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to post this spelling correction? LOSE to mean the loss of something

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Horsie · 01/10/2025 23:43

I'm on a public-service mission to correct one of the world's most common misspellings. I've seen it thousands and thousands of times online. I think it must be the most misspelt word in the world. Saw it twice today just on Mumsnet.

No shade AT ALL. I literally want to help people look better in writing.

Here goes:

To lose something is spelt LOSE and not loose. Loose only ever means not tight, or to let something go, like a horse. I turned my horse loose. I hope I never lose him.

I'm losing the will to live.
I always lose competitions.
That person is a loser.

My jeans are loose.
My ring goes loosely over my knuckle.
I'm a loser wearing loose jeans.
I always lose my ring in the pool because it becomes loose.

I never realised how commonly this word was misspelt until the internet. I suppose because "lose" does sound like a double "O" with its oooo sound (as opposed to rhyming with hose). That's probably where the confusion comes in, and the wrong spelling is being perpetuated millions and millions of times because of the internet.

I wish someone like JK Rowling with a huge reach would tweet the correct spellings, as a public service. No one likes to look bad in writing.

So there you have it, folks. Write it down a hundred times.

Lose
Lose
Lose
Lose

LOOSE

OP posts:
Katemax82 · 02/10/2025 07:47

It's like the saying "champing at the bit"
A lot of people (my husband included) say "chomping at the bit"
Or "if you think that you've got another think coming" is correct, as opposed to the more popular "you've got another thing coming"
Does my head in. But not as much as Mils friend telling her "your house is just bricks and water"

BlackeyedSusan · 02/10/2025 07:47

It is helpful seeing lose and loss against each other with one o.

ResusciAnnie · 02/10/2025 07:44

Lose as in lost
Loose as in noose

Easy as that!

Katemax82 · 02/10/2025 07:43

This annoys the shit out of me too. I wish people would learn to spell

Q2C4 · 02/10/2025 07:37

I am 100% behind you on your mission! When you’ve sorted out lose v loose, can you target “would have” “could of” etc next please?

Phones do autocorrect for that so I don’t understand why I see it written online with such frequency!!

LoserWinner · 02/10/2025 02:42

While we’re doing orthographical pedantry, please could we also address ‘lay’ and ‘lie’.

I lie down. = I place myself in a more or less horizontal position. Present tense.
I lay down. = I placed myself in a more or less horizontal position. Past tense.
I lay down an object. = I place an object on a surface and let go of it. Present tense.
I laid down an object. = I placed an object on a surface and let go of it. Past tense.
If I were a hen, I might say ‘I lay an egg daily’. Or I might say ‘I laid an egg yesterday’. ‘Lay’ in this sense means to produce eggs from out of the body.

”I had to lay down” does not make sense. It appears to suggest that the writer was forced to expel fluffy feathers from their nether regions.

I shall now climb down from my soap box.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 02:12

Iwishthiswasnottrue · 02/10/2025 01:52

This is the one that grates on me!

Ahhh, no, specific/pacific is hard. I have a lot of sympathy for that one. The "sspahcif" sound is fooking weird. My realisation that "specific" in print was the word pronounced "sspahcif-ic" lagged way behind the rest of my reading as a child. Unless you're someone who reads a lot, I can 100 percent see why people think it's pacific. The spff sound is just nuts.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 02:04

Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 01:38

But having had the level of education to learn the grammar is privileged.

I don't agree. Anyone who speaks a simple sentence like "I'm going to the supermarket" is using grammar to make themselves understood. I don't know why there's a perception that grammar is this exclusive thing that only the highly educated know. It's not as if people who aren't highly educated say things like "I the to go supermarket," is it?

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bumblingbovine49 · 02/10/2025 01:55

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:17

My American teddy bear from NY looked at me really oddly when I told him that he has the right to bear arms since he's a Yank. He said why on earth would he want bare arms, given that he'd have to shave them constantly and he'd be cold, etc. 😂

Edited

😂

Iwishthiswasnottrue · 02/10/2025 01:52

This is the one that grates on me!

to post this spelling correction? LOSE to mean the loss of something
Slinky987 · 02/10/2025 01:43

I train agentic models.

You think this shit doesn’t drive me bonkers?

Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 01:38

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:07

BTW, I don't agree with this at all. Grammar helps you communicate - that's it's whole purpose. When you write (or speak) something that you want people to read and take notice of, and you write it to the best of your ability, you are using grammar to express yourself with as much clarity as possible. It's not a matter of who is the most educated. (Well, it shouldn't be.) It's about making sense and being really clear. The aim is to be understood by who you're writing/speaking to. That's the purpose of grammar, not one-upmanship.

Edited

But having had the level of education to learn the grammar is privileged.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:20

TooBigForMyBoots · 02/10/2025 01:05

Thank you for this @Horsie.Thanks I dont know why people are being pissy, you weren't rude.

YADNBU.

Ahhh, thank you for my flowers! Yeah, there's some right negative Nancies on here.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:19

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 01:01

I think this might work!

Haha, that's funny!

Also v. inconvenient because now I'm dying for some Wine Gums!

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:17

bumblingbovine49 · 02/10/2025 01:01

I always notice the loose/ lose thing and it bugs me too. I would never mention it to an individual who has it wrong but I think it is actually important to use the right words and an instructional post like the op appeals to me so thanks for the post.

I would add another one that really bugs me - bare instead of bear

So many people use - I can't bare it, or bare with me when they should bear.

Bare = naked or uncovered
Bear = to hold up or carry a weight, to endure

My American teddy bear from NY looked at me really oddly when I told him that he has the right to bear arms since he's a Yank. He said why on earth would he want bare arms, given that he'd have to shave them constantly and he'd be cold, etc. 😂

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:13

WhamFantastic · 02/10/2025 01:02

I’m with you OP as I’m a pedant but I’m also terrible at spelling!
When my kids were little we had a phonics book called Goose on the Loose and now I don’t mix loose and lose up.

I really don't think I'm being a pedant. It's a misspelling, and it's wrong, full stop. It's not like arguing about the placement of a comma.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:11

cowslick · 02/10/2025 01:09

These words are not actually misspelt; 'loose' and 'lose' are (mostly) correctly spelt. It's the incorrect use of a word.

The context makes loose incorrect though, when used to mean in the sense of losing things.

Interestingly, I don't think I've ever seen lose used to mean not tight.

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cowslick · 02/10/2025 01:09

These words are not actually misspelt; 'loose' and 'lose' are (mostly) correctly spelt. It's the incorrect use of a word.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:07

Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 00:03

This.
I once heard the phrase, ‘grammar is a social construct from the more educated (and often wealthy) designed to make the less educated feel bad’. It really struck home.

BTW, I don't agree with this at all. Grammar helps you communicate - that's it's whole purpose. When you write (or speak) something that you want people to read and take notice of, and you write it to the best of your ability, you are using grammar to express yourself with as much clarity as possible. It's not a matter of who is the most educated. (Well, it shouldn't be.) It's about making sense and being really clear. The aim is to be understood by who you're writing/speaking to. That's the purpose of grammar, not one-upmanship.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 02/10/2025 01:05

Thank you for this @Horsie.Thanks I dont know why people are being pissy, you weren't rude.

YADNBU.

Bearwithi · 02/10/2025 01:05

It annoys the fuck out of me because when I read it, initially in my head I hear it as loose, because that's what it fucking says! And yes I do judge someone for their spelling, sorry I can't help it, but that's just me, I do particularly hate the loose/lose one though because it's everywhere.

WhamFantastic · 02/10/2025 01:02

I’m with you OP as I’m a pedant but I’m also terrible at spelling!
When my kids were little we had a phonics book called Goose on the Loose and now I don’t mix loose and lose up.

BaskervilleOldFace · 02/10/2025 01:02

Absolutely with you 100 per cent on this OP. It drives me mad every time I see it, which is often.

bumblingbovine49 · 02/10/2025 01:01

I always notice the loose/ lose thing and it bugs me too. I would never mention it to an individual who has it wrong but I think it is actually important to use the right words and an instructional post like the op appeals to me so thanks for the post.

I would add another one that really bugs me - bare instead of bear

So many people use - I can't bare it, or bare with me when they should bear.

Bare = naked or uncovered
Bear = to hold up or carry a weight, to endure