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WWYD? Concussion after suitcase fell on my head!

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UndertheCedartree · 27/09/2025 11:19

Just a thread to get opinions on this and decide what to do.

I was boarding my flight home from Florida on Thursday evening and was just sitting down when a suitcase landed on my head having fallen from the overhead locker. Honestly, the whole experience has been horrible and I feel I've been really badly treated. Being in the US all the Americans keep telling me to sue!

I don't necessarily want to do that but I would like to stop someone experiencing the same. Or I just forget about it and move on. Just interested to hear opinions.

So after it happened they called firefighters (who are paramedics too) to attend. When waiting for this I noticed they had moved my hand luggage off the plane and got my teenage children out of their seats who were both standing there crying. The firefighters came and the airline crew were telling me I have to go to hospital. I asked for some observations to be done and a stretcher brought. They insisted I had to get off the plane. The pilot came out, no empathy atall, just told me to get off the plane or he would call the police! I went with the firefighters and they told me they would have preferred to do observations before moving me but have to do what the airline says.

Anyway they took me to hospital and they said I was ok to fly home the next day. I tried to get in touch with someone to ask for some accommodations to make the flight more bearable as I was in so much pain. I was told I have to speak to 'the airport team' - we arrived at the airport at 11am and there was noone from the airline there. Eventually they came at 1pm but told me they just work on their behalf they can do nothing I need to speak to the airline on the phone/online. Tried numbers, messaging for hours. Eventually I was told they would make sure I was comfortable on the flight with pillows etc. We got on the flight having been up for a day and a half and so uncomfortable from.just sitting on airport seating, I thought I was finally going to be comfortable. When I got on board I asked for a pillow. You would have thought I'd asked for the crown jewels! I was shouted at, told there was only one pillow person customer (not actually a pillow just a small thin cushion) It was a horrible, painful flight and I felt so bad and was so dizzy when I got off the flight I am now in A&E.

They think it is a concussion but I failed one of the neurological observations so I'm waiting for a CT scan. I honestly think they could have taken more care and been much nicer. Wwyd?

OP posts:
notimagain · 28/09/2025 17:39

Soontobe60 · 28/09/2025 17:28

The airline would not have allowed the OP to board a flight less than a day after such a serious incident that it required hospitalisation without a letter from the hospital clearing her fit to fly. Especially following a serious head injury!

Oh yes, of course, good spot...of course that only works if the passenger fesses up to being recently injured/hospitalised...

BA even have a special form, available on line via ba.com..

Soontobe60 · 28/09/2025 17:28

MrsWhites · 28/09/2025 15:26

Let’s be honest, if you can arrange a Lyft to get yourself from the hospital to a hotel, from the hotel to an airport, get through a UK airport, from the airport to a UK hospital and to post several times on Facebook groups as well as mumsnet - you can either access your digital travel insurance or ask someone else to get the details from the suitcase where the OP claims they are.

The OP is acting like it’s new information to her that she may need travel insurance in this case yet there is no way a US hospital didn’t ask a UK national if they have insurance and several people have advised her to do so via the Facebook posts and on here!

The airline would not have allowed the OP to board a flight less than a day after such a serious incident that it required hospitalisation without a letter from the hospital clearing her fit to fly. Especially following a serious head injury!

Ophy83 · 28/09/2025 17:28

Contact a decent firm of personal injury solicitors asap. They will start with notifying the airline of the claim, get you seen by a consultant and as part of the claim can also arrange for any specialist treatment/physio you may need.

9inapack · 28/09/2025 17:27

RandomGeocache · 28/09/2025 17:26

Unless there is no insurer.

And there won’t be

not with this op

RandomGeocache · 28/09/2025 17:26

Stowickthevast · 28/09/2025 17:20

If she has contacted her insurer, they would have arranged appropriate travel home and undertaken the case with the airline. I can't understand why someone didn't contact the insurance company immediately. It's what you pay travel insurance for.

Unless there is no insurer.

