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To feel a bit bad for the met police on bbc panorama undercover

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Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 21:46

Just watching the BBC Panorama doco “Undercover in the Police” and I can’t help feeling a bit uneasy.

Yes, the behaviour shown is awful and they should lose their jobs, but having their faces, names and secretly recorded conversations, sometimes even off duty over a pint broadcast feels like a bit of a violation of privacy.

I honestly would have thought secret filming like that couldn’t even be made public, but clearly it’s legal or the BBC wouldn’t air it.

I’m not excusing what was said at all. The culture clearly needs to change. But is it fair to single out these particular officers when the problem is obviously widespread?

I also felt some of the more junior officers had just absorbed the culture around them, and at times the journalist might have been nudging them into certain topics. A few of the comments even felt like dark humour or going along with pub chat. Still unacceptable, but if you secretly recorded doctors or other professions that probably use a lot of dark humour to get through it, I’m sure you’d hear things that would seem really callous to an outsider.

Absolutely they should be fired/reprimanded, but do they deserve complete public exposure like this? AIBU to feel uncomfortable about it?

YABU they deserve everything that’s coming their way

YANBU it’s too much personal exposure when the real problem is the Met culture not these individual cops

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YelloDaisy · 18/11/2025 05:30

Yes, all 30,000 of them are bad ‘uns!!

GwendolineFairfax8 · 15/11/2025 20:40

Palaver1 · 15/11/2025 06:52

But there are also the gpod ones who want the bad ones in quote pulled out ...some do a fantastic job and others like the ones that have been caught out a very poor job they need to be pulled out .We have a whole generstion who dont trust the police and we dont need to wonder why .

I am going to need evidence. How many ‘good ones’ do you know? My experience is the Met is a disgrace. Feel free to prove me wrong.

OneFunBrickNewt · 15/11/2025 10:10

I don't understand how 37% of people can agree with a post in support of misogynistic racists.

Palaver1 · 15/11/2025 06:52

But there are also the gpod ones who want the bad ones in quote pulled out ...some do a fantastic job and others like the ones that have been caught out a very poor job they need to be pulled out .We have a whole generstion who dont trust the police and we dont need to wonder why .

Change2banon · 09/10/2025 14:23

@Bloodyscarymary I actually work in a role that is related to promoting DEI … God help us then, you work to promote Diversity, Equity and Inclusion - this documentary showed the complete opposite in practise, and you’re okay with that 🤔😵‍💫 just wow

pikkumyy77 · 09/10/2025 12:10

We don’t live in a little bubble. I used to work with homeless people with psychotic symptoms. I just don’t think “works with grumpy foreigners “ is something to wail about.

user1493379562 · 09/10/2025 11:09

Isitmybathtimeyet · 09/10/2025 06:55

But how is that ‘the worst of humanity’? He’s parked illegally and being a bit of a knob.

For heavens sake read my 1st post. I didn't say the taxi driver was the worst in humanity. I said that police offers encounter both.
I love how people live in a little bubble and never see what is going on in the world outside of it!

Happyjoe · 09/10/2025 09:20

Isitmybathtimeyet · 09/10/2025 06:55

But how is that ‘the worst of humanity’? He’s parked illegally and being a bit of a knob.

To be honest, isn't that most taxi drivers? I mean, they're not known for being the most considerate on the roads!

Isitmybathtimeyet · 09/10/2025 06:55

user1493379562 · 09/10/2025 00:54

Poor immigrant? If he supposedly couldn't speak English what the hell was he doing working as a taxi driver? How did he even pass his driving test if he didn't know English? Actually it was a tactic and standard response of a lot of those men.
Yes of course their were white men who offended too. I am simply saying that police officers see the worst and the best of humanity in their jobs.

But how is that ‘the worst of humanity’? He’s parked illegally and being a bit of a knob.

YelloDaisy · 09/10/2025 06:31

There’s new A.I. software coming out that translates languages as you speak and will also translate back your English. So all this I don’t speak English bollox should stop -it will be expensive but will stop the £££ spent on translators.

user1493379562 · 09/10/2025 00:54

pikkumyy77 · 07/10/2025 18:18

How is some poor immigrant not speaking English the horrific equivalent of all the other grotesque things your ex suffered?

