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For staying in easy, low stress job and not working the hours I’m paid for

31 replies

BleedinEck · 08/10/2025 14:31

I’ve been with my company 5 years. I can do my job with my eyes closed and although I’m paid for a 40 hour week, I reckon I’m genuinely fully. productive for 25 max 30 hours each week. I’ll always take on extra projects or work that’s offered, but the role is what it is and when I’m focused, I work quickly and efficiently. I’m usually logged on for most of the day bar a slightly extended lunch or earlier finish occasionally, just not always working and rarely flat out. No concerns about my performance.

Is it really bad that I continue like this? I Absolutely love the flexibility I’m afforded- I can walk the dog when I want, keep on top of the house, meet a friend for a coffee, flex my hours to suit and have zero stress. It can be boring stretching out the work so I’m doing a PT course and have added a side hustle recently to supplement my income as pay isn’t great. And there’s my dilemma - shit pay and no chance of career progression. I’m 52 so feel I'm at crossroads and need to decide.

YABU: move on. you’re stagnating & taking the piss.
YANBU: you are doing the job asked of you and are lucky to have so much flexibility. You’d be mad to give it up.

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AnSolas · 08/10/2025 14:57

Its a time V outcome question

I am more inclined to be focused on the fact that you do the tasks quickly to a high quality in the role you are being paid for rather than time it takes for you to do it.

If you are getting the work done and taking on extra tasks the organisation is getting what it pays for.

Once you are not hiding your downtime or claiming to be rushed off your feet when you are not its up to your manager to come up with the extra work to fill in the extra time. Sometimes the management have allowed redundancy into roles to cover busy periods or there was an expansion plan which did not work out.

So work away

Breli · 08/10/2025 14:46

You rarely get brownie points for being efficient - just rewarded with more work. When I used to work in an office, I would be the same. I could get the whole working week’s tasks done in a few days! I used the rest of my time doing admin tasks like comparing mortgages/insurance/utilities, doing an online shop, etc. I’d often just leave early too!

NotableI · 08/10/2025 14:40

It’s fine. Plenty of ‘full time’ jobs have a lot of downtime tbh, you’re just not supposed to admit it.

summitfever · 08/10/2025 14:39

You get no extra pay for years of experience so may as well take the time it affords you. If you’re still ambitious though I’d move on

Praying4Peace · 08/10/2025 14:34

Thanks for your honesty. So many people 'wfh' & do this in varying degrees but don't admit it.
It's irrelevant that you work hard /complete and take on extra projects etc

Limth · 08/10/2025 14:34

It sounds absolutely ideal. Enjoy it.

Use your 'free time' to learn new skills and get new qualifications. Once you're armed with those (i.e. have more CV fodder with which to apply for new roles), revisit the decision.

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