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Would you eat a packet of nuts on a plane?

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Purpleturtle45 · 28/09/2025 22:11

I thought it was widely understood that you don't eat nuts on a plane. The woman next to me just cracked a packet open!

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AtomHeartMotherOfGod · 28/09/2025 23:14

No. I've known enough people with 'air transferred' nut allergies to be wary. A bit hypocritically, I ate nuts on a train recently but did check with a person sitting near me first (it was a mostly empty carriage).

PurpleThistle7 · 28/09/2025 23:12

It never really occurred to me to avoid eating them anywhere besides a plane. My son’s primary school is nut free so of course he doesn’t pack anything but he has peanut butter every morning at home. My daughter’s school isn’t restricted so she packs whatever she wants. She’s autistic with a limited diet so I’m just happy she can have a peanut butter sandwich now. I thought flights were particularly risky as people wouldn’t have access to medical care.

PeloMom · 28/09/2025 23:12

Purpleturtle45 · 28/09/2025 22:14

In recent years?

I did last time I flew. Which was in August.

PeloMom · 28/09/2025 23:11

Yes. The airline I usually fly serves a small bowl of them before lunch/ dinner service.

JDM625 · 28/09/2025 23:10

The woman was sitting next to my son and as a minimum I would have thought she would have checked

Should she also have checked before ordering a white coffee incase your son had a dairy allergy, or checking you don't mind her eating meat?

I'm well aware of anaphylaxis and allergies. I was served nuts on a long haul flight last month! I fly very often. IF an announcement was made NOT to eat them, I'd absolutely comply, but your assumptions that 'its widely understood you don't eat nuts on planes' is something I've never heard before! Your assumption is wrong.

24karatPalamino · 28/09/2025 23:10

If the pilots announces that a person with an allergy is onboard, then of course not. But otherwise I often bring M&Ms onboard and have never given it a second thought.

HonoraryScouser · 28/09/2025 23:09

No. My sister has a severe nut allergy and this is a huge risk for her. She always asks the crew to make an announcement. They won't serve nuts at her request but can only ask that other people don't eat ones they've brought on the plane. One time when we were flying together, the lady next to us (after an announcement) opened a packet of nuts (this was on a long haul flight). My sister had to move seats and avoid touching anything the whole flight.

Tryingatleast · 28/09/2025 23:08

OneFootintheHedgehog

As in in everyday life people go out of their way-banned from primary and secondary school here. Mad they’re on planes!!!

clinellwipe · 28/09/2025 23:07

Mid contraction I bollocked my husband for opening a packet of nuts without asking the midwife first if she was allergic - but I appreciate that’s OTT to most people (to say the least)!
I wouldn’t eat nuts on a plane, no

OneBadKitty · 28/09/2025 23:07

Someone with an allergy so severe that someone else just eating nuts in the same room as them puts them at risk of dying surely wouldn't be just taking a chance on others having nuts and flying anyway.

As for those that don't eat nuts in public- well that's just madness, nuts are everywhere in restaurants, chocolate bars, and even growing on the trees on the street! It's so pointless setting yourself rules to protect the hypothetical people at risk when risk is everywhere.

If you have an allergy it's up to you to protect yourself, the whole world can't be expected to be sanitised just incase.

The more we limit exposure, the more we exacerbate allergies for future generations.

tiredangry · 28/09/2025 23:07

I thought that they announce it if there is someone on board with a serious nut allergy. I flew earlier this year and bought a bag of trail mix that was one of the menu basics.

IneedtheeohIneedtheeeveryhourIneedthee · 28/09/2025 23:07

I don't habitually snack on nuts anywhere, so I wouldn't. But I would eat whatever I wanted at any given time and if that was a sandwich that contained but oil, something with pesto, a chocolate bar with nuts etc, then so be it.

Wednesdaysotherchild · 28/09/2025 23:05

Yes, unless specifically mentioned due to a fellow passenger being allergic. It’s often the only snack or source of protein available in some countries.

