Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Hotel bumped us to another hotel at midnight!!

161 replies

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 08:26

This has never happened to us before, can anyone shed light on it?

Me and some pals went for a girls weekend away. We booked and paid for our rooms months ago.

four of us on Friday night, booked into our hotel, two per room. We were joined on Saturday by two pals, and tried to check them in when they arrived, around midday, but were told the extra room wasn't ready yet.

So we all went out for the day, came back around 11pm - to be told the hotel was overbooked, our third room was no longer available and two of our party was now being moved to another hotel.

The staff on duty seemed utterly bemused that we were furious. As if we were being unreasonable. We suggested at the very least they cover our bar bill while we waited for the taxi to take our friends off to another hotel, but no, not possible apparently.

Anyone had this happen to them before, anyone shed any light?

OP posts:
nomas · 13/10/2025 11:09

DreamyTealGuide · 13/10/2025 10:59

too early for check-in doesn't mean too early to note that it wasn't their room to give away as they were already there

Did OP’s friends ask for this?

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 11:08

Puzzledandpissedoff · 13/10/2025 11:02

I cannot understand why they would overbook hotels like that, surely it doesn't matter anyway if someone doesn't turn up, they would have to pay anyway?

As with flights, in all likelihood the no-shows will have already paid, @rabbitwoman, but this way the providers get to keep both the original sum and the amount from re-selling it too

Haha, ya, and good for them, I guess.

However, if BOTH guests turn up and one of them ends up being displaced maybe you should forfeit your extra profit!!!

OP posts:
milveycrohn · 13/10/2025 11:08

This happened to a relative at a well-known cheap chain of basic hotel accommodation.
He arrived later than expected to find they had bumped him to elsewhere.
However, when booking on line he was obliged to pay for the room in full, in advance, so they had no reason to bump him out. This relative had chosen this accommodation as it was next to the station by which he was arriving.
He was told that he should have rung explaining his expected arrival time, but as he pointed out, the individual hotels, do NOT have their telephone number on the website, so he had no means of contacting them. He also had no means of getting to the alternative hotel that was offered.
Obviously the relative has never stayed with this cheap hotel chain since.
I have since found out that this often happens especially if others are staying for longer. ie; bump off a single nighter in favour of someone staying a week.
This also happened to my DS who had booked an Airb&b, which was cancelled at the point they arrived.
I've only mentioned this last one in case others say that Airb&b is the way to go on future.

GasPanic · 13/10/2025 11:08

spoonbillstretford · 13/10/2025 11:06

Indeed. This should be banned when people have paid upfront. They knew they were coming, they saw them earlier in the day. Sounds like their systems are absolutely shocking.

Sounds more like they are trying to make as much money as possible.

If they didn't do stuff like this, everyone would probably have to pay more.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 13/10/2025 11:07

It happened to Jason Manford and apparently a lot of hotels do it. They over book as they expect some people not to turn up.

LIZS · 13/10/2025 11:06

Just seen a facebook video from Jason Manford about similar at Village hotels

spoonbillstretford · 13/10/2025 11:06

PollyBell · 13/10/2025 09:52

If hotel rooms are paid for why would put other guests in their and then charge them, so thry get double the money for one room?

And no I dont know why they would pay for your bar bill

Indeed. This should be banned when people have paid upfront. They knew they were coming, they saw them earlier in the day. Sounds like their systems are absolutely shocking.

DreamyTealGuide · 13/10/2025 11:04

I would at least write a review, I wouldn't book a hotel where I turn up (too early) and the room is not ready (that is fair) BUT the room is then given away when I come back later.

That's taking the piss.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/10/2025 11:03

InveterateWineDrinker · 13/10/2025 10:59

I don't know if they still do it, but Travelodge used to have a policy called 'last man standing' - they were deliberately encouraged to fill every room as quickly as possible even if that meant bumping late-arriving guests with reservations or even pre-paid bookings in to other hotels - they would just deal with it. If I recall, there was a TV documentary about it; one bloke was moved to a hotel more than 30 miles away. I've refused point blank to use Travelodge ever since.

