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chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 18:55

How old do I look
what colour hair would u say I mainly have
what dress size am I

if u know me irl pls don’t spill the beans

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DaisyChain505 · 05/10/2025 19:41

It’s not the best quality photo to tell.

mid 40s, auburn hair and size 14.

Reallynotsure25 · 05/10/2025 19:41

Maybe 48, ginger, size 14?

chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 19:41

So

im aged 41
size 14-16.
no idea what my hair is as havent seen natural hair colour in a while

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Alleycat321 · 05/10/2025 19:40

45, mid brown hair, size 12

YourWinter · 05/10/2025 19:38

I’d say 40 (just slightly older than my eldest’s circle of friends), size 12-14, light brown hair.

Unicornsandprincesses · 05/10/2025 19:38

chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 18:55

How old do I look
what colour hair would u say I mainly have
what dress size am I

if u know me irl pls don’t spill the beans

39
Dyed auburn brown
14 ish?

Gabby8 · 05/10/2025 19:37

Worriedalltheday · 05/10/2025 19:14

Was going to say the same

Same

ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/10/2025 19:35

I find it hard from your photo as I can't see a close up of your face. But I'd say between mid 30s and mid 40s. Your hairstyle makes me think your at the upper end of that age though.
The light is reflecting on your hair showing it as auburn.
I'd say your top half is bigger than your bottom half, I'd guess a 14-16 on top (to fit the boobs!) and a 12 on the bottom.

Vivisays · 05/10/2025 19:33

Late 30’s, auburn (dyed) - probably lightish brown, size 14-16

Itsjustafly · 05/10/2025 19:33

I think you're about my age maybe 42?
Size 16
Chestnut hair

I think you could make a couple of simple styling changes that would make you look a dress size smaller and about 10 years younger.

autienotnaughty · 05/10/2025 19:32

Age - late 20’s
hair - auburn
clothes - 10-12

LoveHearts69 · 05/10/2025 19:30

38
brown
size 12?

CharlieKirkRIP · 05/10/2025 19:29

44, male, size 14/16 and wig is hazel brown.

TheChosenTwo · 05/10/2025 19:29

45, brown, 14.
And I do hope I haven’t caused offence!
you look lovely 😊

Pancakeflipper · 05/10/2025 19:28

I'd say about 54.
Brown/auburn
Size 12/14

youalright · 05/10/2025 19:28

IshebeingadickoramI · 05/10/2025 19:27

These threads never end well!

Dunno if shes actually in her 60s and is a size 20 then its great if she's 21 and a size 10 not so much

IshebeingadickoramI · 05/10/2025 19:27

These threads never end well!

Marble10 · 05/10/2025 19:26

I would guess 36-39 ish
Auburn hair
Size 12-14

youalright · 05/10/2025 19:26

47 size 16

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 05/10/2025 19:24

RealPerson · 05/10/2025 19:09

You are 45, have auburn hair and are a 14- 16

I'd agree with this too.

Ihatetomatoes · 05/10/2025 19:22

MiddleAgedDread · 05/10/2025 19:09

Hard to tell from that photo!
age could be anywhere from in your 30’s to in your 50’s. Your hairstyle makes me think older. It looks dark gingery to me.
size could be anything from a 12-16?
the cardi looks too big and is making you look larger across the shoulder but you’ve good legs and look like you’ve got a fairly trim waist so could be smaller than the cardi makes you look across the top.

16 - 18

Late 40s or to mid 50s. The glasses are aging along eith hair style.

Brownish red hair

I think the hair style makes poster look older

Ihatetomatoes · 05/10/2025 19:20

16 - 18

Late 40s or to mid 50s. The glasses are aging along eith hair style.

Brownish red hair

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 05/10/2025 19:19

Late 30s
Auburn
Size 12

Azaleahead · 05/10/2025 19:18

Age 38, chestnut coloured hair (dark brown with a hint of auburn), size 12, maybe 14 if you’re tall

BoredZelda · 05/10/2025 19:16

No idea but pick that Lego up, it’s an accident waiting to happen!

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