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to want the anti-vaxxers to explain themselves?

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Goldfsh · 08/10/2025 21:06

My Facebook feed is full of GP practices etc. promoting the flu jab, and EVERY response is from people saying they are full of poison, giving everyone flu, part of a government conspiracy, Bill Gates, big pharma, etc.

It doesn't matter where the GP surgery is in the country, the responses are all the same.

Just... WOT IS GOING ON????

It's literally 100% of the respondents. Please can someone explain to me why the general public (on my feeds anyway) have become convinced that the flu jab is part of a conspiracy... to what end?!

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Howmanycatsistoomany · 09/10/2025 13:01

GaIadriel · 09/10/2025 12:51

Same. It's like flat earthers. Any explanation they give will just be a load of complete bollocks. Let them catch the flu IMO.

I once met a helicopter pilot who was a flat earther. Initially thought he was having a laugh but no, totally serious. Total fruit loop.

Threebeelee · 09/10/2025 12:54

I don’t really believe in the flu jab. Every time I have gotten it I have been ill. When I don’t get it. I usually dont get flu. Maybe one in 5 years I get it.

So maybe if your immune comprised it makes sense. But for ordinary adult me; there’s a 20% risk of being ill vs a 100% certainty of being ill. Makes no sense.

GaIadriel · 09/10/2025 12:51

ilovesooty · 08/10/2025 21:09

No idea. I'm afraid I'm not really bothered whether they explain themselves. I don't agree with them, and I'm not very interested in what they have to say.

Same. It's like flat earthers. Any explanation they give will just be a load of complete bollocks. Let them catch the flu IMO.

34ransum · 09/10/2025 12:49

Population starting to question goverment / big pharma due to the poor handling of covid

Berlinlover · 09/10/2025 12:46

BerryTwister · 09/10/2025 07:51

This answers your question OP. Anti vaxxers choose to blame the vaccine if they feel the timing fits. @Berlinlover blames the vaccine for her having a period, and blames the vaccine for cancer developing months later. She is ignoring the fact that the mini pill is renowned for causing random intermittent bleeds. She could just as easily blame what she had for breakfast that day, or what TV programme she watched the night before, or what kind of washing powder she used. There is no logic to the link anti vaxxers make with whatever misfortune befalls them at an unspecified time post vaccine.

My theory is that the majority of anti vaxxers like to be controversial. They often believe all the conspiracy theories too. They think it makes them clever and edgy, and they like the attention.

I hadn’t had a period for several years as I was on the mini pill. Within a couple of days of receiving the Covid vaccine I haemorrhaged for two days, of course the haemorrhaging was due to the vaccine. I’m not against vaccines and I get the ‘flu vaccine every winter but I believe the Covid vaccine is utter poison.

Berlinlover · 09/10/2025 12:40

Topseyt123 · 09/10/2025 09:29

That's bollocks.

Are you saying I’m lying about getting cancer?

LochKatrine · 09/10/2025 12:27

clinellwipe · 09/10/2025 12:03

What I don’t understand is that they clearly have a huge mistrust in doctors/NHS/pharmaceutical companies etc… but presumably if they got hit by a car or cancer or had a stroke they’d attend hospital? If their child had meningitis they’d attend hospital etc etc. So if they think the medical community is harming them intentionally or that they believe they know better than doctors, why would they accept treatment when shit hits the fan?

I was an NHS hospital doctor and the most I ever got from a pharmaceutical company was a free M&S sandwich whilst crowded in a tiny staff room on my lunch break in exchange for listening to their boring presentation.

Oh, just ignore, there's no logic. It's partly being taken in my online nonsense eg TikTok etc, partly lack of critical thinking.

Thatcannotberight · 09/10/2025 12:25

Thatcannotberight · 09/10/2025 08:27

But figures for what? Does that stop 50% of people getting flu? They get it less severely? They won't be hospitalised with it? The Govt. website just gives figures for hospitalisation and out patients.

So nobody can give a definitive answer to the clinical meaning of "effective " in this case?

clinellwipe · 09/10/2025 12:03

What I don’t understand is that they clearly have a huge mistrust in doctors/NHS/pharmaceutical companies etc… but presumably if they got hit by a car or cancer or had a stroke they’d attend hospital? If their child had meningitis they’d attend hospital etc etc. So if they think the medical community is harming them intentionally or that they believe they know better than doctors, why would they accept treatment when shit hits the fan?

I was an NHS hospital doctor and the most I ever got from a pharmaceutical company was a free M&S sandwich whilst crowded in a tiny staff room on my lunch break in exchange for listening to their boring presentation.

RubySquid · 09/10/2025 12:03

Pleasegetmeacoffeesotired · 09/10/2025 04:25

You're correct that the flu jab is different. Flu is not going to be eradicated because it evolves into new strains every year.