It was travel lodge on my work trip above! Public sector so all a bit skin-flinty

I don’t use them any more either

DreamyTealGuide · 13/10/2025 11:03

InveterateWineDrinker · 13/10/2025 10:59

I don't know if they still do it, but Travelodge used to have a policy called 'last man standing' - they were deliberately encouraged to fill every room as quickly as possible even if that meant bumping late-arriving guests with reservations or even pre-paid bookings in to other hotels - they would just deal with it. If I recall, there was a TV documentary about it; one bloke was moved to a hotel more than 30 miles away. I've refused point blank to use Travelodge ever since.

good grief, and I thought people fighting over sun loungers on holiday was bad 😂

It's amusing when hotels offer to charge more for early/ very early/ and late check-in, but fair enough. I do wonder how they manage their bookings when you can book a cheap room with flexible cancellation until midday that day.

GasPanic · 13/10/2025 11:02

I'm guessing that if you check the bookings terms and conditions then they have no obligations other than to find you another room.

Of course you have the choice where you place your custom in future.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 13/10/2025 11:02

I cannot understand why they would overbook hotels like that, surely it doesn't matter anyway if someone doesn't turn up, they would have to pay anyway?

As with flights, in all likelihood the no-shows will have already paid, @rabbitwoman, but this way the providers get to keep both the original sum and the amount from re-selling it too

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 11:01

@nomas Yup, from about midday to 2pmish they were hanging out with us in our rooms and in the bar. We left at 2pm to go to our afternoon activity!!

OP posts:
TokyoSushi · 13/10/2025 11:00

When I used to do it (I hated it!) It was in a 5* hotel, we would refund your booking at the original hotel and pay for your room at the other hotel, and get you a free taxi there and back so OP isn't unreasonable to expect compensation.

InveterateWineDrinker · 13/10/2025 10:59

I don't know if they still do it, but Travelodge used to have a policy called 'last man standing' - they were deliberately encouraged to fill every room as quickly as possible even if that meant bumping late-arriving guests with reservations or even pre-paid bookings in to other hotels - they would just deal with it. If I recall, there was a TV documentary about it; one bloke was moved to a hotel more than 30 miles away. I've refused point blank to use Travelodge ever since.

DreamyTealGuide · 13/10/2025 10:59

nomas · 13/10/2025 10:56

We were trying to check in the additional guests at 2pm. The booking was all made by the same person months ago, and all paid for.

Your OP said your friends tried to check in at midday. which would be too early for most hotels.

too early for check-in doesn't mean too early to note that it wasn't their room to give away as they were already there

ChocolateCinderToffee · 13/10/2025 10:59

I would be very annoyed by this if I had paid in advance! To me, whether or not you turn up to take the room, it's yours if you have paid for it. If you haven't paid in advance then fair enough, but how many hotels in city centres don't expect full payment in advance?

DreamyTealGuide · 13/10/2025 10:58

nomas · 13/10/2025 10:42

Only if check in opened at 12.

If check-in opened at 3pm, it's irrelevant that 2 guests tried to check in at 12.

but in real life, it's not. Of course it's relevant. So many people try to check-in much earlier than 3pm.

People do that very often - and sometimes the room IS ready. And again, many hotels offer to store the luggage so their guests can enjoy their day.

If the hotel can't make a note that xyz guest has arrived (too early) then it's very poor service. Even Premier Inns chains usually manage (and they don't qualify as a luxury hotel)

If nothing else, that counts as not doing a late check-in and being a no-show: you arrive (too early), "sign in" and check in later.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/10/2025 10:58

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 10:52

We were trying to check in the additional guests at 2pm. The booking was all made by the same person months ago, and all paid for.

We had activities booked for 2.30 so left for the day. My pals had left their luggage there!! We were definitely not a no show!!

They did explain to us it was the same as a flight, but as far as I am aware, if you are bumped from a flight you get compensated for your trouble!!

