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to post this spelling correction? LOSE to mean the loss of something

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Horsie · 01/10/2025 23:43

I'm on a public-service mission to correct one of the world's most common misspellings. I've seen it thousands and thousands of times online. I think it must be the most misspelt word in the world. Saw it twice today just on Mumsnet.

No shade AT ALL. I literally want to help people look better in writing.

Here goes:

To lose something is spelt LOSE and not loose. Loose only ever means not tight, or to let something go, like a horse. I turned my horse loose. I hope I never lose him.

I'm losing the will to live.
I always lose competitions.
That person is a loser.

My jeans are loose.
My ring goes loosely over my knuckle.
I'm a loser wearing loose jeans.
I always lose my ring in the pool because it becomes loose.

I never realised how commonly this word was misspelt until the internet. I suppose because "lose" does sound like a double "O" with its oooo sound (as opposed to rhyming with hose). That's probably where the confusion comes in, and the wrong spelling is being perpetuated millions and millions of times because of the internet.

I wish someone like JK Rowling with a huge reach would tweet the correct spellings, as a public service. No one likes to look bad in writing.

So there you have it, folks. Write it down a hundred times.

Lose
Lose
Lose
Lose

LOOSE

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Luluissleeping · 04/10/2025 15:09

ChiliFiend · 03/10/2025 13:37

Another one I see a lot on Mumsnet is people thinking "abit" "alot" and "incase" are words. It's basic literacy and v depressing.

These really irritate me! Aswell grates.

MagpiePi · 04/10/2025 11:23

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 02/10/2025 20:13

I think pointing these mistakes out in a general way is a really good thing to do in case people don't know and are unwittingly making a mistake when they would rather not. No one is getting at people with dyslexia. Does that mean we can never talk about spelling (or punctuation, or grammar) in case someone gets offended or feels inferior? Utter madness.

No, no, no! How can you even think such a thing! 😱

It is absolutely forbidden even to gently point out mistakes because everyone has to be their authentic selves and live their own truth these days, and that includes SPAG.

Bangolads · 04/10/2025 07:53

There are far too many common spelling mistakes/typos to let it consume my energy. Plus I’m a bad speller. Always have been. I’m so dyslexic my partner has to remind me several times a week on words I use over and over again. My brain loves to confuse lose and loose, so does my phone. Genuine question- do you really think your rant will change anything? Is your perception of other people that they are just ignorant and/or lazy? If it is, then that’s an incredibly over simplified and honestly, not particularly bright. You understand neither the nuances of language or the pace of of language on the internet. Plus you enjoy looking down on people. I suspect you find it very very tasty indeed. Why don’t you pour your energy into developing your own skills and empathy? You might not change the world but you definitely be a better person.

Pollypolls · 04/10/2025 03:12

@bumblingbovine49 yes. Bare v bear is so commonly used now I’ve nearly stopped noticing.
your v you’re is my biggest bug bear. A frienf asked me to proof read an email of complaint to a business and I didn’t know whether to point it out.

WishIcouldstay · 04/10/2025 02:21

TheRealCrispConspiracy · 04/10/2025 01:56

I always spell them correctly but I pronounce them exactly the same. Is there a difference in pronunciation? E.g. in 'don't lose your loose rings' i would pronounce both lose and loose the same. Is that wrong? 😮

Maybe just different pronunciations in different areas?

I pronounce lose and loose differently (lose like looze, and loose like luce, if that makes sense in your accent). I did wonder if some people pronounced them the same so thank you!

TheRealCrispConspiracy · 04/10/2025 01:56

WishIcouldstay · 02/10/2025 00:29

Do some regions pronounce them the same way? Is that why they get mixed up?

I always spell them correctly but I pronounce them exactly the same. Is there a difference in pronunciation? E.g. in 'don't lose your loose rings' i would pronounce both lose and loose the same. Is that wrong? 😮

Slinky987 · 04/10/2025 01:40

Very few people are actually specific and atomic with language.

It's less easy than one would imagine.

ChiliFiend · 03/10/2025 13:37

Another one I see a lot on Mumsnet is people thinking "abit" "alot" and "incase" are words. It's basic literacy and v depressing.

HangryBrickShark · 03/10/2025 11:22

I agree i hate the misuse of lose/loose.
I also hate 'two times more' instead of twice, or 'one more time' instead of once. Hear this on adverts all the time and it drives me mental.

The instructors at the gym also say 'two more times' instead of 'twice more'.

Think its an Americanism.

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 03/10/2025 11:00

thecatdidit · 03/10/2025 10:50

Sorry @Abhannmor . It's a moot point and not mute 🤦‍♀️

I think @Abhannmor was joking, which is also why it says "reign" (instead of "rein").

thecatdidit · 03/10/2025 10:50

Abhannmor · 02/10/2025 17:15

This is a mute point nowadays but I agree that people must not have free reign to spell ' lose' so loosely.

Sorry @Abhannmor . It's a moot point and not mute 🤦‍♀️

Witchtower · 03/10/2025 09:32

Advice and advise is the one I see the most.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 02/10/2025 20:43

PegDope · 02/10/2025 17:28

Or no one into one word.

It’s not noone it’s no one.

Two words.

See also:

abit, alot, incase, infact, infront, atleast, ofcourse

I move to the next post as soon as I see one of those, my brain can't cope.

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 02/10/2025 20:13

I think pointing these mistakes out in a general way is a really good thing to do in case people don't know and are unwittingly making a mistake when they would rather not. No one is getting at people with dyslexia. Does that mean we can never talk about spelling (or punctuation, or grammar) in case someone gets offended or feels inferior? Utter madness.

