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to post this spelling correction? LOSE to mean the loss of something

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Horsie · 01/10/2025 23:43

I'm on a public-service mission to correct one of the world's most common misspellings. I've seen it thousands and thousands of times online. I think it must be the most misspelt word in the world. Saw it twice today just on Mumsnet.

No shade AT ALL. I literally want to help people look better in writing.

Here goes:

To lose something is spelt LOSE and not loose. Loose only ever means not tight, or to let something go, like a horse. I turned my horse loose. I hope I never lose him.

I'm losing the will to live.
I always lose competitions.
That person is a loser.

My jeans are loose.
My ring goes loosely over my knuckle.
I'm a loser wearing loose jeans.
I always lose my ring in the pool because it becomes loose.

I never realised how commonly this word was misspelt until the internet. I suppose because "lose" does sound like a double "O" with its oooo sound (as opposed to rhyming with hose). That's probably where the confusion comes in, and the wrong spelling is being perpetuated millions and millions of times because of the internet.

I wish someone like JK Rowling with a huge reach would tweet the correct spellings, as a public service. No one likes to look bad in writing.

So there you have it, folks. Write it down a hundred times.

Lose
Lose
Lose
Lose

LOOSE

OP posts:
Smoggy1 · 02/10/2025 16:12

The thing that I find irrationally irritating is when people think "thank you" is one word. I don't know why that one bothers me more than other common errors.

Emmz1510 · 02/10/2025 16:09

I’m with you OP, I hate bad spelling. Also bad grammar and bad command of language in general.
Once went past a tanning salon which had the cost of a session displayed in the window followed by the phrase
’You get what you pay for’. I think whoever wrote that thought it was a compliment of the service instead of the exact opposite! Always makes me laugh when I think of that.

StrongLikeMamma · 02/10/2025 15:47

The problem is is that it looks like it rhymes with Hose. 🤷🏻‍♀️

MagpiePi · 02/10/2025 15:02

It is so irritating to read anything that has these far too common mistakes in as you have to keep doing a mental stop-and-check while you translate what they actually meant.

I know that there are people who are dyslexic or have other processing problems who can't help it, but for everyone else, if you don't want to be judged as being a bit dim, then bloody well learn the correct usage!

Bearwithi · 02/10/2025 14:48

@thecatdidit when using it in this context I always spell it nob, not sure if it's right, the irony eh🙂

thecatdidit · 02/10/2025 14:40

Thanks to pp I have learnt about Muphry's Law. I had not heard of it.

thecatdidit · 02/10/2025 14:37

@Bearwithi you might be a nob, but you probably meant that you are a knob.
😊

Bearwithi · 02/10/2025 14:33

Apologies if this bugbear has been mentioned already but brought and bought?!? What the actual fuck, they mean different things, I've just encountered it on another thread so have come here to irrationally vent😂
I have been known to ask where did you bring it to? Fucking hell what a nob I am, 😂

ClarityofVision · 02/10/2025 14:06

Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 00:01

I guess it depends how many interviewers you believe would not give someone a job based on the incorrect use of lose/ loose.
If you think it is significant, then I guess you could argue to yourself that you are doing a public service.
If, like me, you would never consider this a dealbreaker, then you are probably just being annoyingly pedantic.
A post like this seems a reasonable compromise. Does it give you the right to go around correcting individual people though? Not in my book.

I agree it's unlikely employers wouldn't interview someone just because of this, but if you have huge numbers of people applying for a job then you are looking for any reason to put applications in the 'don't interview' pile. Personally, my main concern would be that the applicant didn't take the time to go back and check over their application because my area of work needs people to be meticulous.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 02/10/2025 13:22

You're ambitious, OP.

People can't even spell 'to' anymore. One of the first few words we learned to spell at school, if not before.

They randomly add an extra o if it's at the end of a sentence. Or whenever else they feel like it.

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 02/10/2025 13:11

A helpful tip, for those who may not know, is that most tech has some form of dictionary check. Can use it both when you’re typing or on other people’s posts.

