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Genuine question for anti-vaxxers

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Raisinmeup · 12/10/2025 12:25

I see a lot online about anti-vaxxers and I’m trying to understand where they’re coming from, so this is a genuine question, not rage bait.

My understanding is that some parents choose not to vaccinate their children because they believe vaccines cause harmful side effects, or they just don’t trust the government and big pharma in general.

But what’s the alternative? If everyone stopped vaccinating, wouldn’t we start seeing diseases like polio coming back? That would mean more infant deaths and lifelong disabilities. It just doesn’t seem like a rational trade off?

From what I’ve seen, there seems to be a belief that immune systems can deal with these illnesses naturally, but I wonder if part of that belief comes from the fact that parents of today haven’t actually seen what a world without vaccines looks like. We’ve grown up in a time where infant death from preventable diseases is almost unheard of, so maybe it’s easy to forget how serious these infections really are.

And lastly, if you haven’t vaccinated your child and they then catch one of these illnesses, do you not end up turning to the same big pharma for the medicine or treatment anyway?

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Raisinmeup · 13/10/2025 09:37

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:42

This is the crux of it.

One side thinks vaccine injury is a negligible risk.

Other side thinks serious complications from diseases is a negligible risk.

First side has data on their side.

Other side doesn't believe that data is robust or honest. So that data doesn't really matter.

Do you believe pharmaceutical companies are totally honest when their products are found to cause harm? Do we have any examples of how they behave when this occurs?

I suppose this sort of answers my question.. and if the response to anything factual is simply that you don’t believe the reported evidence, then I’ll probably never fully comprehend that viewpoint.

In a way though, my question still stands. It’s easy and, as you’ve even acknowledged yourself, extremely privileged, to ride the coattails of herd immunity and claim your children’s health is purely down to their “strong immune systems.”

My question isn’t about the here and now, while your children are benefitting from widespread vaccination. It’s about what happens if these diseases become common again. If you started seeing people around you losing infants, or children suffering complications, would you then fear the diseases themselves or would you still believe vaccination was the greater risk? Do we really need to reach the point again where babies die and boys are left infertile before we accept that these outcomes are preventable through vaccination?

You’ve also said you don’t believe your daughter could develop cervical cancer simply because she’s healthy.. so I suppose I already have my answer.

And yes, vaccine injury doesn’t exist in a black hole only “big pharma” can see. There’s active surveillance, independent investigation, and regulatory oversight. Vaccines can be withdrawn or restricted when credible evidence of harm exists, and that’s exactly how it should be.

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user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:33

Howmanycatsistoomany · 13/10/2025 09:31

@user098786533
I realise peer review exists but in the same vein I think compartmentalisation could contribute to things being concealed. There's also collusion and integrity at play. Publishing demands on medical professionals mean they name swap on journal publications, things like that.

Bollocks!

So pharmaceutical companies never conceal information?

Howmanycatsistoomany · 13/10/2025 09:31

@user098786533
I realise peer review exists but in the same vein I think compartmentalisation could contribute to things being concealed. There's also collusion and integrity at play. Publishing demands on medical professionals mean they name swap on journal publications, things like that.

Bollocks!

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 09:24

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:06

Vaccine for scarlet fever?

Show us please?

Yes, a successful vaccine for scarlet fever was developed in the 1920s and 1930s, but abandoned after the development of antibiotics.

Scarlet fever is caused by a specific strain of strep bacteria that has been infected by a bacteriophage. Research on bacteriophages was eclipsed by the advent of antibiotics, but has recently become of interest again with the rise of antibiotic resistance.

There are vaccinations for both viral and bacterial illnesses — pneumococcal and meningococcal vaccines are examples of vaccinations against bacterial illnesses. We tend to vaccinate more against viruses because these can’t be eliminated by antibiotics. Now that we are seeing rising antibiotic resistance, we may want to vaccinate more against bacterial illnesses where possible. Plus, many of the serious complications of viruses are bacterial infections — antibiotics reduced those, but we might want to chance these rather less if we could not rely on antibiotics (which may be in our near future).

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:24

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 09:15

That isn’t why the Lancet pulled his paper.

If you mean news outlets when you say corporate media, then why on earth are you relying on those for vaccine information, as opposed to, say, information from the NHS/public health bodies/the vaccine leaflet/your own scientific understanding of vaccines/your GP?