SprayWhiteDung · 02/10/2025 18:40

PegDope · 02/10/2025 17:28

Or no one into one word.

It’s not noone it’s no one.

Two words.

They may well be referring to Peter Noone, the lead singer in Herman's Hermits!!

WishIcouldstay · 02/10/2025 18:27

StrongLikeMamma · 02/10/2025 15:47

The problem is is that it looks like it rhymes with Hose. 🤷🏻‍♀️

But loose surely looks like it rhymes with moose and noose, which it does, so I’m not sure why that spelling seems a better choice 🤔

MyPinkTraybake · 02/10/2025 18:00

Where is the popcorn emoji.

I'd just like to write a post to correct every dyslexic person out there because I've just seemingly discovered the Internet.

Guys. I've got news for you.

All along you've been spelling this word wrong! I know I know. It's just a simple misspelling, I can't understand how you could get it wrong, so I've come along here to help you!

Op, I don't doubt you have good intention.

But honestly you misunderstand dyslexia.

I can tell you what helps people look better in writing.

Software. Software that you dictate into that types what you want for you so you don't have to worry about a dumb letter.

PegDope · 02/10/2025 17:28

Smoggy1 · 02/10/2025 16:12

The thing that I find irrationally irritating is when people think "thank you" is one word. I don't know why that one bothers me more than other common errors.

Or no one into one word.

It’s not noone it’s no one.

Two words.

AgnesMcDoo · 02/10/2025 17:25

It’s all very well adding something along the lines ‘of course my rant doesn’t apply to those who are dyslexic’ but you don’t know who is dyslexic or not.

so you are still be rude to them

you are also being rude to those whose first language is not English, did not get a good education, have communication challenges, or who aren’t very good at typing.

it’s not a good look.

no one deserves to be sneered at for a spelling error

Abhannmor · 02/10/2025 17:15

This is a mute point nowadays but I agree that people must not have free reign to spell ' lose' so loosely.

angielizzy1 · 02/10/2025 16:57

I think it's rude to go around correcting people's spelling on Facebook post and similar. You don't know their story, people are just typing quick and so I don't think it's comparable to a job application or something like that. My daughter is severely dyslexic and had spent much more time than other people learning to spell to a basic standard and she still really struggles and has 1:1 help with spelling at university.
Her come back is someone corrects her spelling is
Thank you, I'm severely dyslexic and I'm glad I could spell the word well enough for you to understand what I mean.
I'm not sure why you would need to use loose or lose in a job application, but anything important she will spell and grammar check, then get her computer to read it to her to see if anything sounds wrong and then get someone else to read it for her which picks up even more issues - there is no way she had time for that to just post something online or in a text message.

BoswellTheScribe · 02/10/2025 16:37

I used to work for a watch company and the amount of watches sent in by both jewellers and the public, because they were ‘loosing’ time, was ridiculous!

BoswellTheScribe · 02/10/2025 16:30

thecatdidit · 02/10/2025 08:00

I agree wholeheartedly with you @Horsie.
(Or is it wholeheartedly agree?)
I'm not classed as well educated because my schooling stopped at 16 . (This wasn't unusual back in the Seventies when I started work.)
However, my grammar and punctuation is good.
I also despair at "of" used instead of "have"
I get they sound the same when contracted to " 've" . But who says "I of to stop ranting now?"
😂
Ah, I feel better now.

I’m completely with you on this one!
How can people think it’s ‘of’ instead of ‘have’ they are totally different meanings.
I understand the contracted sound of the words but it doesn’t make any sense when it’s written down!
Would of - Would have
Could of - Could have
Should of - Should have
You don’t say ‘Can I of one of those sweets please?’
or ‘Can I have one have those sweets please?’

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 02/10/2025 16:19

I think it's a specific education from a specific time. I was at primary school in the 90s. I'm bright (objectively - top gcses and A levels and a Russel group uni). I reached university and realised I knew zero, absolutely zero, grammar. I think this error is more spelling, and I've never mixed up lose/loose personally, but I regularly mixed up less/fewer and never had a particular lesson on things like present/past tense. I'm hopeless at punctuation too, no clue when to use what. My education was all about creativity I think (although not sure I'm that creative, i do remember doing lots of poetry though). I remember my university sending an email to all first year English students (yep, an English degree) inviting us to a suddenly created and new SPAG workshop, because they'd picked up how totally hopeless we were. I never had a spelling test and I bet lots of people my age never got picked up on this error at school. My children now are drilled on verbs/adjectives/adverbs/conjunctions/contractions etc. I've no clue. It's embarrassing because they're only in KS2. I think there's a bit of a "lost generation" for spelling and grammar. I've taught myself the minimum now but reading my old school work back, in year 10, I was barely using full stops and still getting great marks - madness! The national curriculum just didn't seem to value it for my generation at all.

ThreePears · 02/10/2025 16:16

XenoBitch · 02/10/2025 00:37

Autocorrect wont change it to the right one though.
When someone posts the wrong word like this, you know what they were trying to say. No point in being a pedantic arse about it.

The pp is not being a pedantic arse.

A word is either right or wrong. If it is wrong, then people need to learn the right way, and how can they do that unless someone tells them?

Do English teachers correct spelling mistakes? Yes they do, and for good reason. Do people remember? Not always, so finding out the right spelling from a thread such as this one can only be a good thing.