Poor immigrant? If he supposedly couldn't speak English what the hell was he doing working as a taxi driver? How did he even pass his driving test if he didn't know English? Actually it was a tactic and standard response of a lot of those men.
Yes of course their were white men who offended too. I am simply saying that police officers see the worst and the best of humanity in their jobs.

Isitmybathtimeyet · 07/10/2025 18:27

I'm afraid that was my reaction too. At worst he was a piss taker committing a minor traffic offence. I'm sure he met with as much if not worse from white offenders.

pikkumyy77 · 07/10/2025 18:18

How is some poor immigrant not speaking English the horrific equivalent of all the other grotesque things your ex suffered?

user1493379562 · 07/10/2025 17:36

I watched the whole show and I thought it was a bit of a honey trap. However those officers were clearly in the wrong. My ex was a police officer in a Bedfordshire police force. Does anyone remember the Marsh Farm riots? At that time the Met officers came to help out. I remember my ex saying they were animals. Instead of arresting the the yobs causing the riot they simply took them down a back lane (so to speak) and beat them up. Then the local bobbies had to deal with the aftermath. The problem is the law is so soft these yobs just get their wrists slapped and an asbo which is a badge of honor to them. Your average yob cannot tell the difference between different police uniforms. As far as they are concerned 'All coppers are b@st@rds'. I think being in the police force they see the worst of everything as well as the good. My ex hated it if he heard parents threatening young kids with the police if they were naughty. Just who exactly goes looking for lost children? A child should be able to approach a police officer when necessary without being scared. As for the racist comments in the show. I recall my ex spitting feathers as he told me he was trying to get a non white taxi driver off double yellow lines and the offender just said 'Speak no English'! He had to go to the hospital mortuary when there was a BID (brought in dead) person and was in tears when he saw a baby on the slab. He once had to go to a burglary where the offenders had stuck the house owner's cats, one in the freezer and one in the microwave. He also was the 1st officer there when someone jumped from a tall building when it was dark. He went to do CPR but as he went to tilt the person's head his hand sunk into their brain cavity. Then he noticed the rest of the persons head splattered all over the pavement! I wouldn't have liked to do his job in a million years.

YourBrickTiger · 07/10/2025 13:13

Happyjoe · 06/10/2025 17:28

That is insane... so sorry. Did you ever find out why?

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I never knew why.

godmum56 · 07/10/2025 10:34

sashh · 07/10/2025 07:44

That last line is important.

At the moment they do not HAVE to act within the law. Having a criminal record doesn't stop you being in the police.

surely everybody has to act within the law? If you break the law, then you may have an acceptable reason for doing so but as a baseline the law covers everyone?

Maggiethecat · 07/10/2025 10:13

So, just brush the dangerous and abhorrent behaviour of presumably a minority of officers, all under the carpet to protect the force from the public?
This type of view will be welcomed by these rogue officers who likely feel that it will all blow over and they can go back to business as usual.
The Met chief needs to do more to root them out.

In response to Paul2023

Happyjoe · 07/10/2025 08:03

sashh · 07/10/2025 07:44

That last line is important.

At the moment they do not HAVE to act within the law. Having a criminal record doesn't stop you being in the police.

They should have to act within the law when dealing with the general public, no?

And shocking, having a criminal record, I did not know! But would argue two different issues.

sashh · 07/10/2025 07:44

Happyjoe · 06/10/2025 17:26

Back in local press days in Brighton in my early 20's, colleague and I were covering an animal rights protest. Cops told us all, press included not to step off the pavement. My colleague put one foot on the road to take a photo down the line of people, was arrested. Not just arrested but roughed up too and his camera smashed.

The police and CPS took it all the way to court, denying the rough treatment, saying that he was aggressive. There was footage of the rough treatment which the police 'lost'. About a month before the court date a protester got in touch with the paper with more footage that she'd taken of the police manhandling of the photographer and my friend not fighting back at all with the arrest. The case was then dropped. This was an eye opener for me and ever since while I will treat a decent copper with the utmost respect, I don't trust any of them. The stress that caused my colleague was unreal.

Police HAVE to act within the law and they should all be fair, impartial and follow the very law they represent.

Edited

That last line is important.

At the moment they do not HAVE to act within the law. Having a criminal record doesn't stop you being in the police.