Why would you think the Daily Mail or the Sun are sources of useful medical information in the first place? They don’t even get it right when it comes to celebrity news.

Why would you think news outlets can’t be trusted, but instead trust unverified anti-vaccination information from people with no scientific or medical background at all?

From your posts, you don’t actually understand either viruses or vaccines well — have actually read anything like the WHO or government infections diseases information? Why do you think they would misinform you?

@thecatfromneptune

I've never said I rely on news for vaccine information
I have had conversations with my GP about it.
I don't believe the daily mail or sun are credible sources of medical information.
I don't trust unverified people online about vaccination.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 13/10/2025 09:20

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:42

This is the crux of it.

One side thinks vaccine injury is a negligible risk.

Other side thinks serious complications from diseases is a negligible risk.

First side has data on their side.

Other side doesn't believe that data is robust or honest. So that data doesn't really matter.

Do you believe pharmaceutical companies are totally honest when their products are found to cause harm? Do we have any examples of how they behave when this occurs?

Pharmaceutical companies won't accept or acknowledge that they are effectively injuring people with their medication, as per my experience of being harmed by an off label antipsychotic.

My GP denied i could get my movement disorder from the low dose and duration of the drugs, yet my neurologist said that some poor susceptible souls can be harmed by just one pill.

Littlemisscapable · 13/10/2025 09:19

isitmyturn · 12/10/2025 13:18

I think you are right that an entire generation hasn't seen those horrible illnesses because vaccines have made them incredibly rare. I remember children at school in calipers from polio. I was very ill as a child with measles and left partially deaf.

I think covid was the start of it for the majority of anti vaxxers, although of course it was there before. Also social media.
Lots of people had covid and weren't that ill, then the vaccine came out and unlike the vaccines for measles/ polio it didn't stop people getting covid so many people were at best disappointed. I was hospitalised with covid despite two doses of vaccine. I'm vulnerable though, so will take anything I'm offered on the off chance it will help.

If you ever see a SM post promoting a vaccine the replies are so depressing. I worry for vulnerable children who no longer have the benefit of herd immunity.

Yes all this. All are these responses reall? They are just so predictable. Before covid everyone i know would have been delighted with the introduction of a chickenpox vaccine and now it is being treated with great suspicion. It's sad.

nosmokinggun · 13/10/2025 09:17

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 07:56

They're often sick with every bug going where mine are not.
I wonder whether artificially stimulating the immune system is a good idea overall or not.

This is completely anecdotal.
My friends breast fed children are a lot more sickly than my formula fed children. They seem to really suffer with their chests.
using your logic - formula feeding MUST keep children healthier, despite what’s been said. Because, you know, that’s the case in this singular instance.
I’ll alert the press 🙄

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 09:15

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:04

@thecatfromneptune
By corporate press I mean news outlets owned by billionaires.

@thecatfromneptune
By corporate press I mean news outlets owned by billionaires. The same billionaires who have pharmaceutical shares and government positions.

I know that no medical professional ever pretends there are no adverse reactions. It's more about widespread messaging. Widespread messaging is that vaccines are safe, effective, and necessary, and that anyone refusing them is silly.

It's dishonest.

@HourlyTime the old ‘oh but you’ll inject yourself with filler’ thing. I don’t disagree with the rationale there. Personally I don’t use cosmetic procedures or weight loss jabs so it doesn't apply to me.

however, I don't think those who fear vaccine adverse reactions believe that the same risks exist with Mounjaro or filler? So I think this comparison is silly.

@thecatfromneptune the Wakefield thing all comes down to the gut brain axis.

Wakefield suggested the gut was damaged by the live virus in some children.
From this he proposed that that gut damage led to symptoms we now label ‘autism’ which were the result of brain injury via gut damage.

At the time the Lancet pulled his paper they stated there was no link between the gut and the brain and any suggestion that there is would increase vaccine hesitancy, so it was best to pull it.

We now know that there is a link between the gut and brain and I believe they knew it then too.

That isn’t why the Lancet pulled his paper.

If you mean news outlets when you say corporate media, then why on earth are you relying on those for vaccine information, as opposed to, say, information from the NHS/public health bodies/the vaccine leaflet/your own scientific understanding of vaccines/your GP?

Why would you think the Daily Mail or the Sun are sources of useful medical information in the first place? They don’t even get it right when it comes to celebrity news.

Why would you think news outlets can’t be trusted, but instead trust unverified anti-vaccination information from people with no scientific or medical background at all?

