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Surely this shouldn’t be allowed in an office?

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Haaaalp · 03/10/2025 10:58

I started a new job on Monday and the man in the desk next to me is sitting here vaping. It stinks and has given me headaches.

I am not the most senior but relatively senior and I feel if I say something (he’s not as senior as me), then it looks like I’m coming in and making a fuss.

I am quite fearful of cigarette smoke and I don’t really drink much so I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill. Nobody else seems bothered though there’s only 4 others.

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tinyspiny · 03/10/2025 11:47

@ByShyRaven it is very serious for someone with an existing lung condition and as the OP is new to this job I’d be interested to know if this was discussed at interview as I personally , and I’m sure lots of others with similar conditions , would not be able to work in this environment. I will also point out that we have no idea how vapes will have affected people 40/50 yrs down the line , just like when people first smoked nobody had any idea that it could leave their relatives with serious lung conditions .

fluffiphlox · 03/10/2025 11:46

In any civilised workplace there would be a clear policy on this, probably aligning the practice with that of smoking.

yikesss · 03/10/2025 11:44

Do vapes/electronic cigs not come under smoking indoors legislation? You cant vape in pubs, on the bus, supermarket etc

HoppingPavlova · 03/10/2025 11:43

Well, I’m very glad of where I live. They just amended our environmental legislation to state that vaping was banned in any place/situation where smoking is banned and sane restrictions apply all round. So, no way it would be allowed. Sucks you are not the same 🫤.

Ponoka7 · 03/10/2025 11:43

I think that they should have made that policy clear at interview stage. Just ask to be moved and reconsiderif it'sthe right fit for you.

ByShyRaven · 03/10/2025 11:40

curious79 · 03/10/2025 11:30

it's a serious health risk for you. People develop popcorn lung from vapes. It's irreversible. You need to address this ASAP and it's not unreasonable to do so.
It's not currently illegal in the UK to vape indoors but it is prohibited in most public venues

Let’s not scare monger shall we? It’s not a “serious health risk”. It’s a mild annoyance.

diacetyl (the possible reason for popcorn lung) is banned in uk vapes. And even if the user had a counterfeit vape the chance of developing a chronic condition from second hand water vapour is near zero

WheresMyGin · 03/10/2025 11:40

I've had the same thing and I ignored it. Walking into a weird fruity haze of someone else's second-hand air is pretty gross. You're better off saying something now, while you're new to the office. If you leave it months to say something, it'll be more difficult to raise an issue. You'll probably find that the other non-vapers in the office will thank you for it.

AnotherNameChange1234567 · 03/10/2025 11:39

I started a new job in 1995, only to discover that people were allowed to smoke at their desks. I asked for it to be stopped pretty much immediately. I was only young at the time and not senior at all, but felt my asthma was more important than keeping in favour by saying nothing.

Health comes first. And I actually don’t remember there being any issues when the smoking stopped with immediate effect. Perhaps they’d realised they had been lucky to get away with it for so long!

tinyspiny · 03/10/2025 11:38

I’ve no idea if officially second hand vaping is considered dangerous but as someone who has emphysema due to second hand smoke ( growing up) I can only say that vapes affect me as badly if not more so than cigarettes so on that evidence I would say it’s bad for you . ( log burners/ coal fires are also as bad a trigger for me ) . Check the company policy , if there isn’t one in place speak to your manager about implementing one and ask if there is a smoke free office that you can work in for the time being

FaceBothered · 03/10/2025 11:34

curious79 · 03/10/2025 11:30

it's a serious health risk for you. People develop popcorn lung from vapes. It's irreversible. You need to address this ASAP and it's not unreasonable to do so.
It's not currently illegal in the UK to vape indoors but it is prohibited in most public venues

Diacetyl is banned in the UK.

But the OP still needs to look into the policy on indoor vaping as it really shouldn't be allowed.

DiscoBob · 03/10/2025 11:34

You should ask him to please go outside or into the corridor/kitchen to vape. That is if it's definitely permitted. If it's not tell the boss.

I think it's a bit unusual for workplaces to allow this. Though I don't actually know if second hand vape is dangerous.

Xiaoxiong · 03/10/2025 11:33

I would be completely taken aback to see anyone vaping in an office. I just assumed it was covered by the same rules around smoking as I've never actually seen someone doing it. It would be as shocking in my office as someone lighting up a Marlboro.

Idontpostmuch · 03/10/2025 11:32

Definitely shouldn't be happening. Stick up for yourself. You at least have your seniority behind you.

PinkJ · 03/10/2025 11:31

Broch the subject with your boss by asking to move desks and say why..take it from there.

HelloCheekyCat · 03/10/2025 11:30

AllTheChaos · 03/10/2025 11:21

Most workplaces have changed their smoking policies to incorporate the banning of vaping on the premises. What does yours say?

Isn't it pretty much all.indoors places? I'm sure you can't vape in shops/pubs/buses so.I would be really surprised if this was allowed

curious79 · 03/10/2025 11:30

it's a serious health risk for you. People develop popcorn lung from vapes. It's irreversible. You need to address this ASAP and it's not unreasonable to do so.
It's not currently illegal in the UK to vape indoors but it is prohibited in most public venues

Tropicana46 · 03/10/2025 11:29

I vape (I know it's bad and want to stop) and I wouldn't dream of doing this. I wouldn't even do it in the street next to someone else.

lazyarse123 · 03/10/2025 11:27

I don't know why the stuff has to smell. My dh vapes and it doesn't smell nor does it have clouds of smoke/steam whatever it is. The only time i know he's doing it is because the bloody thing clicks every time he uses it.
I don't know what you can do without pissing them all off but good luck.

AllTheChaos · 03/10/2025 11:21

Most workplaces have changed their smoking policies to incorporate the banning of vaping on the premises. What does yours say?

TicklishReader · 03/10/2025 11:19

Haaaalp · 03/10/2025 11:11

@FaceBothered just that I might be being dramatic about it!

You are not being dramatic. I vape but wouldn't dream of doing it in an office.

He needs to go outside.

ldnmusic87 · 03/10/2025 11:18

Surely it's illegal, go to HR

ItIsNotTheDog · 03/10/2025 11:17

Get it sorted now at the start

LeaderBee · 03/10/2025 11:15

Haaaalp · 03/10/2025 11:05

Does anyone know if it’s actually harmful to breath in passively?

It's certainly not going to be as healthy as breathing in fresh air now, is it?

Haaaalp · 03/10/2025 11:11

FaceBothered · 03/10/2025 11:07

What does not drinking and being fearful of cigarette smoke have to do with this guy vaping in the office??

Get him told OP.

You shouldn't have to put up with it.

@FaceBothered just that I might be being dramatic about it!

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Haaaalp · 03/10/2025 11:11

I’m really worried as it’s a new job.

My manager doesn’t do it and I think would understand where I was coming from. But nobody wants to isolate themselves from the whole office do they!!

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