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not to have known that HPV vaccine could be beneficial at my age (45)?

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hpvandme · 26/09/2025 14:52

I’m 45 and have just had an abnormal smear result, showing high risk HPV and low grade dyskyasosis/ CIN 1. I’ve never had an abnormal smear before. I didn’t know that there is a peri/menopause ‘spike’ in HPV, and that this can come from either reactivation of an old infection or a new infection/reinfection.

In my case, it feels very likely that it’s the latter (married for 20 years, now divorced, one new sexual partner post-divorce). One study I read said that while it is very difficult to establish whether HPV is a new infection or reactivation, when it appears in older women there is a strong link with new partners. pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4068337/#S9

The HPV vaccine protects against 9 of the most serious strains of HPV. It can’t protect against a reactivation of a strain but it can protect against reinfection and against infection from strains that you have not encountered previously.

If I’d known all of this a year ago I would 100% have got the HPV vaccine privately before having sex with new partners again. I expect some replies will say that HPV is very common and nothing to worry about – but in a minority of cases it can be very serious indeed and if I’d been making an informed choice, I would have chosen to take the vaccine for the added protection it provides. I just didn’t know how it worked or that I could benefit from it!

I'm posting this in the hope that it might help someone else. (Also, very happy for any experts to correct my explanation above and provide more accurate knowledge)

AIBU not to have known that the HPV vaccine could be beneficial at my age (45)?
Yes you are unreasonable not to have known. Everyone knows this.
No you are not unreasonable. It's news to me too.

OP posts:
Treeshadebreese · 26/09/2025 18:25

I didn’t know this, but of course, here’s women’s health, another example of the lack of information in women’s healthcare as usual.

I also think the shingles vaccine should be available to younger people. Maybe delayed until 60’s due to cost?

buymeflowers · 26/09/2025 17:44

I’m newly seperated and in my late 30s and I’m having it privately. I wasn’t aware but then I got a lump on my vagina and had a panic it was a wart (it wasn’t) so I decided to get the vaccine at that point. If that hadn’t happened, I wouldn’t have been aware.

Thesaudrun · 26/09/2025 17:40

Thank you for posting this OP. I'm 46 and assumed I'd be too old to benefit. I've found a clinic in London which says there is no upper age limit.

Gabbycat245 · 26/09/2025 16:43

I didn't know this. Thank you OP.

Almostwelsh · 26/09/2025 16:25

Annoyingly when I tried to get a HPV vaccine I was refused, as I was over 46 and it's only licenced up to that age.

lovemycbf · 26/09/2025 16:22

I didn’t know either
will look into this
thank you

KilkennyCats · 26/09/2025 16:17

No, me neither.

StrongLikeMamma · 26/09/2025 16:16

I didn’t know this.

LittleArithmetics · 26/09/2025 16:12

I didn't know this either.

Sajacas · 26/09/2025 16:09

I never knew this.

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