From your posts, you don’t actually understand either viruses or vaccines well — have actually read anything like the WHO or government infections diseases information? Why do you think they would misinform you?

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:12

sashh · 13/10/2025 08:43

The possibility of brain injury is not supressed, it is very rare and there is a compensation payment system for when it does happen.

Having said that have you heard of Leah Betts? A teenager who died from drinking too much water. It is rare but drinking too much water can cause brain damage.

Yes I remember it well.
Many things can cause brain damage, even non-physical things like toxic stress.

I avoid that too.

JJZ · 13/10/2025 09:08

ThejoyofNC · 12/10/2025 13:24

I am unvaccinated as are my children.

I come from a culture where probably 75% of people are unvaccinated. I did an awful lot of research and put a lot of consideration into my decision as I didn't want to blindly follow my culture when it came to medical choices. I looked into each individual vaccine and the ingredients it contained.

Ultimately I came to the decision not to vaccinate and my husband supported this (he was vaccinated as a child with everything except MMR).

I am very satisfied with my choice. And I'm not some moron who believes social media conspiracies which I know people will jump to, in fact I'm not even on social media at all.

I hope you’re happy with the possibility that your children might catch an entirely preventable disease, and if it proves fatal for them it is entirely on YOU.

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:06

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 02:37

There was no access at all to antibiotics between 1900 and 1925, seeing as they were discovered in 1928, but not synthesised until the 1940s, and only available to the general public after WWII.

Even if they were available, they might have helped with scarlet fever (caused by a bacterium — though an effective vaccine was actually developed for scarlet fever before antibiotics were successfully used against it). But antibiotics would not have been much use against measles, chickenpox, rubella, influenza, whooping cough or mumps, all caused by viruses.

Those viruses did (and still do) kill, and cause physical and cognitive disabilities and deformities just from the damage the virus itself does to the brain, eyes, hearing, and so on. These effects might be worsened by poverty, but they were not limited to the poor, and you couldn’t protect against them by being rich and well fed.

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Vaccine for scarlet fever?

Show us please?

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 09:04

@thecatfromneptune
By corporate press I mean news outlets owned by billionaires.

@thecatfromneptune
By corporate press I mean news outlets owned by billionaires. The same billionaires who have pharmaceutical shares and government positions.

I know that no medical professional ever pretends there are no adverse reactions. It's more about widespread messaging. Widespread messaging is that vaccines are safe, effective, and necessary, and that anyone refusing them is silly.

It's dishonest.

@HourlyTime the old ‘oh but you’ll inject yourself with filler’ thing. I don’t disagree with the rationale there. Personally I don’t use cosmetic procedures or weight loss jabs so it doesn't apply to me.

however, I don't think those who fear vaccine adverse reactions believe that the same risks exist with Mounjaro or filler? So I think this comparison is silly.

@thecatfromneptune the Wakefield thing all comes down to the gut brain axis.

Wakefield suggested the gut was damaged by the live virus in some children.
From this he proposed that that gut damage led to symptoms we now label ‘autism’ which were the result of brain injury via gut damage.

At the time the Lancet pulled his paper they stated there was no link between the gut and the brain and any suggestion that there is would increase vaccine hesitancy, so it was best to pull it.

We now know that there is a link between the gut and brain and I believe they knew it then too.

BertieBotts · 13/10/2025 09:04

Ifo · 13/10/2025 08:44

This may sound controversial. Those parents who refuse to vaccinate their children and if they fall very ill with any disease which are covered by vaccines, should pay for their treatment.

Why should the NHS who initially offered the vaccines free of charge, pay for the treatment?

Also, some people believe that not vaccinating your children is classed as neglect. I’m not sure about this.

No - completely disagree with this.

NHS pays for all kinds of treatments of injury or illness caused by decisions which they try to encourage people not to make. For example smoking related illness. This is how it should be. You don't change people's minds this way. Look at why they don't trust health advice, really look at it, and work on solving that. Not platitudes and not dismissals.

Nearly50omg · 13/10/2025 09:03

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:52

@Jumpingthruhoops actually nails it. She gets it.

So if we want to increase vaccination rates we should solidly quantify the risk of vaccine injury, and lay out what that can be, and how.

I have a friend who insists her child immediately regressed post-vaccination.

I've seen multiple posts on here also about it.

It's always put down to 'coincidence'

Do you really believe it's always coincidence? I don't, sorry I just don't.

