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Teacher lunch hour!

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everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 00:10

First off, I am glad I left primary teaching last year after 20 years in; things are only getting worse. I feel for the colleagues I left behind.
It is now becoming a common expectation that, for many different reasons, teachers are now being expected to supervise children over the lunch hour.
I used to avoid this by taking the time to which I was entitled but in order to do this I had to physically leave the building - go for a walk etc. In reality of course this was only for about half an hour or so as I wanted to be back in time to prepare my afternoon lessons.
AIBU to think teachers should be entitled to a lunch break?!!

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tellmesomethingtrue · 10/10/2025 09:08

Doodlingsquares · 10/10/2025 08:38

I think teachers think that everyone working in other sectors out in offices always get their lunchbreak 😂
I have been working for twenty years in a variety of sectors and its incredibly rare for me to manage to take my lunchbreak! So often its a hastily eaten sandwich from home, in front of the computer, responding to emails. Or a call runs over and poof there goes lunchbreak because ive another call that cant be rescheduled.

These issues are not unique to teaching.

And yes i regularly work late and have to do work at home in the evenings and weekends. Dont get 12 weeks off a year though thats for sure!

Well said. Teachers seem to think they have it the worst.

everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 09:08

@Guytheskiinstructor Agree. It's also detrimental to MH of the teacher to not get a break away from children for all of the school day. Especially now that classes are often even more challenging to teach than ever before. It's not healthy.
I'm an EOTAS Tutor now (after 21 years of primary teaching) and massively value the fact I am afforded "luxuries" such as a quick 20 mins without the responsibility of supervising children/going to the loo so no more UTIs/not doing more than max 2 hrs unpaid work of an evening. I'm also present for my own 5 yo so much more.
I don't get paid if I'm off sick or for the school holidays but it is absolutely worth it.
It shouldn't be like this for teachers.

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tellmesomethingtrue · 10/10/2025 09:05

You’re entitled to 30 mins lunch break. Teachers quite often get a free lunch if they are on duty though. You can also have a 15 min break at the end of the school day before meetings and planning.

everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 09:00

@neverbeenskiing It's rubbish, I agree, but at least as SLT you get "half an hour to eat at your desk." Obviously classroom teachers don't get that and they also have the additional burden of prepping lessons for the afternoon.

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Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 09:00

everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 08:58

@soupyspoon Agree to a point. The difference is, these professions can often take a break when they've dealt with the matter of urgency and things are a little calmer; my SIL works as a.senior nurse in a city A&E, for example, and that is what she does. Teachers can obviously only take lunch in the time the kids are on their lunch.

My children's teachers ALWAYS ate in the classroom!

Porridge in the morning, sandwiches and snacks throughout the day.

Absolutely horrific!

everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 08:58

@soupyspoon Agree to a point. The difference is, these professions can often take a break when they've dealt with the matter of urgency and things are a little calmer; my SIL works as a.senior nurse in a city A&E, for example, and that is what she does. Teachers can obviously only take lunch in the time the kids are on their lunch.

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Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:52

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:48

That's about the kids formal education time not adult terms and conditions of employment for adults.

Children not in education due to a later starting age would still need to be in a childcare setting, they're not so going to be stopping home with mummy, this is not the society we live in. So early years education which is more play based will still need facilitating by professionals (as is the case in Wales).

It does seem like there are problems in education, but from my understanding this is behavioural (kids and parents?!) and changing teachers hours won't tackle that.

So you agree that there is a problem.

What would you change? If no additional money was on the table but otherwise you’d have free reign?

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:48

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:31

So when teachers report high levels of job dissatisfaction and stress, we should just overlook that because in your opinion they’re just a bunch of cosseted pansies?

What I’m trying to say is that the education system is in crisis. Everyone is unhappy! (Except perhaps for the academy chain fat cats?) Surely it would be a good idea to look at that?

The UK school day is massively long, children start at a very early age, they are pushed very hard, there are very few breaks (compared to what cognitive science tells us is conducive to learning), everything is a rush and a stress, the resources are poor from buildings to books, the food is appalling and the teachers very modestly trained.

