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WWYD? Concussion after suitcase fell on my head!

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UndertheCedartree · 27/09/2025 11:19

Just a thread to get opinions on this and decide what to do.

I was boarding my flight home from Florida on Thursday evening and was just sitting down when a suitcase landed on my head having fallen from the overhead locker. Honestly, the whole experience has been horrible and I feel I've been really badly treated. Being in the US all the Americans keep telling me to sue!

I don't necessarily want to do that but I would like to stop someone experiencing the same. Or I just forget about it and move on. Just interested to hear opinions.

So after it happened they called firefighters (who are paramedics too) to attend. When waiting for this I noticed they had moved my hand luggage off the plane and got my teenage children out of their seats who were both standing there crying. The firefighters came and the airline crew were telling me I have to go to hospital. I asked for some observations to be done and a stretcher brought. They insisted I had to get off the plane. The pilot came out, no empathy atall, just told me to get off the plane or he would call the police! I went with the firefighters and they told me they would have preferred to do observations before moving me but have to do what the airline says.

Anyway they took me to hospital and they said I was ok to fly home the next day. I tried to get in touch with someone to ask for some accommodations to make the flight more bearable as I was in so much pain. I was told I have to speak to 'the airport team' - we arrived at the airport at 11am and there was noone from the airline there. Eventually they came at 1pm but told me they just work on their behalf they can do nothing I need to speak to the airline on the phone/online. Tried numbers, messaging for hours. Eventually I was told they would make sure I was comfortable on the flight with pillows etc. We got on the flight having been up for a day and a half and so uncomfortable from.just sitting on airport seating, I thought I was finally going to be comfortable. When I got on board I asked for a pillow. You would have thought I'd asked for the crown jewels! I was shouted at, told there was only one pillow person customer (not actually a pillow just a small thin cushion) It was a horrible, painful flight and I felt so bad and was so dizzy when I got off the flight I am now in A&E.

They think it is a concussion but I failed one of the neurological observations so I'm waiting for a CT scan. I honestly think they could have taken more care and been much nicer. Wwyd?

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Emiliachonk · 28/09/2025 13:28

I’m surprised we haven’t seen video footage of all this on the DM or instagram etc.

PinkFrogss · 28/09/2025 13:28

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:24

My kids don't have a credit card.

Were they able to get a card of yours out of your wallet/bag?

Theres no way a hospital in America of all places would have just waved you out without insurance or a bill.

Where did you stay after you left the hospital and how did you arrange that/the flight home?

Whinge · 28/09/2025 13:26

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:24

My kids don't have a credit card.

They don't need a credit card, they could have give them yours.

AngelicKaty · 28/09/2025 13:26

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:24

My kids don't have a credit card.

But could they have handed over yours?

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:24

SeptemberNCing · 28/09/2025 13:21

Your posts are concerning OP. It started with quite a detailed post to unclear responses. In the course of this thread you seem to have got worse, and it’s worrying that you are so obviously unwell that they discharged you in the US and you still travelled. Are you still in hospital with a concussion?

I suspect you wanted a free upgrade at the airport to make the journey comfortable but that’s not something the airport staff can do - that comes from BA direct so they wouldn’t have been able to help you. It’s not unusual for BA to pass the issue to airport staff and vice versa.

And I’m amazed you had medical treatment in the US without paying a penny. Are you sure your children didn’t put up a credit card?

My kids don't have a credit card.

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FaceBothered · 28/09/2025 13:22

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:02

Thank you yes I have the insurance email. Apparently an advocate can help me. I wish this was made up. Everytime the painkillers wear off I feel dreadful again. Kids dad is coming to pick them up.

I only know what I can remember from the hospital in Florida. We weren't locked in. We could have left at anytime.

Kids dad is coming to pick them up.

Over 24 hours after you were admitted to hospital?

How have they managed to eat, sleep, take care of themselves etc?

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:22

No I am not making it up!! Just not feeling well.