Things like measles though? That was eradicated and now children are dying from it again because not enough people are getting their kids vaccinated.

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I am partially deaf due to measles as a child. I did have the vaccine though. Didn't stop people calling my parents anti vacxerscand telling them it was their fault I had eases so badly

KaleidoscopeSmile · 09/10/2025 11:42

lazyarse123 · 09/10/2025 10:40

The point being that your post came across as very rude has passed you by. What did you mean by "you people"?

It was perfectly clear that she was referring to the posters who were calling people stupid idiots.

cordeliabuffy · 09/10/2025 11:30

I skipped my last Covid vaccine because of everything I was seeing/reading
booked for it this year along with the flu vaccine

3luckystars · 09/10/2025 11:24

LochKatrine · 09/10/2025 11:14

I think the term anti vaxxer is used to describe those who are against all vaccinations, not those who select which to have. I would say you are a vaxxer!

That makes sense! Thanks x

ufo · 09/10/2025 11:22

Most people determine what they think is true or false in really unreliable, irrational ways. If you ask someone about anything, religion, politics, health, diet etc, their reasoning almost never makes sense.

Take a classic mistake in reasoning 'my grandma smoked and lived until 90 so I'm gonna smoke too.' So the person smokes, maybe dies a decade or two early, which is sad, but the effect of that bad reasoning doesn't have a significant impact on society as a whole.

During the pandemic though suddenly you need everyone to think rationally in order to protect society as a whole, in order for the system to work.

I have a few anti-vaxxer friends and I'd talk to them sometimes during the days of the pandemic (as in an actual discussion, not a fight, I know that wouldn't help). I tried to explain how to reliably determine when something is (likely) true vs false, but none of them ever managed to change their thinking. Even a rational anti-vax argument seemed to be beyond them. For example you could say something like 'I'll take the vaccine, but not yet because it's not gone through the proper testing' and okay, I disagree, but fair enough, that's rational. Instead I'd get theories about population control, immigration (somehow), microscopic tentacle monsters in the vaccine (yes, seriously) and so on.

As I say, they're my friends, so overall I consider them good, kind people, but I'm kind of convinced nowadays that some people just don't have the mental ability to reason properly and idk really what we should do about that because there are going to be occasions again where that's going to hurt others.

TheatricalLife · 09/10/2025 11:21

Howmanycatsistoomany · 09/10/2025 09:58

Most are so thick they don't even know how thick they are!

My SIL visited recently, on day 1 she started spouting anti-vaxx shite. I have degrees in biochemistry and immunology and have worked in and around pharma my entire career. 😂She shut up pretty quickly when I explained that I won't have anti-vaxxers in my house. This is a woman who recently spent 10 days in hospital being pumped full of drugs to keep her lungs working because 60 years of chain smoking has fucked them. Didn't have a problem with medics and scientists and big pharma keeping her alive then. Honestly sometimes I wonder why we bother.

So true.
I know one who is very vocally anti vax and who scoffs at us vaccinated "sheep" but who has had two breast enlargement procedures, regular botox, lip and cheek fillers, chemical face peels and who drinks, smokes and vapes heavily. Apparently, she won't allow that toxic vaccine crap in her body. She did also think that the covid jab contained computer chips though so 🤷‍♀️

MorningCoffeeInBed · 09/10/2025 11:17

WolfieMuma · 09/10/2025 11:11

Yes, this. Or if they’d take chemo drugs if they have cancer

I believe the antivaxers I know did have chemo with cancer (only two). Botox though? Poor example. Surely only a minority of people, pro or anti vax, get that? I don't think I've been privy to antivaxers facing the question of travel jabs. If I had to guess, I'd day they probably didn't.

You don't have to throw the baby out with the bathwater. For example, no drugs for me in childbirth, I'll have them at home without internal exams or intervention, but if something happens where there is a legitimate medical reason to have a c-section, bring it on.

LochKatrine · 09/10/2025 11:14

3luckystars · 09/10/2025 11:08

All I would like to say is that there isn’t just 2 types of people, vaxxers and anti vaxxers.

Some people pick and choose what vaccines to take. I got the Covid vaccine but not the flu vaccine.

maybe I’m a semi-vaxxer 😂

I think the term anti vaxxer is used to describe those who are against all vaccinations, not those who select which to have. I would say you are a vaxxer!

WolfieMuma · 09/10/2025 11:11

PersephoneParlormaid · 09/10/2025 06:59

I wonder how many anti vaxers have travel jabs and Botox, I wonder if they look at the ingredients of their medication and antibiotics as closely.

