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To be fed up with primary teachers holding readers back due to ‘comprehension’?

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FishChipsandKipper · 09/10/2025 07:36

DS was moving steadily through reading levels until a senior teacher decided this was all wrong and said no one can move levels until they’ve given ‘the verbal answers I approve of’ to show comprehension.

DS has now been on the same level for over a year and read some books 5 times.

DS has a speech delay, but can read well and answers multiple choice questions written down to show comprehension.

Do the school accept this? No. I’ve given up and bought my own reading books off Amazon.

Why do schools do this??

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Sartre · 11/10/2025 06:27

The assessment process is crazy. My DS is 5 and can read fluently but is technically non verbal because he doesn’t effectively use communicative language yet. Because he won’t always read the phonics sheets reliably, the school can’t give him reading books so he’s unable to progress in that sense and is still being given phonics sheets with monosyllabic words.

I feel as though he’s being patronised tbh, he reads a full book to me every night with no issues. Not sure how he’d ever fare in a comprehension test because he won’t reliably answer questions.

FishChipsandKipper · 11/10/2025 06:19

@NeverDropYourMooncup

That’s an interesting point about the ‘smooth talkers’ getting to the top. In education I think the key skills for a great teacher are : empathy and kindness. That ability to see things from the perspective of a child and be willing to question/challenge your own understanding to provide the best possible learning environment for your class. I think great teachers can easily be trampled on by the ‘smooth talkers’ who are on a mission to get to the top - because they are sensitive.
The reception teacher who mysteriously left (literally overnight) WAS moving the class steadily through the levels and managed to teach and include the 3 children (who are now excluded).
So we are left with the 3 SLT members who potentially pushed her out, have now excluded those 3 children and are complicit in this belief that child must speak the answer that is in my head, as I am ‘all powerful’.

@Shouldhavelovedathunderbird ‘Angry young men’. I think it’s interesting that the vast majority of primary teachers are female and I do wonder if there is the potential for female bias to be applied and boys seen to be ‘failing’. I volunteer in a boy heavy environment, and my goodness they need to RUN and move. To penalise boys for not ‘sitting still’ seems unfair to me. The 3 exclusions that have happened : all boys.
@stichguru Thing is I ‘know’ he understands even though the verbal response is ‘I don’t know’ or that he will say anything to avoid being ‘put on the spot’ by an adult. If a puppet asks him a question he will give the right answer, if I write the question down he will give the right answer, if he’s doing it on an app he will give the right answer - or if I give him a written list of instructions he will pick up on things that I’ve missed! The issue is the rigidity of the benchmarking : you must verbalise this response or repeat the book 5 times.

@acynicaldad Yes it is discrimination. And compared to 20 years ago/exclusions at a record high - something is wrong and needs to change.

@Wishing14 Private schools I think are often a bit behind on latest ideas (maybe not a bad thing) but - in the school I worked in - at least two meaningful comments in reading record weekly, read daily in Year 2, no books repeated (parents would have flipped and been listened to), regular checking and moving through book bands systematically. One day a week dedicated to child finding a text/comic/magazine/anything they found interesting and reporting back. Private schools are currently v good at inclusion due to VAT hike/we need to keep our numbers up.

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ACynicalDad · 11/10/2025 01:38

Is this discrimination? If you felt that way and started using that language might things change?

k1233 · 11/10/2025 01:29

RoseAlone · 10/10/2025 22:32

The school are absolutely right. Children can often decode the words but don't fully understand what they've read. This lack of comprehension is problematic for all subjects including maths, sciences, social sciences as well as daily non school life. It's good to hear about a teacher who actually knows what they're doing and doesn't give into parents who don't know what they're doing and think mechanical reading will suffice.

I totally disagree. I could read before I went to school - taught myself because I was too impatient to wait for mum to have time. I ways read at years above my schooling level. I was lucky that we had a library at school and my parents always gave books as presents.

English teachers totally ruin good books IMO with their digging into and analysing every minute thing. I hated english as they sucked the joy out of it.

That said, after working for 30+ years, this year was the first where I actually had to respond to a document and tell the professional services firm that wrote it that Expert is not a verb. I have never had to use the term adjective, verb etc in feedback before, but my head was close to exploding after reading 50 pages that had multiple uses of expert as a verb. Initially I was correcting the wording but after around 5 pages I just highlighted the word and put the comment expert is not a verb.

