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Cyclists have made my home city too stressful to live in any more

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valianttortoise · 12/10/2025 11:51

Cycling on the pavement (on e-bikes, racing bikes, whatever) at speed, silently, no lights often, no pausing for pedestrians to cross at zebra crossings or even green men. An e-bike nearly hit me yesterday while a policeman was literally standing there watching (outside a government building in case you're wondering where on earth I saw a live one) and he did nothing, just looked at me like "wow that was close!"

I can't handle it any more it's miserable. I can't drive so it's not a car thing it's a pedestrian safety thing.

I also think seeing that it's fine to do this, in balaclavas often, is sending a message that crime and bad behaviour in general are ok. No one will stop you.

Some men (boys? hard to tell in balaclavas) on e-bikes provided by the council took an angle grinder into a busy central square last week and just calmly cut out bicycles from stands to steal them (obviously a crime I feel conflicted about in itself but how long until they realise they can just mug pedestrians at knifepoint? It was 3pm, bright sunshine).

I find it kind of hard to believe what we're just supposed to live with now. No safe spaces for walking - forget about it if you're visually impaired.

If you live somewhere with no antisocial cyclists where is it please as I'd like to join you.

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Arran2024 · 17/10/2025 14:14

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 21:30

But spending on bike infrastructure isn't huge. It's tiny. It's a tiny fraction of transport infrastructure costs. Which is ridiculous, because money spent on bike infrastructure results in net government savings due to decreased health costs etc.

We know that if you put GOOD cycling infrastructure in (which might include bike lockers) people will use it.

It's very clear, from international examples, what works. We don't need to install bad infrastructure (and then shrug our shoulders and say "well, I guess people don't like bikes).

The Kingston scheme seems to have taken the decision to give all the main bus routes a cycle lane, which means all the main roads leading to other areas. I guess they thought this made sense as it means that people cycling those routes have a safer option now, as these are the most traffic dense areas.

But are these where people want to cycle?

For a start, all the cycle lanes lead to and from Kingston, but lots of journeys there are for shopping or socialising. It's not a major hub for say office workers.

They didn't look at where people would want to go on their bikes.

Anyway, for whatever reason, the demand to cycle along very busy roads doesn't seem to be there and hasn't increased.

I'm still cross they took out the bus lanes.

paradisecircus · 17/10/2025 08:55

Only read the OP and am sure this has been said, but in my city it's drivers who cause the biggest nuisance - speeding, racing, not having any patience with other road users. And it's drivers who can kill you, so - whilst I hate them being on pavements - I don't have much headspace to care about cyclists.

SandandSky · 17/10/2025 08:53

Cambridge has always had a large cycling culture so YABU if you’ve been in Cambridge forever and are only just frustrated with it now. Although I’ve never seen balaclavas here, personally.

anywhere else I guess YANBU if this is a huge change because I get it.

Even in Cambridge where it’s expected it can be wearisome - I use the road as a cyclist and in a car and find it infuriating how many cyclists jump red lights

ForPlumReader · 17/10/2025 08:47

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 21:46

Generally because I am legally riding on a shared pathway, and the road in question is a hellscape. You try playing chicken with the metal death boxes!

The comment was in relation to car drivers who mount the pavement to park but continue to drive until the find the perfect spot.

DdraigGoch · 17/10/2025 02:03

LameBorzoi · 17/10/2025 01:54

Cycling in bad weather can be really nice if you have the right gear, somewhere sheltered to put the bike, and good paths away from cars splashing you.

Yes, I don't care about rain, I just wear waterproofs. I don't care about snow or ice, I'd use studded tyres if it happened more often - according to a Finnish friend-of-a-friend it's annoying when the temperature hits minus 30 because the grease in his bearings solidifies and he has to get the bus to work. Wind is hard work unless you're electrically assisted.

You know what I do hate? The moron in the Isuzu pickup truck who close passed me on a slushy road and gave me wet socks. The other lane was clear, he could have gone in the wheel ruts of that and passed me safely. But no. That was when I asked for a helmet cam for Christmas.

If anyone is interested in how the Finns cope with cycling just below the Arctic Circle in winter, this is Oulu:

LameBorzoi · 17/10/2025 02:00

DdraigGoch · 17/10/2025 01:52

Parking is not a human right. I used to find it difficult to find a spot in my village, particularly on a Saturday evening (bloody second homes). I sometimes ended up parked at the bottom of the hill.