Time for a rethink I reckon!

That's about the kids formal education time not adult terms and conditions of employment for adults.

Children not in education due to a later starting age would still need to be in a childcare setting, they're not so going to be stopping home with mummy, this is not the society we live in. So early years education which is more play based will still need facilitating by professionals (as is the case in Wales).

It does seem like there are problems in education, but from my understanding this is behavioural (kids and parents?!) and changing teachers hours won't tackle that.

fluffythecat1 · 10/10/2025 08:48

When I was teacher training my mentor told me that I couldn’t go to the toilet between school starting and lunchtime because I needed to be overseeing the class at all times. It was one of the things that was the nail in the coffin for me, because I do need a cup of tea in the morning- actually ended up with cystitis. In reality the TA was fine with me nipping to the toilet for 2 minutes while she supervised them at morning break. Being told when I could go to the toilet was a low bar.

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:46

neverbeenskiing · 10/10/2025 08:39

I'm SLT so I have a 30 minute lunch duty then I eat my lunch at my desk whilst replying to emails, often with a child sat in my office if they've been brought to me by a Teacher or midday supervisor because of a behaviour issue on the playground.

Those saying "children should be supervised by midday supervisors" aren't wrong but it's not that simple. We cannot afford the number of MDS we would actually need to ensure safe supervision of all our children. We also have an increasing number of children we need a 1:1 at break and lunchtimes due to SEND or safeguarding reasons. Even if we did have the budget for more MDS Teachers would still end up dealing with behaviour/Pastoral issues, safeguarding, making urgent calls to parents etc during lunchtime because it's often the only time they can do it. Afterschool we have department meetings, meetings with parents, CPD etc as well as admin tasks that need doing.Teachers also (voluntarily) run a range of clubs over lunchtimes which are hugely beneficial to our children, particularly those who struggle with friendships.

Surely, if you are to be considered proper professionals, you as a profession need to make it clear to policy makers that you can no longer afford to meet what’s expected?

Do less but do it better with happier results.

Why are you, as an SLT member in particular, continuing to perpetuate a system where everyone is unhappy across almost metrics, of which the stratospheric rise of home schooled children is the most terrifying one?

This is a genuine question, if starkly put.

neverbeenskiing · 10/10/2025 08:39

I'm SLT so I have a 30 minute lunch duty then I eat my lunch at my desk whilst replying to emails, often with a child sat in my office if they've been brought to me by a Teacher or midday supervisor because of a behaviour issue on the playground.

Those saying "children should be supervised by midday supervisors" aren't wrong but it's not that simple. We cannot afford the number of MDS we would actually need to ensure safe supervision of all our children. We also have an increasing number of children we need a 1:1 at break and lunchtimes due to SEND or safeguarding reasons. Even if we did have the budget for more MDS Teachers would still end up dealing with behaviour/Pastoral issues, safeguarding, making urgent calls to parents etc during lunchtime because it's often the only time they can do it. Afterschool we have department meetings, meetings with parents, CPD etc as well as admin tasks that need doing.Teachers also (voluntarily) run a range of clubs over lunchtimes which are hugely beneficial to our children, particularly those who struggle with friendships.

Doodlingsquares · 10/10/2025 08:38

I think teachers think that everyone working in other sectors out in offices always get their lunchbreak 😂
I have been working for twenty years in a variety of sectors and its incredibly rare for me to manage to take my lunchbreak! So often its a hastily eaten sandwich from home, in front of the computer, responding to emails. Or a call runs over and poof there goes lunchbreak because ive another call that cant be rescheduled.

These issues are not unique to teaching.

And yes i regularly work late and have to do work at home in the evenings and weekends. Dont get 12 weeks off a year though thats for sure!

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:36

AngelinaFibres · 10/10/2025 08:25

You don't have a clue do you.

So explain where all those hours are accounted for throughout the year, throughout your career.

I understand that nqt are probably racking up the hours, but most newly qualified professionals will be putting in many additional too, this is the norm.

