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Astounded by trip to shopping centre today

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Harrietta82 · 04/10/2025 20:52

I usually do my shopping online these days, but went shopping with a friend today to a big centre about 30 minutes away from us (I won’t name it incase outing).

Is it me, or has the minimum size stocked by the majority of shops gradually increased in recent times? I was asking shop assistants whether they had any size 6 stock and received blank stares half the time!

No wonder physical shops seem to be on the way out.

Needless to say, I’ll be sticking to online.

A pleasant experience aside from that though and lovely to see my friend so it wasn’t a wasted day.

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yorkie99 · 04/10/2025 22:18

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So true

Rosedreaming · 04/10/2025 22:17

Harrietta82 · 04/10/2025 20:58

Clothing - with the right brand/style I can sometimes get away with a 4 but there was no change of finding that today! The joys of being a teeny size I guess, I’ve got genetics to thank for that!

I think you've edited something picking at people who wear bigger sizes out of your posts but you do sound a tiny bit obsessed with yourself.

I'm a 6 - 8 and lots of shops do size extra small which usually works. I find size 6 often enough and when it's not available I try an 8 and either get that if it looks good or if it's a little big I know I can order it online. Honestly I find there are more commonly smaller sizes available than size 10, 12, 14 etc. shops stock more of what sells well.

Lesina · 04/10/2025 22:16

What are the actual measurements of a size 6? When I was 18 back in the 80’s I was considered slim with an 18inch waist: I was a 10… what is a 6 now? I’m thinking skeletal?

TheCurious0range · 04/10/2025 22:15

Harrietta82 · 04/10/2025 20:57

It’s not rocket science is it - if they stocked less of those sizes, they’d have space for smaller ones? Have I missed something, sorry if so.

Maybe they did stock them but they get bought up quickly?
I think it's the law of clothes shopping isn't it? Finally find something you like and they don't have it in your size. You won't notice the dozens of things they do have in your size because you don't like them

TheSquareMile · 04/10/2025 22:14

bouncydog · 04/10/2025 21:18

I feel your frustration Henrietta82! I spent an afternoon last week trawling Oxford Street for a size 10 Petite trouser suit to no avail. Finding a decent quality petite brand is hard enough (no one stocks anything Petite where I live) but to discover I couldn’t even get one in London was very disappointing. All I bought was a £4.99 pack of hair slides for my grandaughter - cheapest shopping trip there ever!

Would this suit you, bouncy d?

https://www.johnlewis.com/reiss-petite-haisley-single-breasted-suit-blazer-black/p113761670

https://www.johnlewis.com/reiss-petite-haisley-wool-blend-tailored-flared-suit-trousers/p113761655

Astounded by trip to shopping centre today
FreyjaOfTheNorth · 04/10/2025 22:13

Gosh, how frightfully awful for you. Please take good care of yourself and allow yourself time to heal.. Thoughts and prayers. You got this. Living your best life.

DreamTheMoors · 04/10/2025 22:11

Harrietta82 · 04/10/2025 21:46

Apologies for anyone I’ve offended…I wasn’t expecting to read the digs and I appreciate MN deleting one of the worst comments.

If you are insecure about your weight, then rather than take it out on people online, you could always try to do something about it. Diet, exercise and discipline. Heck, there are even jabs available now!

I saw nothing offensive in it.
I’m sorry people reacted so poorly. ❤️

Epidote · 04/10/2025 22:11

Ddakji · 04/10/2025 21:02

That’s because vanity sizing means that a size 6 now is what was an 8 or 10 back in the day, and stores always had them.

Correct, an actual size 6 is and old 8. It changes about 20 years ago.

VyeBrator · 04/10/2025 22:10

LadyKenya · 04/10/2025 21:47

I am a size 8, and do not refer to myself, or others of a similar size as 'teeny tinies'. It sounds a bit mean to me.

It's a childish, ignorant insult normally levelled at those under a size 12.

Youcunnyfunt · 04/10/2025 22:09

Places to try: Next, Primark, Gap, Zara, H&M, TK Maxx

Lots of places do extra small / petite sizes but obviously stock varies. Designer labels also go much smaller and shopping teen depts. Bit difficult when you’ve got a bust to accommodate as it affects the cut of clothes and how it drapes. As a teen I got a lot of stuff from Gap - they went down to US 0 and 00 in some lines back in the 00s, not sure if they still do (I’m def now a 8-10!). Hope that helps…

Leilaandtheloggerheads · 04/10/2025 22:08

What’s with the bragging posts this evening? 🤣

DreamTheMoors · 04/10/2025 22:08

Sidebeforeself · 04/10/2025 21:01

Are your diamond shoes too tight too?!

