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Neighbour attaching things to our fence?

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Anonymous23458d · 26/09/2025 14:43

Can a neighbour attach the below to our fence?
I have previous issues with this neighbour with the previous owners before us he built his conservatory on our boundary. You can kind of see it in the pic. I noticed him doing something today before I went out so asked him if this is attached to our fence as he needs my permission really. It had all rusty nails sticking out of it and it isnt safe for me having children. His girlfriend called me pathetic and said I needed to get a life after I said he shouldve asked my permission before hes attached that to our fence. Am I out of order for this ? I have had so many issues with him in the past doing things that effect me and my property without him saying that I dont want it to happen again..
FYI he has also put rat poisoning down the side of our fence which leads into my garden when I two children under 2 and one crawling.

Neighbour attaching things to our fence?
OP posts:
MissMoneyFairy · 27/09/2025 21:34

I'm amazed the estate agent and conveyancer didn't pick up on the landgrab, was there any information in the sellers pack or on your survey.

BigAnne · 27/09/2025 21:29

Anonymous23458d · 26/09/2025 15:20

He took the nails out after I said they're sticking out. The fence isnt in front of the conservatory.

There should be a full height brick firewall on the side of the conservatory that borders your garden.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 21:24

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 21:15

I don't know. I know a neighbour was able to make their next door neighbour move a fence about 6 inches after 5 years. I don't think you can just take other people's land.
Do you know the legalities?

In England

Side 1. Gets a boundary surgery done by a registered boundary surveyor and gives to side 2

Side 2 agree. All good
Side 2 does not agree and gets a boundary surveyor to do a survey of which side 1 has to pay for

The two surveys are the same. Job done
The two surveys are different and neither side will compromise so
A third boundary surveyor does a boundary survey and Side 1 pays

The decision of the third surveyor is and must be accepted assuming it agrees with at least one of the other surveyors if it doesn’t the Third surveyor makes amends/ compromise

The third surveyor sets out the boundary on the ground by use of poles or other similar agreed method. Then the surveyor can, at the landholders request, lodge a dimensioned drawing with LandRegistry

Side 1 pays for everything

Ps. In the middle of all of that if the third surveyor cannot get both sides agreement it all goes to court led by the Boundary surveyors who charge by the hour, Costs a fortune and takes masses of time and a judge decides who gets the land.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 21:17

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 21:15

I don't know. I know a neighbour was able to make their next door neighbour move a fence about 6 inches after 5 years. I don't think you can just take other people's land.
Do you know the legalities?

Yes. I also know legal action is extremely expensive and you never know what will happen on the day.

unless you can see into the future or reliably bribe a judge, or have £0000s to risk, it’s not really a realistic option no.

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 21:15

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 20:26

Do you really think you can go to court to get a 7 year old conservatory removed? Does that even sound like a realistic suggestion?

I don't know. I know a neighbour was able to make their next door neighbour move a fence about 6 inches after 5 years. I don't think you can just take other people's land.
Do you know the legalities?

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 21:14

I don't know. I know a neighbour was able to make their next door neighbour move a fence about 6 inches after 5 years. I don't think you can just take other people's land.
Do you know the legalities?

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 20:53

Airspice · 27/09/2025 20:34

Fuck me that conservatory is actually in YOUR garden!! Contact the council straight away, you will have big problems when you sell otherwise!

It’s not a council issue.
It’s a boundary issue if OP wants to pursue it
She’ll need a boundary surveyor

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 20:51

MotherMary14 · 27/09/2025 19:44

Of course she should, it's her fence.

As I said.
If she tells them where to put it and the fence comes down she is not in a position to blame them for damage as she agreed and in fact instigated its location.

She will have no recourse for damages

RJimLad · 27/09/2025 20:43

I would do what a PP suggested and put planters in next to their conservatory with real Ivy. Put the planters away from your house but let that ivy grow all over his conservatory.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 20:37

Airspice · 27/09/2025 20:35

7 years doesn’t matter, fact is it’s in their garden 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does 7 years matter more or less than the thousands of pounds cash it’ll cost to take them to court? The fact that their house will be likely unsaleable, and they may well not win?

Airspice · 27/09/2025 20:35

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 20:26

Do you really think you can go to court to get a 7 year old conservatory removed? Does that even sound like a realistic suggestion?