Stowickthevast · 28/09/2025 17:20

If she has contacted her insurer, they would have arranged appropriate travel home and undertaken the case with the airline. I can't understand why someone didn't contact the insurance company immediately. It's what you pay travel insurance for.

WLnamechange · 28/09/2025 17:19

aloris · 28/09/2025 17:09

I don't know why people are being so mean to you. You have a concussion and people here are making fun of you for your posts being difficult to understand. You suffered a head injury and people are criticizing you for being unable to stand up for your rights when you were suffering a medical event caused by that injury.

Hospitals in the USA are required to stabilize patients who present to the emergency department, regardless of ability to pay. However you may receive a bill later.

All she needs to do is contact her insurer.

aloris · 28/09/2025 17:09

I don't know why people are being so mean to you. You have a concussion and people here are making fun of you for your posts being difficult to understand. You suffered a head injury and people are criticizing you for being unable to stand up for your rights when you were suffering a medical event caused by that injury.

Hospitals in the USA are required to stabilize patients who present to the emergency department, regardless of ability to pay. However you may receive a bill later.

LIZS · 28/09/2025 16:53

I would suggest the crew and pilot were trying to ensure the plane could leave on time. Op, in your dazed state perhaps you were not behaving as rationally as you might normally. Getting you medical attention was the most appropriate action and there would be evacuation protocols to follow. Assume you have paid for the family to stay overnight until you could board the next flight, which presumably BA arranged at no additional cost. Unless the hospital notes stated you needed to be accommodated reclined then whatever the crew provided was adequate and availability of additional space may have depended on how full the plane was. If you had contacted your insurer they would have made such arrangements and covered any costs for you. Hopefully you are now reviewed, scanned and discharged, although you may be advised to have someone stay with you for a day or two. Not sure you would get far suing BA but by all means complain.

MrsWhites · 28/09/2025 16:50

notimagain · 28/09/2025 16:46

@DressOrSkirt

There are many reasons people want their flights to leave on time, including their health, medications, appointments, ability to be seated for so long etc.

Agreed, It's all very well people claiming they'd be generous with their own time, but on many BA Longhaul flights onto London you'll can quite possibly be looking at 100, plus/minus connecting passengers. Their plans might be totally screwed by an extended departure delay.

As for the hints at nasty pilots by some posters...frankly if you end up with the senior management onboard having to get involved in the cabin and talking to local agencies (e.g. paramedics) it's probably a sign that the situation was deteriorating and needed gripping.

Sometimes (slots, crew duty.limits, etc etc).
someone has to step in and do some straight talking...

Edited

I agree with this - do any of you actually believe that despite a passenger being treated by paramedics for a potentially serious head injury that a pilot who must be at least reasonably experienced to be captaining a transatlantic flight is going to come out of his cabin and threaten that passenger with the police?

There is more to this situation - something else has to have been happening for a pilot to consider getting the police involved.

notimagain · 28/09/2025 16:46

@DressOrSkirt

There are many reasons people want their flights to leave on time, including their health, medications, appointments, ability to be seated for so long etc.

Agreed, It's all very well people claiming they'd be generous with their own time, but on many BA Longhaul flights onto London you'll can quite possibly be looking at 100, plus/minus connecting passengers. Their plans might be totally screwed by an extended departure delay.

As for the hints at nasty pilots by some posters...frankly if you end up with the senior management onboard having to get involved in the cabin and talking to local agencies (e.g. paramedics) it's probably a sign that the situation was deteriorating and needed gripping.

Sometimes (slots, crew duty.limits, etc etc).
someone has to step in and do some straight talking...

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/09/2025 16:45

Tiswa · 28/09/2025 16:42

There is certainly precedent where people have successfully sued!

The thing is, however, that an individual can't just "sue" a big corporation - either they need a big budget to engage representation or their travel insurer has to do it for them. I'm not over-convinced the OP has travel insurance...

Such lawsuits can go on for many years, too.

helpfulperson · 28/09/2025 16:44

LondonPapa · 28/09/2025 14:17

By virtue of this being an American flight, happening in the US, you sue. And it seems to be much more serious than you think. I vote sue.

