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I don't want to go to work tomorrow because.......

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Lanzarotelady · 05/10/2025 15:01

I have an essay to write
I would rather practice my piano
I don't want to work any more
I want to sit under a blanket and watch Netflix
I am so over this working for a living lark

Why else don't you want to go to work tomorrow?

OP posts:
Dahlia1234 · 05/10/2025 19:21

I don't want to go... I'm sick of working.... My work bores me... I'd rather be at home doing homey things... I'm tired...

FluentOP · 05/10/2025 19:20

So sorry. Big hugs ❤️❤️

Crazycatladywithnocats · 05/10/2025 19:20

Lanzarotelady · 05/10/2025 15:01

I have an essay to write
I would rather practice my piano
I don't want to work any more
I want to sit under a blanket and watch Netflix
I am so over this working for a living lark

Why else don't you want to go to work tomorrow?

I have come to the end of a two week spell of leave, part of which was spent in Lanzarote. It’s my first day back at work tomorrow and I want to get it out of the way. I’ll be more with it on Tuesday.

Sammyspurs · 05/10/2025 19:15

fromthechandelier · 05/10/2025 18:49

Same here, I hear you. And because I'm public sector I get the double whammy of Joe Public telling me by default how all the ills of the world are my fault. Last week I was told I was a Nazi in a past life.

If you ever want to vent on work stuff feel free to PM me!

Thank you for the reply!
I’ll happily have DMs from you to vent about work stuff!
they must use Nazis as a theme when having a go at H&S professionals. I’m often called Hitler 🤦🏻‍♀️

SparklyBrickViper · 05/10/2025 19:08

Because it will be Monday and a whole new week stretches ahead.

I’ve made the worst decision of my working life accepting this job, and I feel physically sick thinking about another week of battling people who don’t want me there and are waiting for me to fail.

Only another four months before I can move to another post and put this nightmare behind me.

ChrisReaPoppedAnEggInMyBath · 05/10/2025 19:07

Because last weekend I was ill and had to work through it, albeit from my bed. The week has been intense and full on with a lot of pressure and I've often felt like I couldn't breathe. Yet again this weekend, I've worked both days and I don't think I can face another insanely busy week.

twinkletoesimnot · 05/10/2025 19:07

Shallwesay2pm · 05/10/2025 15:05

I don't want to go to work tomorrow because.....
I have been ill all weekend so haven't enjoyed my time off, I feel like I have been robbed of my days off !!!

Me too!
plus it’s open day, I’m struggling every day with the level of SEN in my class, I hate the science unit I’m teaching at the minute, I’m on break duty and I haven’t been food shopping so won’t even have a nice lunch to look forward to😭

Sub2Mumma · 05/10/2025 19:05

I don’t want to go to work tomorrow as I’ve got terrible bowel issues being investigated at the moment and absolutely exhausted with it 🥴

Twinstudy · 05/10/2025 19:04

Because it sucks. Everyone who was decent has left and I'm trying to carry everyone else. I'm tired and, honestly, I can't be arsed.

I'm seriously considering calling in sick for a couple days. I won't but I like to imagine I might

Iris2020 · 05/10/2025 19:02

Because my house is a tip and I've had no time to clean it.
Because I have barely had any sleep this weekend.
Because I love my family dearly but I'm desperate for a day all by myself.

mumtoFF · 05/10/2025 19:01

Because I’m just so so tired of it.
It’s so political and demanding.
I get zero time to ‘do’ anything during the working day due to people ringing me all day or a calendar full of chaotic meetings jumping from topic to topic. I finish at 6ish with a mountain of emails to sift through and actions from the day.
Then work till 10-11 most evenings and at least one day on the weekend.
I’m tired of always either working or in zombie mode recovering from working.
But I’d never get as good a job (pay/seniority wise) elsewhere and elsewhere could be just as bad. And I want this job. Just not in its current form.
Whew that felt good to write down.

