Been made to feel like a outcast at work :(

I would honestly look at NHS jobs and find another one. In the meantime, just try and do your job to the best of your abilities, if you haven't been given enough supervision or don't feel confident performing certain tasks then email your manager and let them know, not because I expect them to do anything about it, but it does provide a paper trail.
A couple of other things you could do is contact the following people;

1. A professional nurse advocate - they will listen to your concerns and help you figure out a way forward. There should be several in your trust, ask your friends if they know of someone who is doing this role currently.
2. If you don't feel you have had enough support/supervision in your role, could you ask for help from one of the trust practice educators ?

Your colleagues sound horrid and strangely immature, like high school bullies. Maybe they were hoping someone in particular would get the position and resent you for it.
I don't know enough about the NHS to understand if you can get a transfer easily but I wouldn't be wasting my time on them.

I’ve not worked on an NHS ward so no idea whether this would be considered unusual but it would generally be very odd elsewhere.
it must be very difficult, no one likes to feel excluded, these people are either completely unaware it’s being perceived in that way or are exceptionally rude and unprofessional.
I’d look to leave if I were you, don’t be miserable for anyone.
I’m getting quite cantankerous as I get older and I’d be sitting in the meeting ready to put them on the spot and ask if they’d like to share the reason for their eye rolling. Sometimes these fuckers need called out.

"She needs to learn to deal with situations like this as she will come across them again and again and she can’t keep running away…..

I started a weekend job in the NHS (cleaner). Within the first weekend I was there, I was pulled into the office with a supervisor and manager for not "engaging enough" with my colleagues.
In our rest room, they would just talk about sex. I got a job there because I was dating a porter at the time an he got me an interview etc. They asked my name, and about our sex life!
It was all women too, before anyone says it was a toxic male environment.

I know you were, but it is honestly so difficult to make eye contact all the time for alot of autistic people. I end up getting a migraine if I do it for too long. I am just worried that OP will get burnout , so I feel she needs to keep a diary and get the union involved for advice if things escalate.

"She needs to learn to deal with situations like this as she will come across them again and again and she can’t keep running away…..

She doesn't "need to learn". Life is too short. It's not her fault, not her problem, and you can't fix a workplace culture (be it bitchiness, substandard work, crap H+S practices) by yourself especially if you're not the boss. It's the whole wrestling with a pig / playing chess with a pigeon scenario. Zero point.

"as a lot of people up thread have mentioned, bitchy nurses like this exist on every ward "
Literally nobody said that. Lots of people have experienced one or two crap environments in their whole working lives, with lots of lovely cohesive teams in between.

OP doesn't "keep running away"- she said that she has had no problems fitting into workplaces before and has never experienced a ward like this before.

Erm.... I was sticking up for OP?!

Did you get the job that one of their friends was a shoe in for? That’s exactly what happens to the new starter in that situation. Or, they could just be the type of group who dont like newbies. Either way, it’s not acceptable. The manager is your first stop but if you don’t feel like anything is changing once you’ve done that, then go higher.

if you don’t feel comfortable doing that, your trust should have “Freedom to Speak” champion type people, or something equivalent. Whichever way you choose to go, I wish you the best of luck

It won't get better. Resign and make sure you have an exit interview where you tell the truth about your reason for leaving

Re :care homes . This is my life just now. I honestly feel your pain OP. ❤️

I’m a nurse in a non clinical role now, but i think NHS wards are very toxic places to work. I’ve had mixed experiences my first ward when I qualified was awful I felt really unsupported. I stayed there just under 12 months the manager never knew my name! And I found some staff really rude I remember getting home and crying after my first week. As some people were really rude clicky, not being team players, bitching. Somebody ate/threw away my lunch too! However after some time settling in I made a few friends. The last ward I worked on I made some great friends and was such a good team. I do find it odd in a caring profession people can be so awful. I think sometimes it does take sometime to get to know people and settle in. Hopefully things will get better however if doesn’t personally I’d look for another job, you spend a lot of time at work. Nothing worse than dreading going in.

Normally on Mumsnet threads either get replies straight away or not really at all.

I’ve heard that maternity wards can be the worst for this. Give yourself a deadline, see if it gets better then move and be honest about why you’re moving.

Life is far too short for this shit. I would suggest leaving ASAP. You deserve better 🙂

This. Just left a job like this. Utterly miserable fossils that get joy in seeing people leave.

What’s your point?

when you walk on the staff room say hello, does anyone what a coffee.

Given what the OP said about the staff and how they have already treated her I would not do this, it’s just giving them another opportunity to ignore her.

This is a "them" problem, not a "you" problem, OP.

The stupidest people I ever worked with, and the most toxic/bullying environment, was in the NHS. It was horribly bitchy. The only way to deal with it was to get out.

Find another job as soon as you can, even if it just means finding another hospital to work at. I think the trouble is that the way things are run, you only need one bad apple to poison the whole workspace. You might have better luck in another hospital, but don't crush your soul trying to make this work.

This happened to me once when I moved to a different trust, I stuck it for one shift and that was more than enough! I went back to my old trust on temporary staffing until I found another permanent contract that I wanted.

How did your day go today, were they at it again?

Perhaps the timing of you starting work is when they are with patients so cannot say hello.
Tey eating lunch in the common area and when you walk on the staff room say hello, does anyone what a coffee. People soon come round

I know you're talking about the NHS but it sounds like every care home I've worked in. Then they had the audacity to say they can't get/keep workers. I've noticed it's usually stemming from one or two people and the rest just go along with it to keep from being targeted. I know a few nurses who are the same, pointless attitude and entitlement. Sorry you're going through this and I hope something happens to improve it.

I was going to say how horrible this is, but then you bumped the thread after nobody replied inside of a whole 7 minutes!

Can you try being more assertive. E.g. carrying on saying good morning? Until someone replies with a wide smile. Ask the eye rollers if they have something they wanted to say. Tell your manager this is the unfriendliest team you've ever worked in.

I encountered a few wards like this when I was a very young student nurse and it really upset me. It was only when I made a passing comment to a fellow student that I was considering not returning after my weekend back home that my tutors became involved, and suddenly those bitches couldn’t do enough for me.
Now I’m through menopause I wouldn’t hesitate to call them out in the manner that a PP said, but I fully understand how you feel.
I would take a transfer or new post if one comes up. It can be a very challenging environment if there is an established clique.
I hope you find something that makes you happier OP xx