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I'm happy pubs are dying out

343 replies

Raymondsam · 28/09/2025 18:02

In my town at least.

Maybe decades ago the argument could be made that they're social hubs for people to unwind, meet and have a good time on a weekend.

Nowadays they're just hovels where mostly retired old boys go to binge drink in the daytime and cost the NHS billions in the various cancers strokes and host of other comorbidities that crop up.

The three biggest ones in my town are the typical chain owned leasehold places. Big companies that own hundreds of pubs all over the country. They treat the leaseholders like crap, if they start to turn a decent profit they up the rent.

OP posts:
IntoChanges · 28/09/2025 19:17

I am getting so fed up of MN being full of threads with inflammatory openings, about subjects that apply to many and where the OP doesn't interact with anyone.

Click bait?

LarkspurLane · 28/09/2025 19:15

It sounds like a problem with your town rather than with pubs.

Pubs are lovely where I am.

MyDeftDuck · 28/09/2025 19:14

What the OP has failed to acknowledge is that the pub, for some who live alone, is often their only social outlet. It might be that elderly man who’s lost his wife, kids live some distance away, having a pint in the evening, often sitting alone and maybe having a chat with the bar staff but quite often not……take that away OP and what has he got? …….bugger all!

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 28/09/2025 19:14

Besides binge drinking, I think pubs have always served a social purpose..this post seems needlessly confrontational.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 28/09/2025 19:13

You don't like them ?
So what ?

brunettemic · 28/09/2025 19:08

Yeah, great isn’t it. All those people losing their jobs, the supply chain having to shut down and more people lose their jobs. It’s really great news all round.
Oh wait, never mind.

NuovaPilbeam · 28/09/2025 19:06

My lovely local indie is not like that at all! Think well kept country pub, good local food offering decent selection of drinks. Its definitely a central point of our community, its where you go for literally every sort of meeting, from the allotment committee to the pta to the knitting club, and has a thriving younger patronage too.

Algen · 28/09/2025 19:04

Redpeach · 28/09/2025 19:00

Shall we get rid of fast food joints and bakeries as well, whilst we're at it, given the amount obesity costs the nhs?

I could do without the millions of chicken shops that seem to have taken over from everything else.

Nothing to do with obesity, I just don’t understand why every town needs about 10 of them.

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 28/09/2025 19:04

Our village pub is nothing like your description.

FaitesVosJeux · 28/09/2025 19:04

Rage bait.

And ridiculous.

RunningJo · 28/09/2025 19:03

What a strange thing to be happy about.

Redpeach · 28/09/2025 19:00

Shall we get rid of fast food joints and bakeries as well, whilst we're at it, given the amount obesity costs the nhs?

latetothefisting · 28/09/2025 18:58

YABU. One of the best things about pubs are there are so many different types. Trendy microbreweries, family friendly ones with play areas and food, cheap and cheerful spoons, old lags' boozers, etc.

Where else would you go if you wanted to meet up with a group after about 5pm? Other than restaurants (and most people can hardly afford/might not want to drop that much on food often) there's nowhere.

ComedyGuns · 28/09/2025 18:56

Last year I met up with a friend who’d moved to a new area in her local pub - it really made me realise what these places do well. It was about 6.30pm and there were families playing board games, trades people chatting at the bar, a couple of elderly people eating on their own quite contentedly, and everyone seemed to know each other. It was just lovely.

Cosyblankets · 28/09/2025 18:56

If only we'd known years ago that the answer to saving the NHS was to just shut the pubs?
How did we not all see it?

Jumpingthruhoops · 28/09/2025 18:55

Wow! You have to be a special kind of moron to be 'happy' people are being put out of work and those who enjoy pubs are being left with nowhere to go. You sound like a peach 🤔

spicetails · 28/09/2025 18:53

Raymondsam · 28/09/2025 18:02

In my town at least.

Maybe decades ago the argument could be made that they're social hubs for people to unwind, meet and have a good time on a weekend.

Nowadays they're just hovels where mostly retired old boys go to binge drink in the daytime and cost the NHS billions in the various cancers strokes and host of other comorbidities that crop up.

The three biggest ones in my town are the typical chain owned leasehold places. Big companies that own hundreds of pubs all over the country. They treat the leaseholders like crap, if they start to turn a decent profit they up the rent.

Instead of moaning about pubs (and the alcohol consumption raising more in taxes than alcohol related disease costs yhd NHS) why don’t you campaign for better women’s health services? The dire lack of them costs the exact bing £11 billion per year and women being ignored, gaslighted and left unable to wirk doesnt havd any kind of offset.

1dayatatime · 28/09/2025 18:52

Coconutter24 · 28/09/2025 18:41

cost the NHS billions in the various cancers strokes and host of other comorbidities that crop up.

how is that the pubs fault?

So OP - let's look at your of the cost to the NHS, the economy, crime etc from alcohol consumption. The overall cost is estimated to be £33 billion per year, however the tax raised from alcohol is only £15 billion per year. So yes there is a net cost to the country from the consumption of alcohol.

However 85% of all the alcohol consumed in the UK is sold by supermarkets, stores, off licences etc (ie not pubs).

So if the concern is genuinely to reduce alcohol consumption then massively raising the cost of alcohol through taxation sold in stores / supermarkets (and not pubs) would be the way forward.

spicetails · 28/09/2025 18:50

They’re not costing the NHS millions - the revenue created from alcohol tax is in the billions

MyDeftHedgehog · 28/09/2025 18:48

Those "old boys costing the NHS millions" have probably worked for decades and paid their tax and national insurance. Some will be likely to suffer industrial diseases from hard work in factories, mines etc.
At least the NHS isn't having to spend fortunes on botched tit and arse enlargement and turkey teeth as seems to be the norm these days!!

Sugarfish · 28/09/2025 18:47

Where on earth do you live that this is your impression of pub culture?

There are brilliant pubs all over the country. Yeah, you get that certain chain that everyone knows and has a reputation, but on a Friday and Saturday night they are heaving with all sorts of different people. Friends, students, work colleagues, people starting their night, people having dinner.

I live in a smallish town and even we have a load of brilliant pubs that are clean, friendly, offer quiz nights and live music. Hold events for the community. I bloody love the pub scene!

CloudPop · 28/09/2025 18:45

@Allywill ❤️❤️❤️❤️

NautilusLionfish · 28/09/2025 18:44

Allywill · 28/09/2025 18:39

My dad is 88, I take him to his local 3 nights a week between the hours of 6 - 7pm for him to spend 1 hour out of the house. It give him some much needed respite from caring for my mum who has Alzheimer's and allows him to watch some sky sports (they don’t have sky at home - too expensive). What would you have him do instead? Yoga? Don’t worry too much about him having a stroke due to alcohol- he only has 2 halves but even if he wasn’t so what? He’s going to die of something and probably fairly soon - he deserves what pleasures he can get at this point to be honest.

Oh. Your 80 year old dad taking care of your mum with Alzheimers broke my heart. All the best to hi and all of you. May He enjoy many hours at the pub

CloudPop · 28/09/2025 18:44

Lanzarotelady · 28/09/2025 18:06

You're fun!

Right ?!

spicetails · 28/09/2025 18:43

user1471538275 · 28/09/2025 18:38

I get cost to NHS from alcohol related disease as 4.9 billion and tax revenues from alcohol at 13 billion.

Smoking - cost to NHS 2.8 billion, revenue 8.1 billion

And that's not counting the reduction in pension costs /health costs due to dying sooner.

Edited

Whilst the cost to the nation of poorly funded women’s gyne services is 11 billion per year