SooticaTheWitchesCat · 02/10/2025 13:09

I agree completely. I hate bad spelling and grammar. I must admit I have not seen the loose/lose one before but no doubt I will see it all the time now 😹
For me the worst one is bored of instead of bored with, that really annoys me. Especially when I see it in a book, I mean really, if you an author you should know better!
Obviously if you are dyslexic that is a completely different matter

AgnesMcDoo · 02/10/2025 13:01

Its an easy one to do as a typo because autocorrect doesn't pick up on it.

And my dyslexic DD can't see a difference in the words even though she knows there is a difference.

She just loves threads and comments that make out she is stupid for getting it wrong. 🙁

BuildbyNumbere · 02/10/2025 12:56

Need one for allowed v aloud

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 02/10/2025 12:53

It is distracting.

How about que instead of cue? I find that’s the worst one as I then have Manuel shouting in my head.

que GIF
VictoriaEra · 02/10/2025 12:46

Thank you so much for this post. Until I came onto Mumsnet, I'd never actually seen this spelled incorrectly but - my goodness - it's ubiquitous on here. Baffling!

soupyspoon · 02/10/2025 11:33

I cant vote because you used the phrase 'no shade' which is unreasonable

But yes I agree with you. I also dont agree that people shouldnt correct others spelling and grammar on forums (dont bother raising my lack of apostrophes, I dont use them) because then no one learns.

muddyford · 02/10/2025 11:30

One that bugs me is, "Me and DP are doing/going..." It's "DP and I".

HepzibahGreen · 02/10/2025 11:04

Thanks OP. I see this all the time and it drives me mad. It’s so ridiculous to claim mistakes like this have anything to do with privilege. My dad was from an immigrant background and left school at 16. He wrote perfectly, probably because he read a lot. The problem is people no longer read books. Reading is the best way to absorb the English language.

SprayWhiteDung · 02/10/2025 10:55

SprayWhiteDung · 02/10/2025 10:48

It's a curse of our moden times that so many people routinely play fast and lose with spelling and grammar.

I don't even think it's somethinthat f most people actively chose to do.

And there, thanks to auto-incorrect and/or fat fingers, I too fell victim to Muphry's Law Grin

SprayWhiteDung · 02/10/2025 10:51

DappledThings · 02/10/2025 07:58

This comes up quite often and I get to mention again the gravestone I once saw that said "it hurt to loose you so soon".

I'd say it does matter if people are fucking it up on something designed to be around and legible for a few centuries

Now, whilst that almost certainly was a monumental (see what I did there?!) cock-up from the past, I think you could potentially (tenuously) argue that they were correct - if they saw it more that they were being forced to release their loved one to the afterlife, rather than focusing on their own loss?!

SprayWhiteDung · 02/10/2025 10:48

It's a curse of our moden times that so many people routinely play fast and lose with spelling and grammar.

I don't even think it's somethinthat f most people actively chose to do.

ufo · 02/10/2025 10:46

tbh I rarely see misspellings nowadays since phones have auto-suggest etc. The internet in the mid 2000s or so would increase your bloodpressure though if you don't like bad spelling

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 02/10/2025 10:38

DisplayPurposesOnly · 02/10/2025 07:54

My particular bugbear is people using ; when they mean : It's rife in my own organisation. Stop doing that!

This is very often mistaught in schools, unfortunately, if my students' experience is anything to go by. I think we need a whole series of public service announcements, ideally.

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 02/10/2025 10:36

LoserWinner · 02/10/2025 02:42

While we’re doing orthographical pedantry, please could we also address ‘lay’ and ‘lie’.

I lie down. = I place myself in a more or less horizontal position. Present tense.
I lay down. = I placed myself in a more or less horizontal position. Past tense.
I lay down an object. = I place an object on a surface and let go of it. Present tense.
I laid down an object. = I placed an object on a surface and let go of it. Past tense.
If I were a hen, I might say ‘I lay an egg daily’. Or I might say ‘I laid an egg yesterday’. ‘Lay’ in this sense means to produce eggs from out of the body.

”I had to lay down” does not make sense. It appears to suggest that the writer was forced to expel fluffy feathers from their nether regions.

I shall now climb down from my soap box.

I spend a lot of my time explaining this to people (I'm an English/MFL tutor) and I'm going to steal your "I had to lay down" example – love it!

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