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WWYD? Concussion after suitcase fell on my head!

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UndertheCedartree · 27/09/2025 11:19

Just a thread to get opinions on this and decide what to do.

I was boarding my flight home from Florida on Thursday evening and was just sitting down when a suitcase landed on my head having fallen from the overhead locker. Honestly, the whole experience has been horrible and I feel I've been really badly treated. Being in the US all the Americans keep telling me to sue!

I don't necessarily want to do that but I would like to stop someone experiencing the same. Or I just forget about it and move on. Just interested to hear opinions.

So after it happened they called firefighters (who are paramedics too) to attend. When waiting for this I noticed they had moved my hand luggage off the plane and got my teenage children out of their seats who were both standing there crying. The firefighters came and the airline crew were telling me I have to go to hospital. I asked for some observations to be done and a stretcher brought. They insisted I had to get off the plane. The pilot came out, no empathy atall, just told me to get off the plane or he would call the police! I went with the firefighters and they told me they would have preferred to do observations before moving me but have to do what the airline says.

Anyway they took me to hospital and they said I was ok to fly home the next day. I tried to get in touch with someone to ask for some accommodations to make the flight more bearable as I was in so much pain. I was told I have to speak to 'the airport team' - we arrived at the airport at 11am and there was noone from the airline there. Eventually they came at 1pm but told me they just work on their behalf they can do nothing I need to speak to the airline on the phone/online. Tried numbers, messaging for hours. Eventually I was told they would make sure I was comfortable on the flight with pillows etc. We got on the flight having been up for a day and a half and so uncomfortable from.just sitting on airport seating, I thought I was finally going to be comfortable. When I got on board I asked for a pillow. You would have thought I'd asked for the crown jewels! I was shouted at, told there was only one pillow person customer (not actually a pillow just a small thin cushion) It was a horrible, painful flight and I felt so bad and was so dizzy when I got off the flight I am now in A&E.

They think it is a concussion but I failed one of the neurological observations so I'm waiting for a CT scan. I honestly think they could have taken more care and been much nicer. Wwyd?

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TwinklyWrinkly · 28/09/2025 13:01

If you are now in hospital back in the UK, where are your children? Ask the adult looking after them to contact your insurance and the airline to find your baggage. If you are well enough to post on MN asking for advice if you should sue British Airways, I would think you are probably well enough to check your emails for the Insurance telephone number and policy number.

OneNewLeader · 28/09/2025 12:58

American Airlines?

SL2924 · 28/09/2025 12:57

100% sue

Sportsdaywinner · 28/09/2025 12:56

youalright · 27/09/2025 13:16

Its all a bit dramatic your teenagers crying and you insisting on a stretcher and a pillow on the flight im sure it hurt but its hand luggage how heavy could it possibly of been. If they discharged you and let you fly home their not massively concerned.

Agree. All seems a bit OTT.

SimoneHere · 28/09/2025 12:52

OP you need another competent adult to look after your kids, identify who your insurance is with, contact your insurance company, and locate your lost luggage. You are obviously not able to think clearly enough to do that right now.

Deebee90 · 28/09/2025 12:52

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KimTheresPeopleThatAreDying · 28/09/2025 12:49

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 11:20

My health should have come first not getting us off the plane as soon as possible.

The plane has to keep to a strict schedule. There will have been hundreds of people on board some of whom had connecting flights. The airports are busy especially if you were flying into London. You were potentially injured. Of course they needed you off as soon as possible.

AngelofIslington · 28/09/2025 12:48

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I agree, the fact the op is able to post on Mumsnet whilst so seemingly unwell, along with the fact she was able to access US hospital treatment without knowing her insurance details and then not being able to get in touch with them here is all very strange.
I hope the op is ok but nothing on this thread is making even the slightest bit of sense

Hettyhopeless · 28/09/2025 12:48

This same story was posted on the Disney for Brits Facebook page yesterday - in a similarly confusing way. It seems to have been deleted now. If this is true, you really need to contact your insurance asap. They will be best placed to reimburse you for any costs, cover your medical bills in the US and may also be able to help with any potential compensation claim.

skyeisthelimit · 28/09/2025 12:48

OP, all you need to do is contact your insurance company and take it from there. You must know who they are, you must have emails and documents from them.

postop · 28/09/2025 12:47

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/09/2025 12:40

A tip for future travel: make sure your insurance details (numbers to ring at the very least) are in your phone.