Yes, this. Or if they’d take chemo drugs if they have cancer

MorningCoffeeInBed · 09/10/2025 11:08

BatchCookBabe · 09/10/2025 11:05

Exactly this. ^

Though of course, the anti vaxxers will say NONE of the above. 🙄

As you say, I bet some of the anti vaxxers have used weight loss jabs too. Now I wouldn't be putting THAT into my body, because no-one knows the long term effects. And it's already known that it can be detrimental to your internal organs if you over-use it.

I wouldn't be posting stuff online though, telling everyone it's poison, it's toxic, and the government are selling it to you as they want to kill you all off within 10 years.

The antivaxers I've known actually don't do those things. I don't do all vaccines (I've never had a flu jab in my life and only two Covid vaccines) and don't do those things, though I'm sensible enough to know that antibiotics do have their place, as does anesthetic. I have however known some who wouldn't do antibiotics.

3luckystars · 09/10/2025 11:08

All I would like to say is that there isn’t just 2 types of people, vaxxers and anti vaxxers.

Some people pick and choose what vaccines to take. I got the Covid vaccine but not the flu vaccine.

maybe I’m a semi-vaxxer 😂

BatchCookBabe · 09/10/2025 11:06

Abhannmor · 09/10/2025 11:04

I remember that poor tria- athlete guy. Think he was only in his forties and super fit. So he passed on the vaccine. On his deathbed he urged people to get it. But anti vaxxers aren't bothered by cases like that. Because :

He was a crisis actor
He never said that - They are making it up
It wasn't COVID that killed him

And so on forever.

Yep!

BatchCookBabe · 09/10/2025 11:05

Luna6 · 09/10/2025 07:41

I always wonder about what other things anti-vaxxers put in their bodies. Do they smoke, drink, use ultra processed or even processed foods, eat takeaways, Botox, diet jabs, HRT, antibiotics, anesthetic…. I often find there is a lot of hypocrisy and they pick and choose the things that suit them.

Exactly this. ^

Though of course, the anti vaxxers will say NONE of the above. 🙄

As you say, I bet some of the anti vaxxers have used weight loss jabs too. Now I wouldn't be putting THAT into my body, because no-one knows the long term effects. And it's already known that it can be detrimental to your internal organs if you over-use it.

I wouldn't be posting stuff online though, telling everyone it's poison, it's toxic, and the government are selling it to you as they want to kill you all off within 10 years.

Abhannmor · 09/10/2025 11:04

BatchCookBabe · 09/10/2025 10:44

That's fine. Choose to not have it by all means. (The covid jab/flu jab.) It should be an individual choice,

But what people are talking about/pissed off about is the constant bullshit comments on certain social media platforms about how toxic the jabs are, and how people are all being injected with poison, and how 'the government' are 'slowly killing us all.' It's ludicrous bullshit, and dangerous advice because it could put someone off having the jabs, and they could get covid and die.

I remember a number of anti-vaccine people throughout 2021 who refused to get the covid jab, and they got covid and died. If they'd had the jab they would very likely have lived. (Some were in their 40s and 50s!!!)

!

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I remember that poor tria- athlete guy. Think he was only in his forties and super fit. So he passed on the vaccine. On his deathbed he urged people to get it. But anti vaxxers aren't bothered by cases like that. Because :

He was a crisis actor
He never said that - They are making it up
It wasn't COVID that killed him

And so on forever.

MorningCoffeeInBed · 09/10/2025 11:01

HostaCentral · 09/10/2025 10:48

Absolutely not true for both my parents. Both died of Covid pre vaccine. Both had regular annual flu vaccines, never had flu, rarely had seasonal colds.

And two family members of mine had the flu vaccine and still got the flu this year. That's my anecdote that is just as valid as yours, even though it is opposite. I pretty much never get the flu either and I've never had a flu vaccine in my life. I get maybe one cold a year. A flu maybe twice in the last 20 years.

I'm sorry for the loss of your parents. You must have lost them quite close together. That's rough.

HostaCentral · 09/10/2025 10:48

MorningCoffeeInBed · 09/10/2025 09:25

My theory is that any older people who died from Covid were likely to die from the next flu that came along. I'm sorry you lost your GM but, like you say, 98 is a great lifespan, so good you got her for long long.

My 20 year old son is immune compromised. He was given antivirals for Covid, which kept him out of hospital, but a few weeks later he was hospitalised with the flu. I hear you on causes of death. If he had died (thank goodness he didn't) would he have died because of the underlying condition that meant he had to take immune suppressing medication? From the medication? From the flu/Covid? Sometimes it's a matter of 'what came first?'

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Absolutely not true for both my parents. Both died of Covid pre vaccine. Both had regular annual flu vaccines, never had flu, rarely had seasonal colds.