My child stopped talking overnight after their 12 month vaccinations and only made a noise the next morning and for years afterwards even with many specialists working with them. Took nearly 10 years before they could speak clearly enough to be understood and yet the day of the vaccinations they were perfectly clear. Their autism symptoms also got a lot worse and again took many years of working with multiple specialists before that helped.
The neurologists said because they have autism the brain barrier is thinner and that leaves them open to vaccine injuries which they know full well about and everyone with autism/adhd etc are more prone to injuries from vaccines.

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 08:57

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:45

Do you think the outcome for that child would have been the same if they were a British child? As in living in Britain and not India. Was that family living in squalor and poverty, or were they well nourished in a clean environment?

This is just a bizarre view of viruses. We don’t merrily allow Ebola into Western countries thinking that better sanitation and “nourishment” will protect us from the effects of the virus, do we? As it happens, the death rate is a bit less in Western people who get it. Does that mean you’d be happy in relying on this to let it loose in the population?

We have plenty of data that shows that when it comes to complications from viruses, improved sanitation helps only some of them; and is not particularly related to measles or other illnesses like rubella or pertussis. No improved nutrition stops the rubella virus from damaging unborn babies, for example. Better medical treatment and vitamin A supplementation helps reduce the incidence of measles blindness, but it doesn’t stop the virus damaging the cells in the visual cortex in the first place.

This idea of vaccines coinciding with the development of public sanitation isn’t completely historically accurate, and it also relies on imagining that all these viruses are more like typhoid or cholera rather than smallpox or rubella. Viruses are diverse. Better sanitation reduces the effects of typhoid, but the modern world might actually enable measles (or, indeed, Covid) to spread faster and infect more of a population quicker, for example.

BertieBotts · 13/10/2025 08:56

There’s more risk of being in a car crash, we don’t go into any of those statistics when buying a car, or getting into one.

Well some people do, NCAP ratings for example are consumer crash tests performed on new cars, and rate how well the car protects occupants (driver, passengers) and also pedestrians if a collision were to occur.

Not everyone wants to look at NCAP ratings and there are legal minimum requirements for that reason - any new car you buy in a rich country with good infrastructure and regulations is going to have as a bare minimum, things like seatbelts, lights, airbags, ABS, isofix to fit child seats easily etc. Probably other things that benefit safety but that we take for granted or don't think about because the details are quite technical. And in the UK we have MOT inspections to ensure that the car is still safe to drive even when it is not brand new. We also have regulations built into new road and junction design, signage and signals which help to ensure that where there is a higher risk for a collision, things like visibility and redundancy are built in so that if someone does make a mistake while driving, other drivers have the chance to notice and react to this without causing a further hazard, so it is less likely that someone will be in the wrong place at the wrong time and have a crash, even if someone does do something wrong.

As a result, car crashes are both rarer (per mile/km driven) than they used to be and less likely to result in death or serious injury when they do occur, and this improves all the time as older junctions get upgraded to newer standards and older vehicles with fewer safety features leave the road.

Healthcare could be the same - rigorous standards to ensure a basic level of safety and efficacy can be assumed so that if you're not bothered about the details and just want the summary of what's recommended - you can do that. I believe this currently works well for the most part, and if you feel flummoxed by any medical decision, it's almost always a good idea to follow the recommendations set out by NICE, WHO, unicef etc.

However, agree it is helpful to have nuance in the discussion and transparency for those who are interested or worried. Just not so much to have that displayed as the first line - it's very unclear and confusing. It does make sense for the first line communications around public health to be clear and simple, with access to more detail if people want it but I think it's OK for this to have to be actively sought out.

The thing is I do think this is better today. When DS age 17 was born, that was the first time I had ever come across any suggestion that vaccines might not be safe and effective and it scared the crap out of me. Back then, there wasn't much from the "official" sources or at least I found it difficult to find, whereas I had antivaxxers falling over themselves trying to bombard me with so much information that I was falsely reassured (that not vaccinating would be the safer choice). The discussions online are far too polarised, I agree. Trying to discredit antivaxxers using ridicule is unhelpful because it drives people right back to those same sources of misinformation because they are validating of your fears (which they often stoked in the first place!) and offer (false) certainty.

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:52

@Jumpingthruhoops actually nails it. She gets it.

So if we want to increase vaccination rates we should solidly quantify the risk of vaccine injury, and lay out what that can be, and how.