ETA I'll expand on why I disagree. If you enjoy reading it is because you understand what you are reading. Who would read just to look at random words on a page, which don't create a mental image and connection with what is written. That's why people prefer genres. I'm not a fan of autobiographies, others aren't fans of fantasy novels or romance novels. You read stories you enjoy. IMO non readers are like that due to poor comprehension skills. They get nothing out of reading. Avid readers love a well written book and you would find that they all see the book slightly differently.

OPs child sounds like they are being penalised due to their speech issues, which will ultimately kill their love of reading if OP does not find other reading material for them.

Shouldhavelovedathunderbird · 11/10/2025 00:02

I don't like the idea of a child with a speech delay being penalised for being unable to vocalise. This is how angry young men are created. Could you possibly have a chat with SENCO about how they intend to help him progress instead of staying on the same level as whatever they are doing, its not working and if he hasn't done SATs they will start piling on the pressure at yr2 or yr6 when they suddenly realise he is not quite where he should be.

I'd ignore the reading scheme completely and teach him yourself using methods tailored to your child and not what a computer has decided. There's lots of lovely books out there that you can start reading together. You read and gently help him to learn how to understand what is happening. Also, if it's Biff Chip and bloody Kipper, you have my sympathies. I did rather enjoy William and Hamid though.

Wishing14 · 10/10/2025 22:56

I would be interested to know what they do in private schools and how different it is.

It does seem that the teachers are quite happy when parents say that they don’t think the approach is working for their child, and they choose instead to read their own books at home instead. There is no one best method for all children.

For my son as soon as I took the school pressure off and said we aren’t reading those books anymore at home his confidence grew, he reads books every night now. And enjoys it.

It’s probably not as simple as a ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ way. In state schools it’s what works best to get results for the most children with the available time and resources. But often that’s not what’s best for your child.

stichguru · 10/10/2025 22:46

TypeyMcTypeface · 10/10/2025 19:30

"I can read, but I don't feel like I've fully got the meaning of the text" is high, and often it's what people feel is holding them back in life, because in the real world you read to understand.

But is that not an entirely different skill? In your example of an adult being unable to understand a document about their workplace structure although they could read it - they similarly wouldn't understand it if it was, for example, read aloud to them.

I have a degree in English. I could 'read' a document in which someone was describing advanced physics, but I wouldn't be able to understand it. I wouldn't consider that a reflection on my reading ability, or even my comprehension skills.

In the specific case of work documents, sadly in 2025 a high percentage of them are poorly written waffle, which even the author doesn't understand - but few people are brave enough to confess this, creating an emperor's new clothes situation.

Yes and no, of course yes not everyone will understand everything. Similarly to you I have a degree in Social Science and a MA in Disability Studies and my understanding of advance physics would be about the same as yours whether I read it or someone read it to me. However, over my years as a TA with 16-18s and 18 to 30,40,50..., I could give many examples of students who could read something and not get it, but have it read to them and get it.

In my original example, yes of course there are people who wouldn't get the work place structure document whether it was read to them or they read it, but there are also people who wouldn't get it reading it themselves, but would get it being read to them. It IS two skills, but in the real world you need BOTH skills in order to gain information from texts, which is normally the point of reading (whether you are gaining that information for pleasure as in making sense of a novel, or to gain knowledge).

In OPs original post she was arguing her son shouldn't be given easy reading books just because he can't explain what he is reading, but later in life he will probably NEED to be able to read TO understand what he is reading!

Even if he is an excellent decoder for his age, if he goes through his school years being able to decode but not gain meaning, then the minute he needs to understand a text to use in coursework or understand the instructions on homework task, he will struggle to complete the task he is doing just as much as if he couldn't read the instructions. At work, if he can read instructions for machinery or how to give a medication safely, but not understand what they mean unless someone explains them orally, he will not be able to complete these tasks appropriately and safely without help any better than if he'd needed someone to read the instructions to him!

