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Goldfsh · 08/10/2025 21:06

My Facebook feed is full of GP practices etc. promoting the flu jab, and EVERY response is from people saying they are full of poison, giving everyone flu, part of a government conspiracy, Bill Gates, big pharma, etc.

It doesn't matter where the GP surgery is in the country, the responses are all the same.

Just... WOT IS GOING ON????

It's literally 100% of the respondents. Please can someone explain to me why the general public (on my feeds anyway) have become convinced that the flu jab is part of a conspiracy... to what end?!

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Cel77 · 10/10/2025 21:59

ilovesooty · 08/10/2025 21:09

No idea. I'm afraid I'm not really bothered whether they explain themselves. I don't agree with them, and I'm not very interested in what they have to say.

Maybe you should. Never heard of herd immunity? It affects all of us. Measles increase is just obe of the most recent examples...

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:42

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 21:39

I saw the thing about the education level of Facebook users and found it a snobby stuck up comment. And surely it's SOME facebook users comments about vaccines notall. As I said I don't seem to get comments about vaccines or other contentious subjects on my Facebook

And seeing as I'm from a generation level where less than 25 % of people had a degree then you would expect if the coment was true I should see a lot of " uneducated," comments on my feed. Yet I dont

I don't tend to get posts about vaccines, but have noticed that if there is a story about someone who died young, there are a lot of comments under it asking if they had 'the jab'. I just ignore what I'm not interested in.

I hadn't really thought about the demographic of Facebook much. In some way we create our own demographic by who we add as friends, what groups we follow, etc.

I have no idea how many people in my demographic have a degree. When I meet people I either click with them or I don't. Not having a degree doesn't mean they aren't capable of having one anyway, just chose a different path.

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 21:39

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:30

If you read back a few pages, you'd see the context. Kind of an irrelevant side thread about the education level of Facebook users, since FB users comments on threads about vaccines were a linked discussion.

I saw the thing about the education level of Facebook users and found it a snobby stuck up comment. And surely it's SOME facebook users comments about vaccines notall. As I said I don't seem to get comments about vaccines or other contentious subjects on my Facebook

And seeing as I'm from a generation level where less than 25 % of people had a degree then you would expect if the coment was true I should see a lot of " uneducated," comments on my feed. Yet I dont

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:30

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 21:28

Butwhats that got to do with anything?

If you read back a few pages, you'd see the context. Kind of an irrelevant side thread about the education level of Facebook users, since FB users comments on threads about vaccines were a linked discussion.

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 21:28

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:04

Depends on who you add as friends too. Almost everyone on my friends list will have at least one degree. A few have PhDs.

Butwhats that got to do with anything?

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:04

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 17:42

I'm on Facebook. Don't seem to get nutters, anti vaxxers and rants or anything of the sort. Mine is full of travel deals, travel groups etc

But you are coming across as extremely snobby. You may only want to speak to degree educated higher income people but not everyone is so stuck up and insular

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Depends on who you add as friends too. Almost everyone on my friends list will have at least one degree. A few have PhDs.

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:03

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 17:38

WTF are you on about? It's been well documented that many women had vaginal bleeding and mucked up periods after having the jab

Me and my daughters had a couple of periods after the vaccine that were a lot more painful than usual, and did have heavier bleeding. I can imagine if you did have an underlying condition it could exacerbate it, otherwise it sorted itself out within a couple of cycles.

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 21:01

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 10/10/2025 17:19

Well it was three years but it didn't happen so they've extended the deadline.

I've asked numerous anti-vaxxers if they'd refuse a rabies vaccine if they were bitten by an animal suspected of being infected. They don't want to answer that one...

There's a difference between declining routine vaccinations and declining one that is needed as a treatment for a situation like that.

There's also a difference in a situation like, I'm never leaving the UK so I won't take a polio vaccine vs. I'm going to visit an area where polio is rife, so the balance swings towards taking the vaccine.

It doesn't have to be all or nothing. Sometimes factors weigh differently in different situations.

cordeliabuffy · 10/10/2025 20:15

I had abnormal bleeding (abnormal for me) after the first couple of vaccines but covid itself also sent my periods haywire. I just figured it was one of those things but the vaccine was more of a priority for me than my periods being messed up

AlphonsaAlpaca · 10/10/2025 19:05

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 10/10/2025 17:19

Well it was three years but it didn't happen so they've extended the deadline.

I've asked numerous anti-vaxxers if they'd refuse a rabies vaccine if they were bitten by an animal suspected of being infected. They don't want to answer that one...

See, perhaps they aren’t “antivaxxers” but you just label them that.
I don’t claim to be an antivaxxer. I’ve been told not to have vaccines after having had a severe reaction in childhood. If I were to take a rabies shot that would be a last resort life/death situation and noting to do with being antivax or not. But you would consider me an antivaxxer currently.

