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Jodie Turner-Smith Graham Norton

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Thunderpants88 · 12/10/2025 23:09

Just watched the Graham Norton show with Jodie Turner-Smith AIBU or was she utterly obnoxious? Every single move she made was the sickly sweet looking at the camera for attention. Whenever any other celebrity has the spotlight she interjected and tried to bring the attention back to her. Her whole time on the show was pathetic acting for attention and extremely false.

Did anyone else see this or AIBU?

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nomas · 19/10/2025 22:44

PoliteSquid · 19/10/2025 22:33

She spoke over people, fawned all over Taylor Swift, kept looking at the camera and pouting… it was embarrassing.

What fawning thing did she say to Taylor that Taylor didn't say back? Confused

IHate · 19/10/2025 22:40

Dweetfidilove · 19/10/2025 22:24

It provided great entertainment, that one. I really can't help but smh at some of the ridiculousness.

It’s sad, but also very funny. 🤣

‘I have a Black SIL who is prettier than her’ may be my favourite.

PoliteSquid · 19/10/2025 22:40

Thisistemporary · 19/10/2025 15:46

I thought the exact same, I’d never seen her interviewed before and was surprised at how unlikeable she came across. And so much name dropping.

Exactly this “oh I was at that party too, we’re SUCH good mates all us famous people” She physically leant over another guest and turned her back on another when he spoke.

PreciousTatas · 19/10/2025 22:40

Erm.

I'm black. And I've seen more beautiful.women on the school run this morning.

This adulation is weird.

IHate · 19/10/2025 22:37

ThatsNotMyNameAlan · 19/10/2025 22:15

My SIL is unambiguously black. She’s better looking than JTS. Am I allowed to have that opinion?

K.

PoliteSquid · 19/10/2025 22:34

Cinaferna · 19/10/2025 22:29

I agree. She didn't speak nearly as much as Greta Lee, didn't strike poses any more than Taylor Swift, and was either cracking jokes or saying nice things about other people.

I think we were watching an entirely different show!!!

foundmykey · 19/10/2025 22:34

IHate · 19/10/2025 11:48

There’s a particular sort of collective neck twitch that happens on Mumsnet when a woman is all three: stunning, successful and unambiguously Black. Commenters start qualifying their praise or picking apart tiny things, like they can’t quite process it.

They’re fine with mixed race or ethnically ambiguous Zendaya type beauty, but once it’s someone like Anok Yai or Jodie, the tone changes. Suddenly she’s “not that special”, or they start hedging the language, qualifying their admiration, or shifting the conversation to something else entirely. There was a thread about Anok earlier this year that went properly odd. Think I’ll try to dig it up.

Agreed.

PoliteSquid · 19/10/2025 22:33

nomas · 19/10/2025 21:28

She spoke less than anyone else and you found her the most annoying? That is bloody weird.

She spoke over people, fawned all over Taylor Swift, kept looking at the camera and pouting… it was embarrassing.

Cinaferna · 19/10/2025 22:29

ChineseSpymaster · 19/10/2025 02:26

She had a slightly odd manner at times but was quite funny, didn’t speak over anyone, in fact she spoke slightly less than some of the other guests, wasn’t louder than the other guests and she didn’t look at the camera any more than Greta Lee did.

I agree. She didn't speak nearly as much as Greta Lee, didn't strike poses any more than Taylor Swift, and was either cracking jokes or saying nice things about other people.

Dweetfidilove · 19/10/2025 22:24

IHate · 19/10/2025 11:48

There’s a particular sort of collective neck twitch that happens on Mumsnet when a woman is all three: stunning, successful and unambiguously Black. Commenters start qualifying their praise or picking apart tiny things, like they can’t quite process it.

They’re fine with mixed race or ethnically ambiguous Zendaya type beauty, but once it’s someone like Anok Yai or Jodie, the tone changes. Suddenly she’s “not that special”, or they start hedging the language, qualifying their admiration, or shifting the conversation to something else entirely. There was a thread about Anok earlier this year that went properly odd. Think I’ll try to dig it up.

It provided great entertainment, that one. I really can't help but smh at some of the ridiculousness.

Dweetfidilove · 19/10/2025 22:16

Petrolitis · 19/10/2025 21:51

Nope not seeing that at all

It's not surprising different people see things differently, so 🤷🏾‍♀️.

ThatsNotMyNameAlan · 19/10/2025 22:15

IHate · 19/10/2025 11:48

There’s a particular sort of collective neck twitch that happens on Mumsnet when a woman is all three: stunning, successful and unambiguously Black. Commenters start qualifying their praise or picking apart tiny things, like they can’t quite process it.

