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I'm happy pubs are dying out

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Raymondsam · 28/09/2025 18:02

In my town at least.

Maybe decades ago the argument could be made that they're social hubs for people to unwind, meet and have a good time on a weekend.

Nowadays they're just hovels where mostly retired old boys go to binge drink in the daytime and cost the NHS billions in the various cancers strokes and host of other comorbidities that crop up.

The three biggest ones in my town are the typical chain owned leasehold places. Big companies that own hundreds of pubs all over the country. They treat the leaseholders like crap, if they start to turn a decent profit they up the rent.

OP posts:
localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:31

BitOutOfPractice · 30/09/2025 07:20

The cost of living crisis. HTH.

I agree you must live in a really rough area. Because I absolutely do not recognise your description at all.

Edited

I think the problem is no matter now nice the area is, "traditional" pubs and working men's clubs are the kind of places that are not frequented by the wealthy and upmarket people.

I get there are nice pubs in some villages, but I'm not talking about Cotswolds here. I lived in the Midlands so a bit more realistic ))

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 30/09/2025 07:30

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:00

I get you are pro-traditional pubs, maybe even an owner.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I think pubs are boring, smelly and they had their day. You think they are super amazing and I should stay away, which I do - but so as hundreds of others - that's why pubs are failing and closing. So maybe get off your high defensive horse and think why that is?

I don’t own a pub, I worked in a few when I was a student but now I’m just a customer. I see the important role they can play in a community and understand the contribution they make to the labour market.

What I object to is people advocating for the decline of an entire sector because they personally don’t like it or want to use it. It’s selfish and shortsighted. There are plenty of things in society that I don’t enjoy or use but I’m not selfish or self centred enough to think everyone feels the same.

If you don’t want drink in a pub or just a certain type of pub then don’t. But look further than the end of your own nose and realise that not all pubs are as you describe.

The reason the hospitality sector is struggling is multi faceted and it’s not because people dislike pubs all of a sudden. Speak to any landlord and they’ll tell you that it’s unfavourable government policy (NI rises, taxes etc) and the increase in the cost of living (utilities, food etc) that’s having the biggest impact. Any decline in custom is generally due to cost not because people no longer want to go to the pub.
Pubs have never had more appeal to wider groups of people. They’re no longer the domain of men, they’re community hubs, local eateries, entertainment venues…but the CoL crisis is the biggest issue.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/09/2025 07:29

I’m interested in the purpose of this thread. Pubs (and the associated drinking) are an integral part of British culture. I’m not sure why anyone would be championing the decline of a British cultural institution

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:27

RampantIvy · 30/09/2025 07:23

Are you always this negative? Pubs have their place, especially in our village where it is a real community hub, but you don't get it do you?

I do get it, don't I. No one is taking your pub away, just make sure its not only old biddies and middle aged men who are interested in going there regularly. It wont survive if its only has custom at weekends and is empty the rest of the week.

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:25

There are several very modern pubs near me that are full and thriving. But they serve a variety of drinks, often great food as well, they have a large number of local craft beers, they are very pretty, and always full of people from all walks of life - mainly young people and families. And there is one pub that is very "traditional" - no kids allowed, no "fancy" drinks, no food, no "outsiders" are made to feel welcome, its grim inside, very low effort. It has its regulars and still has custom, but I cant see it surviving long. Sad but true.

RampantIvy · 30/09/2025 07:23

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:00

I get you are pro-traditional pubs, maybe even an owner.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I think pubs are boring, smelly and they had their day. You think they are super amazing and I should stay away, which I do - but so as hundreds of others - that's why pubs are failing and closing. So maybe get off your high defensive horse and think why that is?

Are you always this negative? Pubs have their place, especially in our village where it is a real community hub, but you don't get it do you?

BitOutOfPractice · 30/09/2025 07:20

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:00

I get you are pro-traditional pubs, maybe even an owner.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I think pubs are boring, smelly and they had their day. You think they are super amazing and I should stay away, which I do - but so as hundreds of others - that's why pubs are failing and closing. So maybe get off your high defensive horse and think why that is?

The cost of living crisis. HTH.

I agree you must live in a really rough area. Because I absolutely do not recognise your description at all.

cobrakaieaglefang · 30/09/2025 07:17

Unfortunately the 'spoons' reputation for encouraging down and out pissheads spreads to other pubs. Traditional pubs struggle to keep going without becoming 'foodie' and good landlords are hard to find. Our local shut after issues over the lease renewal, the cost was unrealistic. It was a cosy, traditional pub that did some nice food but wasn't a restaurant.

localnotail · 30/09/2025 07:00

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 29/09/2025 20:42

Regulars = monotony and no new faces, people with interests so narrow I could predict everything they would say

or friends. People with a shared history and community. You can always choose not to talk to them, I’m sure they’d be okay with that.

drag acts = someone called "vanilla rimmer" is not something I can ever take seriously or enjoy as entertainment

Don’t go when they’re performing. It’s not difficult.

piss beer = ale is boring, where is IPA or prosecco??
Are you saying the only served beer? Cos every pub I’ve been to in the last 5 years serves Prosecco.

Pubs were not a problem but I disliked them hence my message in support of not feeling sorry of them disappearing. I get its part of the heritage and cultural tradition but so as workhouses, caning in schools and hatred of Irish. Some traditions are best gone.

This comment is beyond insulting and just makes you sound ridiculous. Comparing a whole section of the hospitality industry to the days when Irish people (and people of colour) were banned from even entering pubs is beyond crass.

Nobody is forcing you to go into a pub so stop being so ridiculous.