GarlicPound · 10/10/2025 17:43

A statistically significant number of women have reported unexpected bleeding after a Covid jab. These were short-term (max three months) and minor effects, not haemorrhaging. BUT we don't know how many of these events would've occurred anyway and not been reported. I certainly didn't report mid-cycle spotting or ovulation bleeds in the normal course of events.

I did once haemorrhage unexpectedly - a moderate river of blood, embarrassingly in the Sainsbury's queue while wearing shorts 😬 Phoned my doctor, who asked if it had stopped (yes), was I pregnant (no), and gently suggested that, at 47, I was probably starting menopause.

If I'd had a vaccination the day before, I'd have been keen to know if the two events were linked and would likely have reported it as a possible side-effect. I hadn't, so this didn't happen. But you can see how natural it feels to conclude that A caused B, when in fact B was a physical process that was going to occur regardless of other choices.

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 17:42

Tryingtokeepgoing · 10/10/2025 11:10

This post hits the nail on the head IMO. Only half the UK’s eligible population is on it, with a higher proportion of women than men. And only somewhere between a quarter and a third of users are degree educated. Facebook users seem to be less educated in general. They are also more likely to be in the middle or lower income demographic, and more likely to be millennials than any other group. So why would one would want to even be on it? Let alone read or engage with the drivel that seems to be there. It’s just a platform for people to say ‘look at me’, and fill a gap in a life that’s clearly missing something ;)

When you come across a nutter in the street or a bar raging against something or other, would you ask them to explain themselves, or would you do what everyone else does and just walk on by and ignore them? Posting on Facebook doesn’t give it any more legitimacy than an average nutter! What sort of arrogance makes anyone think that they have the right to ask another random person to explain themselves, and what sort of idiot would even try 😂

I'm on Facebook. Don't seem to get nutters, anti vaxxers and rants or anything of the sort. Mine is full of travel deals, travel groups etc

But you are coming across as extremely snobby. You may only want to speak to degree educated higher income people but not everyone is so stuck up and insular

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 17:38

Abhannmor · 10/10/2025 17:20

Of course they did. Their lives didn't just freeze up before they had the vaccine. That only happens in sci fi movies.

WTF are you on about? It's been well documented that many women had vaginal bleeding and mucked up periods after having the jab

Abhannmor · 10/10/2025 17:20

RubySquid · 10/10/2025 05:03

It happened to many people after the jab. I'm sure they didn't ALL have other things going on

Of course they did. Their lives didn't just freeze up before they had the vaccine. That only happens in sci fi movies.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 10/10/2025 17:19

BatchCookBabe · 08/10/2025 23:57

They're utterly batshit. Ignore them. I have read (from some) that we are all being slowly poisoned (by the covid jab) and will be dead within 10 years.

This ludicous myth has been busted somewhat by the Government giving covid jabs to a much smaller group of people now. 😆

The people who are coming out with this batshit nonsense are the same ones who think the earth is flat, and that Elvis Presley and Princess Diana are still alive. They also usually support Donald Trump.

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Well it was three years but it didn't happen so they've extended the deadline.

I've asked numerous anti-vaxxers if they'd refuse a rabies vaccine if they were bitten by an animal suspected of being infected. They don't want to answer that one...

Abhannmor · 10/10/2025 17:15

Youdontseehow · 09/10/2025 22:46

yes we do have many targeted therapies and biological agents - but chemotherapy was essentially a toxic substance that millions of people agreed to despite it not adding to cure rates for the majority of cancers. And chemotherapy is still much more commonly used for most common cancers than targeted/biological therapies.

And cancer vaccines are being developed - will the anti- vaxers accept those I wonder?

If an anti cancer vaccine was introduced I'd hope my adult kids would take it. Less bothered at my age. Youth should be prioritised

cordeliabuffy · 10/10/2025 16:52

I’ve just been and had both flu and Covid today, pharmacist said it’s been really busy for both

GarlicPound · 10/10/2025 14:39

Jumpingthruhoops · 10/10/2025 09:28

This! I mean, seriously, as if 'going to the gym' would cause this hemorrhaging!? People really will believe any old bollocks!

You missed the point. Going to the gym didn't cause it, a curry didn't cause it, a vaccination didn't cause it. The poster I was replying to had uterine cancer. That's what caused it.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 10/10/2025 12:28

Youdontseehow · 09/10/2025 13:22

Which is why the Covid vaccine is now only being offered to the extremely vulnerable - age 75+, care home residents and severely immunosuppressed. Our bodies have adapted to the virus with the help of the vaccine so younger, healthy people don’t need it any more.

Possibly .

Alternatively it could be considered a cost-cutting exercise. And given the amount of people currently reporting feeling quite ill with the current round of COVID, may be one which they will regret.

