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Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/10/2025 12:27

The FiLiA Women's Liberation Conference was targeted overnight, the attackers even live tweeted the violence.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

Local politicians are so far silent.

This is literally terrorism, using fear and violence to shut down legitimate peaceful discussions.

Video of the incident: https://x.com/TransBashBack/status/1976555969439223934

Live: Venue vandalised and protesters demonstrate at feminist conference

The Brighton Centre has been vandalised as a feminist conference begins there today.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

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lcakethereforeIam · 10/10/2025 16:48

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:32

Which protesters throughout history have attacked a rights organisation's meeting venue simply for meeting, please?

Well, there's those men who attacked the women for attending university and the men who attacked the women meeting and marching for women's suffrage.

I think there's a common thread. If I could just put my finger on it.

Mistyglade · 10/10/2025 16:47

Brainstorm23 · 10/10/2025 13:57

My irony meter is about to explode at the contradiction in this quote:-

They added: “Speakers at FiLiA claim to advocate for ‘protecting women’s spaces’ and ‘sex-based rights’ but routinely advocate for the erasure of women’s bodily autonomy and self-determination.

Er..you what now?

Siri, show me a load of gobbledygook!

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 10/10/2025 16:46

Its the special men doing their special men thing again.
Predictable, violent, and yet again proving their claims that they're all perfectly sane and safe to be around women and girls.

Noodledog · 10/10/2025 16:45

@Kimura To be clear - Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to. The people this particular bunch are angry about popped up in their back yard, so they went and broke their stuff. It's not that deep.

Violent people often get violent when they are angry, yes. Which is why society has such things as police, courts and prisons.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 10/10/2025 16:41

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/10/2025 14:50

No other coverage but the local press here - https://www.brightonandhovenews.org/2025/10/10/218101/

Very poor article. No comments from local MPs.

Apocketfilledwithposies · 10/10/2025 16:37

Absolutely disgusting.

These violent men need the full force of the law throwing at them. 🤬

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:35

Hmmm

Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?
Boomer55 · 10/10/2025 16:35

Sounds more trans activists than right wing. 🤷‍♀️

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:33

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:31

Again, nobody in this thread has suggested that Filia should listen to them.

You said they were the 'people not listening', so you absolutely did.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:32

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:28

Nothing is 'hard and fast' 100% of the time.

And women have smashed plenty up throughout history. You've never seen a woman in a riot? Who was smashing whisky bottles with hatchets during the temperance movement?

I haven't made a single excuse for anyone on this thread. I can't help it if people don't know their history.

Which protesters throughout history have attacked a rights organisation's meeting venue simply for meeting, please?

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:31

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

Again, nobody in this thread has suggested that Filia should listen to them.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:28

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:17

Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to.

This is absolutely NOT a hard and fast rule, otherwise women would be smashing stuff up all over the place. Your central premise does not hold up. That's why it sounds like you're making excuses for them.

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Nothing is 'hard and fast' 100% of the time.

And women have smashed plenty up throughout history. You've never seen a woman in a riot? Who was smashing whisky bottles with hatchets during the temperance movement?

I haven't made a single excuse for anyone on this thread. I can't help it if people don't know their history.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 16:24

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

mysterious really, isn’t it.

TheProfoundlyPeculiarPointOfPete · 10/10/2025 16:22

where rape and violence against women in their own homes is considered perfectly acceptable

You're right that it's not as widespread and extreme as the Taliban but the principle is the same. And unfortunately I don't believe that this country finds rape and violence against women unacceptable when the consequences of committing rape are frequently small to none for the perpetrator.

JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:21

Also why SHOULD Filia listen to these people? Filia is a women's rights organisation.

hydriotaphia · 10/10/2025 16:20

No, spray-painting and smashing windows isn't terrorism. No more than vandalising aeroplanes is. It is criminal damage, absolutely fair enough to prosecute as such, but it is not terrorism. I don't agree with the current government approach of characterising protest as terrorism.

Kucinghitam · 10/10/2025 16:19

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JaquelineHide · 10/10/2025 16:17

Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to.

This is absolutely NOT a hard and fast rule, otherwise women would be smashing stuff up all over the place. Your central premise does not hold up. That's why it sounds like you're making excuses for them.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:16

miraxxx · 10/10/2025 15:59

Ah we see the standards at which Kimura feels proper attention is warranted : women were not blown up, why the fuck are you bitches whining.

Proper action was taken by the police, immediately.

People are aghast that some smashed windows in Brighton weren't breaking news on the BBC.

lcakethereforeIam · 10/10/2025 16:16

Words are violence but actual violence is criminal damage. The women at Filia was to talk, to be listened to but this is not acceptable to the traliban. However, the women manage to not be violent commit criminal damage. I can't think of a single event for transpeople that has suffered an iota of the obstruction, violence and intimidation that is par for the course when women try to speak.

Kucinghitam · 10/10/2025 16:15

Some posters are desperate to stop people talking about this, aren't they?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 16:14

Not engaging with you further, I’ve made my point quite adequately.

Kimura · 10/10/2025 16:13

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2025 15:46

Yes you did, you literally said “the people not listening” “had popped up” so the “angry people” felt like smashing things, as if these misogynistic wankers own Brighton or something.

So we agree, I didn't say that you - or anyone for that matter - were supposed to be listening to anything.

To be clear - Angry people break stuff when they're not being listened to. The people this particular bunch are angry about popped up in their back yard, so they went and broke their stuff. It's not that deep.

Everything else - that you are supposed to be listening to them, that they're 'justified' in their criminal damage - these are things you appear to have up. Nobody in this thread has suggested them, except you.

Petitchat · 10/10/2025 16:11

It's been lovely having a break for a while.
Wondered where they'd gone?

deltapanda · 10/10/2025 16:09

Thank you @SingleSexSpacesInSchools, you got in there first with a reply very close to my own thoughts!

This is behaviour that was no doubt meant to intimidate and silence women, but because nobody was around at the time we can’t describe it as terrifying, apparently. Got it.