TartanMammy · 06/10/2025 20:12

Janesmom · 05/10/2025 22:40

Frankly, given the footage is presumably the worst the bbc gathered over 7 months, I was amazed how tame it generally was. Most of the comments fell more in the bucket of foolish banter and I was not convinced it was in the public interest to broadcast much of it, given the intrusion of privacy inherent in how it was obtained.

The misogyny and racism shown was absolutely abhorrent, so far from 'foolish banter.' The physical abuse and use of force on people in their care, often vulnerable people. The way minorities and women were spoken about, creating a culture or fear and control, knowing their rank would protect them. Awful.

Police Officers are expected to protect and treat people equally with attitudes and behaviours such as those shown in the program they have shown they cannot be trusted to do that, and as such should be exposed for their failings.

godmum56 · 06/10/2025 18:39

Happyjoe · 06/10/2025 17:26

Back in local press days in Brighton in my early 20's, colleague and I were covering an animal rights protest. Cops told us all, press included not to step off the pavement. My colleague put one foot on the road to take a photo down the line of people, was arrested. Not just arrested but roughed up too and his camera smashed.

The police and CPS took it all the way to court, denying the rough treatment, saying that he was aggressive. There was footage of the rough treatment which the police 'lost'. About a month before the court date a protester got in touch with the paper with more footage that she'd taken of the police manhandling of the photographer and my friend not fighting back at all with the arrest. The case was then dropped. This was an eye opener for me and ever since while I will treat a decent copper with the utmost respect, I don't trust any of them. The stress that caused my colleague was unreal.

Police HAVE to act within the law and they should all be fair, impartial and follow the very law they represent.

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I have known police who don't trust the police.

godmum56 · 06/10/2025 18:38

Bloodyscarymary · 04/10/2025 12:11

Yes I totally agree, it seems that the ability to assess something from all sides, understand perspectives without agreeing with them, be curious about root causes rather than quick to write people off as scum are in short supply these days.

I am left wing myself and actually work in a role that is related to promoting DEI but I am still able to converse with people who disagree with all of that and understand that their views can be driven by different priorities, misunderstanding, fear, exposure to online misinformation driven by algorithms etc.

It is very rare that a person is truly evil - “never attribute to malice that which can be explained by ignorance” is a good life motto!

I would say "stupidity" rather than ignorance. Ignorance implies that once you know better, you do better.

Happyjoe · 06/10/2025 17:28

YourBrickTiger · 06/10/2025 16:28

Between the ages of 17 and 23, with a small gap of about a year, I was subjected to 'dirty phonecalls' by someone we found out was a member of the RUC. Bear in mind this was before mobile phones. He would use telephone boxes and only by our own detective work and help from my cousin who was in the force were we able to find out who it was. I remember vividly being told by a senior police WOMAN that if he was prosecuted, he 'could lose his job'. That was almost 30 years ago and I have never forgotten it. Could I have cared less if he lost his job? No. I have zero time for most of the police because I know for a fact that so many of them think they are above the law.

That is insane... so sorry. Did you ever find out why?

Happyjoe · 06/10/2025 17:26

Back in local press days in Brighton in my early 20's, colleague and I were covering an animal rights protest. Cops told us all, press included not to step off the pavement. My colleague put one foot on the road to take a photo down the line of people, was arrested. Not just arrested but roughed up too and his camera smashed.

The police and CPS took it all the way to court, denying the rough treatment, saying that he was aggressive. There was footage of the rough treatment which the police 'lost'. About a month before the court date a protester got in touch with the paper with more footage that she'd taken of the police manhandling of the photographer and my friend not fighting back at all with the arrest. The case was then dropped. This was an eye opener for me and ever since while I will treat a decent copper with the utmost respect, I don't trust any of them. The stress that caused my colleague was unreal.

Police HAVE to act within the law and they should all be fair, impartial and follow the very law they represent.

YourBrickTiger · 06/10/2025 16:28

Between the ages of 17 and 23, with a small gap of about a year, I was subjected to 'dirty phonecalls' by someone we found out was a member of the RUC. Bear in mind this was before mobile phones. He would use telephone boxes and only by our own detective work and help from my cousin who was in the force were we able to find out who it was. I remember vividly being told by a senior police WOMAN that if he was prosecuted, he 'could lose his job'. That was almost 30 years ago and I have never forgotten it. Could I have cared less if he lost his job? No. I have zero time for most of the police because I know for a fact that so many of them think they are above the law.

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