Was I in the wrong? Neighbour issue?

You still don't COMMENT on what you see FFS

You assume that everybody else is filming their neighbours just like you assumed that you could exclude your neighbours from the Facebook group because they wouldn't want to join.
Most people obey the law and will block out their neighbours property so its likely that your assumption about everybody else filming others is as accurate as your assumption about your neighbour.
You really are coming across as a nightmare neighbour and its amazing how entitled you are expecting a gift for your child just because they got 1 for their FRIEND'S child and only now worrying about your stalking, bullying behaviour because you might face actual consequences for it.
Please read back your own posts and think about your behaviour I'll list it below
You purposely excluded 1 family from a estate Facebook group.
You set up a camera that records and notifies you of their coming and going
You had the audacity to quiz them on said coming and going.
You have made them scared to talk to each in their own garden because of YOUR spying on them.
You expect gifts and help from people who you are bullying and stalking and have made their home a prison.
You have been asking questions about them whilst playing the victim to their only friends on the estate which comes across as trying to cut them off from their ONLY friends
But your embarrassed and worried that you might have been reported to your landlord not mortified or horrified about your behaviour and its impact on your poor neighbours

I’m in a terrace and we can set our ring door bell to only sense movement if someone is on our path, but not in next door’s grass area right next to the path. Our doors aren’t absolutely next to each other though - I’ve seen some terraces where it’s like that and it’s much harder to separate the areas.
https://ring.com/gb/en/support/articles/85pqb/Using-Camera-Motion-Zones?srsltid=AfmBOop2Ks-jhcxOxy-XUrwrje4iHQPVWUaHz2doiwmEha3suKhtffNP

how did you not get a pure reddener as you messaged her or approached her to say “was that your sister visiting?”

Also you keep saying a Ringdoor? I’m assuming you mean a ring doorbell?

The instructions are here https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=k9VZ4zk7_2M&t=6s&pp=2AEGkAIB and here ring.com/gb/en/support/articles/g4e2w/using-privacy-features-in-the-ring-app

I would have reported you.

why haven’t you used the functionality to mask off certain areas of view from the doorbell?

I doubt it. She’s clearly felt this way for a long time, you’d have known by now if you had been reported. Maybe just reflect and learn from the experience. You obviously lack insight into how you may be coming over to other people and this is a good opportunity to think about how you are being perceived and what you can do to change that perception of yourself. It’s the unlikely she’s the only person on the whole estate to find you a bit overbearing so be prepared to hear some uncomfortable truths.

You keep trying to excuse your camera's range with the "we're terraced" excuse - well that's not an acceptable excuse!
I live in a row of terraced houses, neighbour 3 doors down put up a doorbell camera that captured her direct neighbours - they complained and camera neighbour got a letter from the council telling her to either restrict the view or turn it off. She had no option but to turn it off.

You should be embarrassed - I can't believe you thought it OK to comment on her visitor. What were you thinking? 🙈

Oh my…. So change your ring doorbell settings and leave them alone, if you’re so scared you’ve been reported and fear consequences.

Can't imagine why she thinks you're nosey and a busy body 🤔

Is it any wonder the neighbours hate living next to a nosy, I'll decide who is in the facebook group, spying, mean busybody. Learn from this Op, keep your nose out.

You asked other people about them? You seem a bit much. You didn’t want them as part of your group, so now they don’t want to interact. Just leave them be.

I think she is referring my Ringdoor capturing some of her property ( I asked her once if that was her sister visiting when it pinged on my Ring).

Errr yes. Rude and intrusive.
I live in a terrace house, my immediate neighbour has a Ringdoor bell and I know it captures me leaving and arriving home, and people visiting me. He would never comment on any of these things and I'd feel really uncomfortable if he did.
It's about respect.

Could you have a look at your ring door bell and make sure it's only recording your side? Then ask the neighbour to come and see for herself so she knows she's not being filmed. I would never ask her who is visiting her, that's just nosey and intrusive. If my parcel went to a certain neighbour, he'd seriously look at the packaging and ask me what was in it!

Some people are just odd.

Yes not getting on with neighbours is awful. But I think this situation has gone too far given the OP's updates. I just hope her neighbours find themselves lovely new homes without a judgemental busybody who spies on them and has the gall to quiz them on their visitors. A greedy judgemental busybody who has whined that her neighbour bought a card and gift for another neighbour's child but not for her child. An entitled judgemental busybody who isn't happy the neighbours she excluded no longer bring in her bins and take in her parcels.

Well if you created a group for people that live on the estate and then invited people but purposely didn’t invite your next door neighbour that lives on said estate then yeah it’s poor form isn’t it? Like actually mean behaviour!

I would just invite them at this point and swallow your pride, it’s awful not getting along with neighbours.

Wow, I would not want to live next to you either. Very rude and nosy.

I would be reporting you for harassment and stalking for monitoring who my visitors are on your camera.

how dare you do that? Don’t you realise how deeply inappropriate that is?

Honestly what did you expect? You've been spying on her and her visitors and having the audacity to quiz her on who her visitors are. Add to that the WhatsApp/Facebook group for everyone but them. You're the classic nosey judgemental busybody.
You do realise that if your neighbours complain to the police about you filming her on her property you'll get a visit from the police as what you are doing is illegal. Ring doorbells have a facility to block areas and prevent filming of those areas. Why did you not sort this when you set it up and what made you think that you had the right to question your neighbour about their visitors?
Also stop asking other people about your neighbours and leave them alone you are coming across as a stalker

I absolutely hate ring doorbells that view my property. I hate when people can’t be arsed to set them up correctly and block out the areas that don’t belong to them. It’s lazy and it’s imposing someone else’s assessment of risk on me and that’s not fair. (Risk re burglary and the like, risk re data protection in cloud services or wherever else the data is stored.)

I would leave it. Don't send chocs.
Your future actions will be the only thing that makes them change their mind about you.
Just wave hello, smile and keep away.

I would leave it. Don't send chocs.
Your future actions will be the only thing that makes them change their mind about you.
Just wave hello, smile and keep away.

Leave her alone. You seem to have difficulty understanding how other people will react to you but you're right to think that sending chocolate etc now would just seem like harassment. I hope you get on better when you get new neighbours. Try to understand that people don't like to feel excluded or spied on.

Leave her alone.

You’re not supposed to capture any of her property with your ring door. Fix that pronto.