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Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/10/2025 12:27

The FiLiA Women's Liberation Conference was targeted overnight, the attackers even live tweeted the violence.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

Local politicians are so far silent.

This is literally terrorism, using fear and violence to shut down legitimate peaceful discussions.

Video of the incident: https://x.com/TransBashBack/status/1976555969439223934

Live: Venue vandalised and protesters demonstrate at feminist conference

The Brighton Centre has been vandalised as a feminist conference begins there today.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

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FirstCuppa · 11/10/2025 08:55

DoubtfulCat · 11/10/2025 08:34

There was a judgement yesterday about the right to shock and offend. A man who burned a copy of the Q’ran (sp?) was cleared because the judge explicitly said that the right to freedom of speech includes the right to shock and to offend. I think people like Berry, and the “protesters”, should think about that.

If you can’t argue your case, and you have to resort to preventing the other side from making their arguments, perhaps you should consider whether your case is actually that logical/rational/reasonable after all.

That sounds far too logical for a group of men who spent a whole day chanting "shame on you" in dresses https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/1976725777053106577?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1976725777053106577%7Ctwgr%5E5c3ded15c35d883fb5e5d60cc731c9e8820c9688%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Ftimesofindia.indiatimes.com%2Fworld%2Fuk%2Fsmashed-windows-graffiti-and-intimidation-feminist-conference-venue-in-brighton-vandalised-by-trans-activists-watch%2Farticleshow%2F124470679.cms

cavakaggyreborn (@cavakaggyreborn) on X

The 'Be kind' men at Filia 2025 Brighton

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/1976725777053106577?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1976725777053106577%7Ctwgr%5E5c3ded15c35d883fb5e5d60cc731c9e8820c9688%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Ftimesofindia.indiatimes.com%2Fworld%2Fuk%2Fsmashed-windows-graffiti-and-intimidation-feminist-conference-venue-in-brighton-vandalised-by-trans-activists-watch%2Farticleshow%2F124470679.cms

TheKeatingFive · 11/10/2025 08:52

These men do not respect women's legal rights, do not consider their consent to be important, do not want them to speak. They think they can intimate women into STFU with violent behaviour.

They're just incels of a slightly different flavour.

FirstCuppa · 11/10/2025 08:51

Greenmouldycheese · 11/10/2025 08:38

This is so silly.

Nothing silly about wanting to vote for a party that represents 51% of the population properly.
I don't want to be forced to vote Right just because they know basic biology and don't pander to violence.

ParmaVioletTea · 11/10/2025 08:49

FirstCuppa · 10/10/2025 12:40

I'd also like to reiterate that this is not a left wing thing - you cannot get further right wing than a group who want to take rights away from 51% of society.

We need to stop enabling their division of the left.

Indeed. I didn’t get there till about 6pm last night (work had to be done yesterday!) but it was quiet. However, to get in to the building there was a wire fenced off walkway, a hand bag search, then a walk through electronic scanner gates. Just to join over 2,000 women, mostly organising around MVAWG, and women’s rights internationally. Then when I left the building, after the fab show Queenagers, there were 4 policemen just making sure women could leave unharassed.

The so called “social justice warriors” show themselves for who they are: violent women haters. They should go back to Afghanistan.

Greenmouldycheese · 11/10/2025 08:38

FirstCuppa · 10/10/2025 12:40

I'd also like to reiterate that this is not a left wing thing - you cannot get further right wing than a group who want to take rights away from 51% of society.

We need to stop enabling their division of the left.

This is so silly.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/10/2025 08:36

JaquelineHide · 11/10/2025 08:27

More intimidation from the aggressive men. And the police are doing feck all again.

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FFS.

DoubtfulCat · 11/10/2025 08:34

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/10/2025 08:02

It's quite a sight to behold isn't it? It's to be expected that various randoms on the internet will minimise VAWG. But to see an elected MP stating that Brighton should be a no go area for women to meet is quite something.
As ever it shows how immensely powerful and influential these people are. They can get an MP to make such an anti democratic, anti woman statement without any self awareness of the implications

Another once respected public servant beclowned by their adherence to this ideology.

There was a judgement yesterday about the right to shock and offend. A man who burned a copy of the Q’ran (sp?) was cleared because the judge explicitly said that the right to freedom of speech includes the right to shock and to offend. I think people like Berry, and the “protesters”, should think about that.

If you can’t argue your case, and you have to resort to preventing the other side from making their arguments, perhaps you should consider whether your case is actually that logical/rational/reasonable after all.