RoseAlone · 10/10/2025 22:32

The school are absolutely right. Children can often decode the words but don't fully understand what they've read. This lack of comprehension is problematic for all subjects including maths, sciences, social sciences as well as daily non school life. It's good to hear about a teacher who actually knows what they're doing and doesn't give into parents who don't know what they're doing and think mechanical reading will suffice.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/10/2025 22:28

I hate the way that any difficulty with speech or hearing is taken as being evidence of inability to understand something - but always being able to speak is shorthand for 'knows their stuff'. After all, most of us have encountered people who seem to have failed upwards in the workplace - the reason they have got to those positions must have been because they always have a smooth answer for everything; they certainly don't have the knowledge or expertise they've been credited with (in my experience at any rate).

It must be just as frustrating for people who aren't skilled at writing to have their abilities doubted, though.

justasking111 · 10/10/2025 21:47

My daughter was upset because her bright child was being held back from moving up until everyone was ready. He was bored out of his skull. At home he was a great reader. Picked books at the library, charity shop, second hand book shop.

She negotiated with the headteacher that he could bring his own book in during reading sessions.

You need to be on the ball, it's the same with math.

FishChipsandKipper · 10/10/2025 21:28

@mrsconradfisher

Year 2. Yes, completely agree with what you are saying and you are using your discretion and knowledge of your children. That’s how comprehension should work - and of course compensation is very important. But when it’s become more a ‘tick box’ process where you just churn through the benchmarking…I think it can cause children to stagnate.
At DS’s school - book change is on a Friday. I think a TA just grabs two books from the band and chucks them in his bag. No recording as to whether it’s the same book he had a fortnight ago. The two books he got today : he’s read one three times, the other one twice already.

@ClassicalQueen I wish I could!! The SENCO, Head and Literacy Coordinator (who came back from maternity leave and was ‘shocked’ at how reception had steadily moved through the reading bands by a teacher who mysteriously left one day) are all ultra defensive. And all support each other in their war against us ‘difficult, troublesome’ parents. SENCO managed to pull off three exclusions in DS’s class by end of Year 1 - so I avoid her at all costs.

Sigh - I loved this. The downfall of ‘Brain Gym’:
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2008/apr/07/education

Charlie Brooker on the pseudoscience of Brain Gym

Charlie Brooker: Perhaps the government confused fantasy with reality the day it endorsed Brain Gym

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2008/apr/07/education

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ClassicalQueen · 10/10/2025 21:09

Go above the teacher and talk to the SENCO. I’m a primary school teacher and have colleagues who stick to the bands far too rigorously, however in my setting the TA’s coordinate this. Find out the types of books he enjoys and buy a set, advise that you read these with him at home.

mrsconradfisher · 10/10/2025 21:03

FishChipsandKipper · 10/10/2025 20:42

@mrsconradfisher

The problem is DS has stayed in the same band for over a year, and is getting repeated reads of the same book as he has not verbally answered benchmarking questions as required. They have to get through 30 children, and I doubt this will be done again until next term.
The app he uses is multiple choice, but I sit with him when he selects and can see he is - pretty much 100% of the time choosing the correct answer.

Due to his speech, he often avoids answering questions or needs extra processing time. ‘I don’t know’ is often his verbal answer - but he wizzes through on the app.
I do think comprehension is sometimes a case of ‘guess the answer in the teacher’s head’ - and personally I think teacher’s go ‘overboard’ with the comprehension - in an almost ‘I know better’ way.

Bit like Scout in ‘To Kill a Mockingbird’ when you can tell the teacher’s ego is dented by Scout’s reading knowledge - and the teacher’s response is to ‘undo all the bad learning that has gone on’. Scout gets bored because she has to relearn what she already knows. Especially as Scout doesn’t ‘fit’ with the teacher’s latest fad, fashion or ‘learning method’.

I just want DS to have a new, exciting book that gives him a challenge.
Not to stagnate and read the same book 5 times until he ‘passes’ some benchmarking test that he will now have to wait another term for!

In that case, I do think the teacher is holding him back for the sake of holding him back which is ridiculous. There is a huge difference between rushing through reading levels and staying on the same level for a year. I might have missed it but what year is he in? I just wondered if he’d done SATs yet as the reading papers would have given you an idea of his compression levels.