TheChosenTwo · 05/10/2025 19:00

Because I worked all weekend!
Not something that happens often but there was an event on - was actually quite fun and I’ll take TOIL later on in the week. I actually enjoy my job but I’m not long home and I’m kinda tired.

adviceatthislatestage · 05/10/2025 19:00

Like a PP, we too are short staffed- following a big round of VR (public sector).

Remaining staff are fed up, burnt out and resentful. My manager and I have to try and motivate the team to do more with so much less.

I hate my job now, which is a shame because at one time it was so good and the team were much more connected.

Stompythedinosaur · 05/10/2025 18:59

I don't want to go to work because I'm tired and I sick of people wanting things from me!

70sMuuMuu · 05/10/2025 18:57

Whereismyfleeceblanket · 05/10/2025 15:08

Because tomorrow is the last day with our ddog. She is getting pts on Tuesday... Kind customer has given my the afternoon off paid though.

I’m so sorry, I know how hard that will be Flowers

fromthechandelier · 05/10/2025 18:49

Sammyspurs · 05/10/2025 18:15

Because I work in Health and Safety.
im fed up of employees thinking safety doesn’t matter and they know best. Equally fed up of the directors being led by the operation rather than what’s legally required-‘or choosing to listen when it suits them. Oh- and people not realising all the fire fighting that goes on behind the scenes, think they can do a better job than me because I just sit around twiddling my thumps….
apparently!!

Edited

Same here, I hear you. And because I'm public sector I get the double whammy of Joe Public telling me by default how all the ills of the world are my fault. Last week I was told I was a Nazi in a past life.

If you ever want to vent on work stuff feel free to PM me!

Xmasxrackers · 05/10/2025 18:48

…. it’s my first day at my new job, and my first day away from my baby and I already can’t stop crying

ThePupperIsFinallyHome · 05/10/2025 18:48

Can I join please?🙋‍♀️

i don’t work Mondays so this is for Tuesday…

I don’t want to go to work because..

We have a new beautiful rescue puppy who has been abused, she’s only 11 months old. She’s underweight, small for her breed and missing some teeth😡We’ve worked so hard to gain her trust, settle her in, show her love etc - and it’s working! She does “kisses” now, wags her tail, and jumps for joy when we come in. She sleeps between us and plays happily with her toys.

On Tuesday, I have to leave her for 3 hours and I really want to just be with her. She’s the purest little soul… unlike the bitching, lying, backstabbing “ladies” I work with. She has everything, and more, and she’ll be fine without me for that time.
But I know I won’t be fine without her.

Crazyclover · 05/10/2025 18:48

Because I’m massively over loaded and stressed and it’s all about the stats and management don’t care no matter how many people tell them they are struggling

daddysgirlnot · 05/10/2025 18:32

Because I stormed out of the office 8 weeks ago saying ‘I’ve had enough of this nonsense’. First day back tomoz. Dreading the repercussions, but has to be faced. Am actively seeking other jobs, interview next month 😊

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 05/10/2025 18:29

Gettingbysomehow · 05/10/2025 15:23

Because Im still done in from last week...nhs worker. I never seem to recover from the mental and physical exhaustion of it all.

Same.

looselegs · 05/10/2025 18:29

Because I'm a childminder and I have a particularly challenging 2 year old at the moment who uses all of my energy....along with a screaming one yesr old and a toilet training 3 year old.....
Pass the wine.....

AngelinaFibres · 05/10/2025 18:27

I am 60 and retired. I was a Primary teacher. It will never , ever not be a total joy to me that I don't have to go to work ever again. My 2 grandchildren ( 3.5 years and 20 months) will be dropped off by my DIL at 7.15 tomorrow and we will have a fabulous day doing jolly things.

MessyNDepressy · 05/10/2025 18:26

I’ve had a really busy weekend and been out the house all day yesterday and today so I haven’t done any housework and have fallen behind with the washing. Nothing is prepared for school/work tomorrow and I’ve caught a really bad cold. Another two days off would be great. One to just rot and rest with my book in the hope of fighting off this cold and one to catch up on my housework and laundry!

Showdogworkingdog · 05/10/2025 18:23

There’s a task waiting for me that last week’s me decided to put off until Monday because she didn’t fancy it. Fancy it even less now.

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