So I solved the problem by buying a bike and selling the car.

Exactly. This is what I mean when I say "we aren't willing to give up any car privileges".

If you try to remove a few parking spaces (that can never make a dent on transport needs) to make a bike path that could serve hundreds or thousands of people per day, people kick up the most almighty fuss!

Make a bike path that forces cars to pause for a second / give way when turning on or off a main road, it's a "traffic disaster".

LameBorzoi · 17/10/2025 01:54

DdraigGoch · 17/10/2025 01:49

People in Switzerland cycle. People in Finland cycle. While geography does make a small difference, the quality of the infrastructure matters far more.

Cycling in bad weather can be really nice if you have the right gear, somewhere sheltered to put the bike, and good paths away from cars splashing you.

DdraigGoch · 17/10/2025 01:52

TempestTost · 16/10/2025 02:08

You are speaking as if there is some other place for the cars to park. They already removed half the parking on this street to put the bike lanes in place. The remaining spots are the only parking for people coming to the residences and businesses. Accessible parking isn't a think in that whole neighbourhood because there is just so little of it.

What they should do is use the rear road as the main corridor for bikes, and keep the front road as a corridor mainly for cars, which would encourage them to stay out of the other roads the bikes are concentrated on. It's never going to be a great bike corridor, there are too many side roads branching off of it, and a lot of pedestrian crossings as well. Bikes and pedestrians are both safer if the bikes on that road are in the flow of traffic.

It's people thinking like you that have caused this completely shit design, as if they can simply remove all car infrastructure that gets in the way of bikes and it will be fine, and determined to make bike lanes where they won't ever work well.

Parking is not a human right. I used to find it difficult to find a spot in my village, particularly on a Saturday evening (bloody second homes). I sometimes ended up parked at the bottom of the hill.

So I solved the problem by buying a bike and selling the car.

DdraigGoch · 17/10/2025 01:49

TempestTost · 16/10/2025 01:58

This is only partly true.

Geography makes a differernce, I don't know why this is so difficult for some people to accept.

I live in a northern climate. There is a long winter which includes a lot of snow, slush, and icy roads, and quite cold temperatures. It's also very hilly.

Of the people who can cycle (and it's important to remember there are quite a lot of people who cannot cycle, or not cycle their commutes,) only a very small minority of those continue to cycle in the winter. It's not just the "serious" biker - most of those stop cycling for the winter months as well. Most who do it are very fit, and have a second, specialised (expensive) bike with differernt tyres.

I am not sure why people don't understand this. I know several people who live in places where few have cars because they don't make sense due to geography. People seem to understand that well enough, I am not sure why there is such a block about geography affecting biking.

People in Switzerland cycle. People in Finland cycle. While geography does make a small difference, the quality of the infrastructure matters far more.

BruFord · 16/10/2025 22:13

jetlag92 · 16/10/2025 22:10

Just buy a stiff golf umbrella - you extend it as you cross. You poke as they try to kill you.

@jetlag92 Oh, that a good idea for e-scooter riders who cut across pedestrians on pavements, poke them with a massive umbrella as they whizz by. 😂

jetlag92 · 16/10/2025 22:10

Just buy a stiff golf umbrella - you extend it as you cross. You poke as they try to kill you.

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 22:02

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 09:05

You may be right that it's a mess. The London Road section is a particular cause for frustration i believe. But actually, the experience here shows just how hard it is to put cycling infrastructure into an existing town system.

They just took out all the bus lanes to accommodate the cycle lanes for example.

They have also gone for ideas used in Northern Europe like floating bus stops which people here don't understand and which are actively dangerous.

Imo the best thing they have done for cyclists is the 20mph speed limit.

I suspect primarily it's another development that does not give cyclists any right of way. The cars travelling down the road have right of way, but the cyclists practically end up stopping at every cross street. When you have to do that, there's little point in being on a bike - you might as well walk.

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 21:46

dynamiccactus · 16/10/2025 16:52

Yes happens where I am too, with the same uncomprehending look if you suggest they should perhaps stay on the roads. I have no idea what is wrong with people.

Generally because I am legally riding on a shared pathway, and the road in question is a hellscape. You try playing chicken with the metal death boxes!

