I don't, just want to know how normal this is, I'm mid 30s.
I have a friend/former colleague, some days we text a lot but then if she's busy I hear nothing for a few weeks. We live close by and I see her once a month on average.
I have another friend who I text with most days, she's also local but I only see her every couple of months.
Aside from this, I don't have any friends I regularly talk to. I do have someone I consider a good friend, I don't hear from her often but it's completely understandable as she has a range of physical and mental health issues including a personality disorder, so I completely understand why its sporadic.
Other than this, I am usually the one to reach out, I get polite responses but they aren't ever the ones who reach out first, and they will stop responding. I am the one who arranges any meetups unless it's a large event.
This makes me sad, I don't know if this is normal. I get people are busy but most people seem to have a group of close friends they can rely on.