Unnecessary and rude.

CrystalShoe · 04/10/2025 22:07

I have the opposite problem - I take a common size in both clothes and shoes, and for that reason, my size is very often not in stock!

British stock control is atrocious. It always has been. When I go to NY, they always have a range of sizes. But here, it's notable how often they don't have the right size. To the extent that the inability to keep a range of sizes in stock has saved me an absolute fortune over the last 25-30 years or so, since I became an adult.

The shop should have had at least one or two of OP's size. In these days of electronic and smart everything, you wouldn't have thought it'd be rocket science to have one or two extra of each size in the back, in addition to one or two of each on the shop floor.

FurForksSake · 04/10/2025 22:06

Ranges in store have definitely decreased, very few items in petite or tall and almost nothing in maternity these days.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 04/10/2025 22:05

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 04/10/2025 21:57

There's a little independent clothing shop locally in my parents' village, and it caters for medium to very large sizes - of a range starting at 14 up to 36.. (!)

I am a bit surprised this size even exists, letalone has clothes at all for it. I mean. I guess I need to be more open minded but it's Norwich I'm in, not America 😬
Having said that, a friend who's a nurse told me that Norfolk is the bariatric capital of the UK apparently, so perhaps that may explain the clothes sizes! 🤔

Definitely a unique place that I described... and it does have size 36...it's definitely good it caters for larger sizes IMHO.

But I agree that small sizes should bd catered for too. I've only seen the smallest size as an 8, and very occasionally a 6.

Astounded by trip to shopping centre today
LadyKenya · 04/10/2025 22:04

Algen · 04/10/2025 21:59

I used to do that with shoes when I was a skint student.

Could never get away with children’s clothes, though, even at my slimmest - just not cut for a woman’s bust and hips.

I find that now some of the children's clothes in a certain size, are much bigger than they used to be, years ago. The clothes have gotten more bigger.

CommonAsMucklowe · 04/10/2025 22:04

Stealth brag post.

allmymonkeys · 04/10/2025 22:04

Physical retailers definitely are carrying less stock now - it's understandable, because there's no sense in paying for the space if you simply aren't going to use it, but it's still irritating if you want to try before you buy. One chain had cords I liked but only Size 14 in the colour I wanted and only one pair even of those. I might look online but I'd rather keep the store in business.

What really is driving me nuts is that food retailers have row after row of tarted up pre-prepared chicken products - seasoned this, crown of that, ready to bake the other - but sweet FA when it comes to just actual chicken that I planned to cook for myself. One had nothing suitable at all, the other very limited choice.

Daftypants · 04/10/2025 22:02

Depends I guess ?
I was in a small Fatface store because I happened to have time on my hands so had a look .
There were a few things I liked but they had size 6 , 8 , then 18 …no 10 or 12 to try .

PlutoCat · 04/10/2025 21:59

GlasgowGal2014 · 04/10/2025 21:56

Size 6 wasn't a thing when I worked in retail 25 years ago. Sizing started at 8 and often didn't run bigger than an 18, even in the petite ranges. I don't think failure to stock enough size 6s is what led to the downfall of the high street.

I think it isn't the sizes stocked that has led to the downfall, but the absolutely dire quality of the offerings. That is my experience as a humongous size 12.

user1476613140 · 04/10/2025 21:59

Theoturkeyfliesnorthwest · 04/10/2025 21:13

I've sent a few slim ladies on tick tock saying they buy in the childrens department and it's quite stylish and a lot cheaper

Great idea!

Algen · 04/10/2025 21:59

Theoturkeyfliesnorthwest · 04/10/2025 21:13

I've sent a few slim ladies on tick tock saying they buy in the childrens department and it's quite stylish and a lot cheaper

I used to do that with shoes when I was a skint student.

Could never get away with children’s clothes, though, even at my slimmest - just not cut for a woman’s bust and hips.

Tessisme · 04/10/2025 21:57

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ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 04/10/2025 21:57

There's a little independent clothing shop locally in my parents' village, and it caters for medium to very large sizes - of a range starting at 14 up to 36.. (!)

I am a bit surprised this size even exists, letalone has clothes at all for it. I mean. I guess I need to be more open minded but it's Norwich I'm in, not America 😬
Having said that, a friend who's a nurse told me that Norfolk is the bariatric capital of the UK apparently, so perhaps that may explain the clothes sizes! 🤔

GlasgowGal2014 · 04/10/2025 21:56

Size 6 wasn't a thing when I worked in retail 25 years ago. Sizing started at 8 and often didn't run bigger than an 18, even in the petite ranges. I don't think failure to stock enough size 6s is what led to the downfall of the high street.

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