least. I’m exclusively breastfeeding, and most evenings I’m completely drained by the time dinner needs to be made.

My husband works full time (so do I, technically, I’m just on maternity leave), and when he gets home, he often says he’s “too tired” to cook or even help with basic things like setting the table or cleaning up after.

He thinks that since I’m home all day, it’s “only fair” that I handle meals — even though taking care of a newborn and a toddler is a full-time job.

Last night I got frustrated and told him I need more help. He said I’m being dramatic and that I “knew what motherhood was like.”

AIBU to think he should share dinner duties, even if he’s working and I’m on maternity leave?

OP, having read all of your comments, I think your partner is not helping and is actually fuelling your OCD. It’s great that you are getting therapy and hopefully that’s helping. You seem very aware of what you are doing and it sounds like you are spending quality time with your kids which really is the whole point. There is nothing wrong with making homemade food for your family, that’s normal!

I think your partner is being an ass and some of your stress is because of his comments and his judgment. If he thinks you are not up to standard then he can step up and keep the house tidy and clean the way he thinks is right. But he is delegating it you and also judging you for how you do it. You really can’t win. I would really try and focus on this and address it with him. Frankly if nothing changes I would reconsider the relationship. He is supposed to have your back not judge you and make your difficulties even worse. Think about if this is the kind of life you want to live.

Sounds like you are exhibiting OCD and are getting on everyone’s nerves.

I'm sorry, but your posts are confusing (to me anyway) & it sounds (to me) like you could do well having someone professional to talk to, to unload & clear your thinking.

IF I have this right he's your DH (not just partner) and you live together, you have kids together (they're not just yours). Am I right so far?

Why did he say 'my house would not be like this'. Is it not his house too?

He's alternatively criticising you for not 'meeting his standards' & then complaining you're doing things that improve the house standard?

From what you have written, he sounds like a mind fucking wanker who I'd be separating from.

No, you are not being unreasonable

It's completely understandable to want to keep your home tidy and organized, especially with kids. If decluttering or cleaning helps you feel better and in control, then that's valid. His "jokes," even if meant lightly, can come across as dismissive or critical—especially if this has already been addressed in therapy.

It’s good that he’s trying to improve, but part of that is also recognizing that small comments, even said as jokes, can be discouraging or frustrating. You’re not doing anything wrong by tidying a drawer or keeping the house in order.

Simple advice: Calmly remind him that his comments make you feel judged , not supported. If he’s genuinely worried about you overworking, you two can agree on shared breaks or rest times—but it shouldn’t come at the expense of what makes you feel good in your own space.

My mum too. Lots of sighing and tutting and complaining that 'nobody ever helps' or 'everyone is so messy' and martyring herself to the cause of housework that really didn't need doing right then or as continually as she did it. In my mum's case it was an anxiety related desire to have control over absolutely everything. But the bloody sighing and making out that she was the only person who could possibly do any of these things.

Does any of this sound familiar, OP?