DH has a cousin of his visiting on Sunday. This cousin has never been particularly nice to me, as he just chats to DH the entire time and takes no interest in me or the children at all. This is despite me making a big effort to bond. Literally, I don’t even get a “how are you?” I just stand around like a spare part and the children for some reason, look forward to his infrequent visit, but then end up deflated as they are once again, basically ignored whilst DH and cousin chat for hours.
DH knew I was really not looking forward to this visit, but has come home today to tell me he is golfing on Saturday now, so he’ll be gone half the day.
I’m upset, because I feel like it was inconsiderate to organise the golf knowing that me and the kids will be having not a great day on the Sunday. DH can’t believe he is getting stick for playing one round of golf.
I don’t know if I’m just being unreasonable. I’m very tired today, so not sure if I’ll feel this way tomorrow and hoping you can help me to see if I’m the issue or DH.