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Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 10:42

I dont blame them. I would if I were Jewish.

They have been failed by their country, which is the UK. I wish them well and hope the UK can sort its anti semitism problems so it becomes safe for Jewish people again.

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Vivi0 · 06/10/2025 18:16

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

You know who else doesn’t feel safe?

Women in Afghanistan.

Christians in Nigeria and in Somalia.

I could keep going, but…

What has any of that got to do with British Jews feeling unsafe in the UK?

It’s shameful that we have got to this point. Shameful.

StrongLikeMamma · 06/10/2025 18:14

Ablondiebutagoody · 06/10/2025 11:20

Would be nice if the party in Government wasn't full of anti-semites

Ffs Keir Starmer’s wife and children are Jewish!

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 18:14

Horsehow · 06/10/2025 18:12

There is very little we in the UK can do about Palestinians living in Gaza. There’s a heck of a lot we can do to help Jewish UK citizens feel safe in their country. That’s the difference. It’s so hard to effect change in Gaza. It’s so easy to make UK Jews feel threatened. The endless marches have to end. Make them once a quarter for instance, or once a year. British Jews have to be allowed to breathe freely.

Yet marching is something people CAN do. The only way to make a difference. To beseach our governments to sanction Israel for war crimes. Or are you ok with the Gaza situation? Is it far enough away you don't care?

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 18:13

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 18:06

Last time I checked it wasn't the UK's responsibility for other people in other countries to feel safe.

Standard of discourse on this thread is pretty low.

I can't help feeling that if we swapped 'Jewish' for 'Black' a lot more racism would be a lot more obvious.

Can totally understand why they'd consider moving to Israel.

Yes, your argument indeed shows pretty low standard, glad we agree.

Horsehow · 06/10/2025 18:12

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

There is very little we in the UK can do about Palestinians living in Gaza. There’s a heck of a lot we can do to help Jewish UK citizens feel safe in their country. That’s the difference. It’s so hard to effect change in Gaza. It’s so easy to make UK Jews feel threatened. The endless marches have to end. Make them once a quarter for instance, or once a year. British Jews have to be allowed to breathe freely.

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 18:11

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 18:06

Last time I checked it wasn't the UK's responsibility for other people in other countries to feel safe.

Standard of discourse on this thread is pretty low.

I can't help feeling that if we swapped 'Jewish' for 'Black' a lot more racism would be a lot more obvious.

Can totally understand why they'd consider moving to Israel.

So then why did the allies create Israel in 1948? If not their responsibility?

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 18:11

cupfinalchaos · 06/10/2025 18:03

They are beyond that age and probably wouldn’t join us anyway.

So you'll leave them in the UK where it's unsafe? If they were younger you'd be ok with conscription?

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 18:10

Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 18:03

Maybe they should get rid of HAMAS so.
Might help them feel safer.

Interestingly, most people supporting Palestine do not support Hamas, but I see you are running out of arguments, so have to use what you consider your trump card 😂

Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 18:06

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

Also Palestinians never had a "homeland"

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 18:06

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

Last time I checked it wasn't the UK's responsibility for other people in other countries to feel safe.

Standard of discourse on this thread is pretty low.

I can't help feeling that if we swapped 'Jewish' for 'Black' a lot more racism would be a lot more obvious.

Can totally understand why they'd consider moving to Israel.

inamarina · 06/10/2025 18:04

HappyGolmore2 · 06/10/2025 17:19

I feel the same way about those moving to Israel as I do those people who are apparently up and leaving for Dubai for a 'better life' - you're welcome to it.

Do people move to Dubai because they don’t feel safe in the UK?

Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 18:03

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

Maybe they should get rid of HAMAS so.
Might help them feel safer.

cupfinalchaos · 06/10/2025 18:03

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 15:58

Do you considerandatory conscription a safe option for them?

They are beyond that age and probably wouldn’t join us anyway.

Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 18:02

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You are talking absolute shite

Vivi0 · 06/10/2025 18:00

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It’s concerning to see just how far and how easily some people (even on Mumsnet) have fallen into antisemitism and conspiracy…

25milesfromhome · 06/10/2025 17:59

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Are you ok?

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/10/2025 17:59

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 10:47

Just watched BBC news on the TV, two separate families going back to Israel. Even with missile strikes and needing the Iron Dome for protection, they both said they would feel safer there. I'm not Jewish but I felt sad they don't feel safe here. I feel everyone should feel safe here.

You know who esle doesnt feel safe? Palestinians in their own homeland.

KeepOnCleaning · 06/10/2025 17:53

This is very interesting reading, for understanding current opinions on British Jews: https://www.jpr.org.uk/reports/two-years-after-october-7-attacks-british-jewish-views-antisemitism-israel-and-jewish-life

I am a naturally left-leaning British Jew. However, among my friends there are often have conversations about how unwelcome the UK is and where we will move to if we could. It doesn't mean we are actually leaving - life is here, our children and our families are here, we are British, where would we go? Israel is physically unsafe, and most people don't agree with the policies of Netanyahu. The idea of 'safety' in Israel is more about cultural safety - feeling like we belong somewhere, that we don't have to hide who we are. In the UK, there is a feeling that it is uncomfortable to be openly Jewish.

I will also add, with a DD at university in the UK, campuses are very unwelcoming places if you are Jewish. How is it ok to have protest about Gaza on the anniversary of 7th October, as is being planned on several UK campuses? How can that be seen as anything but a celebration of 7th October? A genuine protest could take place on a day that is not a memorial day for the deaths of 1700 Jews.

