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chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 18:55

How old do I look
what colour hair would u say I mainly have
what dress size am I

if u know me irl pls don’t spill the beans

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arcticpandas · 06/10/2025 00:50

38-43, dress size 10/12, auburn hair.

Toofficeornot · 06/10/2025 00:43

46 but with a young face
Auburn hair
You look small against the door, so I think dress size is 12 to 14.

Itiswhysofew · 06/10/2025 00:37

Why do you ask?
What's going on?

Itiswhysofew · 06/10/2025 00:34

I can't really see you properly but -
Early 30s
Auburn/light brown hair
Size 12/14

SnowFrogJelly · 06/10/2025 00:28

Not another one 🙄

Confused19831983 · 05/10/2025 23:45

age 35, size 12/14, light brown hair

Smileybutwily · 05/10/2025 20:55

@chatahoochee any particular reason you are asking?

ErinAoife · 05/10/2025 20:52

Size 14 around 45 years old chestnut hair color

Skybluepinky · 05/10/2025 20:33

chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 19:41

So

im aged 41
size 14-16.
no idea what my hair is as havent seen natural hair colour in a while

You dress like someone much older and assume you dye your hair yourself, you could make do lots to help you look your age, a trip to the hairdressers to sort out style and colour to something much more flattering, and clothing that highlights your shape, doing so would boost your self confidence.

Skybluepinky · 05/10/2025 20:28

56
dyed reddy brown
14/16 uk

MessageMystery · 05/10/2025 20:28

chatahoochee · 05/10/2025 18:55

How old do I look
what colour hair would u say I mainly have
what dress size am I

if u know me irl pls don’t spill the beans

41? You looks similar age to me 🙂

SeaAndStars · 05/10/2025 20:27

45
Auburn
Size 12

Edited because I just realised I've missed your post.

Tiggiwinklescousin · 05/10/2025 20:24

Age 52. Auburn hair (dyed). Size 16. You look happy and comfortable in your skin. Just my initial impression. Why do you ask?

Lovelamps · 05/10/2025 20:18

It's so hard to tell age but I think late 30s. Hair is brown/ Auburn. I think you look like a really nice and friendly person and I like your style.

BlueWorkDay · 05/10/2025 20:16

TypeyMcTypeface · 05/10/2025 19:04

Hard to say age from a distant photo - late 30s?

Your hair looks light brown with a hint of auburn on my screen.

Dress size - you look like 12/14 bottom and 16 top.

I'd say the same... 36/37ish, 12/14 ish (maybe a 16 to accommodate your chest). Brown/auburn hair.
You look a lot like my friends (as a general trope).

Edited to add... Gah, should have clicked "view" your posts. In excellent news, you're 4 years younger, and about a stone lighter in my version!

Breadcat24 · 05/10/2025 20:09

50
dyed ginger
16

Sorry just seen your reply
I am sure I would have placed you younger if i could see your face closer up

If you are going to ask these things you need more flattering clothes

Kitchenbattle · 05/10/2025 20:05

Worriedalltheday · 05/10/2025 19:14

Was going to say the same

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Same!

5dollah · 05/10/2025 20:03

37
Size 14
Brown hair

MoominMai · 05/10/2025 20:02

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 05/10/2025 19:50

I was going to say that!

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Ok I’m brave enough to also say my little OCD brain was just fixated on the upside down welcome mat haha 😅

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 05/10/2025 19:50

Isittimeformynapyet · 05/10/2025 19:43

Isn't the "welcome" supposed to face the person arriving?

I was going to say that!

JLou08 · 05/10/2025 19:50

Age is tough. Your skin is great, I'd say if I focused on the skin I'd put you in your early 30s but the hair style and condition ages you to mid 40s.
Hair looks ginger.
Dress size 14.

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 05/10/2025 19:44

38
Auburn
Size 14

Isittimeformynapyet · 05/10/2025 19:43

Isn't the "welcome" supposed to face the person arriving?

Reallynotsure25 · 05/10/2025 19:43

Ah Nevermind, you said you don’t know what colour your hair is!

Reallynotsure25 · 05/10/2025 19:42

2/3 isn’t bad 🙂