They’re fine with mixed race or ethnically ambiguous Zendaya type beauty, but once it’s someone like Anok Yai or Jodie, the tone changes. Suddenly she’s “not that special”, or they start hedging the language, qualifying their admiration, or shifting the conversation to something else entirely. There was a thread about Anok earlier this year that went properly odd. Think I’ll try to dig it up.

My SIL is unambiguously black. She’s better looking than JTS. Am I allowed to have that opinion?

GreySkySummer · 19/10/2025 22:10

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 19/10/2025 21:20

You are welcome. It is simply the only suitable response for bad faith, tiresome accusations of racism. Either that or just ignore but I made the effort and gave you a 💤

In what way was it bad faith?

LoveItaly · 19/10/2025 22:08

KimTheresPeopleThatAreDying · 19/10/2025 08:59

She’s a dickhead who’s had a lot of concessions because of how beautiful she is.

It’ll be interesting to see how she fares when her looks fade. I can’t believe all these comments excusing her rude behaviour just because she’s considered beautiful.

ConnieHeart · 19/10/2025 22:03

She came across as having no personality

Petrolitis · 19/10/2025 21:51

Dweetfidilove · 19/10/2025 00:23

One of the most ridiculously beautiful women ever☺️.

Nope not seeing that at all

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 19/10/2025 21:48

I've never heard of her so I had a quick Google.
She's averagely attractive and has no dress sense.

AgentPidge · 19/10/2025 21:44

I had never seen Jodie before but I did think her behaviour was odd and did wonder if she was drunk.

nomas · 19/10/2025 21:30

IHate · 19/10/2025 11:48

There’s a particular sort of collective neck twitch that happens on Mumsnet when a woman is all three: stunning, successful and unambiguously Black. Commenters start qualifying their praise or picking apart tiny things, like they can’t quite process it.

They’re fine with mixed race or ethnically ambiguous Zendaya type beauty, but once it’s someone like Anok Yai or Jodie, the tone changes. Suddenly she’s “not that special”, or they start hedging the language, qualifying their admiration, or shifting the conversation to something else entirely. There was a thread about Anok earlier this year that went properly odd. Think I’ll try to dig it up.

I'm not black, but I have to agree. I've just watched it and can't see where she was rude to anyone.

Two thirds of the show was dominated by Taylor Swift (which makes sense given she is the biggest star for many) but for people to still criticise Jodie despite her having very limited interview time is very weird.

nomas · 19/10/2025 21:28

PoliteSquid · 18/10/2025 23:12

Oh at long last! I wasn’t sure who she was! But bloody hell she behaved appallingly. I watched it thinking “shut up you rude cow!” And what was all the pouting and checking the cameras? It was excruciating - I did wonder if she was high.

She spoke less than anyone else and you found her the most annoying? That is bloody weird.

nomas · 19/10/2025 21:26

AngeloMysterioso · 19/10/2025 00:26

Apparently she kept asking Taylor Swift if she and Travis Kelce are planning babies and they had to cut it out of the final edit

Some random audience member said this, but there's no proof.

I've been to the shooting of these shows as free audience tickets, the great unwashed can make up anything about anyone.

It's clear Jodie and Taylor get on well and socialise.

The shooting goes on for a lot longer than what is shown, so it does get tiring for the celebrity guests.

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 19/10/2025 21:20

GreySkySummer · 19/10/2025 20:58

thanks for engaging

You are welcome. It is simply the only suitable response for bad faith, tiresome accusations of racism. Either that or just ignore but I made the effort and gave you a 💤

GreySkySummer · 19/10/2025 20:58

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 19/10/2025 20:14

💤

thanks for engaging

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 19/10/2025 20:25

IHate · 19/10/2025 11:48

There’s a particular sort of collective neck twitch that happens on Mumsnet when a woman is all three: stunning, successful and unambiguously Black. Commenters start qualifying their praise or picking apart tiny things, like they can’t quite process it.

They’re fine with mixed race or ethnically ambiguous Zendaya type beauty, but once it’s someone like Anok Yai or Jodie, the tone changes. Suddenly she’s “not that special”, or they start hedging the language, qualifying their admiration, or shifting the conversation to something else entirely. There was a thread about Anok earlier this year that went properly odd. Think I’ll try to dig it up.

But Anok Yai is stunning, and I just don't "get" Jodie as being vaunted as gorgeous in that way?

Possibly she looks better moving, I've only ever seen stills of her resting face, which like JK Rowling, is unfortunately "resting smug face".

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 19/10/2025 20:16

IHate · 13/10/2025 00:06

She is so beautiful that she can literally do whatever she wants, as far as I’m concerned. Ridiculously stunning woman.

She’s no more attractive than any other good looking actress imo. Someone mentioned Anok Yai above and she takes my breath away!

Either way she’s a celeb on a chat show. Why else are they there except for publicity? So it’s weird to accuse her of being attention seeking when that’s the whole point.

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