Two years after the October 7 attacks: British Jewish views on antisemitism, Israel and Jewish life

https://www.jpr.org.uk/reports/two-years-after-october-7-attacks-british-jewish-views-antisemitism-israel-and-jewish-life

Liverpool2025 · 06/10/2025 17:52

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 17:05

The greatest achievement of radical Islamists in recent decades has been how they have managed to expose the gullibility of the masses worldwide, most notably in the West. They have proven that the vast majority of people, even in this day and age, still subscribe to a sort of hive mind mentality. In times when you would think humans are smarter than ever before due to the means we have to access information, the opposite seems true.
This is not entirely new. For thousands of years, humans have been manipulated through groupthink, propaganda, and emotional appeals, from rulers and religious leaders to revolutionary movements. The tools and platforms may have changed, but the mechanism remains the same: exploit trust, exploit empathy, and shape perception before reason has a chance to intervene. What these radical Islamists demonstrated, more specifically the terrorist group Hamas, is simply the modern, digital-age version of an age-old tactic, amplified globally through social media and 24-hour news cycles.
So how do we know that Hamas engaged in this manipulation? Hamas itself admitted in its official post-7 October report, "Our Narrative... Operation Al-Aqsa Flood," that the attacks were designed to advance a deliberate propaganda campaign portraying Israel as committing "genocide" in Gaza. This framed Israeli responses as the real atrocity to counter the horrors of the 7 October attack, which ironically fits the actual definition of genocide far better. The goal was to sway gullible Western audiences. Senior Hamas official Ghazi Hamad even boasted that this narrative successfully shifted global perceptions, leading to recognition of a Palestinian state. In short, they engineered the "genocide" smear to weaponise sympathy and justify their terror. The strategy worked precisely because it preyed on ignorance, emotional bias, and the eagerness of many in the West to accept simple narratives over inconvenient truths.
Hamas leader Ghazi Hamad: “We will repeat October 7-like massacres until Israel is annihilated.”

Indeed. It is rather cult like

This really shows your true colours.

The thousands of innocent children killed on a daily basis makes it a genocide.

PurpleThistle7 · 06/10/2025 17:48

I think the debate here is the wrong conversation. The question isn't about what the intent of the protesters might be... but what the impact has been. And the impact has been problematic twice over - it certainly hasn't affected what Netanyahu's government has been doing, and it has negatively affected the Jewish community in the UK (and worldwide of course, this isn't exactly unique)

99% of the people on Mumsnet would have no idea what the impact of these protests are. Page after page on all these conversations from Jewish people telling everyone that we are scared, that we are anxious, that we feel less and less safe. That hearing and seeing the things we are hearing and seeing is ruining our daily lives and it's not limited to protesting a specific Israeli government... it's much more than that. And none of us have ever said it's EVERYONE or it's the stated goal of the marches to ruin our lives, but it's what's happening.

And when we keep telling you and telling you and begging you to consider the impact of your actions on regular people here, in this country, living our ordinary lives (like, again, my daughter who has been attacked in school twice so far... and most of our Jewish friends have similar stories from their children). When I tell you that my synagogue never needed security but when I phoned Police Scotland about my daughter's Bat Mitzvah this year they asked if we have hired ARMED security to protect a group of teenagers... and you keep telling us it's either our fault somehow or we are imagining it or it can't be happening because you didn't mean for this to be happening... it makes me feel sick to my stomach.

decenteringmen · 06/10/2025 17:47

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Vivi0 · 06/10/2025 17:45

Meadowfinch · 06/10/2025 13:01

There has been one attack. A sense of proportion is needed here.

If everyone left the UK on that basis, our population would be without women (more violent men than it is possible to mention), schoolchildren (Thomas Hamilton), gay people (David Copeland) and people who live in Berkshire (Michael Ryan).

Any attack is horrible & shocking and scary, but it is not a reason to leave.

When somewhere is your home, you stand and face down the bigots and aggressors. Or at least in my world you do.

Ah yes, a sense of proportion is most definitely needed.

I almost forgot that we are to view attacks by Islamic extremists as a just a natural part of life, like Storm Amy.

Nothing to be done, nothing to see.

ParmaVioletTea · 06/10/2025 17:44

While I do not condone Netanyhau's actions, I understand why he is doing what he is doing. Fair play to him for taking Hamas on.

Indeed @legrandcolbert I tend to think there are a lot of other countries in the Middle East who are quite pleased that Netanyhau is trying to eliminate Hamas as a terrorist organisation. He's doing the dirty work for Egypt, Jordan, Saudi Arabia et al. Especially as most of the ME assume that it's Iran that's behind Hamas (I also assume this is correct).

So once again, the Jews take the blame for something everyone wants (one might see the parallel between the view that the reason Europe hates Jews is because of their historic role as usurers, while simultaneously finding that Jewish financiers were terribly convenient to European business in the 17th to 19th centuries.)

ScribblingPixie · 06/10/2025 17:44

InsectsMatter · 06/10/2025 17:14

Despicable woman cutting down Hostage Ribbons placed by the Jewish Community of Muswell Hill in London

The same week of the Synagogue Attacks in Manchester.

The UK has a problem. This is getting out of hand.

x.com/koshercockney/status/1975191749447328147?s=46&t=S8Gb0A21TMstMQFJOwmSsQ

And carrying a suffragette bag. What an unpleasant idiot.

Onmytod24 · 06/10/2025 17:42

ParmaVioletTea · 06/10/2025 17:14

That is a completely graceless thing to say after 2 Jews were killed as the result of a Jew-hating terrorist.

What on earth has that Got to do with it? Read what she’s written that shows the delusion.

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