7 years doesn’t matter, fact is it’s in their garden 🤷🏼‍♀️

Airspice · 27/09/2025 20:34

Fuck me that conservatory is actually in YOUR garden!! Contact the council straight away, you will have big problems when you sell otherwise!

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 20:26

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 20:23

Why did you buy the house when the conservatory was an issue? Either, go to court and get it removed or accept it. They will continue to push the "boundaries" if you continue to allow them to.

Do you really think you can go to court to get a 7 year old conservatory removed? Does that even sound like a realistic suggestion?

ThistleTits · 27/09/2025 20:23

Anonymous23458d · 26/09/2025 15:47

@OhMyGiddyAnt The conservatory is over the boundary and built on our land. The original fence is the boundary. The window looks into our garden but it is frosted but we can still see them sat in there so we put that frame up and put the screen over it to hide it, no its not attached to their conservatory. The previous owners went out one day came back and they'd built a brick wall over our boundary which is literally one side to their conservatory.

Why did you buy the house when the conservatory was an issue? Either, go to court and get it removed or accept it. They will continue to push the "boundaries" if you continue to allow them to.

SallyBroon · 27/09/2025 20:18

All wrong on so many levels. Firstly his washing pole will pull in your fence.
Secondly, he cannot build on your property- you should’ve had to sign off on planning permission and I’m assuming you didn’t so you will have rights in getting him to remove his extension. I’d say if you are planning on staying there for a long time then let it go but I’d let him know that you are aware of the enfringement so any more fxckery on his part and you’ll be calling in the council. They’ll teach the self-entitled twat.

Tesremos82 · 27/09/2025 20:10

It looks like your neighbour has his Television aerial cable running down your side of the property line... snip, snip ✂ 😂

Buffs · 27/09/2025 19:57

CatAsstrophe · 26/09/2025 15:41

The conservatory boundary breach would concern me more than the washing line.

I'd report that to the local planning office.

This. From your picture that conservatory looks like it’s built on your property.

CalzoneOnLegs · 27/09/2025 19:47

Gatekeeper · 26/09/2025 14:48

Assume its the plank with a retractable washing line attached to it

🤣 yes what a cowboy

MotherMary14 · 27/09/2025 19:44

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 19:39

She could just leave it.

Or
Tell them it might bring the fence down. Take pics. That’s it.

If they move it of their own accord to a more stable part of the fence then that’s their decision. OP really shouldn’t suggest where that is.

Of course she should, it's her fence.

Judecb · 27/09/2025 19:44

I would worry that the weight of wet laundry will pull your fence. He needs tk cement that post in.

Soontobe60 · 27/09/2025 19:40

Anonymous23458d · 26/09/2025 14:54

@CoastalCalm its not cemented in its just in-between posts. I know the wood itself isnt dangerous but the rusty nails sticking out could be and also it looks terrible. Its just that hes done dangerous things before without thinking of us like the poison at the side of my garden fence and different things. Very inconsiderate man

Sorry, but your fence isn’t exactly a pretty picture is it? It’s a piece of wood with a washing line attached. I can’t see any nails, where are they?

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 19:39

MotherMary14 · 27/09/2025 19:36

But she wants to move next year so it's better to agree a compromise than start a fight with the neighbour that could escalate and cause her problems when it comes to selling.

She could just leave it.

Or
Tell them it might bring the fence down. Take pics. That’s it.

If they move it of their own accord to a more stable part of the fence then that’s their decision. OP really shouldn’t suggest where that is.

goingtotown · 27/09/2025 19:38

I’d plant a couple of large evergreen shrubs on your side of the fence to block out the neighbour & wooden post.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/09/2025 19:36

Bernardo1 · 27/09/2025 18:10

If fence comes down because of his action which you did not refuse/stop, insurance company unlikely to pay out.

They would be unlikely to pay out because fences coming down is not usually covered by insurance 🤣

Op I wouldn’t do anything. It’s not worth the cost of solicitor and once you started a boundary dispute you can’t undo it. It has to be declared when you sell within 7 years and they also get really nasty and expensive quickly.

fences are just to mark your boundary. You can’t realistically control what your neighbours do to the side that faces them.

MotherMary14 · 27/09/2025 19:36

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 27/09/2025 19:01

If she makes the suggestion to move it they she becomes compliant when the fence is damaged by the post and washing.

Dont Don’t do that OP

But she wants to move next year so it's better to agree a compromise than start a fight with the neighbour that could escalate and cause her problems when it comes to selling.