OneFootintheHedgehog · 28/09/2025 23:05

Tryingatleast · 28/09/2025 23:03

no, I don’t get why people would go out of their way to eat one of the only foods that people are so regularly hearing of others having issues with

They don’t go out of their way though, most of the flights I’ve been on recently have served them.

Tryingatleast · 28/09/2025 23:03

no, I don’t get why people would go out of their way to eat one of the only foods that people are so regularly hearing of others having issues with

spicetails · 28/09/2025 23:03

Theyre the snack of choice served on flights.

Dliplop · 28/09/2025 23:02

If I bring my own, I ask seatmates. Most of my flights have served almonds recently

PortSalutPlease · 28/09/2025 23:02

If I was asked not to, of course not.

My DC has a child in his class who is severely allergic to nuts. This means the school is strictly nut free, and we are all asked not to give our children peanut butter in the mornings due to risk of trace transfer. (It’s a SEN school so they can neither be relied upon to have vigorously scrubbed their hands, nor to keep classroom items out of their mouths)

categorychaos · 28/09/2025 23:02

Purpleturtle45 · 28/09/2025 22:54

Interesting points of view, I'm shocked at how many airlines serve nuts when there are no many alternatives.

My son doesn't have an allergy but one if my nieces does so I am quite vigilant so it's on my radar (pardon the pun 🤣).

I guess all you can control is what you do and I personally wouldn't see any reason why I would need to eat nuts on a plane so I wouldn't bother.

There’s no “need” to drink alcohol or fruit juice or anything in a plane. Equally bread, biscuits or coffee. Sadly allergens are everywhere- I agree with PP that airlines need to stipulate if there is a passenger who may be affected by what is offered but it is extremely hard to police. I am truly thankful that neither I nor immediate family have allergic reactions to everyday foodstuffs as it must be so exhausting and worrying.

AnxiousOCDMum · 28/09/2025 23:01

TortillaChipAddict · 28/09/2025 22:39

Yes, my daughter is anaphylactic to milk. So for her village hall birthday party we didn’t serve dairy milk with the tea and coffee (that we provided as a courtesy - we catered the whole thing ourselves) as she reacts on contact and I didn’t want her to have to worry about spillages at her own party. One parent bitterly complained the whole time that we had offered her oat milk instead of dairy milk even when we explained it was to prevent the birthday girl having a trip to hospital.

I would have not been able to bite my tongue and would have told her to fuck off.

Labraradabrador · 28/09/2025 23:01

The only nuts I eat on planes are the ones served to me by the airline, which happens 90% of the flights I take.

HoskinsChoice · 28/09/2025 23:00

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That's a really unfair comment. It had never crossed my mind that I shouldn't eat nuts in public places. I don't recall reading or hearing that I should. It's not about not caring, its about people (including me!) not being aware that I shouldn't. I've been on 'nut-free' flights but it's always been made clear that there was someone on board that has an allergy. If they don't make that announcement on every flight then it is bound to lead the public to thinking its ok to eat them unless told otherwise. As we don't have a national ban on nuts on planes, surely it's up to the individual to alert the flight about their allergy if it is so severe that someone sitting a few feet away with them impacts on them.

FunnyOrca · 28/09/2025 22:59

Purpleturtle45 · 28/09/2025 22:17

I knew they weren't banned but I thought it was accepted that they were best avoided. The woman was sitting next to my son and as a minimum I would have thought she would have checked.

No, it’s standard practice that someone with an allergy informs the cabin crew and an announcement is made at the gate, during the welcome message and at the start of food services.

Completely reasonable to assume your son didn’t have an allergy given no announcement had been made.

KLM serve lovely bags of peanut and cashews mixed. I quite look forward to them!

AnxiousOCDMum · 28/09/2025 22:59

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This. My son has a nut allergy so I’m acutely aware of how dangerous this is.

PurpleThistle7 · 28/09/2025 22:59

I usually don’t but that’s because I have food allergies and it’s always on my mind.

(as an aside I’m terribly allergic to animals and it has contributed to my anxiety around flying. I wish you could at least request to sit a few rows away from animals on a flight like you can request a nut free flight.)