WWYD? Concussion after suitcase fell on my head!
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SeptemberNCing · 28/09/2025 13:21

Your posts are concerning OP. It started with quite a detailed post to unclear responses. In the course of this thread you seem to have got worse, and it’s worrying that you are so obviously unwell that they discharged you in the US and you still travelled. Are you still in hospital with a concussion?

I suspect you wanted a free upgrade at the airport to make the journey comfortable but that’s not something the airport staff can do - that comes from BA direct so they wouldn’t have been able to help you. It’s not unusual for BA to pass the issue to airport staff and vice versa.

And I’m amazed you had medical treatment in the US without paying a penny. Are you sure your children didn’t put up a credit card?

AngelofIslington · 28/09/2025 13:17

Your initial post was more than 24 hours ago. Did the nhs hospital let your 2 teenage children stay in hospital with you overnight?

FlyingUnicornWings · 28/09/2025 13:15

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:13

Only just came back

Either this isn’t genuine, or you really are so severely ill because you aren’t making any sense. Are you still in hospital (with your children, overnight?) or did you get discharged home? What did your ct scan say?

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:13

AngelofIslington · 28/09/2025 13:10

Why, if you have been back in the uk for a few days is your DC’s father only on his way to get them today.
Honestly op, if this is genuine, and I’m not convinced it is, you need start getting yourself sorted. If you can post on Mumsnet you can contact your insurance company

Only just came back

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WLnamechange · 28/09/2025 13:12

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:08

I'll message you my Lyft details from the hospital.

Message your insurers instead.

PinkyFlamingo · 28/09/2025 13:12

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:12

I don't know how to get in c9ntact with my insurance company.

It will tell you on the email with the policy

99victoria · 28/09/2025 13:11

So you got admitted by ambulance straight into a room then you just walked out with your children at some future point, somehow made your way back to the airport, booked a flight home for you all (presumably hugely expensive at short notice) and yet you want us to believe you're too confused to be able to contact your insurance company?
FYI most insurance companies require you to contact them for approval before you incur costs

Florencesndzebedee · 28/09/2025 13:11

You sound quite poorly and understandably, if you have concussion, may not be thinking straight. Is there anyone who can advocate for you, contact your insurers etc? Where are your teenaged children?

AngelofIslington · 28/09/2025 13:10

Why, if you have been back in the uk for a few days is your DC’s father only on his way to get them today.
Honestly op, if this is genuine, and I’m not convinced it is, you need start getting yourself sorted. If you can post on Mumsnet you can contact your insurance company

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:08

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I'll message you my Lyft details from the hospital.

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Greybeardy · 28/09/2025 13:08

given that it's almost impossible for anything 'interesting' to happen out and about without someone capturing it all on a camera phone, hopefully someone'll come forward with footage that'll help your claim.

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UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:06

I got brought in by ambulance and put straight in a room.

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Luxio · 28/09/2025 13:06

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:02

Thank you yes I have the insurance email. Apparently an advocate can help me. I wish this was made up. Everytime the painkillers wear off I feel dreadful again. Kids dad is coming to pick them up.

I only know what I can remember from the hospital in Florida. We weren't locked in. We could have left at anytime.

The whole situation is making less and less sense...

So your children have been in hospital with you since you arrived back in the UK on Friday?

You don't know where your belongings are?

You got treated in America without paying or showing your insurance information?

99victoria · 28/09/2025 13:03

My 15 year old daughter had appendicitis while we were in America - she was rushed into hospital for an emergency operation as they thought her appendix had burst
We couldn't even get admitted through A&E until my OH produced his credit card! (we were insured and got fully reimbursed)

FaceBothered · 28/09/2025 13:03

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 12:16

I don't know where my belongings are with insurance details

You asked if you should contact them now earlier on in the thread?

How if you don't have the details and how did you manage to get treated in an American hospital without them?

UndertheCedartree · 28/09/2025 13:02

Thank you yes I have the insurance email. Apparently an advocate can help me. I wish this was made up. Everytime the painkillers wear off I feel dreadful again. Kids dad is coming to pick them up.

I only know what I can remember from the hospital in Florida. We weren't locked in. We could have left at anytime.

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