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To think 'interviews' where you have to send in a video are ageist

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rockettomarsbar · 09/10/2025 17:38

I'm not talking about zoom/teams interviews but the applications where you have to send in a video of yourself or answer questions into a video on your phone. If optional, then that can be a good addition for ND people. But if compulsory, it feels ageist because of how used to videoing themselves/taking selfies/snapchat etc some age groups are compared to others.

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Bundleflower · 10/10/2025 08:29

onlyoneoftheregimentinstep · 09/10/2025 19:24

I’m in my mid 70s. I find it ageist that you think I might not be able to cope with this.

This!

Also, the making of the video is part of the interview. If someone was incapable of making a video then they probably wouldn’t be able to perform the role!

HoskinsChoice · 10/10/2025 08:27

XenoBitch · 10/10/2025 00:12

I would hate the fuck out of this.
Interviews are two way. You are also interviewing your employer to see if they are a good fit for you.

It's not an interview, it's part of an application usually alongside a CV. The interview is a separate part of the process.

I'm not defending their use. I think it's a really fake situation, you dont really learn anything and you're putting unnecessary angst on to candidates. But, it's not discrimination.

rockettomarsbar · 10/10/2025 00:26

I agree XenoBitch
Also, you have no idea of how many people are watching it or who they are

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XenoBitch · 10/10/2025 00:12

I would hate the fuck out of this.
Interviews are two way. You are also interviewing your employer to see if they are a good fit for you.

rockettomarsbar · 10/10/2025 00:03

How is it an 'awful attitude' It is my opinion based on experience.

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HoskinsChoice · 09/10/2025 23:53

rockettomarsbar · 09/10/2025 23:06

I'm not saying for a minute that people wouldn't be able to operate the video and can see why you think that is ageist of me but that's not what I meant. I meant that just talking into a video one sided is something which generally a certain age group might do regularly and look far more comfortable and relaxed and at home doing than others.
Also this
A video prerequisite enables them to discriminate against multiple Protected Characteristics without ever putting anything on paper that would evidence breaking of Employment and Equalities Law.

I do agree that's a real risk.
I have done video 'interviews' -not really interviews because they're one sided- and felt incredibly awkward and self conscious in a way my dcs would not be.

Not only did you say it in your OP you have literally just repeated it! You're still claiming young people are better at it than older people. Such an awful and misguided attitude.

HoskinsChoice · 09/10/2025 23:50

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 09/10/2025 18:14

They are more likely to be ageist because the software looks for facial expressions as a proxy for 'energy' and other 'strengths' and is probably trained on faces of 20-35 year olds, rather than because older people can't to video. It's also trained on white faces.

If an organisation is using that kind of software then you wouldn't want to work for them! I've led processes with video applications - I watch them all and then someone else in the team watches them all to ensure we have two brains and two opinions on it. I wouldn't dream of using software.

rockettomarsbar · 09/10/2025 23:06

I'm not saying for a minute that people wouldn't be able to operate the video and can see why you think that is ageist of me but that's not what I meant. I meant that just talking into a video one sided is something which generally a certain age group might do regularly and look far more comfortable and relaxed and at home doing than others.
Also this
A video prerequisite enables them to discriminate against multiple Protected Characteristics without ever putting anything on paper that would evidence breaking of Employment and Equalities Law.

I do agree that's a real risk.
I have done video 'interviews' -not really interviews because they're one sided- and felt incredibly awkward and self conscious in a way my dcs would not be.

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Ddakji · 09/10/2025 20:05

I’m 54, I wouldn’t know how to do this or even what it would be used for, and I think I would simply not apply because it sounds like something that could easily be used against you.

Redpeach · 09/10/2025 19:58

I would hate that

Another2Cats · 09/10/2025 19:40

Lincslady53 · 09/10/2025 18:53

I am well I to my 70s and would have no problem providing a video. In fact, I think it's a good way of weeding out people of any age who don't have any technical skills that the job may require. If they can't manage a simple video, then could they manage a spreadsheet, a database?

I would disagree with you here.

I am only 60 but I would not bother to apply if this was part of the recruitment process. Also, speaking as someone who is currently considering a move, I am very much aware of current hiring practices having been through a few rounds of interviews with different companies.

Having an interview via Teams is perfectly normal, recording a video response to a set of questions is not. At least, at my level and the field that I work in

"If they can't manage a simple video, then could they manage a spreadsheet, a database?"

I don't follow where the connection is? I've done rather more than that over the last almost forty years and now manage teams of people who do rather more than that. That doesn't stop me from thinking that companies that use recruitment techniques like this are companies that I probably wouldn't want to work for anyway.

