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Howldens · 26/09/2025 22:10

I will try to keep this brief but backstory relevant. Would be so grateful for any words of wisdom.

I'm in New York for work. I am experiencing a heavy bleed (mid-cycle). Yesterday it was so bad that I was bleeding through sanitary wear and trousers every hour. today I woke in pain and heavy bleeding - a big clot plopped out in the shower - like two fingers width & length.
bleeding all day & more clots but not so massive.

im panicking bc about 10 yrs ago i had some retained matter after an abortion but I was on holiday in a developing country, experienced crazy heavy bleeding, passed out & got taken to a hospital, had my womb scraped under general anaesthetic and lots of antibiotics. I think I nearly died- but didn’t ever really get full picture.

because of that I am finding this really scary and triggering. I don’t know if I need to go to hospital - could there be another infection?

I messed up my HRT - oestrogen gel & progesterone tables and I’m currently taking the progesterone at night but should I stop as not sure I’m taking it right.

i went to urgent care this morning - temp & heart rate fine. They said there was nothing more they could do and next step in treatment is A&E for ultrasound & bloods if I wanted to seek further treatment. I’m not sure if i should go?

I feel very very far from home & im panicking.

I think I am fine now (not dizzy like before - can’t decide if I am pale or not) but my fear is I go downhill overnight like last time and I can’t help myself. Last time it was my husband who got me help when I collapsed I but I’m alone here.

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Howldens · 26/09/2025 22:25

Oh god. I am so upset with myself. My dad was in the travel insdustry and drummed the need for insurance into me. But I’ve made a horrendous error here.

I am so scared and feel so alone.

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Howldens · 26/09/2025 22:24

I don’t think I suffer with fibroids but I read they could come with age.

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ninjahamster · 26/09/2025 22:24

I was going to say go too. But not having insurance is a worry!

Howldens · 26/09/2025 22:23

You think?

please don’t judge me bc I know I am going to sound like an idiot BUT I don’t have insurance.

it was a mix up bc my last company covered insurance when I travelled so I didn’t think of booking it with this trip. I don’t think I have any cover at all.

so it could be mega expensive.

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MissMoneyFairy · 26/09/2025 22:19

If you're still bleeding and passing clots with pain i would go to hospital. Do you suffer eith fibroid. It's scary when you're on your own especially in a different country.

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