Sil constantly brings up partners ex’s and I don’t know if I’m only noticing it more now or she’s doing it more because we are due baby in a few weeks and the attention isn’t on her but it’s really getting to me now. Last night she again brought up one of his ex’s and said she chats away to her all the time and she really liked them together and I just couldn’t stop myself and blurted out yeah I really get one well with that girl your boyfriend was cheating on you with she’s a lovely girl. Sil just sat in silence then the rest of the time I was there. His other sister has in the past told her to shut up about it and when she heard what I said she couldn’t hold back her laughter and said she deserved what I said. Partner just said she’s been winding me up to get a reaction and she finally got it not my fault it was that reaction. If I’m honest I could have said a lot worse than I did. Should I of been the bigger person and ignored her or did she get what was coming.
For background info sil always needs to be centre of attention and will do anything to make sure if she’s not happy no one else is happy. Her relationship is so toxic her partner openly cheats all the time and has told her many times he only stays with her because of the children and the fact she threatens to harm herself when he dose leave.