Not suggesting that healthy people in their 20s/30s should have the vaccine, but that there are many people in the 65-75 age group plus people with certain illnesses who were entitled to the vaccine on NHS previously but no longer get it this year. Plus, offering the vaccine to health and social care workers is IMO, sensible. I certainly don’t agree with the forced vaccinations of a few years back but the opportunity for those working with the elderly and vulnerable to be vaccinated freely makes sense to me.

My understanding is that the booster doses are only really effective in the short term.

Goldfsh · 10/10/2025 12:06

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 11:31

I would miss a lot of local community information without Facebook. It's the only reason I stay. For the information.

Yes me too. I'm always uninstalling it but then it's the only way to contact a local business (literally happened to me this morning) or I want to get rid of something on freecycle groups, so I'm off and on it all the time. Very annoying but don't think there's any kind of wholesome online alternative!

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OrangeCrushes · 10/10/2025 11:38

TempestTost · 08/10/2025 21:14

Medical authorities have lost the trust of much of the public. Not only big pharma, who they see as the ones really promoting the flu jab, but they have no trust in government medical authorities, or the research that informs medical practice.

They've squandered what used to be very significant trust and that means other sources of information are stepping in.

How have they squandered it?

Swiftie1878 · 10/10/2025 11:37

softlyfallsthesnow · 10/10/2025 09:37

It takes 14 to 21 days to be fully effective. You were already 'cooking' your flu bug when you had the vaccine. Unfortunate timing, that's all.
Unless you avoid people all the time, you don't know if you've been in contact with an immunocompromised person.

Well, I’ve never had flu since and nor has my family. We’re good without it, thanks. Our own immune systems seem to be quite strong.

MorningCoffeeInBed · 10/10/2025 11:31

Tryingtokeepgoing · 10/10/2025 11:10

This post hits the nail on the head IMO. Only half the UK’s eligible population is on it, with a higher proportion of women than men. And only somewhere between a quarter and a third of users are degree educated. Facebook users seem to be less educated in general. They are also more likely to be in the middle or lower income demographic, and more likely to be millennials than any other group. So why would one would want to even be on it? Let alone read or engage with the drivel that seems to be there. It’s just a platform for people to say ‘look at me’, and fill a gap in a life that’s clearly missing something ;)

When you come across a nutter in the street or a bar raging against something or other, would you ask them to explain themselves, or would you do what everyone else does and just walk on by and ignore them? Posting on Facebook doesn’t give it any more legitimacy than an average nutter! What sort of arrogance makes anyone think that they have the right to ask another random person to explain themselves, and what sort of idiot would even try 😂

I would miss a lot of local community information without Facebook. It's the only reason I stay. For the information.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 10/10/2025 11:10

daisychain01 · 10/10/2025 05:14

Facebook is shite, full of scammers, why are you even on it OP?

This post hits the nail on the head IMO. Only half the UK’s eligible population is on it, with a higher proportion of women than men. And only somewhere between a quarter and a third of users are degree educated. Facebook users seem to be less educated in general. They are also more likely to be in the middle or lower income demographic, and more likely to be millennials than any other group. So why would one would want to even be on it? Let alone read or engage with the drivel that seems to be there. It’s just a platform for people to say ‘look at me’, and fill a gap in a life that’s clearly missing something ;)

When you come across a nutter in the street or a bar raging against something or other, would you ask them to explain themselves, or would you do what everyone else does and just walk on by and ignore them? Posting on Facebook doesn’t give it any more legitimacy than an average nutter! What sort of arrogance makes anyone think that they have the right to ask another random person to explain themselves, and what sort of idiot would even try 😂

TempestTost · 10/10/2025 10:50

GarlicPound · 10/10/2025 04:25

I find stories like this upsetting for a number of reasons. I hope you're all sorted now, Berlin, and feeling okay.

The most common symptom of uterine (womb) cancer is abnormal vaginal bleeding. The unusual bleeding you experienced was a warning of the cancer. The fact that you had your Covid jab at the time is a coincidence, not a cause.

There are other things you will have done for the first time around then, too. You might have tried a new food or drink, visited somewhere, started a different gym class, switched vitamin brands, all sorts of things. You could just as well blame any of them for the bleeding. But what caused it was already going on in your cells - it wasn't started by anything you did at all.

Quite a lot of women had menstrual irregularities after the covid vaccination. I don't know that it would cause cancer but it could certainly have tended to hide irregular bleeding. I had it, my daughter did, and several friends and family. It lasted for a good while too, something like 6 months to a year later my daughter and I were still having irregularities.

I think they did investigate this and decided it was basically harmless, but at the time I think many people found it quite disconcerting because there was no warning and no explanation.

The whole claim it was well tested seemed to be challenged by the fact that they didn't realise it would have effects like that. Because presumably it should have been observed when they did the testing if it was common.

It was just another thing that made people lose trust.

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