The books we use at school have targeted comprehension questions in the back but I do sometimes add in extra ones as well. However I know the children incredibly well and in the case of your DS I would either ask him a separate question and ensure he had plenty of time to answer or he would just join in by showing me where in the text the answer to the question was. There are many many ways of “testing” comprehension without speaking. I think the reason they focus on it so much is by the time they get to Y6 and then high school there are so many children who can “read” but have no idea what they have actually read and obviously with more challenging text and work in high school they need to fully understand it. I do agree though that sometimes it goes completely overboard which is the case here.
I would also argue that by the time he has read the same book 5 times in a year, the comprehension becomes pointless as he knows it off by heart.
In your case I would be tempted to just refuse to read the school books and just let him read his own books and enjoy them.

FishChipsandKipper · 10/10/2025 20:52

@Duechristmas

I’ve not heard of fidelity to the scheme, but that’s exactly what it is!

I can’t access this article but I bet it’s a good read!
https://www.tes.com/magazine/teaching-learning/general/sweet-spot-teacher-autonomy-and-war-against-fidelity
Brain gym drove me absolutely bonkers. I was sent on a £200 day course, and the wrath I faced if I dared to suggest that prioritising 10mins a day Brain Gym over mental maths was a ridiculous idea…
It’s fidelity to benchmarking. Rigidity. Speak this answer or stay on orange book band for evermore..,.

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FishChipsandKipper · 10/10/2025 20:42

@mrsconradfisher

The problem is DS has stayed in the same band for over a year, and is getting repeated reads of the same book as he has not verbally answered benchmarking questions as required. They have to get through 30 children, and I doubt this will be done again until next term.
The app he uses is multiple choice, but I sit with him when he selects and can see he is - pretty much 100% of the time choosing the correct answer.

Due to his speech, he often avoids answering questions or needs extra processing time. ‘I don’t know’ is often his verbal answer - but he wizzes through on the app.
I do think comprehension is sometimes a case of ‘guess the answer in the teacher’s head’ - and personally I think teacher’s go ‘overboard’ with the comprehension - in an almost ‘I know better’ way.

Bit like Scout in ‘To Kill a Mockingbird’ when you can tell the teacher’s ego is dented by Scout’s reading knowledge - and the teacher’s response is to ‘undo all the bad learning that has gone on’. Scout gets bored because she has to relearn what she already knows. Especially as Scout doesn’t ‘fit’ with the teacher’s latest fad, fashion or ‘learning method’.

I just want DS to have a new, exciting book that gives him a challenge.
Not to stagnate and read the same book 5 times until he ‘passes’ some benchmarking test that he will now have to wait another term for!

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Vaguelyclassical · 10/10/2025 20:39

Vaguelyclassical · 10/10/2025 17:01

Part of the problem is that sometimes primary school teachers themselves are not hugely literate (or at least not people who know what it is to read avidly for pleasure) and seem almost insulted by the idea that a child might want to read ambitiously and widely. (And this has always been so; decades ago I was told, at age 7, that I should be trying to get "nine year old books" out of the tiny school library.)

What happened to the editing function? Oh well, I had tried to write "should not be trying" .....

JLou08 · 10/10/2025 19:52

My DC gave up on school reading books by the time Reception was done. They had a love of reading and the books they were coming home with were boring. I didn't want to spoil their love of reading by enforcing them to read them so they just read books of their own choice which were far more advanced. I told the teachers this and they had no issue with it. The DC are 16 and 14 now and both still above average with reading and comprehension

mrsconradfisher · 10/10/2025 19:39

As a TA in KS1, you’d be amazed at the amount of children who can read by barking at a text and saying the right words but have absolutely no idea what the words mean or can confidently answer comprehension and inference questions about the text. Reading is so so much more than being able to read and it needs to a priority right from the start rather than allowing children to progress through reading levels for the sake of it.
Multiple choice questions are also the worst choice for assessing comprehension as they can just randomly tick one and get it correct but they really have no understanding,
A speech delay should have no bearing on compensation as I’m assuming they can write their answers down like they need to in SATs papers. When we do guided reading groups at school, the children have to prove their answers using the words in the text. For example, it might say what colour boots did the bookmaker make? They need to find the appropriate page and line and prove it by reading the sentence which states the colour. This ensures all the children have the appropriate skills to find answers to questions within text as they progress through the school. We also do a huge amount of work on inference (what is implied but not said).
For the most part teachers are not deliberately holding a child back for no reason.