I have a friend who insists her child immediately regressed post-vaccination.

I've seen multiple posts on here also about it.

It's always put down to 'coincidence'

Do you really believe it's always coincidence? I don't, sorry I just don't.

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:45

summerlovingvibes · 12/10/2025 22:30

I've done some stints of healthcare work in India and 3 different African countries.

I have seen diseases kill that we vaccinate against here. Things such as polio, measles etc. Absolutely destroy families and small village communities.

Equivalent of "A&E" in a rural hospital literally sitting with a mother holding her dying child in her arms outside the hospital because it was so full at the time they wouldn't let her in. The child died, he was 5, it was a preventable disease that we don't have here with thanks to vaccinations.

I have zero doubt in my mind that vaccinations safe lives. If we didn't mass vaccinate here you wouldn't get the "herd immunity".

I have absolutely no clue why people would risk their children's lives by not vaccinating. Yes we don't have Polio here. But if no one vaccinated we might.

Horrific and unnecessary.

Do you think the outcome for that child would have been the same if they were a British child? As in living in Britain and not India. Was that family living in squalor and poverty, or were they well nourished in a clean environment?

Ifo · 13/10/2025 08:44

This may sound controversial. Those parents who refuse to vaccinate their children and if they fall very ill with any disease which are covered by vaccines, should pay for their treatment.

Why should the NHS who initially offered the vaccines free of charge, pay for the treatment?

Also, some people believe that not vaccinating your children is classed as neglect. I’m not sure about this.

sashh · 13/10/2025 08:43

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:28

This is a false dichotomy. I want neither. It's about risk, it's about us, (antivaxxers if we must) not believing our kids are at risk of death from the illnesses.

Yes, we could be playing a dangerous game long-term, and it IS selfish. I'm just being totally honest as OP is genuinely asking.

I'm interested in MY child's health, not global statistics to scare me. I want my child to be as healthy as can be, and no, I don't want them to have brain injury if that's possible from vaccines.

Is it possible from vaccines? I have no idea but I do believe if it were it would be heavily suppressed.

So I'd just not rather risk it.

The possibility of brain injury is not supressed, it is very rare and there is a compensation payment system for when it does happen.

Having said that have you heard of Leah Betts? A teenager who died from drinking too much water. It is rare but drinking too much water can cause brain damage.

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:42

Raisinmeup · 12/10/2025 21:50

This explanation is totally bonkers to me.

People are not willing to risk any potential vaccination side effects but are willing to risk disease side effects, varying from life long disability all the way up to death, based on the hope that it probably won’t be too bad because living standards have improved?

I fear my question remains unanswered..

This is the crux of it.

One side thinks vaccine injury is a negligible risk.

Other side thinks serious complications from diseases is a negligible risk.

First side has data on their side.

Other side doesn't believe that data is robust or honest. So that data doesn't really matter.

Do you believe pharmaceutical companies are totally honest when their products are found to cause harm? Do we have any examples of how they behave when this occurs?

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 08:42

OchonAgusOchonOh · 13/10/2025 08:31

Being published in the Lancet gave the work credibility as I order for that to happen it had to go through a peer review process in a journal that is very difficult to get published in. As a parent, a preliminary study suggesting the vaccine could cause serious damage would be likely to give many pause for thought until the work was either replicated or refuted.

Except it didn’t — even at the time, as I said, 99% of people in the field did not believe he was correct, and said so. The vaccine misinformationists, however, created a panic. This was widely decried at the time and resulted in a big resurgence of measles cases then and years later when masked reappeared in teenagers from that cohort.

I just don’t personally get why anyone believed or believes random minor celebrities, right wing politicians, scaremongerers, and so on, over a huge amount of robust population data from centuries of scientific work. It’s a strange kind of kneejerk distrust of authority which only works when, as I’ve said upthread, it’s actually relying on the knowledge that other people are vaccinating, and that protects your child. In the days with no vaccinations people did not have the luxury of believing charlatans because they saw around them the results of these diseases, from polio to measles blindness.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 13/10/2025 08:41

thecatfromneptune · 13/10/2025 02:18

But you do understand of course that the chances of contracting measles weren’t low at all before vaccination?

Your argument relies entirely on the idea that herd immunity already exists! You’re starting from a false premise by assuming the chances of contracting measles are the same in a largely vaccinated population; and a non-vaccinated population.