[Edited for typo]

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 09/10/2025 19:40

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/10/2025 19:37

Isn't it a slight possibility that by doing this, the employer is able to then decide not to interview anybody who is visibly older - or who is black/brown/dual heritage/has a different accent, not presenting as their birth sex, has a visible disability or facial/limb difference - and all from 'just' asking for a video?

A video prerequisite enables them to discriminate against multiple Protected Characteristics without ever putting anything on paper that would evidence breaking of Employment and Equalities Law.

They should be conducting adverse impact analysis on all selection methods. But should and do are very different.

Artmumcreative · 09/10/2025 19:39

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/10/2025 19:37

Isn't it a slight possibility that by doing this, the employer is able to then decide not to interview anybody who is visibly older - or who is black/brown/dual heritage/has a different accent, not presenting as their birth sex, has a visible disability or facial/limb difference - and all from 'just' asking for a video?

A video prerequisite enables them to discriminate against multiple Protected Characteristics without ever putting anything on paper that would evidence breaking of Employment and Equalities Law.

Exactly!

Artmumcreative · 09/10/2025 19:38

I also find them ablist, speaking as someone with a speech disorder who failed a multi-part virtual interview at the compulsory video stage.

Going on my experience as a person with disabilities, I wouldn't be surprised if they were designed to weed out all the undesirable groups...

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/10/2025 19:37

GarlicBreadStan · 09/10/2025 17:51

Isn't it ageist to assume that people outside of the "Snapchat generation" are incapable of making these/teaching themselves how to make these videos?

Isn't it a slight possibility that by doing this, the employer is able to then decide not to interview anybody who is visibly older - or who is black/brown/dual heritage/has a different accent, not presenting as their birth sex, has a visible disability or facial/limb difference - and all from 'just' asking for a video?

A video prerequisite enables them to discriminate against multiple Protected Characteristics without ever putting anything on paper that would evidence breaking of Employment and Equalities Law.

Cantseetreesforthewood · 09/10/2025 19:33

My biggest technological issue would be a stand to hold my phonec while taking a video.

That said, I'd be rejecting an interview if that was the first stage. Sounds horrific - and, yes, I most definitely can handle spreadsheets and databases.

Cyclistmumgrandma · 09/10/2025 19:31

Well, I'm past retirement age so not likely to be interviewing for any more jobs but I am quite capable of making videos of myself. I have made videos explaining how to do all sorts of technical tasks and even of myself cycling down a hill while singing a song! That was for inclusion in a musical project devised, written, rehearsed, recorded and created in lockdown. I was heavily involved in the technical side and we won an award! So, just because we are older does not mean we are incapable.

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 09/10/2025 19:28

Those of us getting into our late 60s were the ones who invented half of this bloody technology, if course we can use it (with one hand tied behind our backs).

Sunseeker22 · 09/10/2025 19:27

onlyoneoftheregimentinstep · 09/10/2025 19:24

I’m in my mid 70s. I find it ageist that you think I might not be able to cope with this.

I am in my 50s and it’s not about not being able
to cope, it’s about being good at it and getting selected to next stage which is presumably f2f

onlyoneoftheregimentinstep · 09/10/2025 19:24

I’m in my mid 70s. I find it ageist that you think I might not be able to cope with this.

Sunseeker22 · 09/10/2025 19:17

I agree it’s probably ageist as the TikTok generation is much more used to filming themselves a speaking to camera than my generation. I recruit people as a manager in my workplace and we do face to face still.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 09/10/2025 19:16

It’s not ageist for someone to be better at a skill than you OP. If you need to improve on this then practice. It’s also simplistic to imagine every young person takes videos of themselves.

Snorlaxo · 09/10/2025 19:15

You are ageist to assume that it skews things in favour of the youth because of technology like Snapchat. Not all young people post videos and photos of themselves online and plenty of older people are used to giving speeches or working with technology like phones and webcams in order to edit a video.

They are only looking for social media trends and the latest cool backing track playing in the background if you’re going for a specific social media manager posting.

Talltreesbythelake · 09/10/2025 19:10

I have all the technical skills to do this and yet I would never even try. I cannot bring myself to speak aloud to Alexa. She sits, dusty and forlorn, while I type my requests into Google.

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 09/10/2025 18:59

I'd hate to do them. Some give you questions on the spot and give you 30 seconds to answer I to a camera, no retakes (some do allow retakes). Awful for anyone with processing or working memory issues.