TypeyMcTypeface · 10/10/2025 19:30

stichguru · 09/10/2025 08:20

I am a Teaching Assistant coming working with adults. The adults I work with are people who haven't achieved GCSE English (and/or Maths) at school and now the lack of it is holding them back in employment. Some of these people come to us straight onto GCSE courses, others are several levels behind this.

I have a one-to-one with every student at the start of the year to see what they find easy/hard/what they needs support with etc. The number of people who say some version of "I can read, but I don't feel like I've fully got the meaning of the text" is high, and often it's what people feel is holding them back in life, because in the real world you read to understand. If you are reading some instructions, a pay slip, a memo about something in the office, a report on your child's schooling. or your workplace structure and you don't really understand it, then being able to read it doesn't really help you!

If you actually mean that the school is refusing to accept your child's explanation of what they have read because his teachers don't understand every word of his explanation, then that is really bad and you need to be talking to the school about how they are failing to meet your son's communication needs like big time! However if your child is really failing to understand what he is reading, please be working on why this is and how to help him understand, not push for him to get harder reading because he can read!

"I can read, but I don't feel like I've fully got the meaning of the text" is high, and often it's what people feel is holding them back in life, because in the real world you read to understand.

But is that not an entirely different skill? In your example of an adult being unable to understand a document about their workplace structure although they could read it - they similarly wouldn't understand it if it was, for example, read aloud to them.

I have a degree in English. I could 'read' a document in which someone was describing advanced physics, but I wouldn't be able to understand it. I wouldn't consider that a reflection on my reading ability, or even my comprehension skills.

In the specific case of work documents, sadly in 2025 a high percentage of them are poorly written waffle, which even the author doesn't understand - but few people are brave enough to confess this, creating an emperor's new clothes situation.

AppleandPB · 10/10/2025 19:24

Barking out print isn’t the sign of a good reader and won’t get you through SATS. Multiple
choice questions take little skill.It’s far better to learn good reading skills- inference, retrieval, prediction, explaining etc with texts that are accessible. He probably is struggling in some of the key skills. I’d be grateful his teacher is on it and scrutinising his reading skills.

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 10/10/2025 19:08

I learnt very quickly to ignore what was happening with reading at school. I let them crack on with their levels and at home DC read whatever they want but I stretch them. So my ds is banded as blue I think at school but is reading chapter books easily at home.

taxguru · 10/10/2025 19:05

For most, reading the words is the easy bit. It's the understanding that's harder, so the school is right to hold back until the understanding improves.

Duechristmas · 10/10/2025 19:05

FishChipsandKipper · 09/10/2025 09:56

Believe me - complaining to the school is absolutely futile. Ultra defensive and as a complaint is through their school process, it is not impartial.

Plus they will 100% label me ‘difficult’ and this will backfire on my son.

Only 1 this year to go, and I hear next school is better.

Pseudoscience is rife in education - whichever poster said that! Anyone remember brain gym??

Library, second hand reading books off eBay plus I use a great app where he can answer comprehension questions no problem!

Oh yes, I remember brain gym! Haha it didn't make any sense even then.
In terms of their defensiveness, there's a thing called 'fidelity to the scheme', where they are told they will be hauled over the coals if they don't get either perfect results or perfect fidelity. It's taken all skill out of the job. I actually stopped being classroom based because of it, I think the whole thing is disgusting.
The people who put the schemes together are rolling in the profits while the students have been turned off reading for life. It's immoral.

AnnaBegins · 10/10/2025 18:17

Yup so frustrating. DD was stuck on "level 4" for months in year 1 as we were told she couldn't start the next level until year 2. Reassessed in sept of year 2 and she's out of the reading scheme and on to being a "free reader". So she re-read all those low level books for nothing! I think your plan is probably best.

MagicLoop · 10/10/2025 17:02

Duechristmas · 09/10/2025 08:20

I've been teaching kids to read over 25 years. The current system removed professional judgement, is backed by pseudo-science, and removes any joy there might have been in getting lost in a book.
Ignore school and enjoy your own books at home.

Yes, that's what I did. I just ignored the books the school gave my dc. I filled in the reading record sometimes saying which book (from home) they were reading and how much they'd read. The dc and I talked about the books, so I knew perfectly well they had good comprehension. I'm a (secondary) teacher though, so maybe I'm more prepared to ignore certain things schools do/say!

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