We are not talking about small differences. 3.25 hours a day, assuming no work put in over the holidays or 2.25 hours a day everyday plus 5 full 9-5 weeks through the various school holidays.

Obviously there might be the need for a wider conversation about working hours and practices throughout the UK as compared to Scandinavian countries, but right now i don't consider teachers to be hard done by in relative terms.

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:31

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:22

You are kidding right.

The school day is already only 845-3, most people work 9-5 with a 30 minutes break so they already have 2.25 hours a day to prep and do additional duties before they reach a normal working day and most people get 5-8 weeks leave a year not 13, so that's another 37.5 x 8 (187.5) hours of prep time & additional duties time accounted for.

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So when teachers report high levels of job dissatisfaction and stress, we should just overlook that because in your opinion they’re just a bunch of cosseted pansies?

What I’m trying to say is that the education system is in crisis. Everyone is unhappy! (Except perhaps for the academy chain fat cats?) Surely it would be a good idea to look at that?

The UK school day is massively long, children start at a very early age, they are pushed very hard, there are very few breaks (compared to what cognitive science tells us is conducive to learning), everything is a rush and a stress, the resources are poor from buildings to books, the food is appalling and the teachers very modestly trained.

Time for a rethink I reckon!

Cucy · 10/10/2025 08:26

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:22

You are kidding right.

The school day is already only 845-3, most people work 9-5 with a 30 minutes break so they already have 2.25 hours a day to prep and do additional duties before they reach a normal working day and most people get 5-8 weeks leave a year not 13, so that's another 37.5 x 8 (187.5) hours of prep time & additional duties time accounted for.

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Tell me you’ve never been a teacher without telling me.

If only it was that easy.

Surely if it was then you’d want to train to be a teacher yourself?

I gave up the school holidays and ‘short’ working days as you claim and I have never looked back - I have so much more free time now that I do not teach in a school.

AngelinaFibres · 10/10/2025 08:25

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:22

You are kidding right.

The school day is already only 845-3, most people work 9-5 with a 30 minutes break so they already have 2.25 hours a day to prep and do additional duties before they reach a normal working day and most people get 5-8 weeks leave a year not 13, so that's another 37.5 x 8 (187.5) hours of prep time & additional duties time accounted for.

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You don't have a clue do you.

Cucy · 10/10/2025 08:22

We wonder why so many people are burnt out and why people are so unhealthy in this country.

I can’t imagine places like France or Italy working through their lunch breaks.

Periperi2025 · 10/10/2025 08:22

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:06

@everychildmatters this actually really matters.

And if teachers don't want to cover lunchtime supervision by default, they need to act together and act now. Otherwise it will just become the way things are done. And impossible to challenge, particularly in the UK where rocking the boat is tantamount to murder.

You should look at doctors for an example of what can happen. I don’t know a single doctor who takes a lunch break. Ever. So ridiculous and so bad for you.

But it’s not really about the lunches, I don’t think. It's systemic. There’s so much you could do to make the primary school system better for kids and teachers alike. Shorten the days by two hours, sit down with the kids for lunch together so you can chat and socialise, kids go off to play, supervised by play workers and you crack on with lesson prep. Everyone would be happier. But this (or other reforms like this) will never happen here because there's a strange commitment in this country to everyone being exhausted and miserable and everything being just being quite rubbish.

You are kidding right.

The school day is already only 845-3, most people work 9-5 with a 30 minutes break so they already have 2.25 hours a day to prep and do additional duties before they reach a normal working day and most people get 5-8 weeks leave a year not 13, so that's another 37.5 x 8 (187.5) hours of prep time & additional duties time accounted for.

ACR7 · 10/10/2025 08:17

That doesn’t seem fair your being made to work on your unpaid break. I work in policing and we are paid for our breaks as there is an expectation we might not get them and can be directed to a job and have to eat something on the go. No issue with this as it’s the nature of the job I signed up for and we are paid for it. I can see why teachers are unhappy with this set up.

AngelinaFibres · 10/10/2025 08:16

everychildmatters · 10/10/2025 00:25

@abathofmilkwithladydi Lunchtime supervisors should be supervising. All teachers should be entitled to their (unpaid) lunch break. I'm assuming you get a lunch break if you work?
Employers should absolutely stop asking this of teachers.

