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Ian Watkins Dead

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Americano75 · 11/10/2025 17:25

Gosh, how sad. (100% sarcastic)

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/ian-watkins-dead-lostprophets-paedophile-36052854

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Ratafia · 12/10/2025 08:21

CrispsPlease · 12/10/2025 00:29

So...a male that raped a baby. A baby. has been killed by a fellow prisoner. Some of us are glad of that and voicing it.

You're choosing to pick apart my joy to learn of the killing of a baby rapist. That's your beef in all of this.

Got you.

Well, no. You called the killer, who has already been convicted for serious offences, your mate and wanted to buy him a drink. For all you know the person concerned is Ian Huntley or someone just as despicable as Watkins. On any interpretation he's a pretty awful person. Why do you want him to be your mate?

ACynicalDad · 12/10/2025 08:16

Saddest news I’ve heard in the last 2 1/2 seconds.

Ratafia · 12/10/2025 08:12

RoseGlass7 · 11/10/2025 23:32

He should have been hanged by the state, capital punishment for his crimes. I feel sorry for the inmate who may be given extra time.

Why? Who forced him to commit murder?

Simonjt · 12/10/2025 08:03

RoseGlass7 · 11/10/2025 23:32

He should have been hanged by the state, capital punishment for his crimes. I feel sorry for the inmate who may be given extra time.

You feel sorry for a fellow possible peadophile, rapist, murderer?

user1476613140 · 12/10/2025 07:31

ChessorBuckaroo · 11/10/2025 23:01

Your comment caught one or two out. What gave it away was "brilliant"😂

To be fair they'd have been nothing without Lee and H.

Thank you, was trying to lighten the mood of the thread😂

Glad you cottoned on🙊

NotrialNodeal · 12/10/2025 06:49

neverbeenskiing · 11/10/2025 21:29

You know nothing about my moral compass.
I have no sympathy whatsoever for Watkins or any other despicable piece of shit who abuses children. In fact I am a survivor of CSA and have worked with children who have been sexually abused and exploited my whole adult life. I can be disgusted by Watkin's crimes and still think that some of the comments and jokes on here, as well as the insulting comments about people who work in prisons, are in poor taste. If you don't agree that's perfectly fine but your insinuation that my feeling uncomfortable with people falling over themselves to express jubilation at anyones death means I'm somehow excusing child abuse is hugely offensive, as well as completely illogical.

I'm sorry to learn you're a csa victim. That is something I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Given what you've said I find it even more odd that you feel the way you do but conclude that it must mean you're a bigger and better person than I.

CherryRipe1 · 12/10/2025 04:38

I read a couple of snippets in the papers and if these are to be believed, he was killed because said prisoner who killed him, was raging mad over something to do with guitar lessons and the young groupies visiting Ian Watkins, so possibly not because he was a vile paedo. Wtf?

Ashersmom · 12/10/2025 02:26

I will never agree with the death penalty, but won't lose sleep over that piece of shit.

Frequency · 12/10/2025 01:36

I'm normally of the opinion that loss of liberty is the punishment, and prisoners should not have to live in fear or misery. I also think it is important to remember that no matter how abhorrent a person is, they are someone's son, someone's sibling etc, However, in this case, the only sad thing is that he is no longer suffering.

I would have preferred him to survive this stabbing, and the next one, and the one after that...

EmeraldShamrock000 · 12/10/2025 01:17

SorcererGaheris · 12/10/2025 00:10

@CountryQueen

Yes - I can understand people praising the prisoner for this specific murder, but they shouldn't be acting as though this fellow is some great human being overall. He's probably vile, and could possibly be a child abuser himself.

Makes me wonder if Hitler had murdered a paedophile in his time, if some people would forget all of his other horrendousness.

💯. There was a news article on a baby killer, who got beaten up with a frozen water bottle in prison. Great. The attacker was just as vile as the baby killer, he hunted down, battered his ex GF and her male friend to death 10 years ago.
I assume this killer will be evil too.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 12/10/2025 01:04

Happyjoe · 11/10/2025 19:56

Ah, well, not always really the case is it? I mean, if someone had murdered Hitler when he was 18 years old, well..

I do believe some people are so flipping evil that I am happy to smile a little when they've been taken away.

The only way to know what was being prevented though would be if you could time travel, and then you could re-direct his life so no murder needed.

Also, I notice you went for 18 and not 8, or as a baby.

DrowningInSyrup · 12/10/2025 01:00

IMakeDealsWithTheDevil · 12/10/2025 00:52

Well I had to vote then started reading the thread.
It's what I normally do. Just explaining why the votes look 40/50. It seems I wasn't the only one either.

I knew it was sarcastic, but I also thought it was really glib. Seemed a strange start to such a serious topic. I'm not even sure why it's an AIBU.

Gigglebucket · 12/10/2025 00:57

MidnightPatrol · 11/10/2025 17:26

Who is he?

Keep up.

IMakeDealsWithTheDevil · 12/10/2025 00:52

EnjoyingTheArmoire · 12/10/2025 00:49

Really?

No clues at all from context, or any of the subsequent posts by OP, or the hundreds of posts of discussion?

Well I had to vote then started reading the thread.
It's what I normally do. Just explaining why the votes look 40/50. It seems I wasn't the only one either.

