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Chopbob · 07/10/2025 14:42

People using the word gosh, or golly gosh.

I have never in real life heard anyone other than MN posters and Disney princesses use gosh. It's absolutely vile.

It can get in the bin along with moist, supper and plonk (wine).

(Lighthearted of course)

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VictoriaEra · 07/10/2025 16:27

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 15:29

Why does moist always, ALWAYS come up on threads like this? It's not that bad. I think it's just that it has been cited so many times as a disliked word that it is the one that springs most readily to mind when we try to think of words we hate.

I agree. Didn’t it come from Miranda Hart?

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 07/10/2025 16:26

I use gosh all the time...not sure why people think it's fake - it's just automatic. I'm not really posh and I tend to say 'bab' a lot because I'm from the West Midlands.

I can't stand sweet treat, light bite, cooking up a storm and I can't stand it when people keep going on about dahl when anyone says they have no money for food. Oh and 'foody'...as if the person likes and appreciates food more than everyone else. Oh and 'layer up'...it sounds so earnest and bossy. Well most people on mumsnet seem earnest and bossy really.

Lesina · 07/10/2025 16:26

YouForgotToTurnItOff · 07/10/2025 14:57

Along with "nommy" or "nommy nom-nom" or anything similar.
See also "lush"
I say gosh quite often.

This... I want to punch people who say nom-nom or even worse nummy. I get irrationally angry about it.

CeliaCanth · 07/10/2025 16:26

Lots of food-related expressions here (I wonder why? Must be some reason lost in the evolutionary past?).

I hate: meal; all the trimmings; roasties; toasties; Yorkies; pud; sweet; plonk; vino; a nice drop of red; tucking in; get in my belly; cuppa; steaming mugs of various things (kudos to everyone who mentioned hearty/nourishing soups); scran; pack-ups; sarnies; biccies; a “lovely spread”… Don’t have a problem with the food itself!

JH0404 · 07/10/2025 16:25

I can’t stand the word ‘yummy’ (unless it’s being said to a young child). In fact adults using baby language/voices for effect makes me want to jump out of a high window. Also dislike adults in dungarees, but not as strongly as baby talk.

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 16:24

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 16:11

Yes - I totally agree. But why? I don’t understand why it makes me cringe!

I don’t understand why it makes me cringe, either. I think that’s the definition of an ‘ick’ though, isn’t it? As I understand it, it’s meant to be something that provokes an irrationally strong reaction for reasons you can’t really explain.

Whatifitallgoesright · 07/10/2025 16:22

I only ever hear "rip him/her a new one" on here. I'm not a nun by any means but it makes me flinch. It reminds me of reading harrowing accounts of ex-porn performers and their life-long intimate injuries.

Re 'moist' there's a hummus company in Bristol called this.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 16:22

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 16:18

Depends on who’s saying it. It isn’t when I say it.

You can’t say fuck in front of children or anyone really in a professional context. When I was a primary school teacher I didn’t say “ Oh fuck, Josh, you’ve spilled yoghurt down your shirt!”

"Oh gosh, Josh" would work much better anyway.Grin

"Oh gosh, Josh. What a slosh, Josh!" would be perfect.

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 16:22

Lilifer · 07/10/2025 16:12

My sister says blimey all the time. It drives me nuts. We don’t live in a famous five novel, we’re not English and it’s not 1955

I say it too! I know lots of people who use it.

i think we’re all guilty of being a bit parochial and assuming our social bubble if ps the norm.

What’s wrong with using old-fashioned language? It’s interesting and more colourful than the impoverished vocabulary some people have today. I think people who read widely are more likely to use these expressions.

VictoriaEra · 07/10/2025 16:21

I’ve realised I do say gosh but only as in Oh my Gosh as a deliberate attempt not to blaspheme.

Boomer55 · 07/10/2025 16:21

First of all, what’s a visceral ick? Sounds painful….🙄

Vinvertebrate · 07/10/2025 16:21

Apparently I say "Good Lord!" an awful lot since having DC. I know this because my oldest and dearest friend threatened to punch me on the nose if I didn't desist.

I am also reading the Famous Five with DS at the moment. Absolutely no blimeys or cor blimeys so far, but DS has rather enthusiastically adopted "I say!" albeit with heavy sarcasm. That's probably giving his teachers the proper ick as well.