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 21:30

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 11:56

I think they ran out of money then had to find other ways to fund the rest of the project. Also, this area is entirely Lib Dem controlled - there are only about 3 Tory councillors, so they have no influence. But that's irrelevant tovthe points I'm making, which are around huge spend on cycling infrastructure and little uptake in usage.

Maybe it hasn't been implemented properly but often new town planning isnt a success - and lessons are learned. The Kingston Bypass was the first dual carriageway in the UK, now part of the A3. The exit and entry roads along that section are utterly bizarre - the planners didn't know the most effective system back them. Lessons were learned.

But anyway, cycling is just not that popular for lots of reasons. I use the bus mostly. I won't take my bike into town because of the significant risk that it will be stolen. They can put as many cycle lanes in as they like but while bike theft is as it is, I won't do it.

But spending on bike infrastructure isn't huge. It's tiny. It's a tiny fraction of transport infrastructure costs. Which is ridiculous, because money spent on bike infrastructure results in net government savings due to decreased health costs etc.

We know that if you put GOOD cycling infrastructure in (which might include bike lockers) people will use it.

It's very clear, from international examples, what works. We don't need to install bad infrastructure (and then shrug our shoulders and say "well, I guess people don't like bikes).

dynamiccactus · 16/10/2025 16:52

ForPlumReader · 16/10/2025 10:33

This happens all the time round here (particularly bad near local shops and around the school) and if you challenge the drivers they just look at you as if you've come down from outer space. They mount the kerb and keep the on moving, even if there are pedestrians walking right in front of them.

Yes happens where I am too, with the same uncomprehending look if you suggest they should perhaps stay on the roads. I have no idea what is wrong with people.

dynamiccactus · 16/10/2025 16:50

valianttortoise · 12/10/2025 22:50

It's so frustrating. If cyclists are too frightened to go on the road then answer is to walk not to ruin life for those on pavements.

You don't think that the answer might be for drivers to start driving their metal boxes more considerately?

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 11:56

I think they ran out of money then had to find other ways to fund the rest of the project. Also, this area is entirely Lib Dem controlled - there are only about 3 Tory councillors, so they have no influence. But that's irrelevant tovthe points I'm making, which are around huge spend on cycling infrastructure and little uptake in usage.

Maybe it hasn't been implemented properly but often new town planning isnt a success - and lessons are learned. The Kingston Bypass was the first dual carriageway in the UK, now part of the A3. The exit and entry roads along that section are utterly bizarre - the planners didn't know the most effective system back them. Lessons were learned.

But anyway, cycling is just not that popular for lots of reasons. I use the bus mostly. I won't take my bike into town because of the significant risk that it will be stolen. They can put as many cycle lanes in as they like but while bike theft is as it is, I won't do it.

Benvenuto · 16/10/2025 11:43

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 08:58

I don't think finishing it off next year will help that much as all it means is that a couple of main roads sections are still to be done, but basically we have a hub town and various roads leading to it from all over the borough and there are unlikely to be that many people cycling from one of the existing cycle lanes onto one of the to be completed ones or vice versa to make a huge difference.

No, they have looked at cycling traffic on the main roads and seen that the expensive infrastructure has made little difference to cycling take up.

So why aren’t your local Conservatives using LTN1/20 (an easy to read document created by their own party) to audit the Kingston scheme and to work out what has gone wrong? The Walthamstowe Mini-Holland scheme is very well-known as a success so why hasn’t Kingston been able to achieve the same results and why has it taken them a decade just to remodel a few streets?

I don’t know the area so I can’t tell you what has gone wrong, but if your opposition transport lead is claiming stuff that buying people bikes and encouraging them to cycle is the way forward, he doesn’t understand even the basics of road safety. We really ought to be able to expect that if councillors take on a brief, they will educate themselves about that area of local government so they can make informed decisions if they control the council or effectively challenge poor decisions when in opposition.

Benvenuto · 16/10/2025 11:28

TempestTost · 16/10/2025 01:58

This is only partly true.

Geography makes a differernce, I don't know why this is so difficult for some people to accept.

I live in a northern climate. There is a long winter which includes a lot of snow, slush, and icy roads, and quite cold temperatures. It's also very hilly.

Of the people who can cycle (and it's important to remember there are quite a lot of people who cannot cycle, or not cycle their commutes,) only a very small minority of those continue to cycle in the winter. It's not just the "serious" biker - most of those stop cycling for the winter months as well. Most who do it are very fit, and have a second, specialised (expensive) bike with differernt tyres.

