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To have called out my gardener

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Whenindoubthugitout · 04/10/2025 11:26

I have had a gardener this year. I have been really pleased and happy with the work he has done.

I asked him to reseed my lawn. Which he agreed to do.
The price he quoted was for 2.5 days work.

he reseeded it within a day, and I asked if the price would be reduced to reflect that it hasn’t taken him as long.

he said that - whilst it was reduced slightly - he would come out and water it daily for me whilst we were away, and that this was reflected in the pricing - which was fine.

we have been away all week, and he sent me a text this morning telling me I was due him the full amount.

however - I have a ring doorbell - and he hasn’t been out all week. (Tbf - it’s rained every day)

I called him out, and said I was unhappy to be paying for a job he hasn’t carried out.

he has now backtracked and said - oh yeah - but I plan to do three more trips (cynically I don’t believe him) and that he just didn’t want to bother me on holiday.

Aibu -to think he is trying it on -and the extra 3 trips are now because I called him out. And if he had initially intended to do these - he would have said so upfront……

I feel really sad. And let down
and slightly stupid for trusting someone to do something whilst I wasn’t there.

OP posts:
PencilsInSpace · 04/10/2025 11:35

If you agreed a price for a specific job then you should pay him.

Telemicus · 04/10/2025 11:32

Was the quote for "2.5 days work", or was the quote for "reseeding you lawn and ensuring that the grass grows, estimated to be 2.5 days work" ?

Whenindoubthugitout · 04/10/2025 11:32

It the difference between £500 and £250 - which I don’t think is petty. For work that absolutely hasn’t been done

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SimoneHere · 04/10/2025 11:30

I think it depends whether you feel you are paying for the end result (re-seeded grass growing well) or the labour.

It seems petty to me, given you were previously “pleased and happy” with him, but presumably you are happy to find someone else instead.

ETA it does seem a lot of time/cost just for re-seeding, but it’s what you agreed to. Maybe it would be best phrased to him that there seems to be an issue with his estimates?

PumpkinSeasonOctober · 04/10/2025 11:29

Surely it’s only a few hours work? We dug ours over and seeded it from scratch in half a day.