Foundress · 07/10/2025 16:20

newbluesofa · 07/10/2025 16:11

I say 'oh my gosh' as I used to work with children and we were advised not to say 'oh my god' because religious parents wouldn't be happy about it, so now I'm just used to saying it

Yes I have thought recently a lot telly people are saying ‘Gosh’ probably instead of saying ‘God’.It sounds a bit false but I understand their reasons. My late DF was a great one for saying ‘Jesus Wept’ as an exclamation. My DH says ‘Good Lord’ when surprised by anything. He says it in a tone of voice which for some reason makes me laugh.

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 16:18

Lilifer · 07/10/2025 16:12

My sister says blimey all the time. It drives me nuts. We don’t live in a famous five novel, we’re not English and it’s not 1955

The only people who might say ‘Blimey’ in a Famous Five book would surely be the villains. It’s a working class thing and the Five were much too posh for it. Unless they were saying it for comic effect to mock their family’s cook or something.

It’s possible they might say ‘Crikey’. I have a feeling ‘Crikey’ used to crop up in Biggles books.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 07/10/2025 16:18

"Gosh" always makes me think of the mayor from Buffy.

He's turned into a giant snake demon thing, about to get blown up, and his last words are just "Well Gosh!"

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 16:18

Catpiece · 07/10/2025 15:10

Gosh is fake as fuck. It’s usually people trying to pretend they’re the type that don’t swear. It sounds fake because it IS fake

Depends on who’s saying it. It isn’t when I say it.

You can’t say fuck in front of children or anyone really in a professional context. When I was a primary school teacher I didn’t say “ Oh fuck, Josh, you’ve spilled yoghurt down your shirt!”

Frankblackwife · 07/10/2025 16:16

Doesn mean what I thought it did, annoying

EmeraldShamrock000 · 07/10/2025 16:16

I can't recall ever hearing anyone say "gosh" in RL.

Frankblackwife · 07/10/2025 16:15

Peccadillo

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 16:14

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 16:10

I was just wondering about that. I'd always assumed that gosh was a contraction of something, like blimey, but I checked its etymology and there was no mention of that, so perhps it was a polite invention.

If it was a contraction, it is fun to think of what the original might have been. God's ashes or some such.

I think we should bring back swounds. Or even better, zounds. I seem to remember that word was often present in adventure books, and it was always rather exciting people, like cavaliers, who said it.

Yes! Zounds and also ‘gadzooks’. The sort of things that Timothy Claypole used to say. Or Catweazle.

MyPeppyCat · 07/10/2025 16:13

Biccies instead of biscuits. 🙄

lechatnoir · 07/10/2025 16:13

Catpiece · 07/10/2025 15:10

Gosh is fake as fuck. It’s usually people trying to pretend they’re the type that don’t swear. It sounds fake because it IS fake

It’s really not. I’m 51 and have never been a swearer but sometimes you need an exclamation and gosh works just as well as bugger or bollocks or fuck or whatever else you choose to say but imo is less vulgar and appropriate in all settings. But I assure you it’s neither fake nor an attempt to be something I’m not just something I heard as a child and now say myself.

I have also been known to say golly gosh on occasion but try not to as appreciate it sounds pompous to some people - usually gets a laugh (at me ☺️ )

EmeraldShamrock000 · 07/10/2025 16:12

You have used both ick and vile in your OP, those in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones.

Lilifer · 07/10/2025 16:12

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 15:00

I’m with you, OP. I too hate it when people say ‘gosh’ or ‘golly’ like they’re in the Famous fucking Five. I can’t stand ‘supper’ either.

I also despise adults using the word ‘yum’ or ‘yummy’ in any context. I would probably end a date over that.

People who say ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’, for example when someone’s giving advice and they say something like ‘Why don’t you put baby down for his nap at 3pm after you’ve done the school run’ or ‘You’ll probably find baby will be hungry after sleeping’.

Come to think of it, I also hate the word ‘nap’, especially as a verb.

I also loathe the way people say ‘screens’ as a blanket term for technology. Just call it an XBox or an iPad or whatever the fuck it is. ‘Screens’ is meaningless; watching a film on TV is an entirely different activity from playing Red Dead Redemption on a console and chatting on social media is a different activity from internet shopping and Minecraft on a laptop is not the same as reading a book on a Kindle. Even worse, ‘screen’. I read a post on here once where someone said of their child ‘I really struggle with how much screen he wants’ and I wanted to smash things.

My sister says blimey all the time. It drives me nuts. We don’t live in a famous five novel, we’re not English and it’s not 1955

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 16:11

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:22

The very worst would be a hearty nourishing soup. Ideally consumed out of a mug held with both hands, like a giant toddler.

Yes - I totally agree. But why? I don’t understand why it makes me cringe!

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