I cannot understand why they would overbook hotels like that, surely it doesn't matter anyway if someone doesn't turn up, they would have to pay anyway?

I think what really bothered us was the complete lack of accountability. The hotel seemed bemused we would even be bothered by it!!! As if we were making a massive fuss over nothing, and being unreasonable.

And yes, we had been drinking!! It was Saturday night!!! We have been told we have to email the manager to get compensated, but i was amazed they didn't offer us something on the spot.

I think you’re right in principle but I can understand why you weren’t offered more alcohol as the compensation. You can see why they thought that might escalate things.

I would contact the manager calmly now that you’re back explaining why you think this was unreasonable- I think they should refund you perhaps the cost of breakfast or similar. Or a part of the bill.

agoodfriendofthethree · 13/10/2025 10:57

I know a bride and groom who were bumped from their hotel room on their own wedding night! The hotel were very matter of fact that they regularly over book, and they hardly even apologised. They had double booked the suite and the other party had checked in half an hour earlier, so that was that! It meant they ended up staying in a different town to all their wedding guests (we were all at the overbooked hotel).

nomas · 13/10/2025 10:56

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 10:52

We were trying to check in the additional guests at 2pm. The booking was all made by the same person months ago, and all paid for.

We had activities booked for 2.30 so left for the day. My pals had left their luggage there!! We were definitely not a no show!!

They did explain to us it was the same as a flight, but as far as I am aware, if you are bumped from a flight you get compensated for your trouble!!

I cannot understand why they would overbook hotels like that, surely it doesn't matter anyway if someone doesn't turn up, they would have to pay anyway?

I think what really bothered us was the complete lack of accountability. The hotel seemed bemused we would even be bothered by it!!! As if we were making a massive fuss over nothing, and being unreasonable.

And yes, we had been drinking!! It was Saturday night!!! We have been told we have to email the manager to get compensated, but i was amazed they didn't offer us something on the spot.

We were trying to check in the additional guests at 2pm. The booking was all made by the same person months ago, and all paid for.

Your OP said your friends tried to check in at midday. which would be too early for most hotels.

rabbitwoman · 13/10/2025 10:52

We were trying to check in the additional guests at 2pm. The booking was all made by the same person months ago, and all paid for.

We had activities booked for 2.30 so left for the day. My pals had left their luggage there!! We were definitely not a no show!!

They did explain to us it was the same as a flight, but as far as I am aware, if you are bumped from a flight you get compensated for your trouble!!

I cannot understand why they would overbook hotels like that, surely it doesn't matter anyway if someone doesn't turn up, they would have to pay anyway?

I think what really bothered us was the complete lack of accountability. The hotel seemed bemused we would even be bothered by it!!! As if we were making a massive fuss over nothing, and being unreasonable.

And yes, we had been drinking!! It was Saturday night!!! We have been told we have to email the manager to get compensated, but i was amazed they didn't offer us something on the spot.

OP posts:
MyDeftDuck · 13/10/2025 10:50

I am puzzled……were the two that arrived on Saturday supposed to check in on Friday? If so, then they were deemed to be no-show………that’s might be why their room was let to another guest.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/10/2025 10:50

Similar had happened to me on a work trip when we were coming up late from a different, unrelated work event. It wasn’t me who had to move hotels thankfully - the one guy in our party kindly offered to take the fall - but it was very unsettling late at night!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/10/2025 10:48

It does sound like a bit of a break down of communication on the hotel’s part, ie that the room was part of a group booking and that the occupants had already tried to book in.

I do think covering your “bar bill” whilst you waited as a specific form of compensation was quite optimistic though- sorry if I’ve gone off on the wrong track but it does sound like you’d been drinking already and that adding that you were “furious” into the mix, I wouldn’t have offered free alcohol.

However, I do think it was their error for the above reasons and they should have offered something to make amends.

Another time, if you need to go out for the day before the rooms are ready, I'd let them know very clearly that you’re going to be alternating and ask specifically that they note their system not to bump you as a late arrival.