I am not sure why people don't understand this. I know several people who live in places where few have cars because they don't make sense due to geography. People seem to understand that well enough, I am not sure why there is such a block about geography affecting biking.

Probably because geography is over used as an objection to putting cycling routes in. I can think of one place near me drivers confidently pronounce as being unsuitable for cycling as it’s steep - it is but not impossibly so (I can manage it fairly easily as a leisure cyclist on a basic mountain bike). The real problem cycling that way is the traffic. If somewhere is genuinely too steep it’s also not that hard to get off and push (unless you are using the bike as a mobility aid). There are places that are too steep for cycling - but these are fewer than people think.

Again with weather, it is a real issue but anyone interested in road safety will have seen endless pics of people doing #VikingBiking in the snow or transporting their Christmas trees by bike. Places like Helsinki enable it by gritting and clearing routes. Where I live, people still cycle in poor weather but my council has repeatedly refused requests to grit the main routes. They could do better for both cycle routes and pavements and it would stop people being hurt.

It’s also striking that we talk about “the people who can cycle” but rarely about the “people who can drive” - in my region that’s over a third of households who have to rely on public transport. Even where public transport is very good, there are still places it won’t go (for example between suburbs as most routes head to the city centre). Making it easier to cycle can massively help those people with work and education opportunities. Making it safe for older DC to cycle to school and other activities is also a real benefit for families with cars - ironically I often see the same people who complain about building cycle routes also want people to stop driving DC to school. Financially the benefits of cycling are such that bikes tend to pay for themselves if you use the lm regularly - even with what you describe in your city people would still have these benefits in the summer. Cycling rates amongst women also tend to go up once there are safe routes.

No cycling / road safety groups ever say that people should cycle - just that people should have safe routes so they are able to cycle if they want / have to. That’s really not unreasonable- and would also go a long way to solving the problems in the OP’s original post.

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 11:23

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 10:25

You would have to demolish everything and start again. In a very crowded town like Kingston, with its existing road infrastructure, that's not really possible.

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Kago2790 · 16/10/2025 11:01

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 09:46

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Huh. I think that they'll start phasing out public parking spaces in London about 12 months after this arrives.

Wow, 2026!

Been on the horizon for a good few years now but finally happening.

Hope they can be cheap. I would happily go car free if I could get one on demand at a reasonable price.

ForPlumReader · 16/10/2025 10:33

Tigerbalmshark · 16/10/2025 01:00

A 6 year old was knocked off their bike on the pavement directly outside DS’s primary school just last week. Head injury. Another parent mounted the curb and hit him, and then drove off without stopping. It happens.

This happens all the time round here (particularly bad near local shops and around the school) and if you challenge the drivers they just look at you as if you've come down from outer space. They mount the kerb and keep the on moving, even if there are pedestrians walking right in front of them.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 16/10/2025 10:31

I agree OP. Nearly got hit by a bicycle coming from behind me today.

They come behind you on the pavement silently and at speed, just assuming you are aware of them and will know not to (heaven forbid!) take a slight step to the right or left as they come so close to the line you are already walking.

Pedestrians shouldn’t have to assume there’s a risk that a bicycle will be trying to come by close behind them when minding their own business walking along.

Although don’t get me started on other pedestrians who have decided it’s reasonable to “tailgate” others (I am by no means a slow walker - I’m faster than average) rather than walking around those who as a bit slower than them on a wide pavement - so that you have to step to one side rather than them walking around you to prevent them stepping on your heel!

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 10:25

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 09:52

Yes - the removal of the bus lane is particularly irksome - the UK will never compromise on space for cars (including parking) so the bus lane went instead.

You would have to demolish everything and start again. In a very crowded town like Kingston, with its existing road infrastructure, that's not really possible.

LameBorzoi · 16/10/2025 09:52

Arran2024 · 16/10/2025 09:05

You may be right that it's a mess. The London Road section is a particular cause for frustration i believe. But actually, the experience here shows just how hard it is to put cycling infrastructure into an existing town system.

They just took out all the bus lanes to accommodate the cycle lanes for example.

They have also gone for ideas used in Northern Europe like floating bus stops which people here don't understand and which are actively dangerous.

Imo the best thing they have done for cyclists is the 20mph speed limit.

Yes - the removal of the bus lane is particularly irksome - the UK will never compromise on space for cars (including parking) so the bus lane went instead.