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To be put off further dates? Or am I being OTT

28 replies

ClaudiaMe · 03/10/2025 17:08

I had a 4th date with a man last night - he took me to a lovely restaurant and we had a brilliant time.

Afterwards, he walked me back to my car and we shared a kiss.

He then lifted his leg and broke wind really performatively and said sorry and that he’d been holding it in for most of the meal.

I feel like that was disrespectful and after a lovely time, am now in no rush to see him again…

OP posts:
CuddlyPug · 03/10/2025 17:14

This is him on his best behaviour. Honestly, if this is what he does after a kiss, I can't imagine what he might do after sex - defecate in the corner? I went out with quite a few less than wondeeful men before I married my wonderful husband. None of those men ever did anything as gross as that! I'd be ending it permanently and swiftly.

Jtfrtj · 03/10/2025 17:11

Disgusting pig. Why do so many men act like the class clown nowadays?

If you had done that he’d have thought you were revolting. I can’t stand the arrogance men have when they think they can act this way and still be attractive to us.

OP, how did you react??

MakingPlans2025 · 03/10/2025 17:08

Yeah that’s horrific

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