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I stand with the Jewish community (I don’t care if people get annoyed or call me a bot)

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sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 17:36

As above ❤️

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craigth162 · 10/10/2025 18:05

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 17:44

First two answers prove my point beautifully.

Cheers.

What point do they prove? I genuinely meant it when I said who cares who you support - it's 100% your choice and your business.

soupyspoon · 10/10/2025 18:05

Its interesting some of the responses on here.

When a thread is started about standing with Palestinians, I dont recall snidey or snipey remarks like 'I'll update the spreadsheet' and 'cool'.

Anyway, its time to focus on the ceasefire and hope that plans move forward for releases and calm. Aid will be making its way through to those suffering in Gaza. Support should be shown also for Jewish people in this country to live safe lives.

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 18:04

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 18:02

You need to virtue signal on MN to sleep? How sad.

Ah I remember your username now.

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InsectsMatter · 10/10/2025 18:04

LBFseBrom · 10/10/2025 17:38

Why would anyone be annoyed? You're entitled to your opinion. Lots of us support Jewish people, also support Palestinians. We just want the conflict to stop and for them to peacefully coexist.

If you support Palestinians I am sure you will be thrilled at Trump’s peace deal 🙏

INX · 10/10/2025 18:03

OP, since you don't have an AIBU question

Could you at least tell us what standing with the Jewish community involves?

What are you doing for them to make a difference?

Echobelly · 10/10/2025 18:03

People object to standing with Israel after what its government has done to Gaza - not to standing with Jews. Conflating Jews with Israel isn't very helpful - as posters have pointed out, many diaspora Jews, and Israelis, object to Netanyahu's government and their actions.

And i think the vast majority of people who disagree with it still have utmost sympathy for Israeli hostages and their families.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 18:02

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 18:00

Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

You need to virtue signal on MN to sleep? How sad.

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 18:00

Scrope · 10/10/2025 17:59

Do point out the antisemitism.

If you can’t see it I can’t help you.

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sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 18:00

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 17:59

No, they really don't show that. They show that Mumsnetters don't like virtue signalling or goading.

Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

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Scrope · 10/10/2025 17:59

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Do point out the antisemitism.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 17:59

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No, they really don't show that. They show that Mumsnetters don't like virtue signalling or goading.

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 17:58

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Thank you.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/10/2025 17:52

Presumably you mean the UK Jewish community. But it’s worth noting that a good many Israelis loathe Netanyahu and have long wanted the war to stop. Just the other day the Beeb broadcast an extremely outspoken tirade from the father of a son who was taken hostage at 21. The father quite clearly loathes Netanyahu and his government.

Echobelly · 10/10/2025 17:50

I'm Jewish and i don't think standing with us is particularly controversial with the vast majority of people.

Apologies if I've misunderstood you, but I hope you're not trying to imply that there's something not socially acceptable, dare I say it, 'non-woke', about supporting the Jewish community. Because I don't much like us being used as a prop for that kind of discourse.

MemorableTrenchcoat · 10/10/2025 17:49

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 17:48

Mostly posting on Mumsnet, a little of eating matzo soup.

Oooh, that’ll show ‘em!

dottyplants · 10/10/2025 17:48

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ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 10/10/2025 17:48

MemorableTrenchcoat · 10/10/2025 17:47

How does this ‘standing with’ manifest itself?

Mostly posting on Mumsnet, a little of eating matzo soup.

Scrope · 10/10/2025 17:48

Most of the Jewish people I know are also concerned about genocide in Gaza. Last time I was down on a protest, the first person I ran into was an Israeli ex-colleague.

deeahgwitch · 10/10/2025 17:47

LBFseBrom · 10/10/2025 17:38

Why would anyone be annoyed? You're entitled to your opinion. Lots of us support Jewish people, also support Palestinians. We just want the conflict to stop and for them to peacefully coexist.

This 💯

individualbelief · 10/10/2025 17:47

Jewish people and the Israeli government are very different it’s perfectly possible to stand with Jewish people and also Palestinian people but not Hamas. It’s not that tangled a web that it can’t be picked apart by common sense and compassion for all.

sunflower1022 · 10/10/2025 17:47

LBFseBrom · 10/10/2025 17:38

Why would anyone be annoyed? You're entitled to your opinion. Lots of us support Jewish people, also support Palestinians. We just want the conflict to stop and for them to peacefully coexist.

Posters have said there has been an influx of ‘pro Israel’ posts recently, which is apparently part of Netanyahu’s great plan 🙄

I can assure you I’m not a bot; I am a German who is married to a Brit and lives in the UK (for now),

As an aside, I was sad to learn of the death of Rochelle Majer Krich last month, an author whose novels I enjoyed when I was younger.

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MemorableTrenchcoat · 10/10/2025 17:47

How does this ‘standing with’ manifest itself?

INX · 10/10/2025 17:47

What's your Am I Being Unreasonable question?

Arlanymor · 10/10/2025 17:45

LBFseBrom · 10/10/2025 17:38

Why would anyone be annoyed? You're entitled to your opinion. Lots of us support Jewish people, also support Palestinians. We just want the conflict to stop and for them to peacefully coexist.

Absolutely agree.

I would prefer a 'statement' that encompassed this view.