JaquelineHide · 11/10/2025 08:27

More intimidation from the aggressive men. And the police are doing feck all again.

Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?
dudsville · 11/10/2025 08:07

CohensDiamondTeeth · 11/10/2025 08:04

Here is the HM Prison Service 2023 stats on rates of sexual offending.

As you can see trans identified men are up to 5 times more likely to be in prison for sexual offenses than other men.

Thank you so much. My lefty DH is still on the fence, was 100% twaw, we can't know their pain, etc., but he's now on the fence and when I raised the issue of the violence at the conference I inadvertently through this in and he needed a source.

ArabellaSaurus · 11/10/2025 08:07

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/10/2025 08:02

It's quite a sight to behold isn't it? It's to be expected that various randoms on the internet will minimise VAWG. But to see an elected MP stating that Brighton should be a no go area for women to meet is quite something.
As ever it shows how immensely powerful and influential these people are. They can get an MP to make such an anti democratic, anti woman statement without any self awareness of the implications

Another once respected public servant beclowned by their adherence to this ideology.

Exactly. Even the violent aggressive males attacking women is unfortunately not all that surprising - what's noteworthy and appalling is Sian Berry suggesting women are not free to meet and discuss women's rights in certain places in the UK. She seems to suggest she attempted to intervene with the booking - if true, this could lay her open to legal action.

Namelessnelly · 11/10/2025 08:04

ElizaMulvil · 11/10/2025 07:25

It is not a left-wing problem. E.g. the Communist Party (surely left !) and many in the Labour Party definitely don't believe men can be women. They think it's organised to split the working class ( ditto racism), it's unity being the biggest threat the 'elite' face.

The Labour Party are firmly convinced men can be women, David lammey believes men can grow a cervix. It was only last year our prime minister was saying women could have a penis. They only stopped saying it when it became clear it was not popular with voters. So are you saying they wear lying when they said they believed men could be women or are they lying when they say they believe men can’t be women?

CohensDiamondTeeth · 11/10/2025 08:04

dudsville · 11/10/2025 07:50

Thanks for this, do you have a source I can use? Or if anyone else knows the source for the percentage of tm in prison with these convictions ?

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Here is the HM Prison Service 2023 stats on rates of sexual offending.

As you can see trans identified men are up to 5 times more likely to be in prison for sexual offenses than other men.

Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?
MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/10/2025 08:02

EasternStandard · 11/10/2025 07:19

Why all these posts justifying male violence? Is it in every situation where you agree men will get angry so just expect it or just this one?

It's quite a sight to behold isn't it? It's to be expected that various randoms on the internet will minimise VAWG. But to see an elected MP stating that Brighton should be a no go area for women to meet is quite something.
As ever it shows how immensely powerful and influential these people are. They can get an MP to make such an anti democratic, anti woman statement without any self awareness of the implications

Another once respected public servant beclowned by their adherence to this ideology.

Namelessnelly · 11/10/2025 08:01

Wordsmithery · 10/10/2025 13:35

Violence and vandalism are unacceptable and of course illegal but describing this as terrorism is a stretch. And this is nothing like life under the Taliban, where rape and violence against women in their own homes is considered perfectly acceptable. Let's keep things in perspective.

How do you think the taliban started? They didn’t just lock all women down one day. It’s been a gradual drip drip. And yes this is terrorism. They are using violence to get their own way. If a group can be deemed terrorists for attacking aeroplanes for political aims, why can a group not be deemed terrorists for vandalising buildings for political aims?

dudsville · 11/10/2025 07:50

heathspeedwell · 10/10/2025 14:23

We have many years of evidence now that the violence and aggression in this debate comes from one side only.

Men who identify as women still behave like men. In fact over 70% of the transwomen currently in prison in the UK have convictions for rape, sexual assault and other violent crime.

It's not really surprising that most women don't want to share changing rooms with these men.

Thanks for this, do you have a source I can use? Or if anyone else knows the source for the percentage of tm in prison with these convictions ?

ElizaMulvil · 11/10/2025 07:25

labamba18 · 10/10/2025 14:32

They are left wing when the left pander to them and the right wants to protect women and girls (when it comes to this subject - not others).

The right’s motivations may not be championing women and girls but they aren’t the ones calling for men in women’s space. We need to accept this is a left wing problem.

It is not a left-wing problem. E.g. the Communist Party (surely left !) and many in the Labour Party definitely don't believe men can be women. They think it's organised to split the working class ( ditto racism), it's unity being the biggest threat the 'elite' face.