EnjoyingTheArmoire · 12/10/2025 00:49

IMakeDealsWithTheDevil · 12/10/2025 00:39

Very hard to know if your OP is sarcastic or if you've come on here to provoke mums.

Really?

No clues at all from context, or any of the subsequent posts by OP, or the hundreds of posts of discussion?

OonaStubbs · 12/10/2025 00:48

Paedophiles are sub-human IMO.

CountryQueen · 12/10/2025 00:46

KillMeMounjaro · 12/10/2025 00:44

I don’t think anyone is lamenting the death of this repulsive creature. Everyone is disgusted by his crimes.

But if Watkins had murdered one of his fellow Cat A prisoners, who had committed similarly serious and horrific crimes (but not received the publicity that being in a successful rock band brings) would you be applauding him? Wanting to buy him a pint, and, sickeningly, calling him your “mate”?

Exactly. Doesn’t even know who killed him but “yeah mate, let me buy you a pint”.

CountryQueen · 12/10/2025 00:44

CrispsPlease · 12/10/2025 00:09

I couldn't give a shiny shit. I know he did us all a favour and killed a rapist of a baby. That's all that matters. You can preach to someone who cares if you're banging the "human rights" drum for the monster. Because I don't care.

Read all my posts before accusing me of banging any fucking drum 🤷🏽‍♀️

Your celebration of violence in prisons and public encouraging “yes mate, have a drink on me buddy” mentality has consequences. For all of the people who do jobs you wouldn’t want to do. HTH 🙄

IMakeDealsWithTheDevil · 12/10/2025 00:44

For me I think it's fair to say I had forgotten all about him and am happy to continue forgetting all about him. No joy taken, just moving on.

KillMeMounjaro · 12/10/2025 00:44

CrispsPlease · 12/10/2025 00:29

So...a male that raped a baby. A baby. has been killed by a fellow prisoner. Some of us are glad of that and voicing it.

You're choosing to pick apart my joy to learn of the killing of a baby rapist. That's your beef in all of this.

Got you.

I don’t think anyone is lamenting the death of this repulsive creature. Everyone is disgusted by his crimes.

But if Watkins had murdered one of his fellow Cat A prisoners, who had committed similarly serious and horrific crimes (but not received the publicity that being in a successful rock band brings) would you be applauding him? Wanting to buy him a pint, and, sickeningly, calling him your “mate”?

InOverMyHead84 · 12/10/2025 00:43

I cannot take joy in death.

But this comes close. That in itself saddens me further.

Just awful.

Thunderpants88 · 12/10/2025 00:43

Zanatdy · 11/10/2025 21:28

I read them at the time, and I do think about it randomly sometimes. Utterly shocked how a mother could sacrifice her baby like that. If anyone hasn’t read the sentencing remarks from the trial - trust me; don’t do it. Harrowing. I shed no tears.

I agree. I burst into tears (and I only cry about three times a year!) and my 5 year old son came in and hugged me. I don’t think I have ever hugged one of my children so tightly.

those Mothers deserve to die and rot in hell too. The only thing I have read that was as disturbing was the details of the Jamie Bulger case but it was children who were, themselves, vulnerable and children. But what Ian and those mothers did was incomprehensible. And how young those babies were is unthinkable.

I don’t understand why the walking female wombs (I refuse to call them Mothers) are not named? Was their identify protected to protect the children and babies in question.

JohnTheRevelator · 12/10/2025 00:41

POTC · 11/10/2025 17:29

Phew, your "Gosh, how sad" was supposed to be sarcastic! That really didn't come across, it seemed sincere and I couldnt believe anyone would actually mean that!

Yes,for about 5 seconds I thought it was serious! Until I saw the word 'paedophile' in the link,I thought it was referring to Ian Watkins from Steps.

InterIgnis · 12/10/2025 00:40

CountryQueen · 11/10/2025 23:10

I’m not being an arse, or not trying to anyway. It’s the constant “well, they’re all segregated, sex offenders have separate wings. Rapists are hated, there’s a price on their head, they have a shit time” etc that I’m trying to correct. It’s really not the case. Not even nearly.

Yes, that prison has a very small unit housing a handful of VPs. Some have bigger VP units. Many have none at all other than the actual seg (every prison has one of these and it’s meant to be temporary) which is for any prisoner, not just sex offenders. I’m not going to say where any particular prisoner is or where they have been but it’s not “bollocks” that thousands of sex offenders who have committed crimes against children do their time alongside all variety of other offenders. Every day, every week. Year in, year out. It’s the norm within our prisons and posters who suggest he might’ve been killed for another reason such as a debt or a personal grievance are probably right.

This.

Take this with the proverbial grain of salt, but from what I’ve heard about his time in prison (which isn’t a lot, and is second hand), he wasn’t exactly cowering away and remorseful. He remained as arrogant as ever, and thoroughly enjoyed his celebrity and criminal infamy. He also spent most of his time high, and willingly involved himself with even more criminal prison activity (rather than it being solely the case that he was forced or coerced into it).

He was, simply put, no less a dickhead inside prison than he was outside of it. Being a dickhead to his fellow inmates in Wakefield specifically did mean that his chances of getting his throat cut were significantly higher, however. It’s highly likely that he was stabbed because he wasn’t paying his accumulated debts and/or crossed someone he shouldn’t have.

IMakeDealsWithTheDevil · 12/10/2025 00:39

Very hard to know if your OP is sarcastic or if you've come on here to provoke mums.

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