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To ask WHY you work

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BeatriceAlbert · 26/09/2025 21:42

Got in a discussion about retirement/early retirement and why people actually go to work in the first place. I know it seems obvious to answer ‘for money’ but this was off the back of the parody about a fisherman.

A businessman on holiday spots a fisherman lounging by his small boat after catching a few fish for the day.

Businessman:
“Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?”

Fisherman:
“Why would I?”

Businessman:
“Well, with more fish, you could buy a bigger boat!”

Fisherman:
“And then?”

Businessman:
“With a bigger boat, you could hire a crew, catch even more fish, and eventually own a whole fleet!”

Fisherman:
“And then?”

Businessman:
“Then you could build a company, go public, and become a millionaire!”

Fisherman:
“And then?”

Businessman:
“Then you could retire, relax by the sea, and spend your days fishing!”

Fisherman:
“…Which is what I was already doing before you interrupted.”

OP posts:
TherapyMe · 26/09/2025 21:51

Money…. And that’s it really.
I would rather spend my days pottering around my garden but sadly it’s not a luxury I can afford 😂

YellowisMellow · 26/09/2025 21:50

Was the fisherman facing a cost of living crisis like I am?

Tagyoureit · 26/09/2025 21:49

I dont have a small boat... and apparently, because I have kids, I should feed, house and provide for them and not expect others to do so by way of handouts from the state.

LegoPicnic · 26/09/2025 21:48

I would prefer not to live on the streets and work enables me to pay for a roof over my head and food to eat.

KelsCommemorativeSausage · 26/09/2025 21:48

Money, I like my job very much, and I want my daughter to see me working and being independent.

LondonGalll · 26/09/2025 21:48

Team work, creativity, purpose, fun, social, critical contribution to the community, empathy, supporting people dealt a bad deal in life

KookyRoseCrab · 26/09/2025 21:48

I work for money, and I retire in January when I get my state pension but I’m staying on as Bank Staff but then I can choose when to work

CarpetKnees · 26/09/2025 21:47

What @NoSoupForU said.

I have an active mind and a sense of purpose. What I do at work makes a difference.

Holidays / days off are lovely, because they are a contrast. Having no purpose day after day, month after month, year after year wouldn't suit me at all.

Kangarude · 26/09/2025 21:47

NoSoupForU · 26/09/2025 21:44

Yes for money. But also for purpose. I wouldn't do well without having the mental challenge and structure that work gives me.

Exactly this.

NoSoupForU · 26/09/2025 21:44

Yes for money. But also for purpose. I wouldn't do well without having the mental challenge and structure that work gives me.