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No mention of the synagogue attack in work email…

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Watermelonsugar44 · 09/10/2025 17:21

I have no skin in the game, this is just an observation.

I work in a largish nhs trust. We have a daily email from our executive team with general hospital updates and this also includes relevant current affairs and special mention of religious holidays etc.

Other worldwide natural disasters and terror attacks, especially uk based ones, have always been included in this daily email, saying thoughts with those involved and if anyone is affected reach out etc etc…

There was no mention of the recent synagogue attack at all. I looked back to double check.

I am not Jewish, but I’m sure there are many people who work in out trust who are, and also I feel this should be treated the same way as similar attacks. It feels disrespectful.

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runfromthecrushingtide · 21/09/2026 17:24

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 11:34

There are people now openly saying Jews "bought it on themselves". I saw such a post just yesterday. Not on MN I hasten to add.

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There have been sone awful comments on these boards over the past few days.

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 11:34

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 21/09/2026 11:11

YNBU. Even in the Cultural Fusion group at work, they barely pay lip service to anything ‘’Jewish’.
There was a lot about George Floyd.
But after the Synagogue attack and October 7th, it was kinda: ‘oh, yeah, and some Jewish stuff going on.

But, anyway - let’s pat ourselves on the back for absolutely fuck all!’

They make me sick with all their wafer thin inclusivity.

There are people now openly saying Jews "bought it on themselves". I saw such a post just yesterday. Not on MN I hasten to add.

MyArtfulGreySloth · 21/09/2026 11:15

It’s become completely normal and acceptable in this country to dislike Jewish people. It’s disgusting.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 21/09/2026 11:11

YNBU. Even in the Cultural Fusion group at work, they barely pay lip service to anything ‘’Jewish’.
There was a lot about George Floyd.
But after the Synagogue attack and October 7th, it was kinda: ‘oh, yeah, and some Jewish stuff going on.

But, anyway - let’s pat ourselves on the back for absolutely fuck all!’

They make me sick with all their wafer thin inclusivity.

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 10:54

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/09/2026 10:09

I wish that were the case! IMO there’s always been a latent undercurrent of anti-semitism (much more overt in e.g. Victorian times*) but since the Gaza reaction to Oct 7th, it has become almost ‘fashionable’ to almost equate anti-Israel with anti-Semitic, I dare say as in, ‘My enemy’s enemy is my friend.’

*e.g. in a novel by Trollope I’ve recently been reading, there is one lawyer recommending a lawyer - a Mr Solomon Something - to another lawyer -

‘Isn’t he a Jew?’
‘I have no idea - he’s an attorney, that’s good enough for me.’

There are many such examples in Trollope’s novels.

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The English very much do do antisemitism. In fact, the English invented the original blood libel way back in the 12th century.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/09/2026 10:09

Supersimkin7 · 09/10/2025 17:30

It needs mentioning.

There are nutters out there who must be gently reminded as often as possible that the English don’t do anti-semitism.

I wish that were the case! IMO there’s always been a latent undercurrent of anti-semitism (much more overt in e.g. Victorian times*) but since the Gaza reaction to Oct 7th, it has become almost ‘fashionable’ to almost equate anti-Israel with anti-Semitic, I dare say as in, ‘My enemy’s enemy is my friend.’

*e.g. in a novel by Trollope I’ve recently been reading, there is one lawyer recommending a lawyer - a Mr Solomon Something - to another lawyer -

‘Isn’t he a Jew?’
‘I have no idea - he’s an attorney, that’s good enough for me.’

There are many such examples in Trollope’s novels.

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 09:59

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2026 09:45

Tbh if the only country in the world that you think shouldn't exist at all, under any conditions or any government, is the one where Jewish people originate from, that's pretty antisemitic.

Precisely. Also look how the word "Zionist" has become a slur. We don't use slurs against Kurdish separatists or people who want a free Tibet which are related to thier desire for independence.

But its got nothing to do with the fact Israel is predominantly Jewish or people being deeply uncomfortable with the minority they pushed around for 2000 years having the ability to fight back. No. Not at all.