Not only that, keep a post it note with policy number and emergency number in your passport and in the passports of all your travel companions, send them by mail to your family members back home (the emergency contacts you have written in your passport) There are so many awful reports of someone unconscious in hospital abroad and nobody knows their insurance details. If you don't make sure someone else can contact your insurers, you put yourself at risk.

gamerchick · 28/09/2025 12:47

sciaticafanatica · 28/09/2025 12:32

Honestly I can’t understand how you were treated in a us hospital without either paying or giving insurance details

This is why I'm doubting the OP. There's no way you could go into a US hospital and paying for it not mentioned.

Insurance is booked online isn't it? Why would it be in lost luggage? There'll be an email or something.

Maybe the bang on the head is more serious that the OP has blanks.

tartyflette · 28/09/2025 12:46

Andsoitbeganagain · 28/09/2025 12:32

And this is why, very soon, you'll find that overhead lockers will become a redundant feature on airplanes. Everyone will have to check everything in.

And that will be fine as long as passengers can still take a small for essentials they may need for the flight, like medicine, inhalers etc.
Free. And should fit under the seat.
OP if you don’t have your policy number as long as you can remember the name of your insurers, call them anyway. They can take you through security questions to identify you and find your policy.
You still sound quite unwell, if you’re unable to phone can you get one of your teens to do it or at least help you?

pontipinemum · 28/09/2025 12:45

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:16

I don't know where my belongings are with insurance details

Search your emails. It is important to included your insurer ASAP or they might say they can no longer help

I think it all sounds awful though!! And TBH I think it does sound like the pilot didn't act correctly. He should not have been in a position to force the paramedics to move you before they competed their observations.

Andthatrightsoon · 28/09/2025 12:42

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VickyEadieofThigh · 28/09/2025 12:40

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:16

I don't know where my belongings are with insurance details

A tip for future travel: make sure your insurance details (numbers to ring at the very least) are in your phone.

Biscoffbiscuits · 28/09/2025 12:39

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:12

I don't know how to get in c9ntact with my insurance company.

Then note to self… Prior to any trip the emergency phone number for my insurer goes into my phone and is emailed (with policy details) to my husband and adult children in case they need to act on my behalf.
If you don’t know how to contact your insurance company (do I actually believe that🤫) then what is the point of paying for it. Perhaps you didn’t?

AngelofIslington · 28/09/2025 12:39

@UndertheCedartree do you not have emails etc on your phone. You would have been sent the policy details. Are you on Mumsnet on your phone?
Are you in a uk hospital now?
You seem very confused op

LasVegass · 28/09/2025 12:38

Have the kids not started school? Who looked after them in ED in Florida?

AgnesX · 28/09/2025 12:37

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 11:52

I did go to hospital in Florida

Oops, sorry. Sunday brain fog.

Tubestrike · 28/09/2025 12:36

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:16

I don't know where my belongings are with insurance details

Did you not get an email with insurance details, can you check your emails on your phone.

WLnamechange · 28/09/2025 12:35

notimagain · 28/09/2025 12:20

You can renegotiate a slot in circumstances like this but it can mean a considerable delay, it depends..

There's not enough info to really get to the bottom of this, one thing people need to be aware of is whilst the OPs health is the prime concern the airline also has a duty of care and much more to all the other passengers on board.

Sometimes the solution to a problem like this ends as a up balancing act with more than one person not overly happy but for differing reasons.

If there was medical opinion available to the crew that said offload on foot and obs done after that was a safe course of action I can see why that was insisted on.

Edited

Of course the correct thing to do was to get her off the plane, assessed by a Dr on whether she is fit to fly. Why would they take a risk when they are about to depart on a 9 hr+ flight, if she had deteriorated mid flight that's a whole other shit show for the airline, OP and all the other passengers.

WearyAuldWumman · 28/09/2025 12:35

youalright · 27/09/2025 13:16

Its all a bit dramatic your teenagers crying and you insisting on a stretcher and a pillow on the flight im sure it hurt but its hand luggage how heavy could it possibly of been. If they discharged you and let you fly home their not massively concerned.

Depending on the airline, the hand luggage can be several kilos.

AnnoyedMum2 · 28/09/2025 12:33

I’m really confused. You were calling and messaging the airline when you were at the airport but you didn’t call your insurance company at this time?

If your memory has been impacted so significantly that you can’t remember what happened at the hospital I’m amazed they said you were fit to fly. How do you not know where your luggage is, presumably you came through baggage reclaim with your children? Did you go home or straight to A&E?

sciaticafanatica · 28/09/2025 12:32

Honestly I can’t understand how you were treated in a us hospital without either paying or giving insurance details

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