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I was a teacher. Escaped years ago. My friend has just retired from teaching after 40 years . She had had enough . The behaviour of the children had deteriorated to such an extent that the dinner ladies wouldn't do lunchtime supervision without a member of staff present in each playground at all times. The children (.Reception/ Yr 1/ Yr 2) are feral. The school had to keep the dinner ladies happy because they knew they couldn't replace them if they left.

Duechristmas · 10/10/2025 08:11

Namechangetokeepsecrets · 10/10/2025 07:40

Just take your lunch break. "I don't work over lunch, I need a break"
Teachers need to stand up for themselves or they'll be taken advantage of.

Leave a child in crisis?
Leave a class unsupervised?
Walk out of a meeting?
How do we 'just' take our lunch.

TeacherTales · 10/10/2025 08:09

CoffeeCantata · 10/10/2025 07:51

I know non-teachers get annoyed with teachers claiming they ‘have it bad’, but as an ex-teacher who left for a job in civvy street, I urge them to try to understand!

Yes, many jobs are stressful, of course. But it’s the nature of teaching- it’s akin to a theatrical performance. You have to he ‘on’ all the time and working in that intense way with youngsters is very full- on. I needed my break far more in teaching than I did in an office job. It’s the same for anyone who works with the public: doctors, retail staff etc. And being able to go to the loo when you need to without having to plan it.

These people need time to depressurise and touch base with colleagues. I don’t see how they’ll ever get it, though.🫩

Yes, I worked in an office prior to teaching and often worked through my lunch break but it's very different sitting at a desk eating while you work or finding 10 minutes later during the day to eat during a brief lull than it is not having any kind of break at all, being on your feet, teaching, managing behaviour and educational, social and emotional needs without the chance to even go to the loo for a whole day unless you can grab a passing member of office or kitchen staff to stand in your room for 2 mins.

It's being 'on' constantly that is exhausting. Children at my school are allowed to just walk into the staff room to look for us - the door is always open (literally) so we don't have actual down time even when we're in there.

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:08

Whenlifegiveslemons · 10/10/2025 08:04

Every single industry is stretched, employees are expected to give more & more but not compensated for it by employer. Teaching is no different. Why is teaching the only profession where those in it constantly moan about every element of their job - pay/hours/breaks/workload - its endless. It isn't a bad offer compared to many - I'd love 12 weeks a year off.

It's not ideal to not have a lunch break & shouldn't be expected, in any industry. I can't remember the last time I took one and I'm self employed

This is exactly the kind of miserabilism I’m talking about!

A race to the bottom!

How very dare teachers expect to have what they are contractually entitled to!

Guytheskiinstructor · 10/10/2025 08:06

@everychildmatters this actually really matters.

And if teachers don't want to cover lunchtime supervision by default, they need to act together and act now. Otherwise it will just become the way things are done. And impossible to challenge, particularly in the UK where rocking the boat is tantamount to murder.

You should look at doctors for an example of what can happen. I don’t know a single doctor who takes a lunch break. Ever. So ridiculous and so bad for you.

But it’s not really about the lunches, I don’t think. It's systemic. There’s so much you could do to make the primary school system better for kids and teachers alike. Shorten the days by two hours, sit down with the kids for lunch together so you can chat and socialise, kids go off to play, supervised by play workers and you crack on with lesson prep. Everyone would be happier. But this (or other reforms like this) will never happen here because there's a strange commitment in this country to everyone being exhausted and miserable and everything being just being quite rubbish.

Whenlifegiveslemons · 10/10/2025 08:04

Every single industry is stretched, employees are expected to give more & more but not compensated for it by employer. Teaching is no different. Why is teaching the only profession where those in it constantly moan about every element of their job - pay/hours/breaks/workload - its endless. It isn't a bad offer compared to many - I'd love 12 weeks a year off.

It's not ideal to not have a lunch break & shouldn't be expected, in any industry. I can't remember the last time I took one and I'm self employed

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