Who should she sue? Why would an airline be responsible for a passenger's actions?

Rainallnight · 28/09/2025 16:43

I was in an accident in the States several years ago and I regret not suing to this day.

AngelicKaty · 28/09/2025 16:43

DressOrSkirt · 28/09/2025 16:38

On airlines where there is no weight limit there is also normally the rule that you must be able to carry it and lift it into the luggage bins yourself, so that is going to limit it to around 20kg except for body builders! (There are exceptions for passengers who need assistance in general.)

Yes, that's absolutely correct. (The gold bars was a joke. 😉 )

Tiswa · 28/09/2025 16:42

There is certainly precedent where people have successfully sued!

DressOrSkirt · 28/09/2025 16:38

AngelicKaty · 28/09/2025 16:29

Bizarrely, it is (on BA anyway). They give cabin bag maximum dimensions, but not weight. I guess, if you adhere to the dimensions, the only way you could make a bag that small really heavy is to fill it with gold bars! 😂

On airlines where there is no weight limit there is also normally the rule that you must be able to carry it and lift it into the luggage bins yourself, so that is going to limit it to around 20kg except for body builders! (There are exceptions for passengers who need assistance in general.)

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 28/09/2025 16:37

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/09/2025 15:11

A conviction for theft (and other criminal convictions) DOES have to be declared when applying for an ESTA:

  • The Question:The ESTA application includes a mandatory question about arrests and convictions for certain crimes, such as those involving theft or serious harm.

But if she already had an ESTA (I've no idea whether she did or not) then it wouldn't be an issue until she needed a new one.

DressOrSkirt · 28/09/2025 16:34

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:11

Paramed8cs wanted to complete observations. That was correct. Personally I would not have minded my plane being delayed for another human beings health.

You don't know everyone else on the flights health situation. There are many reasons people want their flights to leave on time, including their health, medications, appointments, ability to be seated for so long etc.

As for everything else, you need to get on to your travel insurance ASAP. That should have been your first step, and if you were unable to contact them your teenagers or someone else should have on your behalf.

User16042025 · 28/09/2025 16:32

So what were the results of your CT scan?

Anon501178 · 28/09/2025 16:31

youalright · 27/09/2025 13:16

Its all a bit dramatic your teenagers crying and you insisting on a stretcher and a pillow on the flight im sure it hurt but its hand luggage how heavy could it possibly of been. If they discharged you and let you fly home their not massively concerned.

Trunki's and other small suitcases are allowed and packed full would be pretty heavy.

Livelovebehappy · 28/09/2025 16:29

it all sounds like it escalated pretty quickly. The pilot threatening you with the police if you didn’t leave the plane? Was there some sort of altercation that you haven’t told us about in the lead up to this threat? You definitely do need to pursue it via your insurance. I’m also guessing they’ll advise you on what you need to do regarding how it was all handled.

AngelicKaty · 28/09/2025 16:29

TheBewleySisters · 28/09/2025 16:09

Early on in her posts, the OP says there was 'no weight limit' for cabin bags. Surely this can't be correct?

Bizarrely, it is (on BA anyway). They give cabin bag maximum dimensions, but not weight. I guess, if you adhere to the dimensions, the only way you could make a bag that small really heavy is to fill it with gold bars! 😂

SafeSex · 28/09/2025 16:27

kittensinthekitchen · 28/09/2025 16:22

Why are you trying so desperately to derail the thread?

I'm hardly "trying desperately". And from skimming it, it sounds like the OP has done a pretty good job of that herself.

AngelicKaty · 28/09/2025 16:24

DriveboyDogboy · 28/09/2025 16:00

For what? The OP doesn't have any losses. Immediately after an alleged incident is not when you sue.

She could sue for personal injury (and possibly emotional distress) but I agree, her priority should be informing her insurer about the incident, not asking about potential legal action. I find it really odd that she hasn't yet informed her travel insurance provider ... 🤔

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