I get you are pro-traditional pubs, maybe even an owner.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I think pubs are boring, smelly and they had their day. You think they are super amazing and I should stay away, which I do - but so as hundreds of others - that's why pubs are failing and closing. So maybe get off your high defensive horse and think why that is?

LoyalPlumOtter · 30/09/2025 06:58

kelsaecobbles · 28/09/2025 18:33

Ours are still great social hubs supporting the local communities - subsidising teas and coffees for the welfare groups , rooms or quiet corners for clubs to meet, live music. Save the NHS a fortune by enabling and supporting all these groups. The drunks are usually associated with the wakes for which I can cut them lots of slack. I think ours are independent of the big brewers.

guess it’s where you live not pubs in general. It would be devastating if we lost ours.

Same here - we lost one pub, the others are really important for our community and would make our village a sadder more isolating place.

localnotail · 30/09/2025 06:55

Algen · 29/09/2025 21:25

piss beer = ale is boring, where is IPA or prosecco??

IPA is ale, and prosecco is the most boring drink known to humankind.

IPA is a different kind of ale. Not your flat boring Marstons Pedigree

of course prosecco is boring... )))

Meadowfinch · 30/09/2025 06:52

localnotail · 29/09/2025 21:01

You are quite wrong

Most definitely not in our village pub 😁 Our landlord knows better

Bundleflower · 29/09/2025 22:16

Maybe you just live in a shit hole? None of my locals are anything like this.

iowgirl1 · 29/09/2025 22:13

What a weird and sad post ?

BoundaryGirl3939 · 29/09/2025 21:40

I love pubs. Nothing nicer than sitting in a snug and having a glass of wine...even on my own when I'm in the city centre and need a break (only do it now and then). Pubs are underrated and I'm sad to see them go.

RampantIvy · 29/09/2025 21:40

Meadowfinch · 29/09/2025 20:47

But your experience is just yours OP. The rest of the UK isn't the same as your bit.

Our village pub is the centre of our village. It hosts the May Fayre, darts, billiards, assorted Christmas stuff. They do the lunch catering for the primary school.

They serve the best fish & chips, make big vats of veggie soup & crusty bread for fireworks night. Big children's area in the garden. Most of the village goes in there at some time in the week.

Why would we want to lose that?

I feel a fish and chip challenge
I'll raise you with our local pub's fish and chips made with the lightest, crispiest beer batter. They only do fish and chips on Thursdays and Fridays with fresh fish delivered from Grimsby.

I have never tasted better fish and chips anywhere else.

Algen · 29/09/2025 21:25

piss beer = ale is boring, where is IPA or prosecco??

IPA is ale, and prosecco is the most boring drink known to humankind.

bakebeans · 29/09/2025 21:24

I’ve put as unreasonable.
some of these ‘retired old boys’ have no family or friends and their only contact outside their house is the local pub otherwise it will be likely they don’t leave their house in some cases

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 29/09/2025 21:23

AbbeyGrange · 29/09/2025 21:11

Never had any round my way, I'm in in the vicinity of 4 rural pubs in the South Downs national park and not ONE of them has ever had a drag act, it would probably go down like a lead balloon.

Never had any round my area either and we have 25 pubs across the town,so you'd think there would have been. We've had Comedy shows, band nights, local musicians, wreath making workshops, craft fairs, family fun days. Very rarely have trouble either.

LillyPJ · 29/09/2025 21:23

localnotail · 29/09/2025 20:28

Regulars = monotony and no new faces, people with interests so narrow I could predict everything they would say
drag acts = someone called "vanilla rimmer" is not something I can ever take seriously or enjoy as entertainment
piss beer = ale is boring, where is IPA or prosecco??
my ex = whole other story, none of yer beeswax
being "dragged" to the pub = have you read my post? I stopped going when I had enough

Pubs were not a problem but I disliked them hence my message in support of not feeling sorry of them disappearing. I get its part of the heritage and cultural tradition but so as workhouses, caning in schools and hatred of Irish. Some traditions are best gone.

What pub doesn't serve any other beers than ale?! (And ale's certainly less boring than prosecco anyway!)

Endorewitch · 29/09/2025 21:19

Where on earth do you live?The pubs around me are lovely and serve delicious food.
You sound like you are describing victorian pubs!!!
Dont go if you dont like them.
You sound a bit of a kill joy.

AbbeyGrange · 29/09/2025 21:11

localnotail · 29/09/2025 21:01

You are quite wrong

Never had any round my way, I'm in in the vicinity of 4 rural pubs in the South Downs national park and not ONE of them has ever had a drag act, it would probably go down like a lead balloon.

FlorenceAgainstTheMachine · 29/09/2025 21:10

When the local pubs closed during COVID the old boys had nowhere to congregate during the day, to read over the horses and wind each other up. They stayed in their individual homes instead, lonely, and isolated. One of them died and no one found him for days, because he didn’t have any family locally. His family were the day drinkers in the pub he frequented.

YABU.

localnotail · 29/09/2025 21:01

AbbeyGrange · 29/09/2025 20:46

Those pubs sound like shit anyway, and drag acts generally don't entertain at rural vilage pubs, more like busy city/town centres

You are quite wrong

Laurmolonlabe · 29/09/2025 21:00

Pubs dying out is not going to save the NHS one penny- human beings are perfectly capable of finding behaviours and vices to replace pubs.
Chain pubs can have a less than conducive atmosphere- but I don't really understand your bitterness towards them- no one is forcing you to use them, and there are plenty of very bad landlords who don't own pubs.