Before vaccination, the reason that these diseases were known as routine childhood illnesses was because a very large percentage of the population got them — and not just one, but most of them — which made the numbers of children experiencing serious side effects very high. Much, much greater numbers than the small risk of vaccine injury in a herd immunity population. Measles routinely caused blindness, deafness, encephalitis with all sorts of results like learning and cognitive disabilities afterwards. (You would not have seen those children afterwards in your school or community, because physically or cognitively disabled children did not generally remain in mainstream education before the 1990s — they ended up at home or in special schools.)

The conjecture that the effects of measles would be less on a modern population because of better nutrition remains just an untested conjecture of yours, and one with plenty of suggestive factors against it, too. Measles is incredibly contagious — it can be caught by just being in a room where someone else with the virus has been in there beforehand for 10-15 minutes. In pre-vaccinated generations physical mobility was much less and children were less often in crowded, big, hot social and transport spaces: now one person with measles on a plane, train, supermarket, cafe or restaurant could potentially infect a much greater number of children than before (and faster). Ditto our use of touchscreens and propensity to spend more time in heated rooms. We also have many more children in the population who have been premature, or who live with health conditions that were less survivable 50 or 70 years ago.

The truth is, we have no idea if improved nutrition would change the rates of serious side effects of these diseases in the present day. There could even be confounding factors which could produce the reverse — and we would have no idea at all unless we had a totally non-vaccination cohort; and nobody sensible would want to go back to that just to see what would happen for the lolz.

To return to your initial point: if we didn’t have vaccination the chance of your child contacting measles would not be low, but high. It’s only low if you are in the small percentage of non-vaccinators who are relying on everyone else’s herd immunity from vaccination. If everyone did as you suggest, the risks vs benefits calculation would change. The whole mechanism of vaccination rests on the paradox that you can’t have both the statistical benefits of herd immunity, and also a large proportion of the population not vaccinate.

The key thing about vaccination is that it offers both an individual benefit but also a wider social one that helps others in lots of ways. Now, generally, the threshold for herd immunity is slightly lower than the entire population, so there is room for those for whom vaccination would be dangerous to remain unvaccinated, but still benefit from everyone else’s vaccination. But the whole idea of this is reserved for the small number who can’t for whatever reason have the vaccine (which no medical professional has ever denied exist).

By relying on everyone else’s herd immunity you are effectively “stealing” that statistical margin from those who are not able to have the vaccine at all. (And it only even works for you if not too many other people are doing it too.)

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I, and most of the neighbourhood kids, contracted measles in the early 70's, so yes I know it was a common disease. I also know at the time that the serious side effects were much more prevalent than in my parents generation. There are also studies discussing the impact of undernutrition and over crowding on the prevalence of deaths. Better nutrition obviously does not eliminate the risks.

You also seem to be mistaking my point as my opinion. My dc are all vaccinated. I have been pointing out what is a common anti vaxx viewpoint re chance of catching measles.

Re the government policy. Governmental policy accepts that a percentage of those vaccinated will suffer injury for the greater good of preventing a higher level of damage from the disease itself.

user098786533 · 13/10/2025 08:39

Charlizeangles · 12/10/2025 21:41

I suppose I would be considered an anti vaxer? I had all my CH Vax apart from the whooping cough one as lots of kids were having issues at the time ( mid 80s) I had all of the illnesses mumps,measles, chicken pox and German measles( rubella) before I was 11 no lasting effects, That said all of my kids had all theirs even though my oldest has her mmr in the height of the controversy. My husband has had none due to an allergy ( healthiest person I know!) but he did have the oral polio when our kids did as it a live vaccine? I unfortunately did have 2 COVID vaccines which afterwards my periods were never the same and a friend died in his early 40s as a direct result 😞my daughters refused the COVID ones and my eldest who is expecting her 4th baby is refusing flu,COVID and rsv whilst pregnant, she is very concerned as they are supposed to be putting the chicken pox vax in with the mmr which she doesn't want her new baby to have ( various reasons) I completely agree with her and I know others that do won't this cause more vaccine hesitantancy? As in most people are happy to have their kids and themselves vaccinated against diseases they are aware are very dangerous but pushing others and labelling people as anti vaxers due to not wanting certain ones could cause more problems?

You're correct. They've made an MMRV to replace the MMR, which many people will be more hesitant about.

I just think vaccines will become mandatory along with the digital ID eventually. So I think personal choice matters less to them.