BMW58 · 21/09/2026 09:54

ZOMBIE THREAD

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2026 09:45

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 09:43

Yes. I no longer listen to people who claim they're "just anti Zionist not antisemitic". Actions speak louder than words, and the attacks on Jews all over the world tell us exactly what those people really believe.

Tbh if the only country in the world that you think shouldn't exist at all, under any conditions or any government, is the one where Jewish people originate from, that's pretty antisemitic.

Medievalgirl2 · 21/09/2026 09:43

faffadoodledo · 09/10/2025 17:27

my DiL is Jewish but other than that I’m like you OP. I’m a trustee at a cultural organisation, and our Director reached out to the Director of the Manchester Jewish Museum because we’d had some cross colonisation on a project. I told my DIL and she said it means the world when people put a little thought in like this. So YANBU. Words and gestures make a difference.
And I know from attending all kinds of Synagogue event with her over the years that security has been a fact of life for a long time - way predating 7/10.

Yes. I no longer listen to people who claim they're "just anti Zionist not antisemitic". Actions speak louder than words, and the attacks on Jews all over the world tell us exactly what those people really believe.

Watermelonsugar44 · 09/10/2025 20:20

HoskinsChoice · 09/10/2025 18:36

So tax payers money is being used to pay someone in the NHS to tell staff about readily available news? Christ.

(Appreciate this is not directly relevant and yes, you're right, if they're going to waste time producing this crap, it needs to be inclusive!)

Could fill a whole thread on the nhs wastage of taxpayers money, including sooo many non-clinical Mickey Mouse jobs….

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CulinaryPumpkin · 09/10/2025 19:10

I also work in the NHS and our organisation sent out 2 emails shortly after the news broke, which were well judged I think.

olderandnonthewiser · 09/10/2025 18:57

IMO a daily email from the exec team is a ridiculous waste of nhs resources. Someone’s job is to tell the work force such things? And they take time to read it? I despair.

Having said that, if that’s what they do then obviously they should have mentioned the synagogue attack and it was remiss not to.

nomas · 09/10/2025 18:53

It should have been mentioned.

I’ve had an email from a work related government organisation with resources signposting services for Jewish people affected by the synagogue attack.

Pollqueen · 09/10/2025 18:43

Same in my firm. Legal 500 corporate law. Constant reaching out over Gaza. Synagogue attack. Crickets

SomebodysIcecream · 09/10/2025 18:38

InsectsMatter · 09/10/2025 18:16

The NHS is institutionally anti semitic.

In what way, may I ask?

HoskinsChoice · 09/10/2025 18:36

InsectsMatter · 09/10/2025 18:16

The NHS is institutionally anti semitic.

Evidence for this? That's a big statement!

HoskinsChoice · 09/10/2025 18:36

So tax payers money is being used to pay someone in the NHS to tell staff about readily available news? Christ.

(Appreciate this is not directly relevant and yes, you're right, if they're going to waste time producing this crap, it needs to be inclusive!)

greencrab · 09/10/2025 18:20

I'm also nhs and surprised by this, our trust had two emails about this

InsectsMatter · 09/10/2025 18:16

The NHS is institutionally anti semitic.

thebrollachan · 09/10/2025 18:15

wizzywig · 09/10/2025 17:48

Am in the civil service. The synagogue attack has been mentioned, the arson attack on a mosque, rape of a Sikh women has not.

Maybe because a man was murdered in the first instance, but no-one died in the other two?

wizzywig · 09/10/2025 17:48

Am in the civil service. The synagogue attack has been mentioned, the arson attack on a mosque, rape of a Sikh women has not.

INX · 09/10/2025 17:45

EmeraldShamrock000 · 09/10/2025 17:36

Would you have the balls to ask them why they left out important news, a terrorist attack from the newsletter.
Someone is controlling the narrative.

I don't think it takes 'balls' to simply point out that a major UK news story was missed from the email?

I think it's definitely worth the OP feeding back to them.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 09/10/2025 17:36

Would you have the balls to ask them why they left out important news, a terrorist attack from the newsletter.
Someone is controlling the narrative.

ThatCyanCat · 09/10/2025 17:31

I am not remotely surprised.

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