EasternStandard · 11/10/2025 07:19

Kimura · 10/10/2025 22:55

No, Brighton is not their backyard.

Well, it's great that you think that, but you know full well what Brighton's reputation is when it comes to LBGTQ ete etc. It has the largest non-straight population in the UK. If it's not their backyard, then they don't have one 🤷🏻‍♂️

No, they don’t have a reason to be angry.

Unfortunately you don't get to tell people what they can or can't get angry about.

If a violent male gets angry and beats up his wife, does it mean he has a reason and we just don’t agree with him???

Yes? An awful and unjustifiable reason. Almost everything we do happens for a reason, or we wouldn't do it.

Just because those people were violent and vandalised public property, does not mean they have a reason.

Reasons aren't just things you think are morally correct.

Why all these posts justifying male violence? Is it in every situation where you agree men will get angry so just expect it or just this one?

ArabellaSaurus · 11/10/2025 06:56

KeepTalkingBeth · 11/10/2025 06:18

A female MP trying to justify violence against women

How bloody depressing

Yes, I'm not often shocked by politicians talking nonsense, but that is shocking.

Berry should resign.

ArabellaSaurus · 11/10/2025 06:55

KTheGrey · 10/10/2025 12:47

Interesting that they have moved from noise and intimidation - sometimes physical assault - of women to vandalism. Because recent history suggests that police stand about like lemons when women are being intimidated, so that’s worked pretty well for the misogynists; however, the police can be less inert when it comes to vandalism in public spaces. Perhaps they have better / clearer instructions from the higher ups.

The comfort I get from this is that the women might be in less danger, and misogynist activists are slightly more likely to find themselves facing legal consequences. Is it an extinction burst? I am hoping so.

Property is respected more than women, is how that looks.

TheKeatingFive · 11/10/2025 06:24

jeaux90 · 10/10/2025 13:20

Yes nothing like smashing things up and ruining the FILIA conference to show us how vulnerable they are. Entitled, male assholes. I hope they get arrested.

This. 100%

KeepTalkingBeth · 11/10/2025 06:18

miraxxx · 11/10/2025 02:43

Sian Berry and a few pps here seem to think Brighton belongs to violent thugs and is a no-go area for women.
https://x.com/sianberry/status/1976671744292438483

A female MP trying to justify violence against women

How bloody depressing

WaryCrow · 11/10/2025 05:40

To answer the op, because the UK is fine and very much on board with the oppression of non-trendy groups and women. Especially of women. Men want us to go back to doing all the important work for free, it is women that have ruined the economy doncha know, not male bankers and rich foreigners and certainly not male drivers of shit technology. We are to blame for all of men’s problems.

Starting with them being alive, presumably.

Hey, it distracts from inequality and the number of billionaires being created out of public money and who cares for a few worthless slags caught up in it.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 11/10/2025 01:08

Kimura · 10/10/2025 23:01

I don't find it funny. I'm just not scared of people with signs exercising their right to express their views. And if I believe in something, or disagree with something strongly enough, I will - and have, many times - get out into the thick of it and made my voice heard.

Are you going to Brighton tomorrow to stand up to these bullies and show them that their tactics aren't working?

I sadly couldn't attend this weekend, but thanks directly due to your posts on here I have bought a ticket to show my support. Women are allowed in this country to hold meetings wherever they want. Men's anger about that - totally irrelevant. A man who is angry about me and other women voicing our views is a misogynist.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 11/10/2025 00:56

Kimura · 10/10/2025 21:58

A feminist conference is not trans women’s backyard.

Brighton, basically the UK's capital of inclusivity, is their 'backyard'. It's the equivalent of holding a Ranger's fan club meeting in the carpark of Celtic's ground.

It is about women and for women. Nothing to do with men identifying as women. If they want to be represented and to be heard, they have to organise their own conference.

I agree. But the way protesting works is that those who don't agree try to disrupt the thing they don't agree with.

So no, they have no reason to be angry.

Who are you (or any of us) to decide what people should or shouldn't get angry about? They quite obviously do have their reasons, you just don't agree with them.

Brighton is a city in the UK, open to everyone, including feminist women. In the UK we are allowed to hold conferences free from interference from violent men in masks. And we will. And continue to do so. The moreso in fact. The more I am challenged by a weirdo bloke the more I enjoy continuing to do what I have always done which is to support women and girls.

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